"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

She was in Chicago not long ago. $150 for platonic meet and greet. Has a GF she does doubles with, want d to bring her too for an additional $150. Gave her the routine that paying for a M&G was a fools game and it's a mutual investment of time, etc, she went silent after that.

So, I think it's a M&G scam with no chance of it going anywhere after she's got her $150.

[QUOTE=ReaperGuy;3646125][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/13f5b202-7bcd-4e06-86e0-b1b5c803d49b[/URL]

Anyone talk to this one? I get a UTR vibe from her from our messaging, when I asked about her financial expectations she straight up said $$ per meetup and she didn't have sex on the first date.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PauFord;3646215]She was in Chicago not long ago. $150 for platonic meet and greet. Has a GF she does doubles with, want d to bring her too for an additional $150. Gave her the routine that paying for a M&G was a fools game and it's a mutual investment of time, etc, she went silent after that.

So, I think it's a M&G scam with no chance of it going anywhere after she's got her $150.[/QUOTE]Interesting, I told her I don't pay for first meetups as well, I will provide an uber and cover lunch / coffee / whatever we do and she has kept talking to me. Definitely feels more like a semi-pro / UTR, not sure I'm game at the rates we're talking about.

[QUOTE=PauFord;3646215]She was in Chicago not long ago. $150 for platonic meet and greet. Has a GF she does doubles with, want d to bring her too for an additional $150. Gave her the routine that paying for a M&G was a fools game and it's a mutual investment of time, etc, she went silent after that.

So, I think it's a M&G scam with no chance of it going anywhere after she's got her $150.[/QUOTE]An old stripper trick with a lot of variations.

You want to fuck a stripper, and they act all interested and turned on, "but I have to trust you first". This involves a few visits at the club, maybe some low mileage VIP room sessions ("so we can get to know each other" and after you drop a grand or so "building trust", the meet just never quite happens. You set up a UTR meeting, but she loses her phone, or her friend needed her, or ninjas attacked, or whatever.

If they're really smart, they can string you along so you wind up doing another round of "trust building": "oh, I didn't answer your call because I got scared. I'd love to try another VIP?

O.

[QUOTE=ReaperGuy;3646121]Their credit card processing is done in The Netherlands, several dating / meetup type sites all being run by the same parent company. The zip code and name you use for the prepaid card and to register for SA should match. So use your secret cool code name and fake or real ZIP across the board, I use my legit ZIP code and a partially fake name. Also need to make sure your prepaid can be used for International buying, that's a common limitation to prevent fraud.[/QUOTE]This is widely discussed on the master resource thread, the Richmond VA sugarbabies thread. There is a key to using a prepaid like onevanilla on the SA site. You must check a little box at the bottom of the payment page that it is a prepaid debit card. Those most often go through, but I haven't done that in the last 6 months, so IDK. If you have a problem you can email customer service, give them the card #, and they can put it through successfully.

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Anyone talk to this one? I get a UTR vibe from her from our messaging, when I asked about her financial expectations she straight up said $$ per meetup and she didn't have sex on the first date.[/QUOTE]We set up a time to meet time Friday for coffee and she wants $$ just to show up. She says nothing physical until she's comfortable, well heck. I could be in for $1 k before she's comfortable. Ghosted her replies.

[QUOTE=Ozymandias;3646250]An old stripper trick with a lot of variations.

You want to fuck a stripper, and they act all interested and turned on, "but I have to trust you first". This involves a few visits at the club, maybe some low mileage VIP room sessions ("so we can get to know each other" and after you drop a grand or so "building trust", the meet just never quite happens. You set up a UTR meeting, but she loses her phone, or her friend needed her, or ninjas attacked, or whatever.

If they're really smart, they can string you along so you wind up doing another round of "trust building": "oh, I didn't answer your call because I got scared. I'd love to try another VIP?

O.[/QUOTE]Yes, these well-seasoned broads have A lot of tricks up their sleeves.

I've been having trouble trying to get takeout from a dancer. I have the chips (200-250), but the ones I'm interested in just won't bite. Any tips, beside being older and on the other side of the fence? I have the funds, what gives?

Conducted a number of meet and greets over the last 2 weeks. Then the flood gates opened. Just kept getting texts that they were ready to take it to the next level.

Here is the amazing part. As far as I know, all 4 are legitimate college girl non-pros that were new to this. All 9-10 level hotness between the ages of 18-21 / sorority girl types that I would have never bagged when I was actually in college. Plowed 4 in two days. Some multiple shots, so I am EXHAUSTED. All have replied that they want to go again. Decisions to make.

You have to do some groundwork and wait it out, but damn. That was amazing what just happened. Penthouse Letters would reject my story for being just too far fetched. I'm going to go ice down my balls.

[QUOTE=GeorgeGA;3646081]Something screwy like that happened to me, too. I sent an e-mail to customer service, I got a response back 2 days (I think) later. If memory serves correct, they said I had a lot of logins and logouts and some algorithm "picked" me. I actually created a second profile because I had received a response from someone I thought would be "special" and I didn't want to wait to see how long it took, if ever, to get my other account back. I've let both lapse.

BTW, I have a prepaid debit card I got at WalMart (I think the max is $500), but since the company apparently is not in the US, I haven't been able to use it. I've used it for other things, but not the SA membership. I've tried different names (not just Prepaid Cardholder that's on the card), used the zip code I used when I set the code up, etc. But it hasn't worked the 4-5 times I tried. Any idea what I'm doing wrong? I've got 17 messages on there, some close to a month old, but I'm antsy about using a regular credit card with my name.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]My only experience with paying for sugar daddy sites has been with prepaid OneVanilla VISA cards. Had some problem with those in the past, but those issues seem to have been resolved.

FarFarAway's advice seems like the best from what I have read on the Richmond thread. I believe that people contacting customer support have gotten their cards through in many cases. Would not recommend using anything other than a prepaid card for these sites. There are some (like SD4 Me) that auto-renew and can be difficult to get off your card.

[QUOTE=LogJammin18;3646760]Conducted a number of meet and greets over the last 2 weeks. Then the flood gates opened. Just kept getting texts that they were ready to take it to the next level.

Here is the amazing part. As far as I know, all 4 are legitimate college girl non-pros that were new to this. All 9-10 level hotness between the ages of 18-21 / sorority girl types that I would have never bagged when I was actually in college. Plowed 4 in two days. Some multiple shots, so I am EXHAUSTED. All have replied that they want to go again. Decisions to make.

You have to do some groundwork and wait it out, but damn. That was amazing what just happened. Penthouse Letters would reject my story for being just too far fetched. I'm going to go ice down my balls.[/QUOTE]I agree the holidays are bringing them out of the woodwork. Chicks I hit up before with little response all of sudden want to.

Get banged. They all are saying the semester is ending. I was already in need of a break. But now what is a guy to do. Who am I to deny these hotties the means and dick they desire. LOL.

[QUOTE=LogJammin18;3646760]Conducted a number of meet and greets over the last 2 weeks. Then the flood gates opened. Just kept getting texts that they were ready to take it to the next level.

Here is the amazing part. As far as I know, all 4 are legitimate college girl non-pros that were new to this. All 9-10 level hotness between the ages of 18-21 / sorority girl types that I would have never bagged when I was actually in college. Plowed 4 in two days. Some multiple shots, so I am EXHAUSTED. All have replied that they want to go again. Decisions to make.

You have to do some groundwork and wait it out, but damn. That was amazing what just happened. Penthouse Letters would reject my story for being just too far fetched. I'm going to go ice down my balls.[/QUOTE]Nah sounds exactly like what penthouse likes. I see there is no profile links or any info whatsoever so good story.

[QUOTE=CatchNGo;3647108]I agree the holidays are bringing them out of the woodwork. Chicks I hit up before with little response all of sudden want to.

Get banged. They all are saying the semester is ending. I was already in need of a break. But now what is a guy to do. Who am I to deny these hotties the means and dick they desire. LOL.[/QUOTE]Enjoy, fellow mongers. It's not just the college gals feelin needy. I've seen 3 MILFs off and on over the last 6 months. They're all texting me wanting to get together in the next week. Scheduling issues are always good problems to have.

But the real surprise was another MILF with 2 kids that I first met over a lunch MnG back in June. We hit it off and agreed to get together a week later. When we started making plans, she was looking for $$$$$ then came down to $$$.5. I told her I was afraid our seeing each other could become addictive, and that wasn't sustainable for me long term. In other words, ah, no way. So we parted ways, and I said maybe our paths might cross in the future. She contacted me about 6 weeks ago just to say hi, but I didn't talk about meeting. Then she texts me a couple days ago. Says she won a custody dispute, and I suggested we needed to get together to celebrate. She agreed, and said she just wanted a bottle of wine and a rough pounding. We get together Tuesday.

It pays to be patient, gentlemen!

TG.

[QUOTE=Airmantroy;3646152]From this chick and her excuses of why she's having trouble getting to my place. LOL.

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First, today was her errand running day. Translation: to go get her fix, Second, She's having trouble getting her friend to take her back to her car (damn groceries are going to be thawed out). Translation: She's too fucked up to drive and her dealer / handler won't turn her loose yet. Third, Could I get her an Uber. ROTFLMAO I don't have Uber, and I'm not going to go pick her up.

She tried the old, "Didn't we agree to $300" . Uhhhh NOPE. Can I make a one time deal. Uhhhhmm NO. Can I give her $40 extra so she can get her "friend" to take her to her car. NO.

So I'll sit here and screw with her for a couple of hours, call my dependable SB to come swallow some kids and play hide the salami tomorrow. Sometimes it's just too damn funny when you have all the time in the world to "wait".

If and that's a huge IF, she actually makes it to my place, I'll pop 25 mg of V and give her the railing of her life. Pure old sport fucking at it's finest. LOL.[/QUOTE]LOL, we really need a thread dedicated to "shit sugar babies say". Here's one I got the other day:

"is it unsmart to let it go and not pay before this is settled" (On whether or not she should pay rent until her apartment building fulfills her maintenance request. After the 4th late fees start incurring).

I posted this in the wrong thread by mistake so I'm posting here where it belongs:

This one had so many red flags. Gave me her number and wanted to talk right away about an allowance. When I lowballed her and told her I would give her 100 for a few hours, she said yes! At this moment I thought I had found myself another rare gem that will spend hours with you for close to nothing. I then searched her number on FB and the profile of a shady dude came up. I confronted her and asked her to send me a selfie holding three fingers just to confirm it was really her and she just never replied. Definitely a scam IMO.

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This one is just delusional. Wanted 1000 at first and then brought it down to 500. I offered 300 max but the GPS was too strong with this one, so avoid.

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Hey fellows, wanted your take on uploading real pictures on seekingarrangement site. I need to not my picture blasted over the site. What will be your advise?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3596613]It is free, and they get premium if they give a university email address.

Look, all you newbies need to spend some time on the Richmond Virginia Sugar thread, and their archive of the most important posts. For reasons unknown, it has become the de facto national thread on the sugar bowl. All of your questions will be answered there.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the advise.