[QUOTE=Satya;5636015]Have you RTFF?[/QUOTE]Have you RTFF? The maps have been deleted for a while so that's why they're asking.
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[QUOTE=Satya;5636015]Have you RTFF?[/QUOTE]Have you RTFF? The maps have been deleted for a while so that's why they're asking.
I just read the decision by Baltimore County that removed JNW's permit to operate a non-therapeutic massage, one monger who was caught up in it told the full story to the cops and it also mentions mongers spilling their cuts outside the AMP when leaving. The biggest rat is identified as either "JZ" or "JW". If mongers don't have the balls to tell the police nothing they should not participate.
[QUOTE=Frenulum;5637094]Have you RTFF? The maps have been deleted for a while so that's why they're asking.[/QUOTE]I was thinking the same thing. He clearly had to have tried to search the forum if he is saying the maps were deleted. Then this clown responds with "RTFF". Smh.
I see a lot of girls asking for guys to pick up cigarettes before coming to see them. A girl that I was seeing tried to get me to buy her cigarettes on my visit. I told her that I would have to deduct the cigarette money from her fee. She got a big attitude over the proposed deduction. I told her that I don't have to take any attitude from her and I cancelled the date and went to see someone else. I'm not taking that shit from these girls. Guys remember three things, the guy with the the gold makes the rules and that these girls are a dime a dozen. The third thing to remember is that you don't need to fall all over them. Realize that you are the man and you lead, not the woman.
Do not let them play you for cigarettes. If you do then you will be their constant cigarette supplier.
Propilot-Always check your six.
[QUOTE=Propilot;5643020]I see a lot of girls asking for guys to pick up cigarettes before coming to see them. A girl that I was seeing tried to get me to buy her cigarettes on my visit. I told her that I would have to deduct the cigarette money from her fee. She got a big attitude over the proposed deduction. I told her that I don't have to take any attitude from her and I cancelled the date and went to see someone else. I'm not taking that shit from these girls. Guys remember three things, the guy with the the gold makes the rules and that these girls are a dime a dozen. The third thing to remember is that you don't need to fall all over them. Realize that you are the man and you lead, not the woman.
Do not let them play you for cigarettes. If you do then you will be their constant cigarette supplier.
Propilot-Always check your six.[/QUOTE]I did once. She wanted cigs and a soda. Stopped and got her shit, went for our visit, she never once brought up donation, I left when done. Got a text like 10 mins later bitching about it. She was high the whole time. Blocked her ass LOL. Had to be one of the top 5 dates ever simply because of that. 90 min visit for like $8 heh.
BQ22.
[QUOTE=Propilot;5643020]I see a lot of girls asking for guys to pick up cigarettes before coming to see them. A girl that I was seeing tried to get me to buy her cigarettes on my visit. I told her that I would have to deduct the cigarette money from her fee. She got a big attitude over the proposed deduction. I told her that I don't have to take any attitude from her and I cancelled the date and went to see someone else. I'm not taking that shit from these girls. Guys remember three things, the guy with the the gold makes the rules and that these girls are a dime a dozen. The third thing to remember is that you don't need to fall all over them. Realize that you are the man and you lead, not the woman.
Do not let them play you for cigarettes. If you do then you will be their constant cigarette supplier.
Propilot-Always check your six.[/QUOTE]I have shopped for the girls before and such and didn't mind much because I have plenty of time on my hands. I am grateful for every women who let me stick my dick in them or blew me and don't have an attitude of me versus them.
[QUOTE=Propilot;5643020]I see a lot of girls asking for guys to pick up cigarettes before coming to see them. A girl that I was seeing tried to get me to buy her cigarettes on my visit. I told her that I would have to deduct the cigarette money from her fee. She got a big attitude over the proposed deduction. I told her that I don't have to take any attitude from her and I cancelled the date and went to see someone else. I'm not taking that shit from these girls. Guys remember three things, the guy with the the gold makes the rules and that these girls are a dime a dozen. The third thing to remember is that you don't need to fall all over them. Realize that you are the man and you lead, not the woman.
Do not let them play you for cigarettes. If you do then you will be their constant cigarette supplier.
Propilot-Always check your six.[/QUOTE]Not necessarily true. Sometimes it's all about being polite, considerate, and courteous. Remember, the vast majority of these escorts don't have any kind of transportation (at least no their own). They really do appreciate the little things in life that most of us take for granted. Also, you more than likely to get excellent service and not rushed if you get them cigarettes, drinks, food, etc. I remember doing a review / post on the famous Millie about two years ago and she told me to get her a double burger value meal at Wendy's with a blue raspberry frostie and a pack of smokes or something like that and she not only took off $20 from our SS-QV but let me eat her box out real good which is something she doesn't normally let guys do (at least that is what she told me) and we did several positions (she usually does K9 only). So needless to say, I got my money's worth and then some.
[QUOTE=BusterHymen55;5643824]Not necessarily true. Sometimes it's all about being polite, considerate, and courteous. Remember, the vast majority of these escorts don't have any kind of transportation (at least no their own). They really do appreciate the little things in life that most of us take for granted. Also, you more than likely to get excellent service and not rushed if you get them cigarettes, drinks, food, etc. I remember doing a review / post on the famous Millie about two years ago and she told me to get her a double burger value meal at Wendy's with a blue raspberry frostie and a pack of smokes or something like that and she not only took off $20 from our SS-QV but let me eat her box out real good which is something she doesn't normally let guys do (at least that is what she told me) and we did several positions (she usually does K9 only). So needless to say, I got my money's worth and then some.[/QUOTE]Exactly. Sometimes just being courteous or doing a lady a favor will pay off for you in spades. Considering the amount of money some guys drop on these women, a pack of cigarettes is nothing anyway. Some guys just think of these ladies as pieces of meat and nothing more. Granted, there are a few out there that may deserve that label but I've found in general that they don't. It kills me too when someone makes the whole "the women are a dime a dozen" argument. You don't think to them us guys aren't a dime a dozen? LOL.
Some babes use the cigs thing as a way to see if you're a cop or not on your first visit with them and some genuinely need cigs and since you're on the way and have a car. Why not?
I've done it about 3 times for just one escort I used to visit, out of over 30-40 or so total visits with her. Doing a favor like that for a escort almost always returns a whole lot more in services etc, because the escort often will begin to see you as more than just another monger. I guess some of them will and do use this as a way of hardly paying for their cigarettes.
What can you get in return for being a nice guy? LOL!
1: Extra time: QTRs can turn in 20-25 min encounters.
2: Extra stuff she may not do with others. Positions, longer in puss time, services, affection others are not getting. Babes will normally get wetter and even more into the session if they actually like you.
3: No rushing, during the session and maybe even if your time with her is over.
With all of my squad members, if no monger is coming right after me I'm often told to take my time basking in the afterglow of the encounter. My normal 5 minutes is great and 10 minutes is even better before I have to get up and get dressed.
4: Priority Scheduling: They'll pickup and respond faster if its you calling or texting. And no waiting around like other mongers.
Most of these escorts are looking for at least a few guys who visit them to be a little more than just a monger.
So IMHO, getting a babe a pack of cigs or even a pack of baby-wipes, or dropping them off somewhere if its on your way home LOL!, is not the worst thing in the world for a monger's career but of course, its different strokes for different folks in this hobby.
Happy hunting!
SJ.
[QUOTE=Korman23;5644161]Exactly. Sometimes just being courteous or doing a lady a favor will pay off for you in spades. Considering the amount of money some guys drop on these women, a pack of cigarettes is nothing anyway. Some guys just think of these ladies as pieces of meat and nothing more. Granted, there are a few out there that may deserve that label but I've found in general that they don't. It kills me too when someone makes the whole "the women are a dime a dozen" argument. You don't think to them us guys aren't a dime a dozen? LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Korman23;5644161]Exactly. Sometimes just being courteous or doing a lady a favor will pay off for you in spades. Considering the amount of money some guys drop on these women, a pack of cigarettes is nothing anyway. Some guys just think of these ladies as pieces of meat and nothing more. Granted, there are a few out there that may deserve that label but I've found in general that they don't. It kills me too when someone makes the whole "the women are a dime a dozen" argument. You don't think to them us guys aren't a dime a dozen? LOL.[/QUOTE]That is very true. Where I lived before, I helped a few ladies with with computer, network, phone and etc issues they were having. They started telling their friends and I had ladies contacting me for help including a lady I had been trying to get in contact for a month or two. With a couple of rare exceptions, all the ladies took very good care after I helped them out.
I also had a lady I saw regularly that said she had just used her last condom. If I refreshed her supply, she would take care of me. I did refresh her supply and she took very good care of me.
When they go dark like that I'll do the same. Don't want to send too many otherwise it's a huge turnoff for them making you look creepy and stalkerish but 3 within a span of a month after they go dark is more than normal. If I really like them then I'll still send a note about once a quarter. It's been effective. Had one prior reach back out very apologetically and got a few GFE nights with allowances returned to make it up to me. That one ghosted again but I'll still shoot her a message once in a blue moon when I am drunk. Another like that is back in rotation. We had a 18 month hiatus but when she came back I was thrilled. Face looks like Scarlett Johansson and her body is better than the actresses. No hard feelings on my end when they go dark but come back. They found someone they thought they were going to marry. Feel bad for them mostly. Younger dudes must be shitty if these hot 19-27 yr olds are banging an old man like me for companionship.
[QUOTE=BuffBill75;5644045]How did you handle it when they disappeared? I sent one text asked what her schedule was for the week. One saying hey is everything OK with you a few days later. And then one more asking if she needed to talk a few days after that and then I dropped it. Not sure if I got blocked or just ignored.[/QUOTE]
I don't think younger guys are shitty, very weird thing to say when most arent even dating or having sex now. Most of those girls that are hot but single, chase around dudes that have zero reason to be loyal cause every girl wants them too. They bang old dudes like you because you're easy LMAO and you're also paying instead of getting genuine desire.
[QUOTE=ProCatHunter;5645095]When they go dark like that I'll do the same. Don't want to send too many otherwise it's a huge turnoff for them making you look creepy and stalkerish but 3 within a span of a month after they go dark is more than normal. If I really like them then I'll still send a note about once a quarter. It's been effective. Had one prior reach back out very apologetically and got a few GFE nights with allowances returned to make it up to me. That one ghosted again but I'll still shoot her a message once in a blue moon when I am drunk. Another like that is back in rotation. We had a 18 month hiatus but when she came back I was thrilled. Face looks like Scarlett Johansson and her body is better than the actresses. No hard feelings on my end when they go dark but come back. They found someone they thought they were going to marry. Feel bad for them mostly. Younger dudes must be shitty if these hot 19-27 yr olds are banging an old man like me for companionship.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FairFight;5645148]I don't think younger guys are shitty, very weird thing to say when most arent even dating or having sex now. Most of those girls that are hot but single, chase around dudes that have zero reason to be loyal cause every girl wants them too. They bang old dudes like you because you're easy LMAO and you're also paying instead of getting genuine desire.[/QUOTE]Don't disagree with you about being an old dude, easy and paying. Kinda the point of being on a sugar site. No? Disagree with the genuine desire, but I've been fooled before by good actresses. I'll keep telling myself it's real until the facade fades. If their good enough at acting to convince me that they're really interested, who am I to convince myself otherwise? And no doubt in my mind, taking them out to nice dinners and giving them gifts of cash probably helps convince them that they really are into me. Also probably doesn't hurt that I'm in great shape and easy on the eyes (at least according to most women I interact with both in and out of the sugar world).
Hat tip to you for getting the ass for free. Which I presume is the case since based on your message you make it sound like you're neither old or paying? Either that or condolences if you're in the category that you describe as not dating or having sex.
Glad to see that the Baltimore board has a white knight for young men who aren't dating or having sex, and one for the small percentage of shitty younger studs that are in high demand. I was getting worried for a minute.
[QUOTE=ProCatHunter;5645813]Don't disagree with you about being an old dude, easy and paying. Kinda the point of being on a sugar site. No? Disagree with the genuine desire, but I've been fooled before by good actresses. I'll keep telling myself it's real until the facade fades. If their good enough at acting to convince me that they're really interested, who am I to convince myself otherwise? And no doubt in my mind, taking them out to nice dinners and giving them gifts of cash probably helps convince them that they really are into me. Also probably doesn't hurt that I'm in great shape and easy on the eyes (at least according to most women I interact with both in and out of the sugar world).
Hat tip to you for getting the ass for free. Which I presume is the case since based on your message you make it sound like you're neither old or paying? Either that or condolences if you're in the category that you describe as not dating or having sex.
Glad to see that the Baltimore board has a white knight for young men who aren't dating or having sex, and one for the small percentage of shitty younger studs that are in high demand. I was getting worried for a minute.[/QUOTE]Take it easy on the kid, although he was asking for it, LOL. In the past, Fair has been the source of this board becoming a Dr Phil hug fest with many board members offering him advice and support over his laments about difficulty finding a RL girlfriend. I myself contributed some tough-love advice about the hobby and RL. Although when you get as old as I am, sometimes I can't remember what I intended to say vs what I actually did say.
You both made your points, and I think this round goes to the old guy. However, I think you both are off on this Genuine Desire vs For Pay exchange. IMO they're not 2 competing concepts, especially in the hobby. It's just singularly, genuine desire for pay. Maybe it could be a little different in some sugar situations, then more power to you. But genuine desire, puh-lease. I have a reg who'll share that she DOESN'T MIND seeing me. I think she genuinely means it. I genuinely chalk that up as a win, LOL. I think many of us on the escort thread wouldn't mind if a girl is a good actress, we'd probably be happy with minimally adequate actress.
Damn old dude really getting flustered over 1 comment. Guess age doesn't make you mature.
I mainly attacked your comment saying guys are shitty because you are a simp. You pay women to pretend to like you. Yet critize guys that don't pay and the women want more???( ok captain save a hoe) You are cringe and immature.
Anyways enjoy your hobby and don't take my comment too seriously. You're just not dating at all so you don't know what the fuck you are talking about.