Being more direct has helped me
[QUOTE=GeomaticsJoe;4608218]Paid a visit to Wackos this past Saturday. I know this is pretty much a "regulars" club and you won't get lot of attention from the dancers if you aren't one but this visit was an all time low. I was pretty much Mr. Invisible the entire night. I have never encountered so many stuck up and self-absorbed women. It was like being back in high school where the "cool" kids ignored the "nerds". I first spied Ivy who has the looks and build that I really go for but as one of the cool kids she apparently could not see me. Walked right by my table several times and did not even look my way. Thought about tipping her on stage to see if that would get her attention but decided that she was not worth the effort to get up and walk to the stage. She had done nothing to deserve a tip. Next was Drew. Same slender athletic build. This time I decided to try tipping her on stage. It was early in the evening and the place was not very crowded so I was the only one to tip her while she was on the Money stage. Did not even come over to say 'thank you' when her stage time was over. And she too just walked right past my table several times without even a glance. Another one of the cool kids I guess. I was ready to drop some cash on her and it was somewhat satisfying to see that she did not make one trip to the VIP area while I was there. Last up was Christina. Long and lean with a great set of cans and a nice pooper. She did not even bother to take the Money stage on her rotation. Guess it was not worth the bother to her since there were not a lot of guys around the stage. Shame too as I was going to ask her to join me for a drink and some time in the VIP. She blew off dancing on the Money stage and just sat at the bar diddling on her phone. She later hung out in the VIP area with several other dancers and waitresses with who I can assume was either her pimp or her drug dealer.
So it was pretty much a wasted trip. Did enjoy the happy hour 2 for 1 drinks and the wait staff was quite attentive which is usually not the case her. So my time visiting Wackos is pretty much over. I can get the same amount of attention sitting at home watching TV.[/QUOTE]I haven't been getting dances much lately due to the new enviroment there but. When I want one, I go up and tip them on stage and chat alittle. If they seem nice and look good up close, I ask tell them if they will come sit with me after they get off stage because I am interested in a dance. If they come sit with me then I will buy them a drink and chat alittle about what I expect before going back. If she just says we will see how it goes I may give her 1 song to test the waters.