You shouldn't have to warn grown men!
[QUOTE=LikkerFront;2280399]Everyone should heed these warnings by these dudes, they know (and I know) of which they speak. Back away from this big gal and DON'T GET ANY ON YA![/QUOTE]Come on man. You shouldn't have to warn others to stay away from certain SW's. Because if you knew what I know, half of the SW's out there have HIV and other STI's. It's called CONDOMS. Before I bang any broad I already assume they have the worst. Since I don't carry around a home testing kit the alternative is a latex condom. Since a lot of my fellow mongers claim that their condoms break on them then I would advise them to use KY or another water based lubricant. DO NOT. I repeat DO NOT use oil based lubricants such as vaseline or petroleum jelly. They will break the condom. From the vast majority of pics and vids I see from my fellow mongers on here it doesn't matter anyway because they don't bother to wrap it up. IT's NOT who you sleep with but HOW you sleep with them. Do not I repeat DO NOT warn grown ass men on who they should sleep with. Because if you're in Baltimore involved in this hobby more than likely you already done slept with someone that has an STI. Some curable, some not.
Paying in Advance and paybacks
Many years ago I took a gal to one of the Pulaski Highway notels. She went to the side of the bed next to the door and I took the side by the bathroom. Once she had her top off, she asked for payment and I agreed. As soon as my pants were off, she picked up the cash and clothes and bolted out the door (wearing nothing on top). I was out about $60 for the room and her.
Many months later I scooped her again and she agreed to come to my hotel. She didn't recognize me, but I knew her. As we drove out Rt 40 to my mythical hotel, she fell asleep. I kept driving until she awoke and then I pulled into the next motel. We got out of the car and she realized we were far from Baltimore. She began to throw a fit, so I just got into the car and drove back to Baltimore without her. You have to love the remote locks: press just once to open the driver's door and leave the hooker in the parking lot.
We don't often have opportunities to pay back these girls who take our money, but sometimes it is poetic justice. Even though I saw her back near Patterson Park about an hour after my return, it still felt good.
There are still times that I pay in advance, but it has to be at a place that is too for her to walk back to her hood.
That's What The Forum is For
[QUOTE=Dontaye1;2284676]Come on man. You shouldn't have to warn others to stay away from certain SW's . . . Do not I repeat DO NOT warn grown ass men on who they should sleep with. Because if you're in Baltimore involved in this hobby more than likely you already done slept with someone that has an STI. Some curable, some not.[/QUOTE]This forum is about information, and making the hobby less "risk involved" for hobbyists. I agree with you that people in the hobby should know the risks involved, but some people that read this forum are neophytes or they simply do not know. It is up to the veteran hobbyists to teach the younger ones, and make sure that information that can effect other hobbyists' health is shared. We are all Eskimo brothers or Eskimo cousins, whether the connection be made via the actual girl (brothers) or screwing someone that screwed someone that the hobbyist screwed at some point (cousins). As such, that nice girl that you meet and fall in love with's ex-boyfriend could have been bare backing providers and passed the "bug" onto her.
A lot of people in this hobby have impulse control issues or other complacency issues due to their history in relationships or past luck skirting STDs in the hobby. Moreover, condoms don't protect people against herpes and some other skin on skin diseases. What is the use of this forum if members cannot warn each other and keep an eye out for each other? I get your point 100%, and everyone should have personal efficacy. However, if the etiquette on the board is that we shouldn't warn members about a known danger, then members should not warn others about robbery schemes or ULE stings either, since those occurrences are a known part of the hobby. If members are expected to give advice and educate other hobbyists about good providers and other helpful hints, then they should be expected to educate other hobbyists about some of the negative aspects of the hobby and specific providers. Even if it is common sense.
Again, I get what you are saying, and I agree in principle. However, I think that on a personal level, any member that would not drop dime on a provider that is either (1) robbing; (2) stealing; (3) working with LE; (4) currently contagious; or (5) purposefully exposing members to STDs or other risks, really shouldn't be a part of this forum. Particularly, if the person will in the same breath ask for information about other providers in pursuit of his own gratification / personal wants, while simultaneously withholding known actual information that could benefit those that are assisting him.
I am glad that you commented on this issue, and hopefully others can chime in so we can hear other members' positions on this issue.
Also, this whole forum is about warning "grown ass men on who they should sleep with." Members list names and share numbers for the specific purpose of warning "grown ass men on who they should sleep with" and who they should NOT sleep with. I just don't think that it makes sense to draw a bright line on warnings/ sharing information simply because it pertains to a risk that is ever present, because after all, everything discussed in this forum is either a reward or risk associated with/ intrinsic to the hobby.
When think of pussy, think 3 p: precaution, prevention, protection
[QUOTE=Dontaye1;2285070]Yes. I been there. Had the drips from BBBJ. Bacterial diseases are way easy to catch from STD the Doctors told me when they gave me the shot in the ass. They told me not to worry about HIV from BBBJ but bacterial infections are not hard to catch when getting the mike sung on without the plastic. I learned the hard way.[/QUOTE]Yep major std came in 2 types viral based and bacterial based. Viral based are not treatable period. Bacterial based are treatable but by the time you got the symptoms your wife would prob have it too.
Viral based like herpes got symptoms when there is an outbreak. Even without outbreak there is still viral shredding. 16% of the us population got herpes and 50% of black women got it too according to cdc so do the math.
So, exercise precaution by avoiding high risk folks. Do the prevention by making sure the receptacle (top, bottom or back) got no blister, foul smell, strange liquid (white stuff means she got yeast, green stuff means bacteria and red means blood), sensitive to touch. Most important, use protection and drink plenty of liquid and fruit before sexcercise.
Been in this hobby for years and banged over 300+ women from around the world. Still getting lucky all the time.