Expectations of professionalism
[QUOTE=Dremond;2221818]Yo I'm new to the hobby but I had a dream with jazzy nasty and I had a great time bbjcim so good in fact I tried to dream again tonight set it up and called 30 minutes prior and no answer I texted as well no answer totally unprofessional my thing is things come up that's life but common courtesy is a must a quick won't be able tonight would be great insted of wasting my time.[/QUOTE]What is a girl to do? She gets hammered if she answers a call or a text while a client is there, and she gets hammered on the board if she doesn't.
It has been my experience that you need to go at a mongering event with at least two different providers in mind. If one doesn't work out, the other may. If both don't work out, don't be pissed about it. The times you are getting out are likely the same times 20 other mongers are looking too. The only providers I would hold you your level of expectation are the ones I have seen more than 5 or 10 times who know me well and have my direct contact info. Otherwise the provider might have been thinking she was doing you a favor by not texting you back since you had already had time to be home with the wife.
Unless you are throwing monster steady money at one, or are paying way over the norm, you don't have any right to expect her to snap to when you call.
Wait in line or pay enough to be the only one in line.
Just my. 02.
Crete.