Seeking Arrangements

Yep, a high school girl I went to school with & we used to date (not officially as BF / GF), just date. Hang out & hit it. Never made it official, whereas, I traveled for school, she stayed a townee.

Then after coming back to Boston, we had chatted via text messages just about catching up & how you do's. She was going through things, not having enough money, jumping from job to job, had 2 kids, etc.

But one day, I came across her profile. She looked different. Then suddenly, I get favorited. SoI favorite back & suddenly get an email.

The statement from her was "I'm here looking for a real relationship & long term. That she wasn't here for what others were here for. ".

So she "understood" the site. I was like yeah me too. Haven't found anyone, cause it's difficult. LOL.

I didn't attempt to ask her to meet up through the site or anything, whereas, I already had her number & we've talked offline.

But overall, I haven't see her active on the site maybe a month later after that.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6484930]Has anyone here ever run into someone you either met or maybe just recognize on Seeking?

Recently I was at my local CVS pharmacy and one of the techs looked familiar, and at first I couldn't quite remember where I knew her from. But as I waited in line, it suddenly struck me and I discreetly checked my "favorites" on Seeking from my phone to verify, sure enough it was her (a tattoo verified it).

This happen to anyone else?[/QUOTE]

Overall, Summer has been a major challenge. June has been basically a bust for me. I think it's going to be worse in July.

It's not necessarily the connections that is the culprit. My email opens & responses rates have been about 70%.

Incoming emails (without ME first contacting them) where it's lead to multiple conversations & a phone number has been about 30% to 40% - which isn't that bad.

Now, even with collecting numbers, keeping the conversations going, I'm getting majorly stuck.

Hotel Room Rates have skyrocketed! What is going on? Every time I turn around, there's a major holiday. And these damn companies are jacking prices. Why?

Even the Casino days. Boston, Rhode Island and even Foxwoods now. Seems to be jacking rates! I recently wrote a post about what was happening in Rhode Island at Twin Rivers (I guess everyone started going there, cause it seems them free rooms are non-existent now. Damn! Not opening my mouth about that again) LOL.

But seriously, what are you all doing? I was able to pull off 2 nights when I go out & was pulling 2, sometimes 3 girls within those 2 days each time I was going out.

Now, I can't pull off & can't justify these room prices of $485, $585 almost $625 on a Sunday, Monday, or Tuesday night. That's just ridiculous. Yes, it's middle of Boston & everything. I try not to do any outskirts of the city for rooms.

So, those Room Rates have skyrocketed, combined with the "everyone has GPS" asking for $800, $1000 per meet.

Had this one chick "SeductiveCutie" (Rhode Island. Profile is gone now), state that she recently got out of 2 long term arrangements. She stated that what I was asking for was basically too low. I asked her, what type of amount was she thinking. She says she was getting $1 k every time she met. I was like from both guys? And how often did you meet. She states, she was meeting both of them one or two times per week. Then I asked her, well, why did it end? She states: 1.) one guy was interested in more of having a relationship & she didn't wan that, as he was geting to clingy. And 2.) the other guy she simply fell out of interest.

So, guys, let's do the math.

1. 2 Guys.

2. $1 k each.

3. 1 or 2 times per week (each).

3. Last 1. 5 years (so she says).

So this chick is going to give up a (let's be conservative at 1 time per week for each guy) $2 grand per week, which comes out to $104,000 per year, because she didn't want to get the "Feelies" and "got bored"? C'Mon. Now! Hence, again, we should NOT be going over $500. There has to be a universal CAP. I didn't know if I should believe her or not. Whereas, she had a lot of specific details.

haha - -I so wanted to ask her to tell me how much she had in ther bank account.... lol

But anyway, what's happening with everyone else? Ya'll finding good room rates? This upcoming week is horrendous.

The other problem is, that I have to book out at least 1 month in advance (sometimes 2). And a lot of these chicks are trying to do something either that day or within at least the next 10 days.

Bring Back Winter! Bring Back the Pandemic!

How are you all fairing? What are you finding in terms of hotel rooms? How are you all handling this?

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6485728]Overall, Summer has been a major challenge. June has been basically a bust for me. I think it's going to be worse in July.

It's not necessarily the connections that is the culprit. My email opens & responses rates have been about 70%.

Incoming emails (without ME first contacting them) where it's lead to multiple conversations & a phone number has been about 30% to 40% - which isn't that bad.

Now, even with collecting numbers, keeping the conversations going, I'm getting majorly stuck.

Hotel Room Rates have skyrocketed! What is going on? Every time I turn around, there's a major holiday. And these damn companies are jacking prices. Why?

Even the Casino days. Boston, Rhode Island and even Foxwoods now. Seems to be jacking rates! I recently wrote a post about what was happening in Rhode Island at Twin Rivers (I guess everyone started going there, cause it seems them free rooms are non-existent now. Damn! Not opening my mouth about that again) LOL.
[/QUOTE]I just go the casino. Free rooms at all casinos since I make gambling my life. I used to host at my house but I'm done with that. These woman pretend to be normal but there all crazy and don't want anyone knowing where I live now. I like Foxwoods the best so I meet a lot of Connecticut woman. There more attractive and cool then the ghetto Boston trash you find in the city, Lowell, Brockton etc. But I pay 300-400. These woman claiming to get 1 k or more are so full of it. I wouldn't believe a word anyone says.

I absolutely agree on holding the line at 500 or less. Hotels as you point out have become prohibitive lately, especially now that it's graduation season. Even Dayuse has crept up a bit. No more $99 specials there. I have been trying out the following line. If it's 600 we will see each other once a month. If it's 300 you will get laid every week. You make more and enjoy more. One has seen the logic of that. Others have trouble with that math. My problem is that I cannot seem to just stick with one at a time. I need a small rotation and one always seems to drop off just as a new one arrives. I believe that one wise man once said that mongering is a disease whose only known cure is poverty. 😊.

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6485728]Overall, Summer has been a major challenge. June has been basically a bust for me. I think it's going to be worse in July.

It's not necessarily the connections that is the culprit. My email opens & responses rates have been about 70%.

Incoming emails (without ME first contacting them) where it's lead to multiple conversations & a phone number has been about 30% to 40% - which isn't that bad.

Now, even with collecting numbers, keeping the conversations going, I'm getting majorly stuck.

Hotel Room Rates have skyrocketed! What is going on? Every time I turn around, there's a major holiday. And these damn companies are jacking prices. Why?

Even the Casino days. Boston, Rhode Island and even Foxwoods now. Seems to be jacking rates! I recently wrote a post about what was happening in Rhode Island at Twin Rivers (I guess everyone started going there, cause it seems them free rooms are non-existent now. Damn! Not opening my mouth about that again) LOL.

But seriously, what are you all doing? I was able to pull off 2 nights when I go out & was pulling 2, sometimes 3 girls within those 2 days each time I was going out.

Now, I can't pull off & can't justify these room prices of $485, $585 almost $625 on a Sunday, Monday, or Tuesday night. That's just ridiculous. Yes, it's middle of Boston & everything. I try not to do any outskirts of the city for rooms.

So, those Room Rates have skyrocketed, combined with the "everyone has GPS" asking for $800, $1000 per meet.

Had this one chick "SeductiveCutie" (Rhode Island. Profile is gone now), state that she recently got out of 2 long term arrangements. She stated that what I was asking for was basically too low. I asked her, what type of amount was she thinking. She says she was getting $1 k every time she met. I was like from both guys? And how often did you meet. She states, she was meeting both of them one or two times per week. Then I asked her, well, why did it end? She states: 1.) one guy was interested in more of having a relationship & she didn't wan that, as he was geting to clingy. And 2.) the other guy she simply fell out of interest.

So, guys, let's do the math.

1. 2 Guys.

2. $1 k each.

3. 1 or 2 times per week (each).

3. Last 1. 5 years (so she says).

So this chick is going to give up a (let's be conservative at 1 time per week for each guy) $2 grand per week, which comes out to $104,000 per year, because she didn't want to get the "Feelies" and "got bored"? C'Mon. Now! Hence, again, we should NOT be going over $500. There has to be a universal CAP. I didn't know if I should believe her or not. Whereas, she had a lot of specific details.

haha - -I so wanted to ask her to tell me how much she had in ther bank account.... lol

But anyway, what's happening with everyone else? Ya'll finding good room rates? This upcoming week is horrendous.

The other problem is, that I have to book out at least 1 month in advance (sometimes 2). And a lot of these chicks are trying to do something either that day or within at least the next 10 days.

Bring Back Winter! Bring Back the Pandemic!

How are you all fairing? What are you finding in terms of hotel rooms? How are you all handling this?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Banjomania;6485940]I absolutely agree on holding the line at 500 or less. Hotels as you point out have become prohibitive lately, especially now that it's graduation season. Even Dayuse has crept up a bit. No more $99 specials there. I have been trying out the following line. If it's 600 we will see each other once a month. If it's 300 you will get laid every week. You make more and enjoy more. One has seen the logic of that. Others have trouble with that math. My problem is that I cannot seem to just stick with one at a time. I need a small rotation and one always seems to drop off just as a new one arrives. I believe that one wise man once said that mongering is a disease whose only known cure is poverty..[/QUOTE]I host so don't have much feedback on hotels, but in Boston they typically increase in the summer. I pay 300 - 400 per meet. I went to 500 for 1 girl, she was worth it. But I don't go over that and agree most that claim they get 800 - 1000 per meet are lying. One girl that told me she got 800 per meet from her last arrangement replied "you don't believe me?" when I told her I was all set, I then replied "it doesn't matter if I believe you or not, there's no way I'm paying that, best of luck to you".

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6484930]Has anyone here ever run into someone you either met or maybe just recognize on Seeking?

Recently I was at my local CVS pharmacy and one of the techs looked familiar, and at first I couldn't quite remember where I knew her from. But as I waited in line, it suddenly struck me and I discreetly checked my "favorites" on Seeking from my phone to verify, sure enough it was her (a tattoo verified it).

This happen to anyone else?[/QUOTE]Took the commuter rail last week, there were two college age Asian sisters getting on at my stop, I can't say for sure but I think one of them was a girl from SB, who I had also talked to on Hinge (couldn't remember what her location said on the latter). She had told me that me sending money up front was non-negotiable so needless to say a waste of time. Not much I could do about it anyway as she was with 3 other girls, but still funny.

Any 411 on her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ab4392ae-3ac6-47b6-b1b1-1d8f32e31d39[/URL]

Says she works in fitness in / near the Seaport. Started at 1 k ppm, now at 800. That's a lot and above my budget. Offered a coffee date; not much to lose with a coffee date to see if she's real.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6488401]Took the commuter rail last week, there were two college age Asian sisters getting on at my stop, I can't say for sure but I think one of them was a girl from SB, who I had also talked to on Hinge (couldn't remember what her location said on the latter). She had told me that me sending money up front was non-negotiable so needless to say a waste of time. Not much I could do about it anyway as she was with 3 other girls, but still funny.[/QUOTE]I can't imagine that anyone that's outright scamming people would use their real picture. Either that or she's just fucking stupid.

Best day to send out messages that I've experienced. Daddy issues are raging around this time LOL. My inbox was more full than ever today.

I have info on one that we had to end arrangement recently. She's looking for another that will be respectful and understand boundaries. Lives in southie. Has transportation. I'll offer up contact for verified connections. Only senior members can be.

It's not easy using SA as a guy in his early 20's as the majority of women just skip our profiles but was able to meet up with one last weekend.

24 year old thick college chick for 200 $ , 1 hour BBFS swallows and loves anal.

[QUOTE=ItsChiChi;6491179]It's not easy using SA as a guy in his early 20's as the majority of women just skip our profiles but was able to meet up with one last weekend.

24 year old thick college chick for 200 $ , 1 hour BBFS swallows and loves anal.[/QUOTE]I don't think your age matters as much as how much your willing to pay. I don't care if your 20 or 60 if you message woman and get to talking offering 400-500 you will get a reply back and they will come. If your on the lower budget then it gets harder. I think you did well there. That girl in the pic isn't fat but isn't thin. Kind of in the middle and took 200. Can't complain with that.

[QUOTE=ItsChiChi;6491179]It's not easy using SA as a guy in his early 20's as the majority of women just skip our profiles but was able to meet up with one last weekend.

24 year old thick college chick for 200 $ , 1 hour BBFS swallows and loves anal.[/QUOTE]How many pops? An hour should be at least two and you're a young guy.

What is this obsession with two pops? Is that like getting a hard on for a 2-for-1 TV sale? Who needs 2 TVs? I can only watch one at a time.

[QUOTE=Dano7;6491671]How many pops? An hour should be at least two and you're a young guy.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6484930]Has anyone here ever run into someone you either met or maybe just recognize on Seeking?

Recently I was at my local CVS pharmacy and one of the techs looked familiar, and at first I couldn't quite remember where I knew her from. But as I waited in line, it suddenly struck me and I discreetly checked my "favorites" on Seeking from my phone to verify, sure enough it was her (a tattoo verified it).

This happen to anyone else?[/QUOTE]Yup. Favorited someone. The next week she comes into my clinic as a new patient. Dodged a bullet by not messaging her the day before.