I think you did the correct thing.
I had the same thing happen with the one girl I posted about on here a while back. I didn't give her anything, but the next day she texting me asking me politely about an allowance.
My opinion. They were thinking like a dude, they wanted to fuck really bad, got some dick, then realized why they joined SA in the first place.
I joined SA knowing what it is, and I think they are just too polite / embarassed at first. I ended up stopping by the next day (I lived close by) with a nice card and cash.
I think you did the right thing.
[QUOTE=DArrow404;3953523]I saw a very nice young woman the other day. When I first contacted her I mentioned I give an allowance per meet. However, we never discussed any specific amount. We first met for lunch and no mention of allowance and went to the FC immediately after. A couple hours in the FC and still no mention of allowance.
As she was getting ready to leave, I was debating about bringing up the allowance or not. I really like her and plan to see her again; so I went ahead and gave her what I was comfortable with. I'm wondering if I should have just said nothing and see if I lucked into finding someone who just wants to get taken out and fuck.
What's funny is I picked up her purse which startled her, but then she saw I was putting the allowance in it. I'm not sure if she was surprised by me grabbing the purse or the allowance. I didn't ask and just told her thanks for the wonderful time.
What would yall have done?[/QUOTE]
Okay I pulled the trigger
[QUOTE=AtlEyez;3952910]Getting ready to meet this one in a few hours. She's pretty hot, everything is on the table. Wants $$ Higher than normal but she's bad LOL. Anyone know anything about her?
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/profiles/7a7a206c1ef066e1[/URL][/QUOTE]This one wasn't really worth it. Yeah she was hot, great fake tits (pierced), nice skin. We got along, good chit chat however, I just didn't really feel like we really connected. Maybe it's one of those YMMV situations.
Should have gone for the freebie.
[QUOTE=DArrow404;3953523]I saw a very nice young woman the other day. When I first contacted her I mentioned I give an allowance per meet. However, we never discussed any specific amount. We first met for lunch and no mention of allowance and went to the FC immediately after. A couple hours in the FC and still no mention of allowance.
As she was getting ready to leave, I was debating about bringing up the allowance or not. I really like her and plan to see her again; so I went ahead and gave her what I was comfortable with. I'm wondering if I should have just said nothing and see if I lucked into finding someone who just wants to get taken out and fuck.
What's funny is I picked up her purse which startled her, but then she saw I was putting the allowance in it. I'm not sure if she was surprised by me grabbing the purse or the allowance. I didn't ask and just told her thanks for the wonderful time.
What would yall have done?[/QUOTE]I've had this same thing happen to me twice. The first time, just before I left I said "I guess I should give you your allowance". She said "oh, okay, I had forgotten all about that". The second girl it happened with, I just left without paying. With both girls I ended up in a regular arrangement for a few months. Always just laid $$ on the nightstand with the first one, never paid with the second one. As I look back, I could kick myself for ever bringing up an allowance with girl #1. Probably could have saved a bunch of money. I truly believe both girls were just horny and liked older guys but wanted to get laid nsa without friends their own age knowing about it.
Taking the Seeking Plunge.
After years of pro only mongering, I've decided its way past time to look at amateur options. I've been on seeking for a long while but just recently paid the fee. I was surprised how quickly you get attention. Within 12 hours a number of girls replied to my messages. The two below caught my eye. Has anyone seen either of these ladies before?
TheAquariuss.
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KatyKap98.
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