Some observations from a new bowl entrant
Targets:
18-22 - students.
Pros. Low sugar expectations, uninhibited sexually, willing to learn, eager to please, good bodies. In shape, often very impressed with a guy who at 40 is "not old" but successful and worldly.
Cons. Flaky, busy, hot / cold, less in common with me, cannot host, often not mobile, sometimes unrealistic expectations.
22-28 - educated, low-paying entry level office jobs or arts / architecture / entertainment type careers that pay little at that level, grad students.
Pros. Some have low sugar expectations, sexually experimental, appreciate attention, educated and intellectually stimulating, good bodies and in-shape.
Cons. Many are pros / UTR / escorts so need to wade through, many have high expectations and are looking for high rollers, some have issues (emotional, alcohol etc.).
30+ MILFs.
I have had very limited luck with this demographic but the sample size is low, they are really looking for that high roller and will likely keep looking, they also have high logistical issues with kids etc. So can be tough to actually meet.
SOPs:
Profile: need a decent profile, enough details to attract attention.
Pictures- need good pictures, need to privately exchange to build trust and make sure it is not a turnoff, I find this hard because I don't have a lot of selfies, and in the cold light of day many pics are not great if that is the first impression, have had to really look hard at my collection and find something non-traceable.
Contacts. Need a good text game, going back and forth, exchanging enough info, getting to M&G, etc. , I find you need to seal the deal relatively soon or it peters out, so a 3-4 week cycle. Week 1 - make initial contacts, late week 1/ early week 2 - build it up and make contact, week 3 - seal the deal,. No more than a week between building a strong connection through initial communication and meeting in person.
Hotels. I feel very uncomfortable in Motels, while they are cheap and relatively anonymous I prefer my standard hotels. I use points but parking and other charges add up. Girls get very impressed by the concierge level and lounge benefits.
Staying in character. After 6 months I am comfortable with my nickname and backstory. It is close enough to the truth but slightly blurry. I tell them I live in the city I work and am vague about where I work. Professional details close enough not exact. I have moved around quite a bit so it sounds exotic. Living in europe, asia, etc.
Time commitment: I invested some time initially, I intend to develop a girl I can see every week and 2 I can see every other week. I will have to periodically invest time to build the portfolio as girls drop out. If this cannot be done, I cannot sustain time commitment required. I have a CAMP and a AMP which are reliable but I don't like seeing new girls every few weeks and I hate motel 6.
Overall, this thread has been a goldmine of information and I am cautiously optimistic this approach will lead to long-term sustainable arrangements. However, there is a lot of flaking and time wasting.
Let us all preserve appearances.
They are not hookers, we are not johns.
Yet spare us still the Western joke.
When joss-sticks turn to scented smoke.
The little sins of little folk.
That worship at Kamakura—.
[QUOTE=Marlowe;2607652]Said the "hooker" that just asked for $$.[/QUOTE]