"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=CarmelFight;5338539]Nahh it's turned into a shitty shit show. I'm pretty much done with SA, I have one college cutie I'm planning to chill with tomorrow night and let's see if she's legit. If not I'm calling it quits for awhile such a waste of time, money is money but time you can never get back.[/QUOTE]I was thinking about giving SDM a try, I actually got lucky and met a chic off of there without paying. You can "wink" at ladies for free, if they have a membership and respond, you can chat without paying. There were actually 2 ladies I chatted with that way, met one, and could have met the other but she wanted a bit too much for her level of quality. I know it was a total luck of the draw though, since then I haven't had any hits in a few months.

EDIT: Forgot to ask, the numbers you posted, was that for just one month? Or longer?

[QUOTE=CarmelFight;5338539]Nahh it's turned into a shitty shit show. I'm pretty much done with SA, I have one college cutie I'm planning to chill with tomorrow night and let's see if she's legit. If not I'm calling it quits for awhile such a waste of time, money is money but time you can never get back.[/QUOTE]I just re-upped on SA about a week ago, and already got one under my belt, and a few leads. I've had 2-3 that I could have easily met, but just werent my style. Don't get me wrong, there are still loads of scammers and FMH (free money honey's, I'm coining the term now. LOL), but if you are willing to put in the work, there is gold to be had. I guess it all depends on what you consider "success" as well. If I can meet 2-3 good SB for a one month sign up, I consider that a win. I ride those (pun intended) as long as I can, or until I lose interest, then I sign up again. It is a grind though. If you are willing to put in the effort, and learn how to weed out the fakes, its great a few months a year.

[QUOTE=SoonerFan72;5339301]I was thinking about giving SDM a try, I actually got lucky and met a chic off of there without paying. You can "wink" at ladies for free, if they have a membership and respond, you can chat without paying. There were actually 2 ladies I chatted with that way, met one, and could have met the other but she wanted a bit too much for her level of quality. I know it was a total luck of the draw though, since then I haven't had any hits in a few months.

EDIT: Forgot to ask, the numbers you posted, was that for just one month? Or longer?[/QUOTE]I guess you missed where I said my experience over 3 months. There were points in that 3 months where I had messaged everyone I was interested in in the Atlanta area and I was basically waiting for more to join. Haha.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d51c0014-9300-449c-9db9-8f54cf57e977[/URL]

Two day old account, claims she's in an abusive relationship and needs money to cover a hotel room. Hard pass. Didn't even offer nude pics, I mean seriously?

Says current location is Cleveland, TN but she's been messaging me on and off all day, may just be fishing for anything within 100 miles.

[QUOTE=SoonerFan72;5339308]I just re-upped on SA about a week ago, and already got one under my belt, and a few leads. I've had 2-3 that I could have easily met, but just werent my style. Don't get me wrong, there are still loads of scammers and FMH (free money honey's, I'm coining the term now. LOL), but if you are willing to put in the work, there is gold to be had. I guess it all depends on what you consider "success" as well. If I can meet 2-3 good SB for a one month sign up, I consider that a win. I ride those (pun intended) as long as I can, or until I lose interest, then I sign up again. It is a grind though. If you are willing to put in the effort, and learn how to weed out the fakes, its great a few months a year.[/QUOTE]I'm with this guy, I've had some success on SA lately. Oh sure numerous misses and FMHs to be had (I'm so stealing / using that term). It can be a pain at times to filter out the crap but it gets easier.

In the past couple of months I've had 4 successes, 2 ghost me on the day of meeting, and lots of potential conversations that died off.

[QUOTE=Uga4041;5336177]Started strong also. Her story is changing now about when she is moving closer. Talking less about being able to meet in person. Chances of her being a legitimate in person option seem to be fizzling.[/QUOTE]We were supposed to meet tonight but she stopped responding to my messages and then blocked me on SA.

Please do NOT message Morganna42. She is well aware of this site and monitoring it and doesn't want to be contacted from anyone from this site. I inadvertently burned a few brothers by my review and I am sorry. Moderator please remove those posts asap.

[QUOTE=Duluthbc;5341794]We were supposed to meet tonight but she stopped responding to my messages and then blocked me on SA.[/QUOTE]Sounds correct. She removed me from.

Her Snapchat. I think she tries to lure people into thinking she will meet and has no intentions of meeting.

Anyone got intel on this one? Pretty sure she is a pro, DM me if necessrry.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/337be3c6-5ad5-470c-a651-734a0c6e54e3[/URL]

EDIT: Nevermind, see next post.

This older chic wants 500 PPM. I have nothing against older ladies, but I don't think she knows what her marker value is.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/337be3c6-5ad5-470c-a651-734a0c6e54e3[/URL]

[QUOTE=SoonerFan72;5343513]This older chic wants 500 PPM. I have nothing against older ladies, but I don't think she knows what her marker value is.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/337be3c6-5ad5-470c-a651-734a0c6e54e3[/URL][/QUOTE]Yep I messaged with her today. No interest in negotiating at all. I assume someone is paying it, but not me.

I joined SA and have 2 meetings tomorrow. One is hot, closer to my age and intelligent. The other one is young, might be fat, pics have obvious filters.

My question is, do I pay to meet? Is that customary? The young one is demanding $50 deposit before meeting. Older has not mentioned money, but I'm thinking I'm supposed to.

Sorry I'm new to this. Any help is greatly appreciated.

[QUOTE=BuckHead71;5344620]I joined SA and have 2 meetings tomorrow. One is hot, closer to my age and intelligent. The other one is young, might be fat, pics have obvious filters.

My question is, do I pay to meet? Is that customary? The young one is demanding $50 deposit before meeting. Older has not mentioned money, but I'm thinking I'm supposed to.

Sorry I'm new to this. Any help is greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]You don't need to pay for a meet and greet you can cover any expenses / cover their rides even if they are coming to you and the coffee or lunch or whatever but no money needs to be handed over. As far as the deposit come on man use your brain? If I asked you for 50 $ would you send it to me too? LOL like those are 100% scams never make a deposit that's like giving free money to people and if your that loaded pass it around to everyone in the forum because we all could use an extra 50 $ from somebody we never met LOL.

[QUOTE=BuckHead71;5344620]I joined SA and have 2 meetings tomorrow. One is hot, closer to my age and intelligent. The other one is young, might be fat, pics have obvious filters.

My question is, do I pay to meet? Is that customary? The young one is demanding $50 deposit before meeting. Older has not mentioned money, but I'm thinking I'm supposed to.

Sorry I'm new to this. Any help is greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]Never ever pay prior to meet. 99.999% it's a scam.

I personally never pay beyond the cost of the meal for just the meet and greet.

Good luck!

[QUOTE=BuckHead71;5344620]I joined SA and have 2 meetings tomorrow. One is hot, closer to my age and intelligent. The other one is young, might be fat, pics have obvious filters.

My question is, do I pay to meet? Is that customary? The young one is demanding $50 deposit before meeting. Older has not mentioned money, but I'm thinking I'm supposed to.

Sorry I'm new to this. Any help is greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]Are you meeting for lunch or play? Two different types of meetings and two different answers.