Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=DJrunner;6470589]Nice looking professional black male and I am coming up empty on SA. Started a conversation with one last week, very good dialogue yet she was only available after 8 which doesn't work. Other than that just a bunch of favorites from out of the country or another state. I've attempted this site a number times. I'm done after the month ends, just seems to be nothing there unless it's the color issue. I make good money yet this is just a time waster for me personally.[/QUOTE]Make sure your pics and profile are good. I agree that color could be a factor and white guys are preferred by many women, based on my experience I would say there is scope for non-white guys too. I'm brown and never had a problem connecting with women on Seeking.

[QUOTE=DJrunner;6470589]Nice looking professional black male and I am coming up empty on SA. Started a conversation with one last week, very good dialogue yet she was only available after 8 which doesn't work. Other than that just a bunch of favorites from out of the country or another state. I've attempted this site a number times. I'm done after the month ends, just seems to be nothing there unless it's the color issue. I make good money yet this is just a time waster for me personally.[/QUOTE]SA is definitely not what it used to be. They are all moving to another site that begins with an O. Girls are making bank on there by doing very little work and without having to go near a guy. It seems every attractive girl on instagram has a link to that site now. It's crazy.

Ran a search and didn't find anything but she's had her profile for 6 years, hoping someone knows something.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e8d82980-3162-4848-a968-df122f0d6c45[/URL]

[QUOTE=FriendlyKing;6468403]Brazilian girl with good English skills. She is easy to talk to and sweet. Unfortunately she isn't my type, a bit on the chubbier side. Good with DFK and BBBJ. She is looking for someone consistent to meet with. I wouldn't put her in the escort bucket and that's the reason I'm not sharing the direct link here but would be happy to share it with the senior members if you have a hard time finding her profile in SA. Just treat her well.[/QUOTE]Was there any discussion on price per meetup?

So far, I've been successful bro. I will be honest, for the amount of hours I've had to put in on the site, it's literally like a part time job. The breakdown would be about at least 21 hours of searching a week (3 hours daily), responding to emails at least 3 hours per week. If I catch a few, replying to get their numbers or Snap -- (Now I Always ask for both instead of just the phone number). I try & stay away fromm those that have WhatsApp. Their 80% of the time going to be fake.

Site filters are essential. And based on where you are, definitely look outside the state that's close (NH, Connecticut or Rhode Island). In the end, the main cities in those states aren't that far.

Now, in terms of the color issue. There are those that may instantly block you because of color. Then, there are those that will string you along for months. And will OPENLY admit they are Racists.

I found out after about 8 months of talking. Every time I setup a date night, she had car trouble, or wanted me to to send her some "gift" as in money to "entice" her to actually show up, or for gas money. I never did it. She was all talk. BUT, she always sent nake pics, naughty videos. She even has a TikTok. So the last time I tried to set something up, she wanted me to bring her flowers. I was like, flowers die & wants the point. I have a whole agenda planned out. I'm just being straight & real w / them.

So the time came for the date night, I was already there, and she texts me and goes through this whole gamut of B. S, "I don't know you", "I'm afraid", "my friend is willing to meet you" -- sending me pics of her friend. Then says the words, "I've never been with a man like you before". So, I quizzed her & drilled down to the details. It came down to color. The way her words came out, she definitlye basically said she was albeit a Racist. I never really dug into why she wasted so much time with me.

So, one day, she sent me her tiktok account, I watched the videos. One video basically said she was a Republican. (no offense politically to anyone). But, the things she was saying in her tiktok, and how I got to know her over 8 months. It all started coming together.

Well, so that if anyeone wants to try & jump on this one, here she is:

[URL]tiktok.com[/URL]/ at Sarahh187214.

Profile: SusieQ143.

Members. [URL]seeking.com[/URL]/ member / f0 af14 ad-bc82-4 a62-bf6 c-85 bf6 ed6 b816.

Note: right now it says kids 0 - but her previous profiles, it seems she has kids.

I'll be honest, to this day, I don't konw if she was saying these things to get out of the date, or come up w / an excuse because I tell'them I don't give gifts before meeting.

That's another thing that seems to have become so prevalent. They expecting that they deserve something prior to meeting up. Part of the problem is that whole "GIFT" section on the site. People seem to be sending gifts, thinking thta these girls are going to start talking w / them, or simply show up. From what I've seen, all they are doing is accepting the gifts, and there's NO loayalty, or guarantee that you will even get emailed back or even a thank you.

[QUOTE=DJrunner;6470589]Nice looking professional black male and I am coming up empty on SA. Started a conversation with one last week, very good dialogue yet she was only available after 8 which doesn't work. Other than that just a bunch of favorites from out of the country or another state. I've attempted this site a number times. I'm done after the month ends, just seems to be nothing there unless it's the color issue. I make good money yet this is just a time waster for me personally.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MBeamg;6472705]Was there any discussion on price per meetup?[/QUOTE]She asked for 400 and settled for 300.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6465556]Is it possible that they were too shy to bring it up and you took advantage of it? Or did you see them repeatedly? In my view not giving them an allowance is just shameful.[/QUOTE]In every case that I haven't paid an allowance it's because it never came up. I just assume some women aren't looking for money.

I don't know what kinds of girls you're seeing and how you're setting up these dates. Shouldn't you discuss allowance before meeting them? Or at least before the action starts? Otherwise, how do you know that after the festivities you will be able to meet their allowance expectation? Most of the girls I see never ask for it. I just give them the agreed gift at the end. Isn't that how it's supposed to work? Be a gentleman.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6473278]In every case that I haven't paid an allowance it's because it never came up. I just assume some women aren't looking for money.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6473278]In every case that I haven't paid an allowance it's because it never came up. I just assume some women aren't looking for money.[/QUOTE]I had one such experience, she was taken aback when I brought up the allowance topic. We had a great time but I had to end it because she became too emotionally attached. That is the biggest problem with arrangements with no money involved, the women treat it similar to vanilla dating.

I really need to do more research if you are actually telling me that you're having fun and not paying for pussy. That's all this site is about $$$ allowance PPM, c'Mon. Man I wasn't born yesterday. Maybe last week but not yesterday.

[QUOTE=FriendlyKing;6473366]I had one such experience, she was taken aback when I brought up the allowance topic. We had a great time but I had to end it because she became too emotionally attached. That is the biggest problem with arrangements with no money involved, the women treat it similar to vanilla dating.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6473325]I don't know what kinds of girls you're seeing and how you're setting up these dates. Shouldn't you discuss allowance before meeting them? Or at least before the action starts? Otherwise, how do you know that after the festivities you will be able to meet their allowance expectation? Most of the girls I see never ask for it. I just give them the agreed gift at the end. Isn't that how it's supposed to work? Be a gentleman.[/QUOTE]You're missing my point and I'm not sure how else to explain myself, but I'll try with a concrete example: one of the women I met on SA have been seeing for over a year had simply never even brought up the topic of allowance. Occasionally she asks me to pay for something, and I do. I've had one other like that as well. Last summer I saw a woman several times and she never asked for anything at all. I stopped seeing her because she was just kind of boring. There have been a couple others, and it's usually the same: they never brought it up, so I never brought it up. They repeatedly invited me over to fuck, so I suspect they weren't looking for money. Those that do bring it up get what they ask for.

Whats your offered allowance? What do you tell the women you are looking for, 2 hours, dinner, etc?

I can't believe that you can't get anywhere? Are you only looking for young '10's? Something seems out of whack? Most of them are about the benjies.

[QUOTE=DJrunner;6470589]Nice looking professional black male and I am coming up empty on SA. Started a conversation with one last week, very good dialogue yet she was only available after 8 which doesn't work. Other than that just a bunch of favorites from out of the country or another state. I've attempted this site a number times. I'm done after the month ends, just seems to be nothing there unless it's the color issue. I make good money yet this is just a time waster for me personally.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FriendlyKing;6471053]Make sure your pics and profile are good. I agree that color could be a factor and white guys are preferred by many women, based on my experience I would say there is scope for non-white guys too. I'm brown and never had a problem connecting with women on Seeking.[/QUOTE]I have been on SA I think starting in 2014. I have had very little problems finding women. I am a black guy and it rarely comes up. When it does it is black women. I have fucked some of the hottest women of all colors.

I like to say that I have done every ethnic group from SA / SB except Eskimo and I keep looking for that option but you probably have to go to Alaska for that. I find that African American women on SA / SB are sometimes looking for a little variety and may prefer white guys because of that. For whatever reason in my experience they have tended to be nicer and more accommodating on average than the white women. These sites are a wonderful barrel in which to shoot fish of all stripes though, no doubt about it.

[QUOTE=WhoDunnit;6473976]I have been on SA I think starting in 2014. I have had very little problems finding women. I am a black guy and it rarely comes up. When it does it is black women. I have fucked some of the hottest women of all colors.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DJrunner;6473679]I really need to do more research if you are actually telling me that you're having fun and not paying for pussy. That's all this site is about $$$ allowance PPM, c'Mon. Man I wasn't born yesterday. Maybe last week but not yesterday.[/QUOTE]Sir, it's a fact. Your birthday is pretty irrelevant in this context LOL. Some women in Seeking are looking for a life partner and you are surprised listening that women are having sex with no money involved. I'm pretty sure there are other men in this group with similar experiences.