Did anyone else get an email from SA about a possible Paid Media Opportunity? Apparently they want to interview people about their experiences on SA, and compensate them.
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Did anyone else get an email from SA about a possible Paid Media Opportunity? Apparently they want to interview people about their experiences on SA, and compensate them.
[QUOTE=Psnuse77;6056389]150 just to meet?[/QUOTE]150 for meet and lunch then 500 for the deed.
[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6064482]Did anyone else get an email from SA about a possible Paid Media Opportunity? Apparently they want to interview people about their experiences on SA, and compensate them.[/QUOTE]Saw that, not doing it.
[QUOTE=BamBam;6057448]Many years ago, when I first became a monger, there were people capturing photos, names and numbers and then posting them on various websites. They got my disguised photo, a burner number and my hobby name and email. The first site was called [URL]ExposingJohns.com[/URL]. They later migrated to [URL]PredatorAlert.com[/URL]. I was contacted multiple times at my email by a third party offering their services to force the site (s) to remove my info. They offered to guarantee results for only $2500.[/QUOTE]Sounds like extortion to me.
Extortion is a form of theft that occurs when an offender obtains money, property, or services from another person through coercion.
Blackmail, in contrast to extortion, is when the offender threatens to reveal information about a victim or his family members that is potentially embarrassing, socially damaging, or incriminating unless a demand for money, property, or services is met.
Blackmail is a felony. Extortion can be either a misdemeanor or a felony depending upon the value extorted. They are both serious crimes, but, as you said, it is difficult to catch perpetrators on the internet.
I have had civvies commit blackmail when they threatened to reveal a cheating relationship after I terminated it, to my SO and family, unless I continued in the relationship. Only once did a SB do something similar. She demanded a large payment when I dumped her and texted me that her uncle was the Chief of Police in her city and she would tell him all about me being a SD if I didn't pay up. In all of these instances the females were dumb enough to do this by text. I called and gently reminded them that leaving written evidence of a crime was probably not a good idea. Hell may have no fury like a woman scorned, but the thought of incarceration can have a wonderfully chilling effect.
Forget her previous username, but a couple of us reported on her a few months ago. Petite, spinner type body. Reasonable donation and hosts in her apartment in The Fan. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/88182637-c0e1-4bfa-ae50-6ae60d27872c[/URL].
[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;6069057]Sounds like extortion to me.
Extortion is a form of theft that occurs when an offender obtains money, property, or services from another person through coercion.
Blackmail, in contrast to extortion, is when the offender threatens to reveal information about a victim or his family members that is potentially embarrassing, socially damaging, or incriminating unless a demand for money, property, or services is met.
[/QUOTE]Thanks! Useful explanation!
BAM.
I just signed up to SA.
Is there a users guide posted around here somewhere?
Where do I find the down low on how this works?
[QUOTE=RayWashington;6071282]I just signed up to SA.
Is there a users guide posted around here somewhere?
Where do I find the down low on how this works?[/QUOTE]Yeah, I recommend reading through the wiki and posts in the SLF Reddit forum:
[URL]https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/[/URL]
Lotta good info there.
Also, I collected an FAQ of useful info from this thread a few years back:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ
I carpet bombed the site for youngish women, fairly limited to quality. I have messaged with a bunch, have texted w / a few, and gotten pix exchanges with many. No nudes, but IDCare.
30's MILF, works at a downtown law firm. Into a fantasy, wants to not talk to me or see me until we meet in person. Extensive texts, very detailed discussion, quite intense chemistry. Wants to meet as soon as I am wheels down, has basically already offered / planned a sleepover.
20's Ivy grad, dirty as they come, innocent looks though. Is all into the age gap, again extensive messaging, it could be super memorable, but she could also flake. Also didn't want to talk yet.
30's grad student – gorgeous blond curly hair, erudite, we've spoken and are planning on an Asian fusion dinner.
30's sub, pool girl – claims she wrote the Kama Sutra, again, doesn't want a lot of texting in advance, we'll also see if she delivers when I am there.
21 YO college girl, brags that the 3 guys she has seen off SA have been 30's, 40's, 50's. I asked why she likes older, she is begging off until we meet to say.
30 YO corporate employed sub / ex-fetish model – spoken, super up, have no doubt she is DTF, just have to get there and make a plan.
I have not negotiated anything about $ w / them, I don't want to commit until I've actually met them. Given I have a room, I could go to 500 and be about even w / my usual. I have gotten some girls proposing 700,800 on the site, I just stop responding or tell them they'll get in trouble if they do that.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d23015ae-7979-4279-bd94-9ff766977404[/URL]
Did anyone ever meet this hottie? Texted and snapped with her, but there was always a reason why she couldn't meet -- no car, no job, nosy roommate.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6073936]I carpet bombed the site for youngish women, fairly limited to quality. I have messaged with a bunch, have texted w / a few, and gotten pix exchanges with many. No nudes, but IDCare.
30's MILF, works at a downtown law firm. Into a fantasy, wants to not talk to me or see me until we meet in person. Extensive texts, very detailed discussion, quite intense chemistry. Wants to meet as soon as I am wheels down, has basically already offered / planned a sleepover.
20's Ivy grad, dirty as they come, innocent looks though. Is all into the age gap, again extensive messaging, it could be super memorable, but she could also flake. Also didn't want to talk yet.
30's grad student gorgeous blond curly hair, erudite, we've spoken and are planning on an Asian fusion dinner.
30's sub, pool girl claims she wrote the Kama Sutra, again, doesn't want a lot of texting in advance, we'll also see if she delivers when I am there.
21 YO college girl, brags that the 3 guys she has seen off SA have been 30's, 40's, 50's. I asked why she likes older, she is begging off until we meet to say.
30 YO corporate employed sub / ex-fetish model spoken, super up, have no doubt she is DTF, just have to get there and make a plan.
I have not negotiated anything about $ w / them, I don't want to commit until I've actually met them. Given I have a room, I could go to 500 and be about even w / my usual. I have gotten some girls proposing 700,800 on the site, I just stop responding or tell them they'll get in trouble if they do that.[/QUOTE]Holy shit! When you go on a trip you don't fuck around! Let us know how all these lovelies panned out. Is it too much to ask for pics? I am a visual guy and have shared many pics of my SBs. But I understand that not everyone is into the pic sharing thing.
[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;6075057]Holy shit! When you go on a trip you don't fuck around! Let us know how all these lovelies panned out. Is it too much to ask for pics? I am a visual guy and have shared many pics of my SBs. But I understand that not everyone is into the pic sharing thing.[/QUOTE]These aren't the only ones I've continued to message with either. I actually have a little problem when I am on seeking, I just can't resist that buffet of pussy. So I message too many, probably, I can't keep up.
Certainly one of those will flake, get her period, whatever. I do want to have some backups. However, I will take a pile of benjies in case it all works out.
[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;6075057]Holy shit! When you go on a trip you don't fuck around! Let us know how all these lovelies panned out. Is it too much to ask for pics? I am a visual guy and have shared many pics of my SBs. But I understand that not everyone is into the pic sharing thing.[/QUOTE]It all seems silly to me.
Let's break it down. You're visiting a town for a few days. You invest literally hours and hours into pretending you are talking your way into a girls panties that really just want some cash. Why not just hit up some hookers that already know that's what they are? I can see investing the time for your hometown, but not on a one-off trip.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;6075996]It all seems silly to me.
Let's break it down. You're visiting a town for a few days. You invest literally hours and hours into pretending you are talking your way into a girls panties that really just want some cash. Why not just hit up some hookers that already know that's what they are? I can see investing the time for your hometown, but not on a one-off trip.[/QUOTE]I think what we are seeing here is that trying to discuss Ferraris on a Chevrolet enthusiast forum tends to create a lot of confusion among the Chevrolet fans.
I assume you've never actually been involved in the sugar lifestyle (or only have experiences where you met pros through sugar sites), thus don't understand the differences between an SB and a career hooker?
Looking at your post count, I'm guessing if that's the case after all this time any attempts to explain it now would be futile, so I don't intend to waste any time trying. If the value of your time is such that you don't mind wasting it, then have at it.
Used that wording. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0369ef5c-9be5-4743-92aa-77bd7ddf7edc[/URL].
"A 2-4 k monthly allowance, only 2 sex per month, also include trips / gifts / shopping and dinners!
Apparently I'm a broke cheapskate because.
"I do have 3 or 4 offers at those prices".
And then she lays into me for saying "you only bang 2 x a month?" Guess only she can use sex work language.
I have posted before about using a girl's wishlist to get some insight. Here's a little poll. If the POT has a strap-on as one of the sex toys on her wish list, would you contact her?
My answer, I would move right along.
Howdy RVA Mongers, I come from the very very dead NYC SB thread. Posted in there about dusting off my seeking account and getting back in the bowl this fall and figured I would also share experiences with the more lively crowd over here.
I am roughly 24 hours and about a dozen or so phone number exchanges in so far, and I have landed a date with a reasonable POT for tomorrow night. And of course she is from CT. But, she is supposedly driving an hour each way and plans to stay overnight at my place, all for the price of $200 + dinner / drinks at a very mid range restaurant. Seems a bit TGTBT in some ways and I still feel like there is a decent chance she will find an excuse to flake within the next 24 hours, but I will report back my results afterwards regardless.
Then there is POT #2 who wants to "watch Seinfeld and cuddle" Saturday late morning / early afternoon, possibly within just an hour or 2 of parting ways with POT #1. We have not had any discussions of sugar yet, so always the chance that is a disqualifier, but I'm keeping my mouth shut unless she forces me to show my hand.
Curious if I will bat 2/2, strikeout and go 0/2, or land somewhere in the middle. Now I remember how addicting this game is.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6073936]I carpet bombed the site for youngish women, fairly limited to quality. I have messaged with a bunch, have texted w / a few....[/QUOTE]I've done similar to this for several cities, and it's worth the time and effort! For the one-off trips, there's a bit of fun involved. For the places I go regularly or semi-regularly, I can usually see someone several times. It's also worked well for my Europe trips.
[QUOTE=OliverNP;6076329]I think what we are seeing here is that trying to discuss Ferraris on a Chevrolet enthusiast forum tends to create a lot of confusion among the Chevrolet fans.
I assume you've never actually been involved in the sugar lifestyle (or only have experiences where you met pros through sugar sites), thus don't understand the differences between an SB and a career hooker?
Looking at your post count, I'm guessing if that's the case after all this time any attempts to explain it now would be futile, so I don't intend to waste any time trying. If the value of your time is such that you don't mind wasting it, then have at it.[/QUOTE]In fact I've had some great SB relations that have lasted for years. I quit Seeking a long time ago because it's such a shit show. My point was, if I'm visiting a city for a couple of days and want some pussy, I'm not going to spend hours chatting, M&G'ing just to get laid.
If you want to think that's a Ferrari then have at it. I'm sure it's good for the ego. I'd argue people that think that have never been in a Ferrari. It is mildly interesting how mongers have convinced themselves they're somehow "superior" when they pay a girl from seeking for pussy instead of "pros".
[QUOTE=RogerOver;6077527]In fact I've had some great SB relations that have lasted for years. I quit Seeking a long time ago because it's such a shit show. My point was, if I'm visiting a city for a couple of days and want some pussy, I'm not going to spend hours chatting, M&G'ing just to get laid.
If you want to think that's a Ferrari then have at it. I'm sure it's good for the ego. I'd argue people that think that have never been in a Ferrari. It is mildly interesting how mongers have convinced themselves they're somehow "superior" when they pay a girl from seeking for pussy instead of "pros".[/QUOTE]It doesn't take hours of chatting to score a decent SB, but the ones that will just meet and fuck for an agreed on cash exchange are simply pros. The subjective part comes in with whether one believes a "less traveled" pussy (a lesser number of random dicks have been in it) is a higher quality pussy. Personally I prefer girls that are somewhat selective and want some connection with their SD -- building that can take a bit of conversation (which I can't imagine a reason to be averse to unless one is unskilled at it).
More subjectivity here, but to me there's nothing sexy about putting your cock somewhere another dude unloaded his wad in it an hour earlier. If someone is willing to settle for that, then yeah you can just dial an escort and not be bothered with establishing a connection. If you want fresher pussy though, you'll have to try a bit harder and invest some time with the girl.
[QUOTE=ErnestLl;6076628]Used that wording. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0369ef5c-9be5-4743-92aa-77bd7ddf7edc[/URL].
"A 2-4 k monthly allowance, only 2 sex per month, also include trips / gifts / shopping and dinners!
Apparently I'm a broke cheapskate because.
"I do have 3 or 4 offers at those prices".
And then she lays into me for saying "you only bang 2 x a month?" Guess only she can use sex work language.[/QUOTE]Whenever I hear a POT use that kind of reference, I usually remind them that there are men who need to pay that kind of outrageous rate. And then ask if they'd rather leave the encounter with a smile on their face and a fair allowance in their pocket, or have sold their soul and had to close their eyes for 2 hours.
[QUOTE=TakesALicking;6078299]Whenever I hear a POT use that kind of reference, I usually remind them that there are men who need to pay that kind of outrageous rate. And then ask if they'd rather leave the encounter with a smile on their face and a fair allowance in their pocket, or have sold their soul and had to close their eyes for 2 hours.[/QUOTE]"you really think some 22 year old really WANTS to have sex with you?
Having a "price" and having sex with someone JUST for the $$ is the very definition of a prostitute, which she was adamant she was not.
[QUOTE=OliverNP;6076329]I think what we are seeing here is that trying to discuss Ferraris on a Chevrolet enthusiast forum tends to create a lot of confusion among the Chevrolet fans.
I assume you've never actually been involved in the sugar lifestyle (or only have experiences where you met pros through sugar sites), thus don't understand the differences between an SB and a career hooker?
Looking at your post count, I'm guessing if that's the case after all this time any attempts to explain it now would be futile, so I don't intend to waste any time trying. If the value of your time is such that you don't mind wasting it, then have at it.[/QUOTE]I agree. SBs tend to be a high quality lay. Not always, of course, but that's the aim. And high quality in this instance tends to involve time commitment. If you just want some quick action with little effort, there are always, SWs, Escorts and UTRs.
[QUOTE=OliverNP;6076329]I think what we are seeing here is that trying to discuss Ferraris on a Chevrolet enthusiast forum tends to create a lot of confusion among the Chevrolet fans.
I assume you've never actually been involved in the sugar lifestyle (or only have experiences where you met pros through sugar sites), thus don't understand the differences between an SB and a career hooker?
Looking at your post count, I'm guessing if that's the case after all this time any attempts to explain it now would be futile, so I don't intend to waste any time trying. If the value of your time is such that you don't mind wasting it, then have at it.[/QUOTE]I agree with everything you said but would urge you to consider the source when responding. Sometimes there is a (negative) reason for a high posting count.
BAM.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6077043]I have posted before about using a girl's wishlist to get some insight. Here's a little poll. If the POT has a strap-on as one of the sex toys on her wish list, would you contact her?
My answer, I would move right along.[/QUOTE]I also use the wish list for insight. It sometimes gives an indication of how the girl leans sexually. I also keep some Daisy and Flower bomb perfume around as a getting acquainted gift (after the first MnG. I am not wasting that much on a gift for just a POT.) The wish list tells me which one they might prefer. As for the strap-on, if I think it is used for anal play on men, I probably shy away but they are also sometimes used in lesbian play. Some bi- or gay girls might have such. If that were the case, I would want to explore further. I almost never use a single criteria to rule someone out. Well, except maybe weight. Hollywood Guy, my guiding spirit in all things Sugar, says he immediately rules out women with a septum ring but even he will admit he makes selective exceptions. Just my thoughts.
BAM.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6073936]I carpet bombed the site for youngish women, fairly limited to quality. I have messaged with a bunch, have texted w / a few, and gotten pix exchanges with many. No nudes, but IDCare.
30's MILF, works at a downtown law firm. Into a fantasy, wants to not talk to me or see me until we meet in person. Extensive texts, very detailed discussion, quite intense chemistry. Wants to meet as soon as I am wheels down, has basically already offered / planned a sleepover.
20's Ivy grad, dirty as they come, innocent looks though. Is all into the age gap, again extensive messaging, it could be super memorable, but she could also flake. Also didn't want to talk yet.
30's grad student gorgeous blond curly hair, erudite, we've spoken and are planning on an Asian fusion dinner.
30's sub, pool girl claims she wrote the Kama Sutra, again, doesn't want a lot of texting in advance, we'll also see if she delivers when I am there.
21 YO college girl, brags that the 3 guys she has seen off SA have been 30's, 40's, 50's. I asked why she likes older, she is begging off until we meet to say.
30 YO corporate employed sub / ex-fetish model spoken, super up, have no doubt she is DTF, just have to get there and make a plan.
I have not negotiated anything about $ w / them, I don't want to commit until I've actually met them. Given I have a room, I could go to 500 and be about even w / my usual. I have gotten some girls proposing 700,800 on the site, I just stop responding or tell them they'll get in trouble if they do that.[/QUOTE]I have done the same. I travel exclusively for work and have had good luck all over the world. It is a lot of work tho, and a whole bunch of "first dates" can get expensive. But, it is a hell of a good time. Good luck!!
[QUOTE=HawkJock617;6082375]I have done the same. I travel exclusively for work and have had good luck all over the world. It is a lot of work tho, and a whole bunch of "first dates" can get expensive. But, it is a hell of a good time. Good luck!![/QUOTE]So, the 30's MILF, works at a downtown law firm.
I met her my first night in town. Overall, not positive, sadly. Because she left out a couple of key things, including vaping in bed. IK it isn't smoking, but it still repels me. She did spend the night, oddly, but.
I had a crazy night on the town / in bed the second night w / the 30 YO sub / fetish model. I might see her again before I go.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6082636]So, the 30's MILF, works at a downtown law firm.
I met her my first night in town. Overall, not positive, sadly. Because she left out a couple of key things, including vaping in bed. IK it isn't smoking, but it still repels me. She did spend the night, oddly, but.
I had a crazy night on the town / in bed the second night w / the 30 YO sub / fetish model. I might see her again before I go.[/QUOTE]Links so we can live vicariously?!
I have had a free SA account for a while but keep getting scared off of upgrading and seeing someone. I find it to be a bit pricey for the membership and not sure I have the time to invest in a bunch of M&Gs. Anyways, I think I'm ready to take the plunge and this one caught my eye. Just wondering if anyone else has seen her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0fe181ee-d37f-40ef-a1a4-89c00250d77f[/URL]#.
[QUOTE=RomanRich;6083908]I have had a free SA account for a while but keep getting scared off of upgrading and seeing someone. I find it to be a bit pricey for the membership and not sure I have the time to invest in a bunch of M&Gs. Anyways, I think I'm ready to take the plunge and this one caught my eye. Just wondering if anyone else has seen her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0fe181ee-d37f-40ef-a1a4-89c00250d77f[/URL]#.[/QUOTE]I believe I know who that is and I've seen her. PM me for details.
[QUOTE=BamBam;6081563]I agree with everything you said but would urge you to consider the source when responding. Sometimes there is a (negative) reason for a high posting count.
BAM.[/QUOTE]Source is important. Sometimes a high post count is just people pushing wishful thinking and massaging their ego. Look for less research and stalking, for people actually sticking their dick in a chick.
Just curious if anyone has had any experiences with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/75363bff-2b8d-4ebd-be72-3db9bacc8e38
[QUOTE=ErnestLl;6074614][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d23015ae-7979-4279-bd94-9ff766977404[/URL]
Did anyone ever meet this hottie? Texted and snapped with her, but there was always a reason why she couldn't meet -- no car, no job, nosy roommate.[/QUOTE]Did anything ever come of this? I'm chatting with her and she says has no job. I questioned her location since she says in Roanoke but has a Richmond #. How does a 29-30 why / o not work, unless they're a pro or living off sugar daddy's. Has two profiles on SA at the moment. Something fishy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f83fc6a6-6921-414a-88ee-2d7c6db03a74[/URL]
Started texting, she is slow is responding doesn't know what she is looking for.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/2a2cca0a-3852-4e89-8bcf-78f6084f5531[/URL]
Wants $$ upfront so she can meet. Pass.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/4f219b57-4d53-4fda-8d8a-e79761526ce3[/URL]
Chatting for a week doesn't want to meet until she feels comfortable itseems which I don't have a clue but she wants help LOL.
So I passed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/9b174be7-5fd1-4f2b-a4f8-a22c7fe8c23c[/URL]
Needs money upfront to know you are real she asked to send some money to do nails / wax LOL.
And planning to next this weekend will update.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/0f1c99fc-5546-40b9-9887-3bc19b1cf6a5[/URL]
Want $350 per meet.
Please share your experience if you have seen anyone. Thanks.
[QUOTE=BobbyRichmond;6086460]Just curious if anyone has had any experiences with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/75363bff-2b8d-4ebd-be72-3db9bacc8e38[/QUOTE]Chatted with her quite a bit on her first foray, but never got to meet. Lives between sCville iand RVA. Cute, but only saw her face in one pic.
Crickets from her this go round.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/fef36503-8e22-4573-97d7-3f518df75741[/URL]
Anyone meet this hottie?
[QUOTE=Vince2000;6087331][URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/fef36503-8e22-4573-97d7-3f518df75741[/URL]
Anyone meet this hottie?[/QUOTE]The links you're posting are for your message box on SA, not the users profile. The first link in your first post is to a profile, all the others are to your SA inbox.
[QUOTE=KrustyDawg7;6086843]Did anything ever come of this? I'm chatting with her and she says has no job. I questioned her location since she says in Roanoke but has a Richmond #. How does a 29-30 why / o not work, unless they're a pro or living off sugar daddy's. Has two profiles on SA at the moment. Something fishy.[/QUOTE]She says no car, no job. But asked if I could meet in L'burg or Farmville (I'm in Cville). She said she could handle the room (semi pro set up).
I said that wouldn't work, but if she could get to Cville I'd get the room nd give her $400 for two rounds in the afternoon and another $400 for two rounds in the morning.
She said -- now get this -- "This is why we've never met. You expect too much."
[QUOTE=ErnestLl;6083027]Links so we can live vicariously?![/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/102f60b6-f6b2-45f6-a07d-73117dda318d[/URL]
I didn't want to post until I left town. And please, don't harass her, she's a sweet girl, I could see getting together with her again if logistics permitted.
BookLoverrr: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5c9d44cb-2def-459b-ab6e-7914ef3f0c1e[/URL]. Ready to meet; can't host; want's $400 ppm.
Angel3 xa: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3673d0d9-9018-43d7-b107-96bb735fc6b2[/URL]. Won't give out text # without knowing exactly what I'm looking for and expectations. Very insistent on that.
Humorous ItGirl: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15f3e740-86d6-4b8b-9395-12903e7f8f1f[/URL]. Chatting; seems willing to meet but mentioned wants to "take things slow."