Reaching out to old SBs or potentials
I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.
Kinda depressed I didn't induldge enough during the peak of SA
I was too young and not established back then. Still I think of what could have been. When I finally did get on I had women (incl. Asians) discounting themselves because I was relatively young. Never coming back LOL.
Sugar Bowl Status and Advice
I had some thoughts I would like to add. Before doing so, I wish to credit Hollywood Guy. I learned most of my skills / technique from following the advice he shared starting back when he was active on the Richmond thread. Those were truly in the early days.
First, the Bowl is past its' peak but it is still the best way to find fresh young GFE action. The early days were "early" days. Everybody was new at it. Most especially the girls and they had much different expectations than today. All the nasty action was over on Backpage, Craigs List, etc. Today, those people are muddying the Bowl and scaring away some innocent young things we might have found earlier. There are now Reddit, FB, YT and TT forums and videos offering women advice on how to use the Bowl. Even if the numbers rebound, the innocence will not.
Second, people who are new even then complained about lack of success. It was always thus and thus it always will be. It takes practice, patience and discipline to achieve success in the Bowl. However, with those virtues and some game, *anyone* can get laid off the Bowl. To start, newbies need to learn to avoid getting "buck fever" over the first few thirst traps you see. Too many guys zoom in on the first few profiles (often even a single profile) that look likely. Most of the time these are actually scammers or, if real, out of their league/GPS. HG has always said: it's a numbers game. Never, never, ever! Get too invested in any one profile. Cast the net wide then cast it wider. Try A-B testing different approaches, different personal pictures and profile language. Keep chasing even after you build a rotation. Women move on or you get bored; you need to stay in practice.
Next, be prepared to overpay in the beginning. Be prepared to lower your standards in the beginning. Look at some of the wisdom posted by the high count posters on this thread. Sugar babies aren't like escorts. They tend to very selective and ask to be wooed. They rarely are seeing multiple guys in a week or month or at the same time. (It happens but that is not what I consider a true Sugar experience.) When you approach the highest quality profiles, you very likely will find yourself in competition with guys who have far more experience. It will tough to outperform them in gaining a chick's interest. Therefor, you must either offer a higher allowance or aim for someone not getting as much attention. Don't get discouraged.
Final tip, remember that it's a numbers game. Just work the numbers and ignore rejection or failure. Women can smell and despise desperation; they are attracted to confidence and indifference. If you understand that, like a city bus, another profile is always coming along, you can avoid the former and use the latter.
BAM
