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I met up with an sb a few times then out of nowhere told me she is burnt out on sex work and sugaring. I was wondering if you guys heard this and if they ever come back to sex work? How would you guys deal with someone like this? Ignore her? Block her? Keep it open ended so she can come back?
[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6619550]I met up with an sb a few times then out of nowhere told me she is burnt out on sex work and sugaring. I was wondering if you guys heard this and if they ever come back to sex work? How would you guys deal with someone like this? Ignore her? Block her? Keep it open ended so she can come back?[/QUOTE]I have had multiple girls that I hadn't seen in a while for one reason or another hit me up wanting to get together again. If you want to see her again keep the lines open.
[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6619550]I met up with an sb a few times then out of nowhere told me she is burnt out on sex work and sugaring. I was wondering if you guys heard this and if they ever come back to sex work? How would you guys deal with someone like this? Ignore her? Block her? Keep it open ended so she can come back?[/QUOTE]That's not really a sugar baby anymore. And can be considered a pro or UTR at this point. Sounds like she's seeing multiple guys as well.
While she probably won't call herself a Pro or UTR and use the nicer term sugarbaby as her label. That's technically what she is now. If the price is right with her and you like what she offers in the sack. Then it's up to you if you want to keep seeing her or just keep communications open for the future.
The only time I've had a girl refer to it as something in terms as "sex work" is when negotiating in the beginning. Where some girls, who are completely fresh / new to arrangements might say they feel like a hooker or pro if they take money for sex. Then I discuss with them not to see it that way and just see it as help. Most of the time that convinces them to give it a shot and start the arrangement with me. But a few still can't see themselves doing it and it's a no go. I just move on the next girl.
[QUOTE=Lexx1;6619777]That's not really a sugar baby anymore. And can be considered a pro or UTR at this point. Sounds like she's seeing multiple guys as well.
While she probably won't call herself a Pro or UTR and use the nicer term sugarbaby as her label. That's technically what she is now. If the price is right with her and you like what she offers in the sack. Then it's up to you if you want to keep seeing her or just keep communications open for the future.
The only time I've had a girl refer to it as something in terms as "sex work" is when negotiating in the beginning. Where some girls, who are completely fresh / new to arrangements might say they feel like a hooker or pro if they take money for sex. Then I discuss with them not to see it that way and just see it as help. Most of the time that convinces them to give it a shot and start the arrangement with me. But a few still can't see themselves doing it and it's a no go. I just move on the next girl.[/QUOTE]The quintessential SB in the way that many new SD's would like to define them (a first timer, or at least monogamous), barely exists after the age of 20 and sometimes much younger. And if they do fall into that practically unicorn status, I prefer to tell them they are getting an allowance for being a good little girl. But honestly I have rarely had that conversation in the way that you describe it. But I have had a few flake on me mid-date for the reasons you allude to. Not even a HJ.
Also I just bought a snappy new euro suv, but as I like to low ball I will continue to pick them up in one of my older model cars. Not that I have much dough anyway. But very easy for a young girl to confuse a normal car payment with someone that might have a few dollars. Although none of them would confuse my humble abode as anyone with serious money.
So never flash the car, the cash, the house, the watch or the job. I always describe myself as just a hard working guy. Code for struggling a bit in these bidenomic times, because no girl even cares how much money you have, only how much you are willing to spend. I have been a jeans and t-shirt guy my entire life. Game is all about communication, nothing more.
[QUOTE=Christophe1;6619237]Thanks for the incite. I always felt stupid sitting on the computer for hours trying to hook up with women who wanted some form of transactional relationship while I was missing out on life. Then I realized it is much easier to meet women out and about in the real world. I can take my computer anywhere, like the beach, coffee shop, even on top of Runyon Canyon, and hand out In and Out burgers to the hikers as they pass by. Maybe set up a table in the early morning and give out the Krispy Kremes. It is actually easier to meet hot women this way since most guys aren't approaching them. Online a woman is going to treat you like an ATM and you compete with lots of losers who may have more money than you. Having grown up with Hollywooders the question many of them had was are we REAL friends or is it just about the money? I guess reality has become the web world, and no one wants to be their true self covering their skin with tattoos, dying their hair, filling themselves with toy parts and buying their encounters. The hand we've been dealt.[/QUOTE]Pretty challenging to find genuine partners nowadays chris; esp on top of jaded chicks / brainwashed with materialistic characters that's blinding them into gps tactics (gold shovelers). Its more damaging on our end if we try wasting our time vs them chasing us; so much ego games esp when they show their true colors before the prenups LOL.
[QUOTE=Avocat;6618813]It's a lot of work swimming in the sugar bowl. The SB's deluge you, but it's nice, a little like the strippers in the club stopping by. Some of these girls have game, others are just "wan to get together tonight? My number is _ In LA every single girl wanted $1,000! Crazy, before Covid was the last time I did this and it was $300 for most and supermodels wanted $500. I think I have a little some game and even so, that didn't work. Although there was an Asian (Grace) with GPS but was hot, but not worth $1 K.
I think I found one for tomorrow, but this shit is tiring![/QUOTE]This chick is ok hot borderline; but if many guys mrsp on her is 1 k, theres a good chance she'll jack it to 2 k soon cas she thinks enough peeps will fall for the pussy.
[QUOTE=HeyDuhman;6612247]I've met several girls on SA who actually do have profiles on rover.
Go for it![/QUOTE]Sounds reliable vs other common themed sites; less chance of bugs and fishy plots respectfully.
[QUOTE=IronClad999;6620000]Sounds reliable vs other common themed sites; less chance of bugs and fishy plots respectfully.[/QUOTE]Ummmmmm, Huh?
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6619491]I met prettyprincessxxx a year ago for dinner, I gave her a small allowance for that platonic date. She insisted on bringing a friend and I relented because she's fantastically gorgeous. Never heard from her again.
Messaging her now, she doesn't remember me from my new profile (fine by me). She wants $350 for platonic date, I couldn't talk her down for anything. . . I've already learned my lesson.
If anyone wants to spend $350 to likely get nowhere with a gorgeous gal, let us know if you can get past the rinser stage!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d9f49ec0-6cda-458a-8d2a-928b8a3cc31d[/URL][/QUOTE]Based on her photos, she looks like she's catfishing for guys to spend money on her, but she isn't going to put out in return which is a waste of time and resources.
[QUOTE=AMonger1;6601967]Anyone else getting "I'm surprised you don't have someone Dominant in your life" screened over your incoming / outgoing messages in their inbox? Archived inbox messages are normal tho.
Are they watching me?[/QUOTE]Clear your inbox.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f4faa20-57b9-4a27-b1bd-f0f89fc457d2[/URL]
Just saw her. Said she's leaving back to vegas tomorrow. BBFS 300 no cip. No kissing, no bjs unless covered.
Will ask for the cash first but then bounce right after you nut.
Why I like giving the cash after the date. Every time I've given it before they try to bounce asap. She was kinda hot tho with a nice body but still. At least it wasn't a rob I suppose. Just robbed of my second nut.
[QUOTE=BigBear818;6620609]Based on her photos, she looks like she's catfishing for guys to spend money on her, but she isn't going to put out in return which is a waste of time and resources.[/QUOTE]Why I don't believe in paid meet and greets. There's no guarantee of ever moving forward and they can just keep stringing you along. Plus many do that as a side hustle with no intentions of ever doing anything. If you got the time and resources to blow then sure. I know I don't. If they got "I'm not an escort / prostitute / etc" on their profile, chances are they're just lookin for paid meet and greets.
She's prob attractive enough to get that tho and obvs has gotten it so kudos to her. When they're attractive enough then they can get away with shit like that or really high asks such as 1 k+. I'm sure most of us would have no qualms dropping racks for your favorite celeb crush who we'd consider a 10. The worst are average to below average girls thinking they can get or deserve the same offers / treatments as 10's because they read some post on Reddit. That's when I consider it gps. Then again we're living in a time where every girl thinks she's a 10 nowadays. Maybe that's why there's so much gps going around.
I just try to stick to my guns with 2-400. Sure I may not be getting the hottest all the time but at least its what Id consider fair. Of course Ive offered higher at times, but thats cuz theyre attractive enough to me or offering other things such as an overnight or something. I kinda have this thing where if they have min 25k+ followers or verified then I offer minimum 500 cuz I get a kick out of banging some hot insta model knowing that hundreds of simps are in her dms. Highest follower count Ive banged was almost half a mil. Got a couple semi famous insta models on the line but theyre all asking 500 minimum. Its kinda expected tho when they reach a certain point of fame.
Stick to your guns and don’t get discouraged my fellow kings. Don’t let these hoes walk all over u, discourage, or talk shit calling u broke and stuff. Obvs they’re the broke ones if they’re on the site and we’re the ones paying. The market is competitive so unless they’re a 9-10 which 95% ain’t, they gotta learn to compete or don’t get seen. And of course don’t EVER pay before ever meeting. No deposits or online bs, not even 5 bucks for “gas,” cuz you’re just asking to get robbed, and you will be. I wouldn’t even give Emily ratajkowski 20 bucks for gas prior to meeting. Just saying.
Someone was asking about this. Personally I can not read more than one story without puking.
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[QUOTE=AMonger1;6626697][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f4faa20-57b9-4a27-b1bd-f0f89fc457d2[/URL]
Just saw her. Said she's leaving back to vegas tomorrow. BBFS 300 no cip. No kissing, no bjs unless covered.
Will ask for the cash first but then bounce right after you nut.
Why I like giving the cash after the date. Every time I've given it before they try to bounce asap. She was kinda hot tho with a nice body but still. At least it wasn't a rob I suppose. Just robbed of my second nut.[/QUOTE]Being a little older (and wiser)? I never pay upfront... ever.
I am a one and done kind of guy. But as I can last any length of time I occasionally get a laugh when some pro starts pushing me to nut after 15 or 20 minutes. 45 minutes is my minimum and I'll go the distance if she's down. But I always get a little smirk going when they realize they are gonna have to work for it, knowing there could be some drama if they don't. And If I want a second nut it's only gonna be with a girl I am truly hanging with or doing an overnite.
But in the chatting stage I always tell them my allowance is for an hour of their time. So yeah, I'm a clock watcher.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6613684]Ace since you can't' get PM, I want to ask you here, about an escort you posted about, Colette, big tits. I have met someone who might meet that definition, but on a sugar site. A 40 YO MILF. I don't want to pay steak prices for hamburger, YK? Do you think it could be the same woman?[/QUOTE]You could have met me halfway by telling me her SA username or profile link. I doubt we are talking about the same woman. I am not going to post her face pics but you can check my Colette's massive boobs.
If you still are unable to identify her, I suggest you hire an FBI informant.
Federal Boob Inspector.