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[QUOTE=Chupacabra;6615052]I dated a self-absorbed, brain-dead (but insanely hot) 19 year old once. The biggest problem for me was having to interact with her for more than 30 minutes. Clothes, TV stars, how her friends or family were mean to her that day, just continual asinine nonsense and she never shut up. I usually numbed myself with alcohol. I'd sit in bed saying "I hate this broad, she has the worst personality in the world, I get no sleep when she's here, I should just get a sex doll" and then she'd come out of the shower naked and I'd forget what I was just thinking. Later I realized all pretty young women are like this, so I might as well fuck the hottest ones for as long as I can stand them and never get too invested.[/QUOTE]I'm realizing after I just sent the last message but it's really the narcissism here the bothers me. Not that I would characterize her as narcissistic. It's more a generational thing. Like they were always girls who wanted to be actresses and such. But the idea someone thinks it's a good career direction to try to be an influencer. And to really push for that, earnestly. To basically have it be your mission to have people follow you for daily 30 second dribbles on which color you think it's going to be in style this fall, or which brand of makeup foundation is the best. It seems like such a huge waste of human potential.

But again, she's really hot. So you know what I say over dinner in the hour leading up to taking her to bed? I compliment her taste, her vision, her connecting with an audience, her dedication to the craft.

I lie.

[QUOTE=Chupacabra;6615052]I dated a self-absorbed, brain-dead (but insanely hot) 19 year old once. The biggest problem for me was having to interact with her for more than 30 minutes. Clothes, TV stars, how her friends or family were mean to her that day, just continual asinine nonsense and she never shut up. I usually numbed myself with alcohol. I'd sit in bed saying "I hate this broad, she has the worst personality in the world, I get no sleep when she's here, I should just get a sex doll" and then she'd come out of the shower naked and I'd forget what I was just thinking. Later I realized all pretty young women are like this, so I might as well fuck the hottest ones for as long as I can stand them and never get too invested.[/QUOTE]Everyone has their limits / values. I have had a couple of dates w / super hot SBs lately, but one was dumb as a post, and one was truly autistic. Super shy, inexperienced, and unskillful in bed, etc. In both cases, I just could not do the deed and politely excused myself. I fulfilled my part of the bargain for their time and our room, but afterward ghosted. I am very 'mature,' as the saying goes, perhaps I am past the stage where simple hotness is sufficient. I really need to learn this lesson, and make the M&G useful for myself, to avoid these aborted FCs in the future. I tend to say 'oh, she's so damn hot, how can I miss out on this kitty even though there are these issues I can see?' But it doesn't work for me.

There's a reason we are in the bowl though. When traveling I met up w / a girl who was super kinky about the age gap, she was introduced to it by watching porn, and the experience of being w / her was top level. I got this from her afterward.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6615449]There's a reason we are in the bowl though. When traveling I met up w / a girl who was super kinky about the age gap, she was introduced to it by watching porn, and the experience of being w / her was top level. I got this from her afterward.[/QUOTE]Hard to resist stuff like that; maybe go with the flow LOL.

I've been using SA off and on since before 2015. Over time I realized that there was value in starting over. My tastes changed. My approach changed. The PPM / donation changed. Certain girls that would block me were accessible again.

This time around, I got curious about what wealth levels and body descriptions would attract certain sbs. So on this free profile, I changed it up a bit. Stayed with my ethnic category and age but increased height and upped the wealth / income.

Wealth matters although I have no idea of the quality of SBs that wealth attracts. Could be more scammers.

Since it's a free account I can't send or read messages but for sure it receives significantly more attention than the profile I use. I found some guy that kind of looks like me and use his photo but modified it so it's not him anymore.

Then through the reddit Sugarlife forum, I found out how to discretely check the activity of the sbs I'm seeing.

Just favorite them on the alternate profile and view Last Active. The timing isn't precise but according to the reddit guys, online activity is accurate to 1 hour of use. Past that, even if you're logged in but not using the site, it doesn't show your profile as active.

Can anyone confirm that? I haven't made a female profile so I have no way of checking that.

Seeing a SB you're seeing constantly active on the site helps me make better decisions on my interactions. Definitely an eye opener especially when you see a SB you're seeing reach out to this fake profile. I had a SB date and within 2 hours of her leaving, she was back on the site.

Anyone else do this?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6607764]Sorta, not exactly. I work in a large organization. Thousands of people at this location. There are definitely some girls who are also here who are candidates to show up on SA. I have for the most part been careful about this, figuring if I was seeing someone from my organization, there is a much greater chance of her coming across my IRL identity (of course I have a sugar story that doesn't involve my working here). So once those POTs divulged that they were here, I just blocked them and went on. Too many fish in the sea and all.

However, I am just now sorely tempted to violate my rules. I have a hankering to bang an Indian-American girl, and there is a POT right now who really floats my boat. And in my organization. Absolutely gorgeous. She is in a department far from mine (subject-wise and physically). We've spoken by phone and she is interested, though I am above her age range. Hence she wants to see full pix. Even those that have been sanitized to avoid facial recognition, someone at this organization upon seeing them could recognize me. Of course, this girl likely doesn't want anyone knowing that she is active on the site either.

She says her last arrangement ended about a month ago. She is hot enough she won't have to wait long to get some new offers. Carpe diem.[/QUOTE]I don't know what kind of financial stakes you have at risk, but you might want to listen to the rationale part of you that made the rules in the first place. I'm not sure you could ever under-estimate the amount of embarrassment a person would be willing to put up with, especially someone younger than you (or, generally, of the younger generations), and even more so if they have less to lose. She might be able to start over, but what are your odds if the worst were to happen and you became the talk of your organization? Just food for thought.

[QUOTE=SteveTandberg;6616869]I've been using SA off and on since before 2015. Over time I realized that there was value in starting over. My tastes changed. My approach changed. The PPM / donation changed. Certain girls that would block me were accessible again.

This time around, I got curious about what wealth levels and body descriptions would attract certain sbs. So on this free profile, I changed it up a bit. Stayed with my ethnic category and age but increased height and upped the wealth / income.

Wealth matters although I have no idea of the quality of SBs that wealth attracts. Could be more scammers.

Since it's a free account I can't send or read messages but for sure it receives significantly more attention than the profile I use. I found some guy that kind of looks like me and use his photo but modified it so it's not him anymore.

Then through the reddit Sugarlife forum, I found out how to discretely check the activity of the sbs I'm seeing.

Just favorite them on the alternate profile and view Last Active. The timing isn't precise but according to the reddit guys, online activity is accurate to 1 hour of use. Past that, even if you're logged in but not using the site, it doesn't show your profile as active.

Can anyone confirm that? I haven't made a female profile so I have no way of checking that.

Seeing a SB you're seeing constantly active on the site helps me make better decisions on my interactions. Definitely an eye opener especially when you see a SB you're seeing reach out to this fake profile. I had a SB date and within 2 hours of her leaving, she was back on the site.

Anyone else do this?[/QUOTE]Funny you mention it, I was just online with a second profile I have had for a while but haven't really used. Had a first date today with a girl that I thought went well. Immediately afterward her profile was either deactivated or she blocked me. I was curious which it was so went to the second profile, searched for her and did not find her. Hopefully this means she was BSing me when she said she was only looking for one person. I will reach out to her in a day or two and see what happens.

[QUOTE=Dsprdo;6617103]Funny you mention it, I was just online with a second profile I have had for a while but haven't really used. Had a first date today with a girl that I thought went well. Immediately afterward her profile was either deactivated or she blocked me. I was curious which it was so went to the second profile, searched for her and did not find her. Hopefully this means she was BSing me when she said she was only looking for one person. I will reach out to her in a day or two and see what happens.[/QUOTE]100% effective to determine if she blocks you. Theoretically she could take herself out of search but most girls don't do that. SB 2 times ago did that and does that so she can't be searched. Then occasionally she will pop on to answer messages and look for other SDs.

[QUOTE=Felix06;6617098]I don't know what kind of financial stakes you have at risk, but you might want to listen to the rationale part of you that made the rules in the first place. I'm not sure you could ever under-estimate the amount of embarrassment a person would be willing to put up with, especially someone younger than you (or, generally, of the younger generations), and even more so if they have less to lose. She might be able to start over, but what are your odds if the worst were to happen and you became the talk of your organization? Just food for thought.[/QUOTE]I concur. I know it's easier over time for folks like Far and me (married) to relax the rules a bit, then a bit more, and so on. But it's just not worth it. You spend a career building a professional reputation and it can be destroyed with a text.

Not sure my concerns are clear. My worry is just that, being at the same place, the chance is greater that I could run into a SB IRL, and she would thereby surmise my true identity, and would therefore have something to hold over me, vis-a-vis my SO, for example.

I would presume a young woman w / a professional ambition would have the same concern w / discretion on the site, and would do as much as I am to keep my participation in the sugar bowl on the DL. I don't envision anyone disclosing in my organization I am a SD.

I guess if someone were really crazy, they could make a Title IX filing against me if they found me out, but this does not seem likely. I keep all sorts of records and screenshots, that there is consensual relationship is easily shown.

It's a lot of work swimming in the sugar bowl. The SB's deluge you, but it's nice, a little like the strippers in the club stopping by. Some of these girls have game, others are just "wan to get together tonight? My number is _ In LA every single girl wanted $1,000! Crazy, before Covid was the last time I did this and it was $300 for most and supermodels wanted $500. I think I have a little some game and even so, that didn't work. Although there was an Asian (Grace) with GPS but was hot, but not worth $1 K.

I think I found one for tomorrow, but this shit is tiring!

[QUOTE=Murrican;6617722]I concur. I know it's easier over time for folks like Far and me (married) to relax the rules a bit, then a bit more, and so on. But it's just not worth it. You spend a career building a professional reputation and it can be destroyed with a text.[/QUOTE]Most of the times we have way more to lose than the providers themselves; that's the gaming structure in this market.

[QUOTE=Avocat;6618813]It's a lot of work swimming in the sugar bowl. The SB's deluge you, but it's nice, a little like the strippers in the club stopping by. Some of these girls have game, others are just "wan to get together tonight? My number is _ In LA every single girl wanted $1,000! Crazy, before Covid was the last time I did this and it was $300 for most and supermodels wanted $500. I think I have a little some game and even so, that didn't work. Although there was an Asian (Grace) with GPS but was hot, but not worth $1 K.

I think I found one for tomorrow, but this shit is tiring![/QUOTE]Thanks for the incite. I always felt stupid sitting on the computer for hours trying to hook up with women who wanted some form of transactional relationship while I was missing out on life. Then I realized it is much easier to meet women out and about in the real world. I can take my computer anywhere, like the beach, coffee shop, even on top of Runyon Canyon, and hand out In and Out burgers to the hikers as they pass by. Maybe set up a table in the early morning and give out the Krispy Kremes. It is actually easier to meet hot women this way since most guys aren't approaching them. Online a woman is going to treat you like an ATM and you compete with lots of losers who may have more money than you. Having grown up with Hollywooders the question many of them had was are we REAL friends or is it just about the money? I guess reality has become the web world, and no one wants to be their true self covering their skin with tattoos, dying their hair, filling themselves with toy parts and buying their encounters. The hand we've been dealt.

I met prettyprincessxxx a year ago for dinner, I gave her a small allowance for that platonic date. She insisted on bringing a friend and I relented because she's fantastically gorgeous. Never heard from her again.

Messaging her now, she doesn't remember me from my new profile (fine by me). She wants $350 for platonic date, I couldn't talk her down for anything. . . I've already learned my lesson.

If anyone wants to spend $350 to likely get nowhere with a gorgeous gal, let us know if you can get past the rinser stage!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d9f49ec0-6cda-458a-8d2a-928b8a3cc31d[/URL]

[QUOTE=RanManCan;6619491]I met prettyprincessxxx a year ago for dinner, I gave her a small allowance for that platonic date. She insisted on bringing a friend and I relented because she's fantastically gorgeous. Never heard from her again.

Messaging her now, she doesn't remember me from my new profile (fine by me). She wants $350 for platonic date, I couldn't talk her down for anything. . . I've already learned my lesson.

If anyone wants to spend $350 to likely get nowhere with a gorgeous gal, let us know if you can get past the rinser stage!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d9f49ec0-6cda-458a-8d2a-928b8a3cc31d[/URL][/QUOTE]Everything about her profile shows she's not interested in hooking up for cash help. She even says a pretty girl on his shoulder. That's speak for being just arm candy. I've hooked up with babies just as pretty for less than that. Like you said lesson learned. Just reading that profile I would have skipped over it and tagged GPS right off the bat.