Clarification on Personal Procedures at BBF
No, you've got it all wrong, although I have sat near another fellow in the lapdance area while he made more noise than I have ever heard, with all sorts of encouragement and vocal coaching. VERY awkward.
As for my personal procedure, it involves very loose-fitting nylon shorts and nothing else. There is no removal of equipment from said shorts, nor is there any open release of baby-batter at any time. Any potential man-gravy is conveniently captured by the unlubricated raincoat which is adorned prior to any close contact situations. Any expulsion resulting from grinding / rubbing / grabbing or other external forces is neither a problem for myself or my dancing companion.
Having spoken with more than one dancer, it is apparently standard practice for some to skip any containment procedures and just let it fly, and those I have spoken with have been quite appreciative of my containment process, should any "issue" arise.
No mess, no fuss, and I order beer and do not grunt.
[QUOTE=BFDeal; 1223480]First off, I really appreciate the report. I hang out a Brad's, too. Secondly, when you write the word "release," does this mean what I think it means? Are you tossing hot yogurt in your pants? Dude, that's got to be uncomfortable. Maybe I'm not reading these reports closely enough. Is this happening from the "grind" of the dancers? And does it happen often? At Brad's? Wow. Don't know what to think about that, except to say, that's got to be the most uncomfortable feeling in the world. And I hope there's no "jacking" going on in the private VIP rooms, with pants down, because I'm sure both the men and the dancers don't want to sit in your repugnant mess. No offense, but are you one of the old guys who sits off to the side away from the three-pole spread and kind of "grunts" when the cocktail waitress walks by and asks if you want more sprite? I guess what I am saying here is, keep it in your pants, dude (um, gross).
Playing safe and keeping it real.
BFDeal. [/QUOTE]
Thanks for clarity on this
I appreciate it. After having hung out at strip clubs in both Ohio and New York, including the world famous "Scores," I still find this very hard to believe. I guess I just feel it's not the right place for this, but if you tell me this is a "normal' procedure, then I must take your word for it. I guess my personal preference would be to talk to the dancer about possibly a "private" situation in a more private setting maybe after she got off work (but I have a regular for that) , which I guess is done as well. So this "other" thing never crossed my mind. But thanks for clearing everything up.
Trying to play it safe and keep it real.
BFDeal.
[QUOTE=Davek454; 1224004]No, you've got it all wrong, although I have sat near another fellow in the lapdance area while he made more noise than I have ever heard, with all sorts of encouragement and vocal coaching. VERY awkward.
As for my personal procedure, it involves very loose-fitting nylon shorts and nothing else. There is no removal of equipment from said shorts, nor is there any open release of baby-batter at any time. Any potential man-gravy is conveniently captured by the unlubricated raincoat which is adorned prior to any close contact situations. Any expulsion resulting from grinding / rubbing / grabbing or other external forces is neither a problem for myself or my dancing companion.
Having spoken with more than one dancer, it is apparently standard practice for some to skip any containment procedures and just let it fly, and those I have spoken with have been quite appreciative of my containment process, should any "issue" arise.
No mess, no fuss, and I order beer and do not grunt. [/QUOTE]
I acknowledge that I am a perv, but am I "out there" comparatively?
I am a cheap bastard in a relationship that is amazing in every way other than drastically different sex drives (I actually have one). I chalk it up to schedules, stress, kids, etc. I'm no Brad Pitt, but I'm doing pretty well for someone my age, and I know I have sufficient equipment and the knowledge and ability to use it properly given the monthly-ish opportunities I am afforded at home.
My warped logic dictates that anything that happens in a strip club short of intercourse is not "cheating" despite the fact that my actions would be severely frowned upon at best by my significant other. I am too cheap and afraid, for lack of a better term, to try anything outside of a club with a dancer, escort, masseuse, or SW. I also know that I won't be picking up any unexpected ailments using my current methods.
I know that occasionally, I can relieve certain tensions for $30 or less, have a nice time, change clothes before I get home, and all is well with the world. I suppose I could be an odd bird given my practices, but I guess I always assumed there were others like me who took a similarly cheap road. My potentially unusual system has worked for me for many years, and at this point I'm not necessarily seeking validation, but any input from other members on this would be appreciated. Does this make me a weirdo, or are there others who avail themselves of similar opportunities?
[QUOTE=BFDeal; 1225529]I appreciate it. After having hung out at strip clubs in both Ohio and New York, including the world famous "Scores," I still find this very hard to believe. I guess I just feel it's not the right place for this, but if you tell me this is a "normal' procedure, then I must take your word for it. I guess my personal preference would be to talk to the dancer about possibly a "private" situation in a more private setting maybe after she got off work (but I have a regular for that) , which I guess is done as well. So this "other" thing never crossed my mind. But thanks for clearing everything up.
Trying to play it safe and keep it real.
BFDeal.[/QUOTE]
Not saying I'm not a perv.
I guess I learn something about Indiana every day. I'm not cheap and I don't have an SO. I'm just trying to keep it clean, safe and real. If it works for you and you're not hurting anyone, I guess it's OK. Thanks for your reports.
BFDeal.
[QUOTE=Davek454; 1225570]I am a cheap bastard in a relationship that is amazing in every way other than drastically different sex drives (I actually have one). I chalk it up to schedules, stress, kids, etc. I'm no Brad Pitt, but I'm doing pretty well for someone my age, and I know I have sufficient equipment and the knowledge and ability to use it properly given the monthly-ish opportunities I am afforded at home.
My warped logic dictates that anything that happens in a strip club short of intercourse is not "cheating" despite the fact that my actions would be severely frowned upon at best by my significant other. I am too cheap and afraid, for lack of a better term, to try anything outside of a club with a dancer, escort, masseuse, or SW. I also know that I won't be picking up any unexpected ailments using my current methods.
I know that occasionally, I can relieve certain tensions for $30 or less, have a nice time, change clothes before I get home, and all is well with the world. I suppose I could be an odd bird given my practices, but I guess I always assumed there were others like me who took a similarly cheap road. My potentially unusual system has worked for me for many years, and at this point I'm not necessarily seeking validation, but any input from other members on this would be appreciated. Does this make me a weirdo, or are there others who avail themselves of similar opportunities? [/QUOTE]
Davek454, You're not alone.
I become familiar with that technique a decade ago. AT THE REQUEST of the regular I saw. She insisted the next time I came in to bring a rain coat and she would "take care of me." So I simply followed her instructions. BOY! Could that girl shake that a* Stevie, I believe was her name. Nice and thin, bleached blond hair, cute southern drawl. She reminded me of Stevie Nick. Ahhhhhhh. Sweet!
OK, this is too much to take
Is this what's it's like sitting around a campfire, trying to "out-tell" stories about the great "Strip Club Caper"? I am laughing my azz off about the quick-draw thing, but I still have to say, and this is just my. 02, there's a time and a place for this, and it's not the VIP room at Brad's. I actually drove by Brad's last night and didn't have enough "something," not courage,"gumption" maybe? I just can't find the right word at this time, to park the car and walk in. Thanks for the campfire, I mean "circle-jerk" stories, though.
BFDeal.
[QUOTE=Ilapp; 1225874]I always thought I was smarter than the average bear because I have been bringing gear for over 20 yrs, mind you that meant I spent the 20 before that unprepared. Of course after joining here I found that most everyone I met from here had the same trick in the bag. I was sitting on a stool behind a half wall I am sure many of you have known when a really hot girl who came up and took the fellas out for some air, she said she would be glad to help me out, just run to the restroom and wrap up. I had to explain that I didn't bring one in with me, which she seemed to find amusing and odd because that was the thing you should always do if you wanted"help" and I was embarrassed I was both so ignorant and unprepared. She said not to worry, took one out of her purse and put it on for me and away we went. The girls that are with the program really appreciate not getting slimed and those that aren't are even more appreciative if you can no longer hold out and have to let go. True the very rare and unlikely innocent young dancer may notice and just think you a perv, but normally it is more like a name tag that lets them know if not why you are there that you at least are in the game. One of the ways I often pick the next dancer I want to see is to watch and see how many guys she dances for that come out of the back and head directly and sheepishly out the door, often with large wet spots where they must have spilled their drink. I do however check to see that the ones that seem to have spilled the drink on the patron take time to run back and at least make an attempt to freshen up.
P. S. The girl who schooled me on the proper club manners also happened to become one of the best take out friends I ever had, she was something, and the sign to me that the days of always getting it free in clubs was coming to an end and that my age was going to dictate that dating them wasn't going to always be an option and it would be easier to just ante up in the beginning. A passage of sorts, damn she was fine. [/QUOTE]
Glad I'm Not Alone (I Guess?)
It is good to know that this is at least a somewhat common practice among some.I have only regretted being unprepared once, which caused a nice young lady at the Hugger to catch my regrettable error on her calf while she was playing "hide my thumb." The nice thing was that I overshot the shorts entirely and stayed clean myself, but was so mortified that I did my own "clean-up on aisle three" and quickly departed immediately thereafter.
It's not an every-time occurrence or goal for me, but I am always ready should the opportunity arise.I have still never received anything nearing a BJ or FS in a club, and I've only played "the magical disappearing digits" twice in the 15 or so years I've been going to clubs.I have also never dropped enough cheddar for the VIP or champagne room.I've only been asked to wrap up by a dancer once, as I was on my way to do just that.I just happen to really enjoy the grind of a nice ass.
One other advantage financially is that I save myself money by only packing one at a time, and if I forget to replace it, it keeps me from going to the club.
[QUOTE=BFDeal; 1225895]Is this what's it's like sitting around a campfire, trying to "out-tell" stories about the great "Strip Club Caper"? I am laughing my azz off about the quick-draw thing, but I still have to say, and this is just my.02, there's a time and a place for this, and it's not the VIP room at Brad's.I actually drove by Brad's last night and didn't have enough "something," not courage,"gumption" maybe? I just can't find the right word at this time, to park the car and walk in.Thanks for the campfire, I mean "circle-jerk" stories, though.
BFDeal.[/QUOTE]
Pure Passion (formerly Babes West)
Work has put me on the west side for a while and has given me a chance to visit Pure Passion a few times. They have a number of very attractive dancers, particularly if you like curvy black girls. The daytime manager is pretty hot herself, a red head who was a former Harem House dance. Know take out is available with at least one of the girls, but intend to check on several others.
Naive about the mechanics (or plumbing) of SC's
[QUOTE=Eros69;1226798]I've been going to SC's for many many years and I've never heard of anyone actually having a "release". At least not the friends I go with. Dude, that's disgusting. Wrapped or not. I don't want to sit in your funk! I'm going to take a shower. Completely creeped out![/QUOTE]Eros.
Naive about the mechanics (or plumbing) of SC's. You have got to be shitting me here guy. You have never heard of this; (release in a SC). If you have been to many clubs (as it sounds like you have) you have no doubt sat in some dried DNA along the way, at the very least. Or maybe it wasn't dried and you just thought someone spilled a drink. (hope you don't lose too much sleep about this revelation tonight.)
Next time in. Take a pocket sized black light with you into the VIP or private dance area. It will probably be your last trip to any SC. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news brother, but these happenings are more frequent than you might imagine.
I'm not a real active attendee of SC's, (just never got much thrill out of it really) but a good buddy is a real regular. Happened to be in a couple SC's with him a couple of days ago, (not in Indy) , and we were in this one place for not more than 5 mins and I had turned down an offer to have the pool drained. (maybe I just looked like I needed it real bad, who knows). It happens everyday. Now I'm not saying that it does at BBF or PT's or others that I am not that familiar with, (but I am NOT naive enought to think that it doesn't either) but it is common place in the industry, whether you knew it or not.
Wonder what you will do for entertainment now, since you won't be going to SC's anymore (after this gross-out)?
Finally someone who agrees with me
Now I don't feel like I'm sitting on an island when it comes to this whole "man gravy" thing. I just don't know how any place that calls itself a respectable "gentlemen's" club can turn its head (maybe not the right word) while charging admission and totally ignoring something like this. Bottom line is if I was a strip club owner, I would have cameras everywhere, and if I saw someone openly dispensing their tarter sauce anywhere on the property, I would call the police and that person would be barred for life. Finally, my real. 02 on this subject!
Keeping it safe and real.
BFDeal.
[QUOTE=Eros69;1226798]I've been going to SC's for many many years and I've never heard of anyone actually having a "release". At least not the friends I go with. Dude, that's disgusting. Wrapped or not. I don't want to sit in your funk! I'm going to take a shower. Completely creeped out![/QUOTE]
Babes east is MUCH better than HH!
[QUOTE=JimBeamCoke;1228217]HH has definately changed. They recently started this "do you want to tip me for my dance on stage" thing. I am pretty sure it is being pushed by the manager. The manager can make all the difference at a club. This club has gone down hill and not as much fun as it use to be. Try Babes east you might find a better atmoshpere there.[/QUOTE]Been a regular at Babes for YEARS, had successful OTC adventures with three different dancers and many a pleasant VIP dance in the couch area. The thing to remember about Babes is that if you go in there for the first time looking sleezy and start groping or asking for extras you will get nowhere and you may possibly get thrown out depending on the dancer and bartender. You need to get to know the dancers and let them realize you are not an LEO, and even more important, not a jerk. Having a steady stash of cash will only get you so far. But even if you are not spending alot, the staff are VERY friendly as are several of the dancers. It just takes a little time and cash to get where you want to go.
Gentlemen's Club on East Street
Been a long time since I was there. Stopped by just to see what it was like now. I think they are under new management again. Used to be Lincoln Inn, Ruthies, etc. Had to get my own beer at the bar. Waitress was too busy texting someone. I would describe all but one dancer thus.
Do you know what the difference between a dancer at Gentlemens and a steer?
About 200 pounds, but if you keep feeding the steer it will get up there.
The one skinny dancer was flat as a tongue depressor.
Did not stay past the one drink. Declined any lap dances (2 asked) , did give up 8 singles for their efforts.
Too old to be going to these places.