Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;4622782][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cac5dca1-65e6-4b17-bd31-084531d056ef[/URL]

This one talks an amazing game says all the right things without being overly sexual even sent pictures of herself with her daughter unfortunately the pictures of her that she sends you and the pictures on her profile page don't match up. She has a great rap of needing 25 bucks for the babysitter and then she'll be on her way to come visit you. This girl invested a lot of time and effort if it even is a girl to get me to send her $25!

I've been running into more scams than anything else lately. Poo.[/QUOTE]Had a girl in upstate NY pull something like this. Went through a ton of texts talking about everything. Sent me two verifications pics I asked for. Told her the next time I would be upstate and she said it was good with and then said in the meantime would you like to to buy some pics or videos. I said no nicely and silence from there. Lot is work to try and sell a few pics.

I meeting a girl on Tuesday. I'm hoping it goes well. Actually meeting two in the same night. Long story. Haha.

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4623213]Had a girl in upstate NY pull something like this. Went through a ton of texts talking about everything. Sent me two verifications pics I asked for. Told her the next time I would be upstate and she said it was good with and then said in the meantime would you like to to buy some pics or videos. I said no nicely and silence from there. Lot is work to try and sell a few pics.

I meeting a girl on Tuesday. I'm hoping it goes well. Actually meeting two in the same night. Long story. Haha.[/QUOTE]You know. I've been on the ass end of double booking and been flaked on enough times, it actually makes a lot of sense to start *doing* the double booking instead of getting f'd by it. Go get it and let us know how it goes!

Anytime I am having a new girl over for the first time I usually double book also. Like 3-4 hours apart. So if the first one actually show I immediately contact the second and sorry (insert excuse here), can we reschedule. Most of these girls are young and new at this and will flake for any number of reasons. They are also irresponsible and have no time management skills. We all have been burned on the back end of this. You can see them online trying to work a better deal (more money) or with a guy they find more attractive than you right before they are scheduled to meet you. Most of the time they won't even bother to reach out to you and take 5 seconds to text you and cancel. I remember being burned by a girl and she sent me a text the next day saying "Hey! Sorry". I responded jokingly, what happened did I get outbid? Her response "Yea LOL". I commonly refer to SA as Amateur EBay Pussy Auction.

[QUOTE=JohnOfHearts;4623417]You know. I've been on the ass end of double booking and been flaked on enough times, it actually makes a lot of sense to start *doing* the double booking instead of getting f'd by it. Go get it and let us know how it goes![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JohnOfHearts;4623417]You know. I've been on the ass end of double booking and been flaked on enough times, it actually makes a lot of sense to start *doing* the double booking instead of getting f'd by it. Go get it and let us know how it goes![/QUOTE]I will be sure to let you guys know. The one next Tuesday isn't someone to write home about (or post about haha) but she's 23 and there is something I find sexy about her.

[QUOTE=Newbie1961;4623487]Anytime I am having a new girl over for the first time I usually double book also. Like 3-4 hours apart. So if the first one actually show I immediately contact the second and sorry (insert excuse here), can we reschedule. Most of these girls are young and new at this and will flake for any number of reasons. They are also irresponsible and have no time management skills. We all have been burned on the back end of this. You can see them online trying to work a better deal (more money) or with a guy they find more attractive than you right before they are scheduled to meet you. Most of the time they won't even bother to reach out to you and take 5 seconds to text you and cancel. I remember being burned by a girl and she sent me a text the next day saying "Hey! Sorry". I responded jokingly, what happened did I get outbid? Her response "Yea LOL". I commonly refer to SA as Amateur EBay Pussy Auction.[/QUOTE]This is a great story! And what you wrote is exactly what I'm thinking. Meet the girl who is iffy on whether or not anything will happen early for drinks and have what seems to be a pro booked for later on in case it doesn't work out. We will see. Either way, this has been kind of fun. Sometimes frustrating and a lot more work than expected but fun.

This is a first. A girl who just joined yesterday has been chatting it up with me through text. She sent me a perfect verification picture. We've chatted a good bit and then she went silent and then I see her account on the site was deleted. I asked her what was up with that and she responded. "I deleted my account because I found what I was looking for. " What the hell do I so with that?

Sometimes it means they are playing games with you or they got banned, they lied and blocked you or your the one. It always pays to have a separate non paying account to go online and see who has blocked you or actually deleted. A free, easy, private way to keep track of girls you are working on or currently seeing. Just favorite them on your non paying account and keep track of them.

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4624484]This is a first. A girl who just joined yesterday has been chatting it up with me through text. She sent me a perfect verification picture. We've chatted a good bit and then she went silent and then I see her account on the site was deleted. I asked her what was up with that and she responded. "I deleted my account because I found what I was looking for. " What the hell do I so with that?[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/592e413f-a20f-4d75-8371-d1371c7a29fa[/URL]

Does anyone really buy them? I'm getting so fed up with the "I need to start with pics to build trust" shit. Hell I need s BJ to develop trust.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;4621599]Too lazy to link her profile on SA. She wanted 3 offered 2 and she agreed then she got all weird about her sick mom and started with the "Please meet me today I need money bad" cut it off there. Date with a 28 yo. Ill report tomorrow.[/QUOTE]She had me back and forth on text for almost 2 hours. 5 minutes in invited herself over for $300, dropped to $200 in a flash then argued over $150 for the next couple hours. Definitely seemed desperate.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4624621][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/592e413f-a20f-4d75-8371-d1371c7a29fa[/URL]

Does anyone really buy them? I'm getting so fed up with the "I need to start with pics to build trust" shit. Hell I need s BJ to develop trust.[/QUOTE]I actually told her (or him) I knew it was a scam and wouldn't waste their time for an hour or two but to please answer me a question. How many guys actually fall for it? No response. Oh well. I am finding many more scams lately now. After this months service is up I will be taking a break from the site. Poo.

That's the scenario I usually use. I schedule 2 first time beginners that I have never seen the same day. I will schedule the better of 2 that I would pick first anyway earlier. That way if the hotter one bails you still have a plan B with the other set up a couple hours later. And yes there will be times when they both actually flake and no show on you. That's when I go to my "dial-a-ho" directory and call over a regular reliable that I keep in rotation.

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4624466]I will be sure to let you guys know. The one next Tuesday isn't someone to write home about (or post about haha) but she's 23 and there is something I find sexy about her.

This is a great story! And what you wrote is exactly what I'm thinking. Meet the girl who is iffy on whether or not anything will happen early for drinks and have what seems to be a pro booked for later on in case it doesn't work out. We will see. Either way, this has been kind of fun. Sometimes frustrating and a lot more work than expected but fun.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Newbie1961;4624960]That's the scenario I usually use. I schedule 2 first time beginners that I have never seen the same day. I will schedule the better of 2 that I would pick first anyway earlier. That way if the hotter one bails you still have a plan B with the other set up a couple hours later. And yes there will be times when they both actually flake and no show on you. That's when I go to my "dial-a-ho" directory and call over a regular reliable that I keep in rotation.[/QUOTE]I did the same for today. Both bailed. Slim pickings out here.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dd8ee9dc-295c-4a6a-99b7-14b1a8654cb2[/URL] wants money up front.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c5bf57d4-9fd9-440b-b5dd-02aa4e494e43[/URL] wants 100 deposit LOL.

[QUOTE=Newbie1961;4624496]Sometimes it means they are playing games with you or they got banned, they lied and blocked you or your the one. It always pays to have a separate non paying account to go online and see who has blocked you or actually deleted. A free, easy, private way to keep track of girls you are working on or currently seeing. Just favorite them on your non paying account and keep track of them.[/QUOTE]What a great idea. I just setup the account and searched for her. She is gone. We are having fun in text. She wants to meet in the next few weeks and when I'm in her area for work. I guess she thinks she found one guy to have fun with. I hope she's not psycho. Ha!

Was having a nice conversation with this one until it came to getting together. Asked for money for a dress. WTF is up with these girls?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/68e6bf0d-cb29-475c-b5ad-553def5d6192[/URL]

Who woulda thought this ones a tranny?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/50c78ccf-b63d-4d9d-baaa-56aec0c438b3[/URL]

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4626442]Was having a nice conversation with this one until it came to getting together. Asked for money for a dress. WTF is up with these girls?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/68e6bf0d-cb29-475c-b5ad-553def5d6192[/URL]

Who woulda thought this ones a tranny?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/50c78ccf-b63d-4d9d-baaa-56aec0c438b3[/URL][/QUOTE]Where is Connecticut, Connecticut. First one is a scam.

Had great talk with her then she hit me up for money for [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/16db7804-a844-4181-b545-4d00a22389f0[/URL].

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1e5d07f3-1ecc-4e50-9d60-248cc38eb18f.[/URL] Only wants an online relationship.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/59ed1466-d240-4b9b-a485-2e9bdec90865.[/URL] Online only.

[QUOTE=LegMan69;4626464]Where is Connecticut, Connecticut. First one is a scam.[/QUOTE]The PhD / post doctorate also a tip off. Especially one who can't spell correctly LOL.

The key is to favorite these prospects on your fake right away. You didn't do that so technically if she blocked you on your paying and you didn't favorite her on your fake she could have just deactivated her profile, then get back on send and get messages and phone numbers for a brief time, then deactivate again and be gone. You would never know it. Many super private / utr girls I know do this to stay out of the spotlight and risk exposure on there (yea they really worry about being seen by someone on there). Good luck and hope it works out.

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4626223]What a great idea. I just setup the account and searched for her. She is gone. We are having fun in text. She wants to meet in the next few weeks and when I'm in her area for work. I guess she thinks she found one guy to have fun with. I hope she's not psycho. Ha![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;4627044]Had great talk with her then she hit me up for money for [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/16db7804-a844-4181-b545-4d00a22389f0[/URL].

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1e5d07f3-1ecc-4e50-9d60-248cc38eb18f.[/URL] Only wants an online relationship.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/59ed1466-d240-4b9b-a485-2e9bdec90865.[/URL] Online only.[/QUOTE]Profiles Not Available.

Either I blocked all of them, or they all blocked me. I think the former is accurate. Coincidence? Don't think so. They all not worth the time.

What's wrong with the first one? You had a great talk and then she hit you up money for what?

I've had several dreams with her and she is fun to fuck. Good head, slim, young, big ass, and really into it.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;4627044]Had great talk with her then she hit me up for money for [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/16db7804-a844-4181-b545-4d00a22389f0[/URL].

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1e5d07f3-1ecc-4e50-9d60-248cc38eb18f.[/URL] Only wants an online relationship.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/59ed1466-d240-4b9b-a485-2e9bdec90865.[/URL] Online only.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/da784d5d-dee1-4546-8c64-cb7de7812112[/URL]

Got her to send some semi nude pics before scheduling a date. Glad I did, I couldn't imagine a more hideous body. Blocked her text so I wouldn't by mistake get another picture and have to gouge my eyes out.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4627693][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/da784d5d-dee1-4546-8c64-cb7de7812112[/URL]

Got her to send some semi nude pics before scheduling a date. Glad I did, I couldn't imagine a more hideous body. Blocked her text so I wouldn't by mistake get another picture and have to gouge my eyes out.[/QUOTE]2 kids by 20. That would fuck any woman up. How bad was it?

This one is a thief not to mention she's gained 50 lbs in the last year on what was already a big frame.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa98ed11-542f-4d52-adaf-68ab8d2c605b[/URL]

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4627989]This one is a thief not to mention she's gained 50 lbs in the last year on what was already a big frame.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa98ed11-542f-4d52-adaf-68ab8d2c605b[/URL][/QUOTE]As a habit, I stay away from all dancers on Seeking. Their allowance expectations are always out of line and they think the hotel room is the CR.

Hope you're okay.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4627989]This one is a thief not to mention she's gained 50 lbs in the last year on what was already a big frame.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa98ed11-542f-4d52-adaf-68ab8d2c605b[/URL][/QUOTE]I talked to her last year and was trying to setup a solo date with one of her friends but she insisted it had to be a 3 way so I passed.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f328b79-1c53-444b-a2bb-2a0bdd29f921[/URL]

Doesn't suck dick. Sleeps during the day up all night, 300 for an hour. Pass.

[QUOTE=Newbie1961;4627271]The key is to favorite these prospects on your fake right away. You didn't do that so technically if she blocked you on your paying and you didn't favorite her on your fake she could have just deactivated her profile, then get back on send and get messages and phone numbers for a brief time, then deactivate again and be gone. You would never know it. Many super private / utr girls I know do this to stay out of the spotlight and risk exposure on there (yea they really worry about being seen by someone on there). Good luck and hope it works out.[/QUOTE]I wish there was a like button on this forum because this is great advice. Thanks!

[QUOTE=JohnOfHearts;4623417]You know. I've been on the ass end of double booking and been flaked on enough times, it actually makes a lot of sense to start *doing* the double booking instead of getting f'd by it. Go get it and let us know how it goes![/QUOTE]Well the double booking worked out last night. First at 6 pm and second at 9 pm. The 6 asked if we could just meet at my room. I said yes, we had some fun. She's 23 and seems to be a new pro if you will. She was good but not great with above average looks but everyone has different tastes. She is in Poughkeepsie but an easy and safe setup. I will not repeat. If anyone wants details about it or link to profile just PM me.

Cleaned up and met the 9 pm. She was bigger than her pics but a super nice girl and we had a good time chatting but nothing more. She's new to the site, I don't think she truly understands it well and seems to think guys are going to give her cash to have dinner. (EDIT: I gave her nothing, just picked up dinner and drinks and explained how the site really works. haha!) Long story but an odd discussion occurred towards the end of the night and I didn't think I would hear from her again but she texted me this morning saying she wants to meet again. No sure if I will since I think it will take too much time to get where I want to get to.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4628420][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f328b79-1c53-444b-a2bb-2a0bdd29f921[/URL]

Doesn't suck dick. Sleeps during the day up all night, 300 for an hour. Pass.[/QUOTE]Good to know. I am talking to her now. Offered 225 and she accepted.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;4627347]What's wrong with the first one? You had a great talk and then she hit you up money for what?

I've had several dreams with her and she is fun to fuck. Good head, slim, young, big ass, and really into it.[/QUOTE]Hazel wanted 300 just to meet for a drink.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ac9a3e22-ce81-4f88-8dab-bd784132b536[/URL]

She is asking for 300 but I got a feeling she is a pro advertising herself a sb.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e8db81c3-4901-4672-a111-5cc704a53642[/URL]

No in CT but similar texting experience. Asked for 500 and settled on 300 but want dinner and drinks first.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;4628469]Good to know. I am talking to her now. Offered 225 and she accepted.[/QUOTE]Go ahead and schedule a date. She will make excuses about needing someone to watch her kid. Then she's going to ask what the allowance was again. Will try to renegotiate then. Waste of time.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4627275]Profiles Not Available.

Either I blocked all of them, or they all blocked me. I think the former is accurate. Coincidence? Don't think so. They all not worth the time.[/QUOTE]After you click the link, Erase the period at the end of the link in your browser and they will work.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4627693][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/da784d5d-dee1-4546-8c64-cb7de7812112[/URL]

Got her to send some semi nude pics before scheduling a date. Glad I did, I couldn't imagine a more hideous body. Blocked her text so I wouldn't by mistake get another picture and have to gouge my eyes out.[/QUOTE]If she's 20 now, she had to have been 15 in the profile picture.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4628420][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f328b79-1c53-444b-a2bb-2a0bdd29f921[/URL]

Doesn't suck dick. Sleeps during the day up all night, 300 for an hour. Pass.[/QUOTE]She definitely is a waste of time. Never went anywhere. Glad I deleted and blocked her number early enough.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4628615]Go ahead and schedule a date. She will make excuses about needing someone to watch her kid. Then she's going to ask what the allowance was again. Will try to renegotiate then. Waste of time.[/QUOTE]I blocked her. Not going to play games.

Joined here just to post about SA. Can anyone confirm if you have to use your actual address when signing up?

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/profile/aa237d8fd9eb2079[/URL]

One I will not be repeating but she is real, sucks above average cock and likes to swallow. Nice girl decent place and accessible during the day. 60 made her a happy swallower. Be nice to her she is a bit fat but very nice.

Your Welcumm. Poo.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;4630369][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/profile/aa237d8fd9eb2079[/URL]

One I will not be repeating but she is real, sucks above average cock and likes to swallow. Nice girl decent place and accessible during the day. 60 made her a happy swallower. Be nice to her she is a bit fat but very nice.

Your Welcumm. Poo.[/QUOTE]Anything good about her body? Tits decent at least?

Just spend over an hour going over SB. And I can honestly say, SA is really the best place for getting a sugar baby. Casting a wide net for my area, there were literally only about a dozen or so profiles that have been active within the month. I do like the video verification feature. But very convenient that the more attractive profile were not verified. Cheapest option for credit still only limits you on engaging only so many profiles.

Whereas SA, it's 90/ month but unlimited messaging.

I favorited a few profile and will give the site a shot. But my expectations are very low.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3dcd5792-b1b0-4b0d-bdee-015ed846d854[/URL]

Two ads different pictures and when I questioned it I received silence. Poo.