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Someone has to help the newbies....

1. BE RESPECTFUL I get phone calls or emails or text messages every week with first words like "Hey baby, whats up? How much? Where you at?" Every single word there is wrong. That is considered rude or ignorant in "The hobby". Try something like, "Hello, how are you today? I was intrested in an appointment with you" or "I would like to spend an hour with you." Something that tells the person you are calling that they can actually stand to be with you for an hour or more. If you have good refrences with a known provider, state that.


2. BE ON TIME If its not short notice, use the appropriate contact form to set up your meeting. The person you are meeting has a schedule, don't assume that's to meet other clients later. If you do, dont make comments about it. Thats just mellow-dramatic. The woman you choose to meet may have to be at work, school, some other event, or may have a friend or family member to care for. If you are late, leave a tip for your inconveniencing her. Schedules are important.
They don't mean you can't get a short notice appointment, but they do mean you need to be there at the agreed upon time. Don't say you will meet at 3:30, then text at 3:45 asking her to stand outside wearing something sexy so you wont be nervous. Thats just stupid, but people have tried it.

3. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT And try to be clear about it. Even if you are shy, the more open you are about what you need the better your chances are of getting your needs met. You didn't just bump into someone at a bar. You selected a particular person because of their skills, reviews, personality, bra size,
or whatever,the point is- you picked a pro, so let them be a pro for you.

IN THE DAYTONA BEACH AREA? CALL ME @386.916.1177

Thought maybe some of you would like to hear a providers perspective on the contact issue.---VS

I'd like to add this link as a source for good advice. You don't have to click on any of the links in the article, just take your time and read every bit of the text. Having said that, there are some good links near the beginning of the article under the heading "Related Links On This Site." This is a long article, but I think this guy is a genuis. I read this before I saw my first escort and I am glad I did. There is advice on how to be a good customer, what to expect, attitudes towards paying for sex, how to get better treatment from the escort, how to get what you really want, how not to get busted, etc.

Here is the link, I welcome everyone's feedback:

[url]http://sex.perkel.com/escort/index.htm[/url]

By the way, if any providers are reading this, he also wrote an article on how to be a good escort/get started in the business:

[url]http://sex.perkel.com/escort/shygirl.htm[/url]

[QUOTE=Melboring]Is there any chance that we can make this just one topic where, if you don't know what you're talking about, you just don't talk?

A well handled M&G is a ZERO risk fun event where you can meet people you otherwise would not. It is a social event that even brings people in from other states to attend, because they frequent the discussion boards. Many stay over and make a weekend out of it.

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Let me see. Several well-respected Forum Seniors are cautioning us about M&G. That's enough to confirm to me that it isn't worth it. I'm willing to bet you aren't going to find VS at your party! Wouldn't LE just love to spring a trap on the Seniors of the Orlando Forum. They might even let a M&G or two happen before swooping in. Boring, go right ahead and I wish you luck. I think that you stating it is "ZERO" risk just shows how naive you really are. I would again bet that most people on our Forum (even the novices) would agree that even the best orchestrated M&G would have to come with some risk.

Most of us have a pretty solid track record of staying below the radar screen and steering clear of unnecessary risk. There are a few mongers on here that I would love to have a beer with and swap stories, but my big head always rules.

Maybe we can all meet in Brazil some day to sample the local fare. I'll stop by Grand Cayman and pick up the tip money on the way. How about it ET? LOL

WOF

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PHFJ

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[QUOTE=Worldsoffun]Most of us have a pretty solid track record of staying below the radar screen and steering clear of unnecessary risk. There are a few mongers on here that I would love to have a beer with and swap stories, but my big head always rules.[/QUOTE]Bingo, on both counts. But avoiding risk and radar comes first. To put things into focus:

[i]Chekov[/i]: "Cloaking device available on all flight modes."
[i]Kirk[/i]: "I'm impressed. That was a lot of work."
[i]Chekov[/i]: "We are in an enemy wessel; I do not wish to get shot down on the way to our own funeral."

[i]Star Trek IV: The Voyage Home[/i]

[QUOTE/] I'm willing to bet you aren't going to find VS at your party! Wouldn't LE just love to spring a trap on the Seniors of the Orlando Forum. [QUOTE/]

I'm with W.O.F. on this issue. I also would love to have a beer with a few diverse mongers, WOF for instance we have Pm'd and I've told him some personal stuff, we've shared some providers etc. but we are just two guys on the computer sharing whatever, neither of us has any way of finding out about the other and so we can be honest with no worry's. We all operate with screen names, what if you showed at one of these events and saw someone there that could damage you or vice-versa. THEN WHAT?

Now you would have to be concerned about something blowing up in your face that you could have prevented easily just by not participating.

So why set yourself up to be kicked in the balls, what is your payoff, see a few girls, tell a few lies.

You must remember that the longer you do something and nothing happens the more confident you get and the more you believe you're not doing anything wrong. This hobby is unlawful, it does not matter that you think the law is wrong bla,bla,bla.

You can go to jail for participating in this hobby, yes only a misdemeanor but an embarrassing one, you could end up on OCSO's website.

Anyone who goes to a M&G is nuts in my opinion, if you have nothing to lose, go, solicit one of the girls, smoke some 420, pop some pills, get plastered on martini's, why not, WTF, they aren't gonna catch me, I'm to smart for those dumb cops. Emm Hmm.

I have provider friends that have been asked about me, what's he like? How old is he ? etc.etc. most just make up a story and say what comes to their mind and we laugh about it later. Nobody knows the real me, some have suspicions but nobody really knows and that is how it should be. Some providers have shared their lives with me and that is a sacred trust and I would never run my mouth about them. And I trust them to return the favor.

Going and exposing myself (not literally) to a room full of people just seems insane to me.

What is the risk benefit ratio? I see a lot of risk and very little, if any benefit.----VS

I agree with VS.

Agree 1000% that is. You will never catch me at a M&G either. Doesnt matter if I am single or married, have a shit job or am a CEO. I wish those of you who would go the best, have fun, hope you dont get in any kind of trouble and its totally worth it. Most of us, at one time or another, has had negative words with someone on here and its too easy in todays world for the other guy to be a psychopath or stalker. Thats part of why I dont even like do escorts or some providers in my neck of the woods. As VS said, its illegal as it is and the anonymity of this site works just fine for me, thank you very much. Im sure if this or any site like it required full names and contact info to be visible, even if the site is out of the country, there would be a whole lot less members. If you dont publish it on here as it is, why would you put yourself out there at a M&G? Just my 2 cents. -MM

Sure, why don't we all just get our walkie talkies and descend on OBT like a wolf pack? Those hoes will never know what hit em. :-)

I am being silly of course.

[QUOTE=BankShot]Sure, why don't we all just get our walkie talkies and descend on OBT like a wolf pack? Those hoes will never know what hit em.

I am being silly of course.[/QUOTE]Just like that Nextel commercial. I love it. Monger Roadies!

Having computer issuses and have lost the number of a friend I met on this board.

If you can help, please contact me.

Thanks,

Tinaa

I have been in contact with Katie and all of a sudden she has stoped sending me e mails. We are all set up for an appt. an know there is no e mails coming back from her. Anyone know if she is still working?

[QUOTE=Travel Guy]I have been in contact with Katie and all of a sudden she has stoped sending me e mails. We are all set up for an appt. an know there is no e mails coming back from her. Anyone know if she is still working?[/QUOTE]She will probably be in contact with you soon. Without trying to be too graphic woman have to take some time off during each month.

She may also be shying away from the email thing. Maybe try and give her a call.

Katie finaly got back to me and all is good. She was under the weather for a few days.

[QUOTE=Travel Guy]On another board they are talking about a meet and greet. Has anyone heard what the date is for this meet an greet?[/QUOTE]The host(s) probably gave meet and greet contact info, usually an email address.

I know this is not about the lovely ladys so you can trash me if you want.
Altho I do have to ladys lined up for my trip to your great city. An will give reviews when I come home.

But I would like to know if you could point me to some golf courses that wont break the bank. So where in the $40 to $ 50 w/cart. Ive got three full days and need to hit the ball .

Thanks.