Rants, Raves, and Stupid Tinfoil Hat Wearing Conspiracy Bullshit

[QUOTE=MistressZodiac;3284477]Safe ladies are not going to stop screening, and the gents are not going to stop getting screened because a screen name says it's not safe. The point of a debate is to present your case with facts not opinions. So please mister high horse give us examples and real justification other than your worthless two cents.

MZ.

[blue]I personally would never, ever give my personal info to get screened. I wouldn't get pissed off about it if a chick wanted me to do it, I would thank her for answering and move on to the next.

It always comes down to it's a business. I'm the customer, and I do business with people who do business in ways I'm comfortable with, and saying who I really am would be fucking crazy to me.

Doesn't mean you should stop or doing it is bad, I get it when chicks want to know for reals who they do business with, I just would never do it.

I also won't give a landlord two months deposit. There's lots of stuff lots of different providers of goods or services want me to do that I won't do.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]I only ask for personal info as a last resort. Often times I'm good with a handle with reviews and a reference. A lot of the time I can pull personal info from a phone number or email address. I really want nothing to do with your info other than making sure you aren't LE and you aren't going to assault me. I'm a pretty lenient screener and I've never asked someone to show I'd but some offer it when I say I can't see them because I don't have enough info. A2 is right; you should do what you feel comfortable with as it's your life and your money. No reason to get angry at someone who is just looking out for their safety as well. Just because I'm in this business doesn't mean I won't do everything in my power to avoid dangerous situations. So far so good.

Ever consider for sure dates, Like well reviewed, well established type providers? I mean you can skip all this nonsense. To me, if I waste time, fuel and resources this is still $ lost. You might have to spend a little more but at least you can have a higher chance of a for sure thing rather than this problem you described.

[QUOTE=MrNCbob;3284870]I am curious what you guys think about this. I had a date set up somewhat far away, not in Raleigh. I send her the typical text letting her know I am close. Her next text to me says, "What is it you are trying to do, Baby?" I froze. This is nearly the exact question the under cover lady asks the unsuspecting john on those cop sting videos, right before she runs off to the bathroom and a bunch of fat LEOs burst into the room. She has not posted in a while and I felt like I was being set up. Maybe I am being paranoid. But I did not have to make the final decision, a while after I did not respond she texted back to cancel. I am striking out a lot lately, another free day ruined.[/QUOTE]

I think you assume your insults mean something to me. You're sadly mistaken little fellow.

[QUOTE=GetControl;3284442]I'm on perm mod because I let myself lose my cool on chumps like you that have multiple user names and go out of your way to troll people. I'm cool now though. A guy like me needs to be on perm mod. You, however, are still a chump. Hope you're having fun trolling Icognito, ya loser.[/QUOTE]

You don't seem to get how little your risk is reduced, nor how much ours increases. Immature? Please little girl. I'm trying to help people people and it's not you. I will continue to beat this point home. Just because I don't currently participate doesn't mean I don't have a lot of experience and wisdom to share in this hobby. FYI, never burned because I was never so foolish. If I've confused you, I can use smaller words.

[QUOTE=InaraIncognito;3284557]You've established a while ago that you only care about the safety of mongerers. It's your prerogative to not see providers that screen. Not that you hobby anyways. I screen because I don't want to be arrested, assualted, robbed or any other number of unpleasant things that can happen. Screening cuts down the chances of these things happening by quite a bit. If you don't want to see someone that screens than fine, but to constantly attack me because I do screen is rather immature especially considering you don't even fricking take part in this world.

If you were burned by someone who screened, I'm sorry that happened to you. We aren't all the same and I wouldn't risk my reputation by doing something like using someone's screening info to blackmail them. I don't agree with the use of public blacklists either for anything other than the most dangerous offenses.[/QUOTE]

Good work! Do you actually have a valid point to make?

[QUOTE=GetControl;3282647]I actually went way way back to 2012. You've been around for a while. Looks like you were retired from the hobby then too. One of the other members asked you to retire from the board as well. Made me laugh. I get it though. What you've been doing is how you play. Not to be taken seriously. It's actually your way of flirting with a woman. The good old be mean to the girl you like routine. That technique has never worked for me but I do know guy's who swear by it and it works well for them.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=InaraIncognito;3278692]Of course sex work is going to be soul sucking if you are seeing a bunch of men in one day. Most of whom are likely to treat you as little more than a receptacle for their cum. I find it hard to believe women would say those things to you as a client anyways. Who would tell that to someone if that person is part of the issue?[/QUOTE]Perhaps you find it hard to believe because you don't see yourself divulging such personal information. Part of the issue? No; how about being a friend who is allowed to see a person as they really are. Everyone is not strong enough to put their mind over their emotions and feelings. Many never realize how they would slowly changed and have trust issues or become emotionally indifferent.

[QUOTE=GetControl;3278701]Seriously this is probably the most depressing shit I've ever read. For your own sanity, stay away from these girls. You're supposed to be enjoying yourself in the hobby not getting dragged down into hopelessness and despair.[/QUOTE]This is the reality of some. You will never know because a majority of clients will either see a fake smile or no smile at all simply because she wears a mask.

[QUOTE=Buki1;3285204]I think you assume your insults mean something to me. You're sadly mistaken little fellow.[/QUOTE]I don't assume, ever. You're making the assumptions. Like, calling me little man. Here are some numbers: 215 lbs, several boxing amateur trophies. I'll say it again, have fun trolling Incognito, ya loser.

[QUOTE=Buki1;3285239]Good work! Do you actually have a valid point to make?[/QUOTE]Oh! Thanks for reminding me. The point is you're a loser and a clown. Not a man. A chump.

[QUOTE=Purple45;3285285]This is the reality of some. You will never know because a majority of clients will either see a fake smile or no smile at all simply because she wears a mask.[/QUOTE]I absolutely will take a fake smile all day! I don't want any depressing BS during my session. I'm there to escape reality not be a therapist. In all seriousness -- take care of yourself and your sanity. These girls in the business that you're spending time around aren't doing anything but making your life heavier with their emotional baggage.

[QUOTE=Buki1;3285239]Good work! Do you actually have a valid point to make?[/QUOTE]Life of a troll. Remember this smack down a couple of months ago because you were being, as usual, a dick:

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There's always one. Everybody else has been getting this idea about not being douches on the review threads. I'm also pretty sure that most guys are liking no longer having to wade through 100's of stupid posts like this one was anymore.

You know what he meant, his spell check changed mutual to mural but you saw an error and thought you just had to jump in and be a funny guy.

Seriously, next time, I'm banning you. I don't care that you have been using this user name (along with Buki1 and KevinB) for 10 years.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]Again, you're a chump. Picking on chicks just makes you more chump.

[QUOTE=Buki1;3285228]You don't seem to get how little your risk is reduced, nor how much ours increases. [/QUOTE]And you know this how? From your years of experience as a provider I assume? Is there a study that was done on the correlation of screening and amount of incidents that I don't know about? Are there any men here who were harmed by being screened? Right. This is my last post in response to you because you can't even properly debate.

[QUOTE=Purple45;3285285]Perhaps you find it hard to believe because you don't see yourself divulging such personal information. Part of the issue? No; how about being a friend who is allowed to see a person as they really are. Everyone is not strong enough to put their mind over their emotions and feelings. Many never realize how they would slowly changed and have trust issues or become emotionally indifferent.

This is the reality of some. You will never know because a majority of clients will either see a fake smile or no smile at all simply because she wears a mask.[/QUOTE]Once again. Not looking at the bigger picture. These women you speak of are (a) likely already damaged before taking on sex work, (b) taking on too many clients and burning out as as a subsequent result or (c) letting the stigma of sex work get to them. Perhaps a combination of all three. Believe me when I say most women have had the thought in the back of their heads to take on sex work in one form or another. I think the main way that sex work tends to change our attitudes is realizing how much adultery is going on and how many seemingly perfect marriages are a farce. Since I would prefer an open relationship over a monogamous one this hasn't bothered me so much aside from the occasional wife who calls me balling her eyes out.

[QUOTE=MrNCbob;3284870]I am curious what you guys think about this. I had a date set up somewhat far away, not in Raleigh. I send her the typical text letting her know I am close. Her next text to me says, "What is it you are trying to do, Baby?" I froze. This is nearly the exact question the under cover lady asks the unsuspecting john on those cop sting videos, right before she runs off to the bathroom and a bunch of fat LEOs burst into the room. She has not posted in a while and I felt like I was being set up. Maybe I am being paranoid. But I did not have to make the final decision, a while after I did not respond she texted back to cancel. I am striking out a lot lately, another free day ruined.[/QUOTE]"I was thinking we'd play a few rounds of speed chess. I'll teach you the game. " Never never never mention any other activities until she has your dick in her mouth. This is my philosophy.

[QUOTE=MistressZodiac;3284477]Safe ladies are not going to stop screening, and the gents are not going to stop getting screened because a screen name says it's not safe. The point of a debate is to present your case with facts not opinions. So please mister high horse give us examples and real justification other than your worthless two cents.

MZ.

[blue]I personally would never, ever give my personal info to get screened. I wouldn't get pissed off about it if a chick wanted me to do it, I would thank her for answering and move on to the next.

It always comes down to it's a business. I'm the customer, and I do business with people who do business in ways I'm comfortable with, and saying who I really am would be fucking crazy to me.

Doesn't mean you should stop or doing it is bad, I get it when chicks want to know for reals who they do business with, I just would never do it.

I also won't give a landlord two months deposit. There's lots of stuff lots of different providers of goods or services want me to do that I won't do.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]I ask seven questions and none of them contain your social security number. If you didn't want me to know simple things about you then I have no issue not seeing you. I give nicknames to regulars and I may Jose thier number but never foegetbthe nickname. Other locals also kno that I name my guys. It helps with the discretion and plausable deniability.

MZ.

[QUOTE=LookinGood;3285622]"I was thinking we'd play a few rounds of speed chess. I'll teach you the game. " Never never never mention any other activities until she has your dick in her mouth. This is my philosophy.[/QUOTE]Smart and really funny.