If an answer to this question is available, I hope I can find it here.
A few months ago I had back surgery to fuse some vertebrae. Titanium rods were installed to provide support and I was told to limit activity and avoid anything strenuous. For the first few weeks after the surgery that was no problem. I was in so much pain the last thing I wanted to do was swing my pelvis back and forth.
I had the final meeting with my doctor last week and he said I can resume normal activity but to be careful with bending and turning. Nothing too strenuous. With my wife sitting next to me it was awkward to ask if swinging from the chandelier with my dick in someone's snatch was an acceptable activity. I have a lady that I see on occasion and we sweat it up like a couple of rabbits. She likes to get on top and ride me hard and I love playing with her bouncing titties.
I also like a good AMP with all the extras. How do I communicate with them that any touching the area around the scar is no go? Alas, I do not speak Chinese and I am worried that what I say may be interpreted as I want a back walk.
If any of you have experience with this type of thing I would value your input. Surely there must be someone who had the same procedure. Must I be content with vanilla sex or can I get back in form?
I am posting this in Milwaukee, Madison and Ft. Myers because those are the locations I frequent. If not for the surgery I would be in SWFL now.