The ebb and flow of the bowl
[QUOTE=RubberyMan;2330884]Fred, I suspect that it is just a cyclical thing. Sometimes there is so much available that it's embarrassing. Other times it's a drought. [/QUOTE]I'm in full agreement with RubberyMan here. I think the amount of action in the bowl varies with the season. So for example, my December was exhausting, whileJanuary seems to be less than spectacular. I'll update at the end of the month with a full report, but as a synopsis SBs 1, 3, and 4, have gone dark or are no longer in the rotation. SB 1 was looking for something I wasn't able to give her, SB 3 was too flaky and then wanted an increase in her allowance, and SB 4 apparently got freaked out when I tore down my old profile.
In December I was turning girls away, this month is nothing but GPS. One SB responded that her per date allowance is $1 K; another SB was looking for a $5 K a month allowance, but could only meet twice a month; a third SB that I was messaging went dark after I notified her that my starting point was going to be $150 a date since she couldn't host but that we could work our way up from there if the physical chemistry was right.
Currently things with SBs 1 and 5 are good. Met with both earlier this month. Hard not to lose it immediately when SB 1 is begging me to be inside her. She is so tight that I may need to look into getting help in the form of vitamin see or V. She understands the limitations of our relationship, but with us its more than just a transaction. SB 5 is fun. But our relationship is clearly transactional. Her per date allowance is higher because she requires less "dating" but I'm also willing to drop her if something better comes along.
I've got 4 M&G's set up. Lunch on Thursday with a very cute blonde that has an amazing body (Pot2). Happy hour on Friday with a cerebral grad student. Who'se private photo's show that she's got a bit of a dark and kinky side (Pot1). I've double booked Saturday afternoon with a Latina (Pot 4) that has an amazing body and a mid / late 20's party gal (Pot 3) who looks like she would be very easy to get into the FC. If the Latina actually shows, I'll end up cancelling and rescheduling with the party gal since I've scheduled them about an hour apart.
I suspect in December that some of these girls were cash starved and needed money. I also agree that there seem to be more younger guys who are entering the bowl. Some of our younger brothers who are making large salaries, but don't have a mortgage, may be living with roommates, may not be spending as much money on future investments, and who may not have expenses related to an SO, have a lot more disposable income at hand to play in the bowl. I wish those brothers good luck. But for all of our younger bretheren who are lurking on this site. Remember, its a marathon, not a sprint.
I think HWG put it best. Anyone can take a girl home by waiving thousands of dollars at a lady. And besides, a big part of the bowl is the fun of playing the game (at least IMHO). Because if it was a sure thing that I wanted, there are much easier ways to go about getting that itch scratched.
-ILSF.
Its almost as if they are reading this forum.
So just got cancelled on my three out of four pots that I had lined up for the weekend. One even messaged that she thinks she had me all wrong and that she thought I was a nice guy.
The only pot left is my Latina on Sat. Hopefully she doesn't pull a no show.
Guess I need to be more careful with what I post here.