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[QUOTE=RanManCan;6603852]In case anyone wants to watch the shame video from Seeking. You have to watch this if they determine you've been naughty.
[URL]https://contents.seeking.com/videos/seeking_violation_solicitation_1080p.mp4[/URL][/QUOTE]That's some comedy. Basically "we need to say you shouldn't use seeking for the very reason we know 100% of you are here. Just don't make it so obvious mmmmkay?
[QUOTE=StudBucket;6604383]I am going to agree with this statement. Once you get you whole approach down, be confident, post good photos, SA is shooting fish in a barrel. At any given month I can get at least 20 decent girls that will go out and meet me. Of course, you must be willing to spend 4-600 to get the better ones on there. Sure, there are many that will ask crazy prices, but I just block those.[/QUOTE]Its YMMV for sure. Not everyone can post pictures for obvious reasons. Tons of men on there are married I read somewhere.
I have posted earlier about a couple of facial recognition sites that could get us guys who want to stay anonymous in trouble. I provided some strategies to avoid trouble, including what I did, put black dots over the eyes and nose of my real photo, which I then send to vetted POTs (vetted by a phone call, and perhaps other sleuthing). I had checked the photos I've been sending from time to time on the two main sites discussed earlier. Look at my earlier posts if you want to know their specific names.
I was sending pix today and got a whim to check mine again. The site that has a name involving checking faces, it suddenly showed one of my real photos, connected w / a website that I am properly on for professional reasons. IDK, in the past, that particular post was not found by the facial recognition site, but it was today.
They have a means to get your photo / link removed from the search results. You select the pic and click through to a page where you can enter either 1) a pic of your driver's license, with info removed / hidden, just the face photo or 2) a selfie you have just taken w / two fingers on your chin. I took the latter path. I uploaded it and they say that it will take up to 5 days for them to permanently delete you from search results. They instantly stop giving your pic as an answer while they consider your removal request. I checked this of course, by using another browser and going back to the site. Now, it did not connect my sanitized photo w / the site that it had found earlier.
We will have to periodically go onto the facial recognition sites and check that our photos aren't being recognized. A pain.
However, I do use this site fairly often on the pics of POTs, and often I can get to their real identities quickly. The information provided, it isn't all that useful in getting to 'yes' w / a POT, but it can cover your ass in case things go south.
[QUOTE=HappyJob;6602554]I got banned and I made other profiles with other email addresses but when I would try paying for premium it wouldn't let me so I'm assuming they had my IP address stored. So then I emailed their support email with my original profile about being reinstated and they were like you were banned for using "ppm" and "dollar amounts" in messages so probably some dumb sb didn't like my offer and reported me saying I was trying to pay for for sex but they gave me another chance and reinstated me and I watch what I say in messages and try to get them to text as soon as possible and I haven't been banned since.[/QUOTE]Was this recent? They said mine was "permanent" but then told me to look up the rules to avoid this in the future LOL. People have been saying how hard it is to get back on.
[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6605763]Was this recent? They said mine was "permanent" but then told me to look up the rules to avoid this in the future LOL. People have been saying how hard it is to get back on.[/QUOTE]Shady situation LOL.
Within a couple of hours of submitting my request to that facial recognition site, they had permanently removed the 'hit' of my IRL photo on their list of results.
They have an odd way of acknowledging, but it does avoid the need to give them an email address. They say just to bookmark the removal page and come back to check. I did, and they said they had agreed to take my photo out.
This is sort of tricky. The photo is definitely in their results, sometimes there is an old website that it can be hard to get back to that has the pic out there (or perhaps it was archived somehow).
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6603852]In case anyone wants to watch the shame video from Seeking. You have to watch this if they determine you've been naughty.
[URL]https://contents.seeking.com/videos/seeking_violation_solicitation_1080p.mp4[/URL][/QUOTE]That's hilarious. What a society of hypocrites we are.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6606260]Within a couple of hours of submitting my request to that facial recognition site, they had permanently removed the 'hit' of my IRL photo on their list of results.
They have an odd way of acknowledging, but it does avoid the need to give them an email address. They say just to bookmark the removal page and come back to check. I did, and they said they had agreed to take my photo out.
This is sort of tricky. The photo is definitely in their results, sometimes there is an old website that it can be hard to get back to that has the pic out there (or perhaps it was archived somehow).[/QUOTE]Just did the same, surprised how quickly they took action (less than 24 hours). I submitted several other photos of me and everything came back clean. I did use my real email, I figured there was nothing shady or illegal about wanting to remove my photos from a search engine and therefore nothing to hide.
Wow, I was on [URL]Rover.com[/URL] looking for a dogsitter, and the place is filled w / girls who look like they could also be on seeking. I think they could be persuaded. If you have no SO. I'd love to hear someone who has tried this.
[QUOTE=Chupacabra;6606381]That's hilarious. What a society of hypocrites we are.[/QUOTE]Pretty humorous in some way LOL.
Has anyone pursued SBs who are in the same industry? I had a meet and greet with a POT and it turns out she's in the same profession. I didn't tell her what I do but am afraid that it's a matter of time before she figures out who I am since it's a small world. Thoughts?
[QUOTE=WhiteCollarGuy;6607048]Has anyone pursued SBs who are in the same industry? I had a meet and greet with a POT and it turns out she's in the same profession. I didn't tell her what I do but am afraid that it's a matter of time before she figures out who I am since it's a small world. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Sorta, not exactly. I work in a large organization. Thousands of people at this location. There are definitely some girls who are also here who are candidates to show up on SA. I have for the most part been careful about this, figuring if I was seeing someone from my organization, there is a much greater chance of her coming across my IRL identity (of course I have a sugar story that doesn't involve my working here). So once those POTs divulged that they were here, I just blocked them and went on. Too many fish in the sea and all.
However, I am just now sorely tempted to violate my rules. I have a hankering to bang an Indian-American girl, and there is a POT right now who really floats my boat. And in my organization. Absolutely gorgeous. She is in a department far from mine (subject-wise and physically). We've spoken by phone and she is interested, though I am above her age range. Hence she wants to see full pix. Even those that have been sanitized to avoid facial recognition, someone at this organization upon seeing them could recognize me. Of course, this girl likely doesn't want anyone knowing that she is active on the site either.
She says her last arrangement ended about a month ago. She is hot enough she won't have to wait long to get some new offers. Carpe diem.
Had an interaction w / a POT that is a new experience for me on the site, after literally hundreds over the years. She's an educated Latina, seems like we'd have some things in common, hence I engaged her. After an initial phone call, I did sent her sanitized pix, just a couple. Those were OK for her so we are discussing a M&G. She said once on the call and once by text that she wanted to do lunch. Many people don't care what the initial meeting entails, others perhaps have read on Reddit or whatever that they should 'test' if someone is a sugar daddy or a Splenda daddy by trying to get a fancier M&G.
I most often pick a coffee place, and of course don't care if the girl wants a muffin in addition to her latte. I have done lunch w / a few also, I need to be a little more careful selecting a restaurant that has the right vibe and isn't going to put me in a vulnerable position (by running into someone IK, for example). I have a couple of these choices, and I suggested one to her. It is in a local shopping mall, and located near the parking structure, facilitating going to one of our cars for 'private' discussions provided the lunch went well. In my car, well, I can be blunt about my sexual practices, and if lucky, can get my hands / lips onto the lady in question.
This gal, she responds to my suggested venue by saying, no, she would really rather go to another, fancier restaurant in that mall. Some foods she likes there. IK it is a much higher profile than the place I offered, and poses risks to me that are unknown. The fact that now, a couple of times, she's been demanding w / my contributions to her world does not bode well for us to develop the sort of financial relationship I envision. I don't typically get crazy with the $. So I took her approach as an indication of her GPS. There are lots and lots of girls on the site, there is no particular reason I need this one. I am just going to try ghosting, see if she gets the idea.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6606677]Wow, I was on [URL]Rover.com[/URL] looking for a dogsitter, and the place is filled w / girls who look like they could also be on seeking. I think they could be persuaded. If you have no SO. I'd love to hear someone who has tried this.[/QUOTE]Interesting so how would you approach here if you find anyone interested.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6607838]Had an interaction w / a POT that is a new experience for me on the site, after literally hundreds over the years. She's an educated Latina, seems like we'd have some things in common, hence I engaged her. After an initial phone call, I did sent her sanitized pix, just a couple. Those were OK for her so we are discussing a M&G. She said once on the call and once by text that she wanted to do lunch. Many people don't care what the initial meeting entails, others perhaps have read on Reddit or whatever that they should 'test' if someone is a sugar daddy or a Splenda daddy by trying to get a fancier M&G.
I most often pick a coffee place, and of course don't care if the girl wants a muffin in addition to her latte. I have done lunch w / a few also, I need to be a little more careful selecting a restaurant that has the right vibe and isn't going to put me in a vulnerable position (by running into someone IK, for example). I have a couple of these choices, and I suggested one to her. It is in a local shopping mall, and located near the parking structure, facilitating going to one of our cars for 'private' discussions provided the lunch went well. In my car, well, I can be blunt about my sexual practices, and if lucky, can get my hands / lips onto the lady in question.
This gal, she responds to my suggested venue by saying, no, she would really rather go to another, fancier restaurant in that mall. Some foods she likes there. IK it is a much higher profile than the place I offered, and poses risks to me that are unknown. The fact that now, a couple of times, she's been demanding w / my contributions to her world does not bode well for us to develop the sort of financial relationship I envision. I don't typically get crazy with the $. So I took her approach as an indication of her GPS. There are lots and lots of girls on the site, there is no particular reason I need this one. I am just going to try ghosting, see if she gets the idea.[/QUOTE]I mean she wants you to know she is pricey. Good for her, not so good for you. In my case if I say to them I'll take you anywhere, they usually say something like olive garden, wingstop or even del taco. Gotta love it. Different demographic.