Price ranges and expectations
[QUOTE=JoeLooking;6335905]What's your price range? What's your looks expectations? We've sadly become an area where if you play at the higher price points (400+) then you'll have options but many IMO won't be worth it. I say this based on rules, attitude and frankly the opportunity cost. When I consider having to pay $500/ hr for some trim I'm forced to ask myself how can I better spend the money and there are tons of ways. It also limits the ability to see more providers in a month and personally I'd rather go to the DR every 3 months (spending less) than to only see 1-2 providers a month.
If you're looking for the low end 60-180 then you'll need to weed through lots of flakes and scam ads and then hope you don't get ghosted. There seems to be some senior members who have regulars in the lower price range but I don't think most have ads so there's always buyer beware. I generally get a response but then the big head starts to think and I realize I don't want to pay 180 for a hh with a chick who is in a shitty motel and lately I've had less look getting some to drop their prices.
The other option is the Asian ads. They won't get you a good looker like the ads but you'll get a real woman and generally not get ghosted.
Largely I'm to the point where it's easier to just get a HJ from massage places. If you're willing to drive then there's Fayetteville. I find the providers at the low end there are at least real but you still have the drug issues.
FWIW there is a list of reputable providers who are "reasonably priced". Some that come to mind are Vickie (warning she offers BBFS to most customers), Jessica Foxx, Savannah Staxx, Kelli Dior (if she's still around because she had gotten pricey), Marie 69, the infamous Noa. None that I mentioned have outrageous prices and for the most part they all have positive reviews.
Ultimately I say good luck to you my friend.[/QUOTE]This puts a very interesting perspective on the hobby. Even though I'm a "senior member", I'm still quite new to all of this. My first provider experience was around this time last year, and I've averaged about 1 visit a month since then. Based on the recommendation of a senior member via a PM conversation, I went with an attractive provider from Tryst that was in the "expensive" price range. She was on tour, had a website and reviews on PD. I felt confident I was going to arrive at a safe location and the that person I would meet would match my expectations. And that's how it worked. Since then, I like to see at least two of the following for my screening purposes:
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- Website
- Active Twitter
- Ad on Tryst or Eros
- Listing on P411
- Reviews on TER or PD
- Direct recommendation from another forum member[/LIST]
With one exception, all of the providers that I have seen have met at least 2 of the items from this list with matching pictures and contact information in the multiple sources. The exception was one of the providers listed in the referenced post. Unfortunately, this typically puts me into the greater than $400 hour per hour price range for touring providers.
I very much like the ability to screen providers so that I feel comfortable with my personal safety and the situation I am going into. I am willing to pay more and partake less to be confident of what to expect with in terms of both physical appearance and performance. All of my meetings have been in safe places and the person was who I expected her to be. Most were good experiences. In one case the provider was quite a bit heavier than expected, but I still had a good time. In another case, the provider was every bit as hot as expected, but I was very disappointed with how things went.
It blows my mind and makes my skin crawl to read about the risks some members are willing to take for a cheap QV with a totally unknown provider in a very sketchy location. Call me snobby or a stupid spender or whatever, but I place a high value on my health, safety and well being. I am very much in favor of letting the big head make informed decisions.
Raphaella Brazilian on adult search
I went to see her today after a referral from a friend. She is small and has very nice body finally a girl who matches the photos on the website. She doesn't speak English at all but this Brazilian knows and like what she is doing.
Definitely going to visit another time after work.