Providers: a psychological analysis
[QUOTE=Seenum]Everyone just have to remember amp girls are people too some are just a little complicated ( and over paid ).[/QUOTE]
Yes, providers are human too, but with that, they usually have more psychological baggage than a "normal" girl. They do have emotions, but the fact is that they value money over most everything else and can turn their feelings off.
It's not just a matter of survival for some, as plenty make more than they or most people would ever need. But how many of them would you guess save their pennies for a rainy day, invest and/or start up a legitimate business? (as opposed to blowing it on luxury goods, clothing and travel).
You can also chalk it up to the "when we're young, we do stupid things", but there are plenty of older providers, right? Then maybe they go on to become MS.
Some might say it's "easy" money, but it's long hours with lots of waiting, dealing with certain undesirable clients, and losing their privacy when out in public. (one admitted her fear to me of being recognized on the street and having to walk around with a big hat and sunglasses all of the time)
As much as they make though, they could possibly make as much per night/hour bartending or waiting tables in a really high end place though, without subjecting themselves to using their bodies.
I always joke that this is in the "customer-service" field, but it's definitely the highest paid position with that title. It's also kind of like retail sales, with the product being themselves. They have to wait for their customers to arrive, market themselves, and create an attractive package that appeals to their customer.
Some of them may have been abused physically or traumatized emotionally by men when younger, so this is part of how they value themselves and their worth judged only by their physical appearance and as sex objects. Or this is their way of "getting back" at men, and taking some kind of power by taking their money.