Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=RudolphTheRed;6377633]I posted this in the NY Hudson Valley section, but I think it's relevant anywhere Seeking is used:

I have been using [URL]Seeking.com[/URL] on and off since last June, and have had several successful and satisfying hookups. But I've also learned a few things that you guys might find helpful:

First, most of the profiles of women in our area are fake (surprise! They are probably not even real women, just scammers trying to get personal information from you, such as your phone number etc. , for spamming. They will sometimes respond to your messages by giving their phone number and asking you to text them. I never text or give up my phone number until I've actually spoken to or had a video chat face to face with that person. A video chat is the best way to weed out the fakes. I've also called their bluff and have called them from a blocked number; in most cases they don't answer, but in a few cases I've actually spoken to real women and have had successful hookups with a few of them. Here are a few tips for spotting fakes based on my experience:

1. Many of the fake accounts are brand new, having been created in the last few days or couple of weeks. They will have photos that are too good to be true, with little to no content in their "About Me "and "Seeking" profile sections. Be wary of text that doesn't sound like the way an American person would normally speak, with strange turns of phrases or expressions; these are usually scammers in other countries.

2. If you message someone and get a response, ask them to do a video chat with you fairly soon. That is the best way to verify that somebody is a real person rather than a bot or scammer. But note that video chat is disabled by default in new profiles, and a few changes need to be made to enable it. If you need more info just reply to this thread I will provide instructions and a screenshot that you can send to the woman.

3. Never send any money for gas or anything else to anybody that you haven't actually met already.

4. You will be "Favorited" byaccounts in foreign countries such as Venezuela or Colombia or the Philippines, etc. You can ignore these, they are always fake.

5. Always assume that an account is fake unless proven otherwise.[/QUOTE]I was under the impression that pointing out profiles of women that were real and a good date was the point of posting on here. Call me crazy but..

[QUOTE=Syedna;6378396]I was under the impression that pointing out profiles of women that were real and a good date was the point of posting on here. Call me crazy but..[/QUOTE]In the spirit of that sentiment I'll share this profile:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/424abe17-6050-4c77-8742-249f6f51e791[/URL]

The pictures are her, but tamp down your expectations as she definitely takes advantage of camera angles, lighting, makeup, etc and "curvy" is being a little generous. She can't host, and she's a little quirky, if you meet her you'll see what I mean, but overall she's a nice person and is pretty chill, smokes weed, I don't think does any hard drugs, you can negotiate BBBJCIMWS for around 100.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6377656]This is all solid advice and 100% consistent with my experience on seeking. I joined in December 2021 and have slept with 28 different women. I'm working on 2 new ladies today.[/QUOTE]Damn JClearMan I seem to be quoting your posts all over the board today man LOL. Ok you said you've slept with 28 different women off seeking? What were the price ranges around for most of your encounters? And are they willing to do PPM? Were any of them BBFS and Anal friendly? Or at least BBBJCIM or on face and daty friendly?

What would you rate the overall quality of most of the providers you met on seeking vs escorts on the escort sites that we all know and use? And would you recommend Seeking over escort sites? I have a seeking account but never paid the $75 fee or whatever it currently is now. Feel free to direct message me as well, if you don't feel like responding in this thread. Thanks J.

I am just curious. How many of you have a girl you met on SA come to your personal private home.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;6379799]I am just curious. How many of you have a girl you met on SA come to your personal private home.[/QUOTE]Never. Sometimes these girls go downhill over time, especially if they get into drugs. You may trust them now but they may go crazy later.

[QUOTE=Wockser;6379915]Never. Sometimes these girls go downhill over time, especially if they get into drugs. You may trust them now but they may go crazy later.[/QUOTE]This is what I am afraid of. Back in the day maybe some 8 years ago when SA was mostly college coeds looking to be treated nicer than the regular guys they were dating on POF or OKC I didn't have a problem with the girls coming over. But now it is such a mixed bag that I just do not know.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;6379799]I am just curious. How many of you have a girl you met on SA come to your personal private home.[/QUOTE]I have had SA girl visit me at home. I usually meet them at a mall outside that's about 4 minutes from my place.

Its usually the Brazilian / latina women that are the best to invite to your place. They are super nice and easy good to you.

[QUOTE=Joey1994;6353912]She just moved to the top of my list.

Love me some crazy.[/QUOTE]I met her recently for a drink. She is definitely the gal in the pictures. Looks real cute. But as indicated earlier talking to her is the most frustrating thing.

Ni matter what to say or try to talk to her its tough. I think she might have some mental demons or so.

Whoever she is she is gone.

[QUOTE=FrogPilot;6378565]In the spirit of that sentiment I'll share this profile:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/424abe17-6050-4c77-8742-249f6f51e791[/URL]

The pictures are her, but tamp down your expectations as she definitely takes advantage of camera angles, lighting, makeup, etc and "curvy" is being a little generous. She can't host, and she's a little quirky, if you meet her you'll see what I mean, but overall she's a nice person and is pretty chill, smokes weed, I don't think does any hard drugs, you can negotiate BBBJCIMWS for around 100.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SpicyPrince;6380146]I met her recently for a drink. She is definitely the gal in the pictures. Looks real cute. But as indicated earlier talking to her is the most frustrating thing.

Ni matter what to say or try to talk to her its tough. I think she might have some mental demons or so.[/QUOTE]Is she still on SA? Don't see her profile anymore.

Any information?

Smells like a scam or set up.

Sent a sc and the response was 'but I'm 13, are you okay with that?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b1973e87-5015-4497-8a27-9c9d9eb782ab[/URL]

But I'll be honest, I've done it.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;6379799]I am just curious. How many of you have a girl you met on SA come to your personal private home.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tribeca67;6381016]Any information?[/QUOTE]Here is a link to her profile for those interested.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9a5c4a07-ecc5-4d8f-80af-a8fc5757891b[/URL]

I been in the scene of meeting escorts for a while. But I've yet to meet anybody from seeking or what your price. I'm meeting somebody tomorrow for the first time just for lunch. Anybody got any tips like what the hell are we supposed to talk about meaning. Like if she's looking for a sugar daddy, are you supposed to just do a standard fee to hang? Typically, I'm always in the scenario paying somebody to leave not paying somebody to stay. That's not an actual companion / escort. I'm assuming that she wants stuff to be bought for her but at what cost cost of hotel dates? Etc etc I mean I don't want to run away if she asks what I'm looking for am I reply as I'd like to bang you once a month I'll buy sneakers LOL. ? Lmk thanks yalllll.