[QUOTE=Benz1;4230696]Then don't go.
If you don't go, the market might correct it's self.
I think we're missing the point of the service the hobby MP provides. If they wanted a massage their are plenty of licensed massage girls to do the job for them. If they just need a HJ, they can do it themselves.
I have a friend that spends a lot of money on a MP girl once or twice a month. He does not care how much anyone else is paying, he will pay more for her to make him a priority when he wants to see her. Maybe he gets off on getting this girl to drop everything for him, when he wants to see her (control freak?) We really don't know what goes on in the psyche of every hobbiest or what really goes on in the room for them to be happy paying whatever price.
Speculating how we think it should be (as experienced negotiators and hobbiest) doesn't matter to every monger. We have to do our own math and give up questioning how other mongers do their math because it won't make sense to us.[/QUOTE]I am posting for the first time on this forum, but I have been reading this forum for over 10 years. I have over 25 years mongering at MP's and can when I am compelled to write. Benz1 is completely accurate, I have paid way above going rates because I have learned that I would rather have personal attention due to my tipping, than be ignored or have to wait in a line with other people. I know that most people are on a budget, but I just don't really care. I have seen countless providers over the years and I just would rather be a priority with an extra "above average" tip, than tip normal rates and be just another regular "monger". I make good money and would choose to spend it the way I see fit, even though I know it may not be the "norm". I am sorry if this offends someone, but when you are on the table and the provider is good at what she does, then I have learned over the years to tip more to become a priority. Sorry, Benz1, but I din't mean to write so long. I just can't handle when people try to fit a square peg in a round hole! LOL.
