[QUOTE=Murrican;6576573]This. And this again.
I've been saying this for years on this thread.
People who try to win conversations with crazy girls and pat themselves on the back because they got the last word in are idiots. Some girls are awful. You will encounter them. If you just politely excuse yourself from the conversation you don't get the smug satisfaction of the last word, but you also won't be posting here asking about alternatives to Seeking because you got banned. Just politely say "you seem great but we want different things and I wish you all the best. You deserve it and some guy will be lucky to have you. " And then move on. I've personally done this maybe 50 times and never once regretted it later. I don't even remember the girls anymore, but I'm still doing my thing. That's the point.[/QUOTE]If I even bother to reply these are my usuals or something close to it.
I'll keep that in mind. (my most commonly used reply)
I'll let you know if I want to treat myself sometime.
So worth it, but just not in my budget right now.
I just found what I was looking for, and I know you will too.
As pretty as you are I believe it, blah blah blah
I've actually had girls thank me for being nice when I reject their offer (as so many guys get angry). And if they counter offer I just tell them I don't negotiate because they deserve what ever they are asking and I don't want them to be unhappy when we are together. Never been booted in 15+ years.
I also never talk specifically about sex on the site. Move to txt asap. But I never go to txt until the $ amount is agreed upon. So it's still not a done deal some of the time. And expectations will still need to be discussed even if they "get it". And for the ones that don't get it, well they may just move on or ask for more $.