Since I do not live there.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;3624549]Most of what you wrote there doesn't make sense to me (a lot like word salad that BigMack writes) but I just want to say that this:
I've never hit up a buddy of mine and told him I'm coming to visit and want to look at porn when I get there. That would be uncomfortable. LOL.[/QUOTE]I would want to take a lady from that area to a hotel that has porn to see if we can duplicate some of the activities. I guess I can see where someone might think it to be unusual but if I were a stranger visiting this area I would want to know where I might take a visiting lady or a new lady to watch some porn and get busy. Anyhow we all have to do what we have to do to enhance our activities since father time is moving on. Have a good weekend and keep your flag flying.
Mongernator's "Mexit" (aka: signing off)
It was a good run. But I don't have the stomach for this hobby any longer. Without going into detail I have finally acquired an incredible situation for myself that now leaves me completely, and ironically, distracted from the hobby. For the first time EVER I am now not only compelled to give up the hobby, I honestly don't find myself that interested even in checking-in to the board here just to see what's going on. I still occasionally do for entertainment. But it's now been weeks since participating. And after this post I see myself signing-in less and less until I'm probably soon not going to be checking-in at all. This comes after over 40 years of mongering on four continents around the world and the small fortune spent supporting it. Most importantly, I have no regrets!
I've seen and experienced it all. And though I'm as fit as I was in my twenties, I cannot mentally keep up with the volume of trials, tribulations, and troubles associated with today's current version of the hobby any longer. Some may say I'm wimping out. I think it's more like I'm mentally worn out. I mostly attribute this to direct and indirect byproducts of the heroin epidemic. I've never experienced anything like it since my first encounters with it starting around seven years ago. Before these past few years, the volume of thievery, lies, deceptions, stray needles and paraphernalia left in my car and / or hotel bathrooms, dope sick sob stories, blah blah blah was nowhere near as high as it is now. And then finally around a month ago I had my first terrifying encounter with a gorgeous high-end passed-out provider who finally woke after an hour (and just before I was about to sacrifice everything to do the right thing and call for an ambulance). No, I won't name names here. For me, it's simply time to retire.
Don't get me wrong. I not only had a blast over the past decades (and I've had some absolutely amazing experiences), I learned a lot about myself and what I've concluded about the true nature of humanity.
Though some of you may be thinking, "he'll be back. " I won't. Even if what I believe I've finally established for myself now turns out to be a drastic miscalculation (which of course is always a possibility), I'm settled with my "mexit" (short for monger-exit). Not sharing details about this, but for the first time I am completely undistracted from my personal path. It's actually sort of weird to no longer be hobby-distracted during a relationship commitment. And I'm enthusiastically embracing it.
I'm sharing this with the team now because this site has been a most amazing resource for both my later years of hobby successes and my safety. I especially wish to thank Jackson and A2 for making it happen and dealing with the crap that comes along with it (including some from me). It's kept us all informed and as safe as possible given we all have no choice but to be UTR ourselves. Thanks as well to my brother mongers for your PMs, advice, and rants. And for those of you just getting started on this board, my unsolicited advice is:
- NEVER reveal your real name to anyone.
- NEVER use anything other than a burner phone (app phone numbers suck and I'm still not convinced they're as UTR as anonymously cash-purchased burner phones IMHO).
- and NEVER lend a thing (cash or otherwise) that you'll ever expect returned.
Safe travels and good hunting, my friends. It was a good run.
Mongernator out.
An out of towner chimes in
[QUOTE=Daytonfreek;3620623]Since this is the stupid shit thread, I thought I'd create a stupid little monger poll. How many providers have you nailed? If you don't know the exact number, give your best estimate.
I lost count years ago when my total was somewhere in the 20's. I've got to be closing in on 50 by now. Hell, I might have even passed it already. Not tooting my own horn, but I think that's a pretty impressive number taking the fact that I didn't become a monger until 2008 into consideration. I'd say that's at least 8 times the pussy that that an average guy like me will get in his lifetime without choosing to be a monger.[/QUOTE]I'll say that it's been a long time I've been in the hobby. My first SW experience was around 1985, while I was in college. MY first strip joint back-room fun was around 1983. I've mongered in several states. Illinois, Wisconsin, Indiana, Michigan, Minnesota, Pennsylvania, New York, Georgia, Florida, Kentucky, Tennessee, Arizona, California, Colorado, Rhode Island, Massachusetts, Iowa. And done the strip club scene in all of these states, too. As a monger, I'd say that on average, I probably averaged a session a week for several years, spent a several years outside the hobby entirely, and probably had a one-a-month hobby for 10 years or so. If I had to guess, and if I broke it all down, I'd give it this estimate:
SWs: 600.
BP / CL Providers: 150.
Backroom fun: 40.
Take-out: 20.
Damn. There were more than I thought I'd had. A lot more. And when I start thinking about how expensive that hobby was (say 30 a pop on SW, 100 on BP / CLers, 150 in the backroom, and 100 for take-out), it adds up. Wow.
Then add in the hotel rooms, the gas I've burned curb-crawling, the dancer tips, in some cases the airfare to go "destination-mongering". I'm probably into the hobby for 60-70 K.
You don't know me. So this may not mean anything to anyone reading this, but thanks for asking the question, making me think about the answer, and thanks for reading.
Almost got myself a RED FLAG
I started to write this post in the ESCORT section but quickly realized that A2 would probably throw me a RED FLAG so I changed to the STUPID SHIT section. This is meant to be a helpful post and elicit comments from members, and not a DIG at the board management.
Most guys realize that achieving Senior Status brings with it several privileges not the least of which is the ability to have your post go up without prior review of the moderator. Of course ALL posts are subject to moderator discretion and that is what keeps the board quality high. In addition, Senior Status does help with a provider's screening since she sees your tenure.
HOWEVER. Posts, like a recent one, that state "I had a great time. Not going to tell you who it was or anything else so don't PM me" (paraphrased) does no good for anyone except to UP your posting count by 1. I looked back at all of the prior posts of this contributor and found most of them had about the same level of valuable information. So timeline tenure and contributions were steady, earning status, but could have easily been made up reading other guys posts and rephrasing them over a period of months.
I would hope that there could be some threshold that qualifies a member for "senior points. " I know A2 works hard on this but the value of the senior badge for members who actually post useful information and provide real assistance to members is watered down. We all tend to post minimalist posting once in a while (monger banter,) but most senior members do have either a very long timeline of posts (years) and provide substantial information the least of which is to identify the provider. Some of us try to keep the torrid details off the main boards to help these ladies fly low.
Just my thoughts -.
