Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Tptp01;6337833]Hi gents. Getting back into the game after taking time off to deal with a few things. I'm very discrete like we all are so I never host at my place until I've been with them for 3+ times. I live in a condo building with multiple floors which means there's a good chance of running into multiple noisy neighbors. I also don't like them hosting initially either, paranoid about cameras, pimps, BF, etc so I end up paying for a hotel. My first time back into the game was last night and the she / he / it on the other end was a no show so I lost the cost of the hotel room. Curious on how others are dealing with initial meet ups and am I over thinking things.[/QUOTE]I usually do the initial meeting as a coffee date. Sometimes inside or sitting in my car. Not a lot of risk here.

If we determine we are a good fit assuming they show up ofc, I try to set up a meeting ASAP to reduce the cold feet or better offer issue. Usually we have discussed all of the finer details about what we can expect as well as the donation over coffee. Also, get her social media info if you can. It helps to see if she is fake or has a real life. I find the girls with an actual life tend to follow thru as they have a goal and need the cash. To reduce the hotel burn rate try having her text you when she is on her way or close. It's not perfect but it helps. Another option is check in when she arrives then you can text her the room number. I prefer getting there before the girl but it does suck if she is a no show. Another option, if you haven't been in the room for more than 30 minutes try telling the front office you have an emergency and need to cancel. Just make sure the room isn't disturbed. This works sometimes with the better chain hotels and especially if you are a gold member.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;6337907]I usually do the initial meeting as a coffee date. Sometimes inside or sitting in my car. Not a lot of risk here.

If we determine we are a good fit assuming they show up ofc, I try to set up a meeting ASAP to reduce the cold feet or better offer issue. Usually we have discussed all of the finer details about what we can expect as well as the donation over coffee. Also, get her social media info if you can. It helps to see if she is fake or has a real life. I find the girls with an actual life tend to follow thru as they have a goal and need the cash. To reduce the hotel burn rate try having her text you when she is on her way or close. It's not perfect but it helps. Another option is check in when she arrives then you can text her the room number. I prefer getting there before the girl but it does suck if she is a no show. Another option, if you haven't been in the room for more than 30 minutes try telling the front office you have an emergency and need to cancel. Just make sure the room isn't disturbed. This works sometimes with the better chain hotels and especially if you are a gold member.[/QUOTE]This. Plus dayuse will let you reserve a room with no cancellation fee, so if you get ghosted, you can just cancel, no big deal.

Any reports on SexyAlexi? Curvy gal in her 40's. I've had my experiences but curious about others.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8e19e968-146f-4ba6-bc73-338318213e21[/URL]

I have found Dayuse to be an amazing resource, but I did have a near miss last week. I scheduled a Dayuse room in Boston and when I got to the hotel they did not have my reservation. The person at the desk called the manager and he told her to have me check my phone and show her the reservation because while they had a room available they did not know the rate. It all worked out. As did the day's events with the sugar baby. But definitely bring your reservation confirmation with you if you are using Dayuse.

[QUOTE=Mfp79;6338104]This. Plus dayuse will let you reserve a room with no cancellation fee, so if you get ghosted, you can just cancel, no big deal.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Joe1223;6337907]I usually do the initial meeting as a coffee date. Sometimes inside or sitting in my car. Not a lot of risk here.

If we determine we are a good fit assuming they show up ofc, I try to set up a meeting ASAP to reduce the cold feet or better offer issue. Usually we have discussed all of the finer details about what we can expect as well as the donation over coffee. Also, get her social media info if you can. It helps to see if she is fake or has a real life. I find the girls with an actual life tend to follow thru as they have a goal and need the cash. To reduce the hotel burn rate try having her text you when she is on her way or close. It's not perfect but it helps. Another option is check in when she arrives then you can text her the room number. I prefer getting there before the girl but it does suck if she is a no show. Another option, if you haven't been in the room for more than 30 minutes try telling the front office you have an emergency and need to cancel. Just make sure the room isn't disturbed. This works sometimes with the better chain hotels and especially if you are a gold member.[/QUOTE]I have done a few coffee meetups and find that if you vibe well together you go straight to a date right away. Works best that way. I agree the longer you wait from your first encounter the more they will get cold feet if she is not a pro.

[QUOTE=Tptp01;6337833]Hi gents. Getting back into the game after taking time off to deal with a few things. I'm very discrete like we all are so I never host at my place until I've been with them for 3+ times. I live in a condo building with multiple floors which means there's a good chance of running into multiple noisy neighbors. I also don't like them hosting initially either, paranoid about cameras, pimps, BF, etc so I end up paying for a hotel. My first time back into the game was last night and the she / he / it on the other end was a no show so I lost the cost of the hotel room. Curious on how others are dealing with initial meet ups and am I over thinking things.[/QUOTE]Tell your sb that you have nosy neighbors. Ask her to bring a mop and a bucket so she can bring it to your apartment. Your neighbors will think she is a maid.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aa0ff8e2-c41d-45da-8521-63a6f7b99de6[/URL]

Flag #1, actually initiated conversation.

Flag #2, relatively new profile.

Gave her a burner #, hers was an out of state area code.

Atlanta, Hmm. That's not quite Massachusetts. Do you have a problem with distance? "I have a problem with "someone who pretends to be someone they are not". Age was also different.

Blocked. Deleted burner number.

1. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/187f1c75-b705-400c-87d1-4f502f9a64ec[/URL].

Chatted. First meet is 1000 without intimacy. Intimacy is from only second meet. Any millionaire guys can go for it.

2. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/955c4f36-982f-4792-bd5b-b43b43e4399f[/URL].

Typical stg vibes. Quoted 250 hhr and 400 hr. Hosts in Hyannis.

3. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d6e559b9-cf66-4d8d-8cbe-7ddcf98e25c2[/URL].

Scammer. Will need breakfast or gas money.

4. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/481b82d7-9da8-4890-af5f-ceee528e6f3c[/URL].

Scammer again. Speaks normally and towards the end will need some groceries or food money.

5. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ddd9e574-c4a1-4248-a058-95a2eae8f4f6[/URL].

Needs 1000 per meet.

6. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d0725a7d-f3a0-43c0-a9f5-def69eaaf538[/URL].

Recently started posting on stg as well. Quotes 300 per hour.

1. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/187f1c75-b705-400c-87d1-4f502f9a64ec[/URL].

Chatted. First meet is 1000 without intimacy. Intimacy is from only second meet. Any millionaire guys can go for it.

2. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/955c4f36-982f-4792-bd5b-b43b43e4399f[/URL].

Typical stg vibes. Quoted 250 hhr and 400 hr. Hosts in Hyannis.

3. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d6e559b9-cf66-4d8d-8cbe-7ddcf98e25c2[/URL].

Scammer. Will need breakfast or gas money.

4. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/481b82d7-9da8-4890-af5f-ceee528e6f3c[/URL].

Scammer again. Speaks normally and towards the end will need some groceries or food money.

5. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ddd9e574-c4a1-4248-a058-95a2eae8f4f6[/URL].

Needs 1000 per meet.

6. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d0725a7d-f3a0-43c0-a9f5-def69eaaf538[/URL].

Recently started posting on stg as well. Quotes 300 per hour.

[QUOTE=Ram2215;6338820]1. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/187f1c75-b705-400c-87d1-4f502f9a64ec[/URL].

Chatted. First meet is 1000 without intimacy. Intimacy is from only second meet. Any millionaire guys can go for it.

2. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/955c4f36-982f-4792-bd5b-b43b43e4399f[/URL].

Typical stg vibes. Quoted 250 hhr and 400 hr. Hosts in Hyannis.

3. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d6e559b9-cf66-4d8d-8cbe-7ddcf98e25c2[/URL].

Scammer. Will need breakfast or gas money.

4. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/481b82d7-9da8-4890-af5f-ceee528e6f3c[/URL].

Scammer again. Speaks normally and towards the end will need some groceries or food money.

5. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ddd9e574-c4a1-4248-a058-95a2eae8f4f6[/URL].

Needs 1000 per meet.

6. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d0725a7d-f3a0-43c0-a9f5-def69eaaf538[/URL].

Recently started posting on stg as well. Quotes 300 per hour.[/QUOTE]2 and 6 look like good pawg.

[QUOTE=Ram2215;6338820]1. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/187f1c75-b705-400c-87d1-4f502f9a64ec[/URL].

Chatted. First meet is 1000 without intimacy. Intimacy is from only second meet. Any millionaire guys can go for it.

2. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/955c4f36-982f-4792-bd5b-b43b43e4399f[/URL].

Typical stg vibes. Quoted 250 hhr and 400 hr. Hosts in Hyannis.

3. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d6e559b9-cf66-4d8d-8cbe-7ddcf98e25c2[/URL].

Scammer. Will need breakfast or gas money.

4. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/481b82d7-9da8-4890-af5f-ceee528e6f3c[/URL].

Scammer again. Speaks normally and towards the end will need some groceries or food money.

5. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ddd9e574-c4a1-4248-a058-95a2eae8f4f6[/URL].

Needs 1000 per meet.

6. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d0725a7d-f3a0-43c0-a9f5-def69eaaf538[/URL].

Recently started posting on stg as well. Quotes 300 per hour.[/QUOTE]#2 [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/955c4f36-982f-4792-bd5b-b43b43e4399f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL].

She reached out to me, as I actually am on the cape. Actually talked details on the site, which I just said let's chat off-site. Got a new burner number as I just had a bad feel. I said I wasn't able to meet today, at all as I actually had a meeting off cape last night (legitimately) and wouldn't be home until late (got home around midnight). Asked if she was around tomorrow (Friday) She said absolutely not and the meet had to be today. Here it is Friday, location is updated, and she is still looking, and hmu. I just ignored. Just get a feeling about this one.

Curious how discreet your profiles are. I don't want to show my face nor do I believe in the private photo section. This information is all potentially hackable if that site gets attacked. There is lots of human error when building these sites and sometimes simple exploits like SQL injection can reveal vulnerabilities.

Do you guys exchange real pics through text? Was showing body pics and getting to meet me like that, but it tends to leave some higher quality ones off the table. I just don't like people having access to anything that directly identifies me until trust is established. The guys sending licenses and selfies to escorts should have their heads examined.

[QUOTE=BlackHoleSun82;6340156]Curious how discreet your profiles are. I don't want to show my face nor do I believe in the private photo section. This information is all potentially hackable if that site gets attacked. There is lots of human error when building these sites and sometimes simple exploits like SQL injection can reveal vulnerabilities.

Do you guys exchange real pics through text? Was showing body pics and getting to meet me like that, but it tends to leave some higher quality ones off the table. I just don't like people having access to anything that directly identifies me until trust is established. The guys sending licenses and selfies to escorts should have their heads examined.[/QUOTE]Take a basic Facebook pic and use that in your private pics, then if anything happens you can say someone stole your pic off Facebook 🤷127995;8205;9794;65039;.

[QUOTE=BlackHoleSun82;6340156]Do you guys exchange real pics through text? Was showing body pics and getting to meet me like that, but it tends to leave some higher quality ones off the table. I just don't like people having access to anything that directly identifies me until trust is established. The guys sending licenses and selfies to escorts should have their heads examined.[/QUOTE]- don't use pics from LinkedIn or if you have other public social media like Snapchat, tiktok, twitter.

- You can use FB ones, but I would slightly doctor or change them via photoshop so the metadata doesn't line up in reverse image searches (also make sure your FB profile is only searchable through just friends).

- also when I do have a profile, my only public pic is usually me with a mask and sunglasses on, with a few more photos behind private but you can also just say on your profile "I have more pics, message me to see more!" and actually use it as a way to potentially drive more engagement and interest.

The girls get solicited by scammers as well which is why they want to see some pics before talking (as well as attraction) to see if you are real. But the rule of thumb is: "have enough to show you are real, but not enough to be easily traced" and you should be fine.

You described the modus operandi perfectly. The girl is used a bait (almost a trafficked victim) to lure the SD to a place where he can be threatened and convinced to part with his valuables. In my case there was another male accomplice that made it harder for me to fight back. Very unscrupulous people and I hope they get their due very soon.

[QUOTE=Potholes774;6281481]Avoid this girl. Will ask to host then show up with her baby daddy. Claims he's just her ride but as soon as you get out of the car he gets out too. Luckily I always carry. Oh she has baby. She's doesn't tell you. You can see the baby in the back seat. Her asking is 4. For those that want to know.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e0b86ddd-9684-4835-8a63-d973128e415b[/URL][/QUOTE]