Here's a thought. Donation methods; What's your opinion?
I'm seeing an increasing amount of ads (fake and legit) asking for other-than cash payment. Idk about you, but cash is king. It keeps every transaction discreet and very limited chance of any blow-back. IMHO, I would like to see 'us' become resistant to this becoming 'the norm'. We control the situation by our willingness or resistance. The hobby has enough risks without it following you. Some nefarious conduct could even lead to blackmail, even if you have no risk like family or job. How much do you trust your provider? How much do you trust not being found out? Leaving trails is leaving clues.
Your thoughts or input encouraged to make hobby-ing a better experience for all!
Torri absolute fucking mess
So this is how it started. I scheduled time to meet her and drove all the way to Springfield driving 1. 5 hrs a way. Along the way I kept engaging her to make sure I am not driving all the way there for nothing (because she screwed me over a few times by giving my appointment to another monger while I licked my wounds). The replies were spotty but still was happy about the reply and reached her place. Once I reach there first I receive a " I need 20 minutes to fix my issue" message, then I messaged her few times in between and after 20 minutes. Then I get a call from her phone and the lady's voice is different, I ask her who are you? She says I am Torris sister can you stop by the house I need to talk to you. All this while I was driving around her street to get a green light to park the car and meet Torri. I decided to park the car and meet Torris sister, she says Torri is with her abusive ex and she asked her to ask me to wait or come back after a while (fuck I drove 1. 5 hours one way). I got pissed but then I had some chore to do in Columbus, so on the way back from Columbus I texted the number asking if Torri is back. Torri sister texts me again from that stating she didn't hear from Torri (4 hours past my appointment time) but wanted me to drive by give the $$ as generous gesture. I was like what the fuck, screw you and drove back To my place.
Finally I got hold off Torri and she says her sister has been playing me by setting appointment using her phone and scamming me. All along while I was in Springfield, Torri wasnt even in the town. I don't know what is true, but it's an absolute fucking mess. Never seen so much drama. One has to think whether you are texting Torri or her sister or some law enforcement. She had done this shit once in the past with me with abusive texts and later apologized her roommate was texting me. Well it's convenient to put the blame on the roomie.
This is the kind of behavior shouldn't be encouraged by brothers. I know despite this review guys will line up in her assembly. But I am seriously concerned about the safety of the folks visiting her. I never experienced such a crazy drama. I would be careful with regards to safety and health meeting her.
This is all I could type. Want to know more pm me.