"Probably fucking fat SA girls"
[QUOTE=AsiansBoy;6153854] Probably you got laid with fat girls on there.[/QUOTE]No, remarkably not. Well, not exclusively, anyway.
Within the past month:
1. 30 year old fit and slim pharmaceutical sales rep.
2. 19 year old Walter's State student, average body.
3. 25-ish year old finance company employee. Freakish: massive natural tits and a trim body.
4. 35-40 year old soccer mom. Overweight. Probably falls into the BBW category, but barely. Kinda weird body: only fat right around her belly.
5. 22-year old UT student. Slightly thick. Great tits and ass. My preferred body style.
6. A late 20's former UT athlete. Still looks like she could play. (And not a shot putter or wrestler, LOL.).
I don't think I'm getting laid strictly out of luck, but I know it's not because I am attractive, LOL. I think I have a knack for spotting the girls who aren't quite sure if they really want to go through with an arrangement. They are turned off by the constant DMs of, "how much for you to come see me for an hour this afternoon?" You and I know know this is about sex and money, but there is a contingent of female SA members who really want to pretend that it isn't. I look for them. Of the 6 girls on the list above, I think I was the first guy that 4 of them ever met with, despite all of them being on the site a while.
I use a canned introductory message to them, but write a personalized first paragraph, specifically referring to things from their profile. I don't request to see their private pictures until after exchanging a few messages with them. I almost always get a response. This requires some work, but I think I've realized that I really enjoy this process.
I screen for non-smokers, some college, seeking discretion. If they try to hide / obscure their face in their public pictures that is a HUGE plus. It doesn't mean they're ugly. It means they are trying to be discrete. Which means they aren't fucking a different guy every day. I avoid girls with pics that look like strippers or were taken in a no-tel room. I gravitate toward girls with pics taken in places around here that I recognize.
Please don't think I'm bragging. Again; I'm. I am definitely nothing special. I just have a system that I've developed over 12-15 years that works for me.
I apologize for the long post; I found myself with some free time this morning. I hope it is helpful for someone.
SA has been like Tinder+ for all of 2022
I haven't paid for SA fun in quite some time, it's like Tinder+ now. I'm finding that many are using it as a Tinder replacement to truly "date up" as opposed to needing to give a dude a ride somewhere or other nonsense. It's considered Free-ish fun because some like for me to take them to a bar first, but slapping some meat on a grill does the trick most of the time. I've had females bring me new clothes, home appliances, tools, electronics and all sorts of stuff that has been somewhat useful. Cities in the vicinity of Asheville, NC, just north of Chattanooga, outside of Nashville , and southern Kentucky are ripe with professional, often lonely, women looking to break from the monotony of the free dating apps (following up on GaltGuy's recommendations). They are eager to travel and always appreciative; traveling Nurses (any woman in healthcare actually) and Flight Attendants are pure freaks. Most of them are overnight stays, so that tells you what you need to know about clock-watching.
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[b]SA Search Criteria for Free-ish Fun[/b]
~[i]Location[/i]: Knoxville
~[i]Distance[/i]: 0 - 250 miles
~[i]Education[/i]: Associates Degree and above
~[i]Show Members Seeking[/i]: Attentive, Friends with benefits, Discretion or No strings attached (use a combination of those)
~[i]Age[/i]: 35+
~[i]Relationship Status[/i]: Divorced, Separated, Married But Looking[/LIST][LIST]
[b]I will not pay these gals regardless of age (after curated discussions):[/b]
~[i]Profiles on free dating apps[/i]: any gal who has admitted to have been on or actively on any of the free dating apps, most notably Tinder and FetLife, as they're actively giving it away for free anyway.
~[i]Body type[/i]: full-size or overweight because I will only spend funds on gals with a body time of thick or less. BBWs don't exist, she's just a fat bytch, be real about it. We all have preferences, nothing wrong with fat girls if you're into that, but just don't pay for it.[/LIST]
This has worked well for me. A few discussed on here I've seen regularly for no funds exchanged at all even though I would have obliged (didn't fit into the "Free" or "my refusal to pay for anything they have to sell" categories). Many of the younger ones love to claim like you're the first guy, but don't be baited into believing that .,.,., treating them like they're not the common hookers they are makes a world of difference though. I never ask to see their private pics because that's what communicating outside the site is for; I send at most two messages using SA's messaging and that's to reply to them with my contact info if they message me first and to send my contact info when I reach out (and at most one reply once they reply to me).
If you've indirectly paid for my gifts from some of those gals discussed on here, thanks brother, I owe you a solid.
Stay vigilant. ,. ,. ,
Milfman.