The Vino Story (The Bad guy is back) Wise words from "Sugar"
(Lighting my cigar)
It brings a tear to my eye too on how the implication of a saving a ho, is like saving a kitten. I like Vino. He is a good guy. A couple of things he did wrong here. He saved a ho, which is fine. It is your money and your residence. However, you really don't know that woman's background is. In all my years in the game, you might as well leave it alone. Women just don't "happen to hook up with the wrong people". Some actually like thugs, pimps and criminals. There is a perception that these type of men just tell a woman "hey baby I am all of these things". It never really goes like that. However it goes down. Providers have the opportunity to walk away.
I will give you a more recent story. I was driving though OBT. This girl comes in my car, she cool. We talked and she mentions this guy "taking in her in:. She said "I stopped drinking and etc". He never even "touched me that night". Long story short, he would call her all the time to see if she still "hoing". LOL I kid you not, guy would spy on her after taking her in. Anyway, he smacked her up a couple times and she left him "allegedly". I am just listening to her story. I told her look " There is no love thing with a ho man, I am just keeping it real with you baby". I smiled at her. She says to me "yeah that is true". Now she made me feel bad, I am like man I better drop this ho off. She taking me out of my zone LOL. I can't deal with emotional women. They just want to tell your their sad stories.
Anyway, I dropped her off, I think off Walgreens. Lo Behold, the girl that had the sad story, talking about how she changed her life. She hanging out with "Janine", off the stroll near Mcdonalds (Janina the thick white girl, clearly a dope head). I deleted her number out of my phone. I got nothing bad to say about Janine, very educated woman and she speaks dutch and other languages. She is actually a damn waste. Amazing what crack does, maybe I am being self righteous or losing my edge. I must admit I can be self righteous too. I don't mess with really young girls, they all have to be over 25 at least.
Most of the women I have been with were at least 35 and up. That is just me though, if young girls are in the field and you like them cool. I do not knock anybody.
One of the "old timers" aka "Sugar" on OBT said something to me that was very profound. He said in his "southern OBT drawl"."Love thing with a ho, that ain't never going to work man, its just never going to work". I was taken aback by his brutal honesty. A man's ego is going to say "well I don't believe that, I am saving this ho". The poor hobbyist gets "burned" in the end.
This is the primary reason why you can't wear no damn "cape" and be Capt Save a Ho. If she truly wanted to be saved, she can go to her family or friends. I think men have this perception that hos just be walking around all by themselves. They have informal networks of friends. Why do you think hos can find out info about you faster than you can about "her"? I got women right now saying they been with me. I am like WTF, listen that is not true! Nothing you do is secret.
For there to be "good guys" you need "bad guys" like me. That basically tell you what it is. I am not saying its a bad thing to show kindness. However, some men that providers runs across are assholes. If they are with assholes long enough. They learn to accept certain things. The girl might have felt like you did everything for her. But she is used to that type of guy that tosses her up and pulls her hair. You cannot expect a provider that has seen some shady stuff in her life to automatically trust you. I have seen guys "do it all" for providers. Buy them everything and etc. In the end, they are sleeping with the dope boy. LOL.
I have providers straight up tell me some things. I am not going any further because chicks will get mad at me.
This is the bottom line man. I do get in trouble for saying this. They don't really respect you as a nice guy. They think your "gaming them".
You could have brought the girl to your residence and not spank her. Perception is everything to some women.
This is the primary problem with many hobbyists. They have this false sense of self righteousness. It wasn't like you gave the girl a place to sleep and eat for no reason. If she was an ugly woman, you wouldn't took her in. If she was 280 pounds you wouldn't be extending your courtesy to her.
When I say I don't love a ho. Its not because I hate hos. I just don't love them. I like "them" sexually that is about it.
Some hobbyists seem to forget what this game is really about.
There is many Vinos out there wondering what happened and etc. In my experience, relationships will not work with these type of women because of the foundation of it. So you took the girl in, was you going to stop tricking with other women? Na, you wasn't going to stop.
Trust me any game that can be done. I have frickin tried it and tried it. Yeah, there is times when I really do like a woman. However I separate myself and take a break.
Lastly, some providers are going to say " women can change and love that man, you ever see pretty woman". Yeah I saw "Pretty Woman", but that ain't reality. LOL One partner will always be insecure over the other unless he is a "pimp or manager". Maybe it will work if that is the case. But if you are a "square guy" trying to love a ho. Its not going to work. LOL.
Y'all take it easy.
By the way I love Jersey girl. I happen to be from NJ. LOL For the record working girls and hobbyists do get along. This board and real life is 2 different things to me.
I can sit down and have a drink with dudes here and really laugh about things that are said. I can sit and drink with providers too. I try to have a good time. LOL
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Great job Vino! The gal was clueless but very sweet when I saw her
[QUOTE=Vino 7373; 1264063]OK guys, here's my version of what's been happening in my world for the last few weeks. I called up a new girl on BP a few weeks ago. She was new and I had a great time. I always treat women with respect and she seemed to really like me. I was going to review her for my 600th post but things happened. She called me the next day after I saw her and begged me to help her. She said she felt comfortable with me and hoped I could help her. She said she got involved with the wrong people and needed help. She was very afraid and had no place to go.
I put it all on the line and decided she was worth it. I'm single, so there wasn't a problem there. I went out to where she was staying and got her out of there. I want to thank the SM's that volunteered to help even though it could've been dangerous. Thankfully, there were no issues and I got her out safely. I did it alone because I didn't want to put anyone else into the situation.
When I got her home, she told me what was up. It was disturbing, to say the least. She was incredibly depressed the first few days. It was quite scary initially. Good treatment from me, some tender, loving care, and a little verbal counseling got her over the terrible depression she was experiencing. She got much better and happier after about three days. We got along well and I enjoyed her company. There were some rough moments, but we worked through them.
It was understood from the start that her being with me was just temporary. She moved out today a much better, healthier person than she was a few weeks ago.
I wish her only the best in her life. I will always be proud of myself for putting it all on the line for her. I believe that I probably saved her life by giving a damn. It could've gone really wrong but I felt she was worth the chance.
They're not hos as some people on here have posted. They're real human beings, with real lives, real feelings, and deserve to be treated as such.[/QUOTE]Although I had an awesome time with that gal and got away from that hotel safely, I must say that after the dream was over as I left the room pimps or should I say dope boys came out of the room next door in numbers like roaches. I was like WTF! Gal truly was too sweet and kind hearted to be mixed up with those pimps and the other two gals she worked with. I won't put the facts out on this forum but PM me on the details on Angel and the now incarcerated Kristi.
She didn't go back with them.
[QUOTE=Eelectri; 1266239]Vino! You have to feel good about yourself! You did what you could and as I stated be / 4 some girls are beyond help!
You help this girl get away from that gang! And look at her where she ended up again!
OP you did a good job in reporting the outcome of the saga!
Pm me if you want! I'love to hear details.
Ee[/QUOTE]To the best of my knowledge, she's staying with friends a little bit closer to where she lived before.
Pump saw her earlier, before I helped her out.
She's no longer in the biz also.
Hey Vino (Give her a card for the soup kitchen and the food pantry on Central Ave)
Vino, hey Bro.
I feel your pain man. I have spanked a couple homeless hos myself. Excuse me I meant "resident challenged women". I do not want to offend anyone here.
Bro you are a nice guy. I would tell her she can always come back for "nut milkshake" like you did.
I am hearing Jersey girl is thick. See I always get the info late. If I knew this, I would have jumped on it a long time ago.
Y'all take it easy. Does Jersey girl got a pic? Older thick women is my thing.
Vino loving hos is like eating Krystals, you will regret when you are on the toilet holding on for dear life.
I am out.
Mr. CHEAP HO (Irvingontop)
[QUOTE=Vino 7373;1268469]Irving, you do come up with some funny shit![/QUOTE]I don't understand this guy first he say he don't pay 100 for no ho now he want to try Jersey? Irving you think you can afford Jersey? I don't think soooo, go back to OBT LOL!