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TexasBella43 is a scam. Can't post a link because she blocked me. Originally from Mass, lived in Texas for many years, moved back to Mass with her son and living with family. Yes, single mother and cannot host. Profile pics look nothing like recent pic she sent showing a BBW considerably larger and older. Proceeded to make plans anyway. Hey, everyone needs one once in a while and was thinking with the little head. Agreed to 400 and she would pay for hotel. An hour before meeting she texted asking for 100-150 by cash app in advance to book a room without going out of pocket. Refused to pay in advance. Offered to give her cash for the room when we met and she could book at that time, then balance when we finished. Stupidly went to bar we were meeting at expecting her to show and surprise, surprise, she ghosted. Phone number ends in 2xx0.

Ella603 she hosted. Tiny studio apartment. Clean, neat, organized but tiny and cramped. Excellent location a short distance from Rt 3 in NH. No safety concerns. Parking at the building. Profile pic looks something like her but different. Rubenesque body but not big. What I'd consider a good size but then I'm not a fan of skinny women. Light kissing, BBBJ, FIV, CFS. She declined DATY. Bare back not available. Cover was tight fitting and I'm not that big of a guy. If you see her, suggest you bring your own. She was very tight. Wants to please and was not interested in her own pleasure. Had an attitude that she was there for me and didn't seem to care whether she felt good or not. Different experience than the typical SA girl I've been with who really gets into it and wants to have a good time. Light smoker and I carried a slight odor when I left. Damage 250. Probably will not repeat. Wasn't a bad experience just not right for me.

Have been wading through the GPS and bullcrap on Seeking. Have met a couple of girls that lead to nothing, have been ghosted, etc.

Here are some reports on them to not waste your time with.

Ittybittything1 Can't post their profile since I am blocked I believe. Made plans to meet, they no showed, when I asked where they were they said they stayed late at work. Total lie.

Avoid and do not waste your time.

Alexisw12: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/86213037-e7ae-4d92-bf92-182a2c786fc5[/URL] Was talking with and setting up a meeting, she was being vague, avoiding answering questions, she is a pro or at least near pro. She told me to ask whatever I wanted, I did then she said that is not how you talk to a SB. Game playing pro. Avoid.

Russian14: Game player possible scam. Can't post profile as I believe I am blocked. Talked and said she wanted real things is sick of the b. S. She has been dealing with. So when it came time to make plans guess who ghosted. Not real, avoid. Also asked for photos of me off site.

Tessia: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6c844aa0-8f5d-4457-8dab-4fb5b7166b80[/URL] Another game player, likes to sext, send or sell photos and videos. Talks a good game but when it came down to make a meeting happen she was not real. Asked to meet, she agreed, gave me when she is available, then she ghosted. A week later I messaged her about making that meeting happen and she tells me she is not meeting at this moment. Tell her we were setting up a meeting already and had been talking and does she actually meet. She said yes, but not now. I will believe that when I see her. Game player, seems to like to live out fantasy on Seeking but does not meet. Gives great sexting and pics but if you want to actually meet someone that will not be happening. Talks a great game but does not follow through.

Kelly 1223: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9598a7a8-2be7-42a6-a75d-d226d0817622[/URL] More games, were talking and she was all for meeting, said she was sick of dealing with all the b. S. On there, etc. Wanted to meet so said let's make plans, she agreed and said she wanted to meet. Tried to make plans and guess who went poof? Avoid, game player, time waster.

All of the above women spent lots of time texting with, they all got to the point of making plans to meet, agreed to meet, wanted to meet but all disappeared when it came time to make actual plans. They are game players who do not meet. The first one pulled a no show. Avoid her also.

Just trying to save all of you time with these women. I spent way too much time texting with them just to have them ghost when it came time to make plans to meet even though they all wanted to meet.

On top of the girls I posted about. Can't believe the amount of girls looking for platonic only, want to sell pictures only, want online relationship only, etc.

Then the amount of girls that I have talked with and then they just disappear in the middle of the conversation for no reason when talking about meeting.

Don't see how anyone is meeting anyone off of there to be honest. So much B. S.

Posted about ittybitty1, how she no showed and was probably fake. Here is another profile, ittybitty12 with the same picture and description as the other one.

Wanted to sell pictures and talk then said she would do anything. Either it is fake or she is playing games.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3a93e132-a7b4-48bd-a1ac-3fa5ba3cc797[/URL]

Total time waster and scam. The pic isn't even her. She sends pics off-site. She sent me three, all of which were diff people.

Avoid / block.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2a8b91ee-2d79-4c37-86cd-e08be28933eb[/URL]

I agree. This is my 4th or 5th time on SA and its definitely the worst experience I've had. I'm wondering if it's because of the summer? I think it may get better in the early fall when. We shall see.

[QUOTE=JohnTies;4379176]On top of the girls I posted about. Can't believe the amount of girls looking for platonic only, want to sell pictures only, want online relationship only, etc.

Then the amount of girls that I have talked with and then they just disappear in the middle of the conversation for no reason when talking about meeting.

Don't see how anyone is meeting anyone off of there to be honest. So much B. S.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=OkWhatever;4379676]I agree. This is my 4th or 5th time on SA and its definitely the worst experience I've had. I'm wondering if it's because of the summer? I think it may get better in the early fall when. We shall see.[/QUOTE]In my opinion it's been a steady, gradual decline over a period of time. There might slight seasonal changes but the underlying trend is consistently downward. I look back to a few years back and the difference is striking. The GPS, platonic, scammers, and other time-wasters are taking more and more space on the site. There might still be a few gems but the numbers aren't in our favor.

It cracks me up on here when some guy posts a profile link and says he FC'd her for 3-400 $ and you look at the profile and she's a fat, bland or ugly looking girl. So yeah, the SD pool has not helped itself either. When 0/10 get several hundreds a visit, a lot of girls start thinking they're worth $5000 a month.

Any one know anything here?

Goes by Olivia. Smoking hot blonde.

Has anyone had a chance to meet this one? Had couple of encouraging messages exchanged and then radio silent. Would appreciate any input. Thanks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3385d824-12ed-4a2e-a03d-2099589dd27f[/URL]

MoneyT18 time waster, game player, and flake. Messaged her, we talked, said to contact her today. I contact her we are talking, she has not seen my picture so let her see them.

Then says wrong number, do not contact me. Says I am the wrong number yet she messaged me on seeking with her number and to contact her while we were talking.

LOL Can't make this crap up WTF is going on with this site? Avoid this girl.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b5365baa-6f05-4b67-96f7-dab33d8bd255[/URL]

[QUOTE=TexasYesMan;4380441]Any one know anything here?

Goes by Olivia. Smoking hot blonde.[/QUOTE]Update. Stay away. Drugs, bad.

[QUOTE=RamDoodle;4380475]Has anyone had a chance to meet this one? Had couple of encouraging messages exchanged and then radio silent. Would appreciate any input. Thanks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3385d824-12ed-4a2e-a03d-2099589dd27f[/URL][/QUOTE]Have not talked with her but if you do meet up with her don't give her more than 150-200 200 may be stretching it. LOL.

[QUOTE=RamDoodle;4380475]Has anyone had a chance to meet this one? Had couple of encouraging messages exchanged and then radio silent. Would appreciate any input. Thanks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3385d824-12ed-4a2e-a03d-2099589dd27f[/URL][/QUOTE]I too had a couple text chats with this one. She did the same thing, seemed positive, then went silent. Keep us posted if you break the ice.

JW.

[QUOTE=RamDoodle;4380475]Has anyone had a chance to meet this one? Had couple of encouraging messages exchanged and then radio silent. Would appreciate any input. Thanks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3385d824-12ed-4a2e-a03d-2099589dd27f[/URL][/QUOTE]Same experience. Exchanged encouraging messages then radio silence when I wanted to schedule.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;4380154]In my opinion it's been a steady, gradual decline over a period of time. There might slight seasonal changes but the underlying trend is consistently downward. I look back to a few years back and the difference is striking. The GPS, platonic, scammers, and other time-wasters are taking more and more space on the site. There might still be a few gems but the numbers aren't in our favor.

It cracks me up on here when some guy posts a profile link and says he FC'd her for 3-400 $ and you look at the profile and she's a fat, bland or ugly looking girl. So yeah, the SD pool has not helped itself either. When 0/10 get several hundreds a visit, a lot of girls start thinking they're worth $5000 a month.[/QUOTE]ET hit it right on. Summer traditionally has more time wasters on SA with college girls home, newbies who like the idea of easy money for doing what comes naturally, so they post a profile then flake when it comes time to schedule and do the deed. Beyond that SA has consistently declined with GPS, scammers, and a proliferation of time wasters that go silent when you want to schedule a meet or worse don't show up and keep you waiting with a bar tab on top of it. Despite the high ratio of SB's to SD's in Boston, the pool of at least decent looking women (never mind hot ones) who are real seems to be on the decline. And their knowing this, combined with mongers who will not hold the line and pay more, is what's leading to price inflation. It's up to us gents to hold the line of prices.

Anyone ever meet this one?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dab8e623-22db-448e-9fde-00baa78a9f5d[/URL]

I have really wanted to get on SA. But have not had the right opening in my lifestyle to be able to invest the time and effort to dabble. The link below is a NY Post internet headline article on SA in NYC. It was posted tonight. Wondering if any of you SA enthusiasts can validate whether you have encountered many educational women on the NE SA scene.

[URL] https://nypost.com/2019/07/28/city-teachers-flood-sugar-daddy-site-for-extra-income/[/URL]

[QUOTE=EuHunter;4382512]Anyone ever meet this one?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dab8e623-22db-448e-9fde-00baa78a9f5d[/URL][/QUOTE]She has been reviewed before and I believe the person said she doesn't look as good as the pics. I talked to her for a bit and she identifies as being submissive and I do remember the photos she showed me to be a little chunkier than the ones on her profile.

[QUOTE=HandDeliver;4382768]I have really wanted to get on SA. But have not had the right opening in my lifestyle to be able to invest the time and effort to dabble. The link below is a NY Post internet headline article on SA in NYC. It was posted tonight. Wondering if any of you SA enthusiasts can validate whether you have encountered many educational women on the NE SA scene.

[URL] https://nypost.com/2019/07/28/city-teachers-flood-sugar-daddy-site-for-extra-income/[/URL][/QUOTE]Loads of nurses. Have not met a teacher yet.

[QUOTE=HounDog3;4382290]ET hit it right on. Summer traditionally has more time wasters on SA with college girls home, newbies who like the idea of easy money for doing what comes naturally, so they post a profile then flake when it comes time to schedule and do the deed. Beyond that SA has consistently declined with GPS, scammers, and a proliferation of time wasters that go silent when you want to schedule a meet or worse don't show up and keep you waiting with a bar tab on top of it. Despite the high ratio of SB's to SD's in Boston, the pool of at least decent looking women (never mind hot ones) who are real seems to be on the decline. And their knowing this, combined with mongers who will not hold the line and pay more, is what's leading to price inflation. It's up to us gents to hold the line of prices.[/QUOTE]Agreed on all fronts. It's also how SA is positioning and marketing themselves to get more women to sign up. Their blog and articles geared towards new sugar babies pushes the platonic, arm candy, emotional support narrative and live an amazing lifestyle so the younger, hotter, new girls all think this is a real possibility. I am sure those guys are on there but they are few and far between and there are a lot more people who are looking for a BANG for their BUCK.

[QUOTE=SwimSays;4383713]Agreed on all fronts. It's also how SA is positioning and marketing themselves to get more women to sign up. Their blog and articles geared towards new sugar babies pushes the platonic, arm candy, emotional support narrative and live an amazing lifestyle so the younger, hotter, new girls all think this is a real possibility. I am sure those guys are on there but they are few and far between and there are a lot more people who are looking for a BANG for their BUCK.[/QUOTE]I just had one tell me we need to have three dates before anyone's pants come off. Well sweetie then the money is not coming out of the wallet until pants come off. It's a two way street.

Ok, this one is totally insane. Moroccan chic, lives outside of Boston. She asked for $22,000. Wanted it over a month to pay off some debt. I called her an idiot and she blocked me.

[QUOTE=SwimSays;4383713]Agreed on all fronts. It's also how SA is positioning and marketing themselves to get more women to sign up. Their blog and articles geared towards new sugar babies pushes the platonic, arm candy, emotional support narrative and live an amazing lifestyle so the younger, hotter, new girls all think this is a real possibility. I am sure those guys are on there but they are few and far between and there are a lot more people who are looking for a BANG for their BUCK.[/QUOTE]Having talked with some new girls on there who do not want to have sex and ask them how it is going for them. Most have said they have not met anyone and it is not going how the site and forums have portrayed how it would be. They are disappointed with how every guy says not sex then no agreement. Some have said they figured there would be some guys who would want a good looking, smart girl to have dinner with or have on their arm. LOL.

I wished them luck, said I am interested in that but that it needs to be a full sd / sb relationship and if they changed their mind to get in touch.

These young girls are very gullible and naive about how things work or life is.

Exchanged messages with this one. She can't host, so off my list. Seems very nice and straight forward.

Agreed to 250, which is higher than my preferences, but in this day and age, and due to her description, I would have seen her if she could host.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/68f58fa0-fe3f-4d46-a3e3-2c6d6179c069[/URL]

Looking For.

Men / Women.

Ethnicity.

White / Caucasian.

Body Type.

Slim.

Occupation Industry.

Student.

Drinks.

Social Drinker.

Height.

5'0".

Relationship.

Single.

Anyone recognize this one, MiaBvido, from Fram / Marlboro area? 5'3, athletic, pretty, looks to be newbi. Had prior communications with her, initial quote $400, but seemed willing to negotiate.

Any info appreciated. Thanks.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/ablzjDGqrJ4716gA3Vdgkx7X[/URL]

"My ideal first date.

Would be a good meal and better yet conversation and some wine or a quiet night with a good meal and.

Maybe a walk. Maybe desert. ".

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a22d0851-854d-42bf-9cd1-89e76597322f[/URL]

Stripper in PVD. Wants $1000 per meet. Are you serious? I know where she works and what it would cost to get what I want at her place.

[QUOTE=JohnTies;4385080]Having talked with some new girls on there who do not want to have sex and ask them how it is going for them. Most have said they have not met anyone and it is not going how the site and forums have portrayed how it would be. They are disappointed with how every guy says not sex then no agreement. Some have said they figured there would be some guys who would want a good looking, smart girl to have dinner with or have on their arm. LOL.

I wished them luck, said I am interested in that but that it needs to be a full sd / sb relationship and if they changed their mind to get in touch.

These young girls are very gullible and naive about how things work or life is.[/QUOTE]The Average Girl on SA: I want a mentor, who will spoil me with shopping sprees, expensive dinners, vacation getaways, monthly allowance, etc. In return, you get to witness my great personality in person if you are lucky.

The Average Guy in SA: I'll give you 50 bucks for a blow job. No make that 40. Could you do 30?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/69b0f227-f2db-4e61-9e37-583d01edfdea[/URL]

She's looking for 600 ppm.

[QUOTE=JohnTies;4385080]Having talked with some new girls on there who do not want to have sex and ask them how it is going for them. Most have said they have not met anyone and it is not going how the site and forums have portrayed how it would be. They are disappointed with how every guy says not sex then no agreement. Some have said they figured there would be some guys who would want a good looking, smart girl to have dinner with or have on their arm. LOL.

I wished them luck, said I am interested in that but that it needs to be a full sd / sb relationship and if they changed their mind to get in touch.

These young girls are very gullible and naive about how things work or life is.[/QUOTE]You get some interesting conversations when you pair a naive girl and her very high self-entitlememnt. I've told some new platonic girls that I've been on the site for a few months and their dreams of not being physical was not realistic. Most argued with me that platonic was totally a thing and plenty of guys would relish the thought of spending money on a girl like herself. Also, that I was a pervert and loser for wanting something from women that was more than just being in their presence and that I should be lucky just to talk to her. The delusion sometimes runs really deep.

I've often wondered if these girl's contempt is also for guys in the their own age group or just for older guys on SA. Needless to say, if a girl hints that she's so much better than you and she's doing you a favor, you should instantly forget her and move on to someone less in love with themselves.

[QUOTE=Jyushin;4387067][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/69b0f227-f2db-4e61-9e37-583d01edfdea[/URL]

She's looking for 600 ppm.[/QUOTE]Those posi vibes don't come cheap!

Thank you Spike. Found it on point and one of the funniest posts I have read recently. Appreciate it.

The one word you left out that I noticed some of the ladies mention is "invest". They want a mentor who will "invest" in them, I guess to maximize their "potential".

[QUOTE=Spike77;4385896]The Average Girl on SA: I want a mentor, who will spoil me with shopping sprees, expensive dinners, vacation getaways, monthly allowance, etc. In return, you get to witness my great personality in person if you are lucky.

The Average Guy in SA: I'll give you 50 bucks for a blow job. No make that 40. Could you do 30?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jyushin;4387067][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/69b0f227-f2db-4e61-9e37-583d01edfdea[/URL]

She's looking for 600 ppm.[/QUOTE]Now that is funny. No interest in seeing her at all. She would be 200 at most.

Guess even the older ones have no clue and let their high self worth get in the way of reality.

[QUOTE=Longjblues;4388164]Thank you Spike. Found it on point and one of the funniest posts I have read recently. Appreciate it.

The one word you left out that I noticed some of the ladies mention is "invest". They want a mentor who will "invest" in them, I guess to maximize their "potential".[/QUOTE]Could be wrong, but I took the "invest" to mean they want to start some sort of business and you front the money. Not sure if there will be a return on the investment, ever.

[QUOTE=Spike77;4385896]The Average Girl on SA: I want a mentor, who will spoil me with shopping sprees, expensive dinners, vacation getaways, monthly allowance, etc. In return, you get to witness my great personality in person if you are lucky.

The Average Guy in SA: I'll give you 50 bucks for a blow job. No make that 40. Could you do 30?[/QUOTE]Totally agree. The amount of effort it is taking to find the good ones is driving me crazy lately. The prices are going up. The quality is going down. It's so annoying. My ex stated that she thought I should start giving her $500 per meet last month. And I was like BYE. Hottest girl I've ever been with but not worth $2 K per month for weekly met ups.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;4388075]You get some interesting conversations when you pair a naive girl and her very high self-entitlememnt. I've told some new platonic girls that I've been on the site for a few months and their dreams of not being physical was not realistic. Most argued with me that platonic was totally a thing and plenty of guys would relish the thought of spending money on a girl like herself. Also, that I was a pervert and loser for wanting something from women that was more than just being in their presence and that I should be lucky just to talk to her. The delusion sometimes runs really deep.

I've often wondered if these girl's contempt is also for guys in the their own age group or just for older guys on SA. Needless to say, if a girl hints that she's so much better than you and she's doing you a favor, you should instantly forget her and move on to someone less in love with themselves.[/QUOTE]These are great views of a major issue with SA. These women don't understand that if a guy wants to pay what they want, it isn't at all for their presence and looks. If the "relationship" is to be ongoing it of course must be 2 ways. Been fortunate to have had 2, well before SA, and it was a truly mutually beneficial arrangement. If you take them at their word, ie I am hot and you are lucky to have me but no sex for $xxx per meet, why on earth would we not go to Eros and pay that for a stunner with guaranteed sex and the strong likelihood that if it works once and the possibility of it working again, why would anybody pick the chick with "I am above it all and you are lucky to be seen with me? NFW.

If anyone needs some poor attitude, gps ladies I have some here:

Stella La Bella [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/586eb7b0-637a-4746-9c06-f9e3d481483e[/URL].

She is a stripper, talked about meeting, wanted to square away the arrangement before hand so no one wasted their time. Semi pro / pro.

Usual allowance is 500 unless you do not want bedroom fun. Told her that is not where I am at. Said if I had read her profile I would have known she is very expensive.

Wants a daddy to take care of her financially, does not care about anything else.

Sarahsugarbby1998 [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5ab64efe-17be-48ff-9311-76fe7aa631af[/URL].

Said she was a single mother of one. Talked about meeting for a coffee. Told her sounds good, let her know I pay for coffee, etc whatever we have but no sugar to just meet.

I asked if she is good with that. She said she expects to be paid right from the start for her time. She was sorry but does not want to waste time.

I wished her luck.

Does anyone have experience with girls not putting out on the first date? Any future success? I found one girl who said she wouldn't want to do anything the first date. She is young. Looking to take the risk.

[QUOTE=BostonMan781;4389557]Does anyone have experience with girls not putting out on the first date? Any future success? I found one girl who said she wouldn't want to do anything the first date. She is young. Looking to take the risk.[/QUOTE]Simple.

Create a situation where you can at least make out with her and do some basic groping. If she's holding you at arms length and can't even get close to her, then you have your answer. She's not attracted to you and she won't be any more attracted to you next time you meet her. If she's not attracted to you then the FC will be exactly as you'd expect: lame.

You don't have to FC on the first date but always leave that first date knowing if she's really into you or not.

[QUOTE=BostonMan781;4389557]Does anyone have experience with girls not putting out on the first date? Any future success? I found one girl who said she wouldn't want to do anything the first date. She is young. Looking to take the risk.[/QUOTE]I find this is a lot easier when you tell the, what you want upfront and off of SA via text. If she won't put out on the first date then don't give her a full allowance on the date. But show her you have cash. Maybe agree to meet for lunch and $100.

I had just gotten back from Vegas with a bunch of 100's in my wallet, went on a first date, and "accidentally" dropped a bunch of bills on the table during lunch. Her eyes gots wide and she said "how do I get access to that". I told her to take me home and do what I want and we can discuss it. And we did. That was a great date.