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[QUOTE=PoonHound1969;3818550]It says if you post a public pic you can message with the ladies is this true?
Or would you still need to pay?[/QUOTE]Men paying is their business model. That's how they stay in business.
You might get a few free messages as a trial but you got to pay to play. And if $90/ mo is a concern to you then you are playing in the wrong hobby.
[QUOTE=FruitNinja;3818742]She's DTF. Easy to contact. I believe she can host. I just wasn't into her.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/22a036d6-34f5-49ab-be0d-05c715df91dc[/URL][/QUOTE]She's got several profiles on SA that I've seen. All had Ukrainian Cutie or some form of Ukrainian XYZ name.
She quoted me $4 but that was 6 months ago.
[QUOTE=PauFord;3818857]Men paying is their business model. That's how they stay in business.
You might get a few free messages as a trial but you got to pay to play. And if $90/ mo is a concern to you then you are playing in the wrong hobby.[/QUOTE]Agreed. However, as I said before once the membership fee is paid you can find a lane with your budget.
[QUOTE=Lowkeyx;3816569]Hey Guys,
Just recently signed up with the site. I was wondering if you guys use real pictures and how much information do you share. Sorry if this has been covered in the past. I know it all depends on how much we feel comfortable sharing our real information but I'm curious if its safe or what peoples thoughts were. Thanks ahead and feel free to message if its easier.
LK.[/QUOTE]I'd recommend using a blurred or non-descriptive photo for public, and even for private, use ones that cannot be tracked, meaning ones that you have not used in other social networks or can be google searched. Better to be safe than sorry.
[QUOTE=FruitNinja;3818755]LOL! The best part about it is I'm paying less than I would pay for pros. Right now I'm with a another one that looks like it's going to be long term. I see her at least twice a week. If you break it down it comes to $125 per session, maybe less. But she's never been f**ked like I f**k her. She's open to other chicks. Actually wants me to find one for us. Since she doesn't care about having other girls in bed with us I might move her in. Work hard, play hard boys.[/QUOTE]When you say $125 per session, are you doing allowance weekly or monthly? Curious on your magical ways haha.
[QUOTE=FafaFooey;3818686]Does anyone know why the SA app no longer appears in the iOS App Store? Is this another knee-jerk FOSTA reaction or something more mundane (upgrade needed, etc)? I looked around on the actual SA site and other blogs, etc but couldn't find any reason for it. I never liked the app itself, but loading up a dummy App Store account with gift cards was a great way to renew anonymously. After a pretty good run last summer & fall, I took a long hiatus from anything other than browsing so deleted the app a while back and now there's no way to re-install. If it doesn't re-appear has anyone had recent success with any particular brand of prepaid gift cards that don't require registration with actual name & address?[/QUOTE]Months ago, a prepaid credit card wouldn't work with SA, I believe because prepaid cards can't be used outside the USA. But, now you can use prepaid cards, Vanilla Visa for one. You don't even have to register the card. Just buy it (for cash, duh) and use it to renew.
Regarding the lost SA IOS app, it might still be in a iCloud or iTunes backup of your phone.
Thanks! Good to hear that the easy-to-find Vanilla Visa works these days. Although now I also have to wonder if the absence of the app will dramatically cut down on the number of new SBs appearing. At least in the younger demographic that draws most of us in, the girls live their lives on smartphone apps but rarely use an actual web browser. I'm doubting many of them will take the time to navigate through the web version of SA to sign up, post pics, etc. Hopefully I'm wrong.
[QUOTE=OlderGuy1954;3819004]Months ago, a prepaid credit card wouldn't work with SA, I believe because prepaid cards can't be used outside the USA. But, now you can use prepaid cards, Vanilla Visa for one. You don't even have to register the card. Just buy it (for cash, duh) and use it to renew.
Regarding the lost SA IOS app, it might still be in a iCloud or iTunes backup of your phone.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Jayp80;3818748]I've been able to reverse image search girls what cropped their heads out using google. The reverse image isn't just looking for your face but the entire picture. One SA chick I remember that cropped her head out reversed image back to her LinkedIn profile.[/QUOTE]Yeah I agree. I would use separate pictures for SA and nothing else. Crop and black out what you want, but still keep them as separate pics only for SA use. It's takes only a few minutes to take a pic on your phone. Don't have the same ones link back to any other sites like a linkedin account. Not worth it.
So when all the sites went dark a few months ago, I upgraded to a premium membership on SA. Met a 23 yr old Latina for my first SA experience, had a few drinks, went to the hotel and had my way with her for several hours. No talk of donation up front, and gave her $$ which she was very happy with. Great start.
Fast fwd few months as I hadn't met another SA girl due to being out of town for work, but Friday one of the first few women I messaged with on the site hit me up. We made plans to meet late yesterday afternoon at her house on Addison. She asked me to bring some proseco so I brought two. We shared that over the course of 3-4 hours just talking and getting to know each other. She was very comfortable talking about her sexuality but we never spoke of the arrangement. Finally we got down to business and I gave her one of the most vocal orgasms I've ever given and she blew me better that I've ever been blown. Since it was getting late and I had to get back we both got dressed. I laid the arrangement amount (like in my first experience) on the coffee table and walked me out saying from now on no donation, just two people enjoying each other's company. Ok.
I had about a block or two to walk to the public parking lot she suggested I park in. Nearing my car I got a frantic call from her yelling that I only gave her half the agreed upon amount. I asked if she was joking with me. She wasn't. By this time this woman had run to the parking lot to confront me (in 6" heels) yelling, swearing, threatening to harm me and my vehicle, saying she was very clear about the donation. We had never even spoke of a donation. There was zero speaking to her as she was going absolutely nuclear and making a very big scene in public. I told her I'd go in the CVS and get the other $$ and she followed me in continuing her loud crazy rant. Even after I gave it to her she was so adiment I tried to pull something it took her several more minutes of yelling in the parking lot before I could escape. Fucking craziest chick I ever met. Satan was in this chick's eyes.
There was obviously no reasoning with her at that point and the additional $$ is just a lesson I learned. Even though my first experience went well not discussing donation up front, never again will I not be crystal clear before the fun begins. I can't help think this is some sort of scam she's pulling with guys.
Link to the crazy *****: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/inbox/45d2241d-43fd-4083-8adf-6a425c5566f6[/URL].
You posted a link to your mail message which nobody can access but you. Could you post a corrected link? I'm curious who this crazy one is! Make your you link to her profile directly, not through a mail message.
[QUOTE=Industrial;3821213]So when all the sites went dark a few months ago, I upgraded to a premium membership on SA. Met a 23 yr old Latina for my first SA experience, had a few drinks, went to the hotel and had my way with her for several hours. No talk of donation up front, and gave her $$ which she was very happy with. Great start.
Fast fwd few months as I hadn't met another SA girl due to being out of town for work, but Friday one of the first few women I messaged with on the site hit me up. We made plans to meet late yesterday afternoon at her house on Addison. She asked me to bring some proseco so I brought two. We shared that over the course of 3-4 hours just talking and getting to know each other. She was very comfortable talking about her sexuality but we never spoke of the arrangement. Finally we got down to business and I gave her one of the most vocal orgasms I've ever given and she blew me better that I've ever been blown. Since it was getting late and I had to get back we both got dressed. I laid the arrangement amount (like in my first experience) on the coffee table and walked me out saying from now on no donation, just two people enjoying each other's company. Ok.
I had about a block or two to walk to the public parking lot she suggested I park in. Nearing my car I got a frantic call from her yelling that I only gave her half the agreed upon amount. I asked if she was joking with me. She wasn't. By this time this woman had run to the parking lot to confront me (in 6" heels) yelling, swearing, threatening to harm me and my vehicle, saying she was very clear about the donation. We had never even spoke of a donation. There was zero speaking to her as she was going absolutely nuclear and making a very big scene in public. I told her I'd go in the CVS and get the other $$ and she followed me in continuing her loud crazy rant. Even after I gave it to her she was so adiment I tried to pull something it took her several more minutes of yelling in the parking lot before I could escape. Fucking craziest chick I ever met. Satan was in this chick's eyes.
There was obviously no reasoning with her at that point and the additional $$ is just a lesson I learned. Even though my first experience went well not discussing donation up front, never again will I not be crystal clear before the fun begins. I can't help think this is some sort of scam she's pulling with guys.
Link to the crazy *****: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/inbox/45d2241d-43fd-4083-8adf-6a425c5566f6[/URL].[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PauFord;3821283]You posted a link to your mail message which nobody can access but you. Could you post a corrected link? I'm curious who this crazy one is! Make your you link to her profile directly, not through a mail message.[/QUOTE]Sorry about that- here it is: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8ada888f-06dd-4c25-9486-05bc93788c1a[/URL].
This is also a good reminder to use a burner phone, protect your identity at all times, and use different photos like was mentioned before so a reverse image check cannot be used for finding other social media info. I did all those things, so little worry of continuing craziness.
Chatted with her 6 months ago. She's since changed to a new profile on SA. I got a weird vibe from her, she was super pushy to get together. And wanted $5/ meet so I passed. But she kept texting me periodically for months after looking for a quick hookup.
Glad I passed on this one!
[QUOTE=Industrial;3821291]Sorry about that- here it is: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8ada888f-06dd-4c25-9486-05bc93788c1a[/URL].
This is also a good reminder to use a burner phone, protect your identity at all times, and use different photos like was mentioned before so a reverse image check cannot be used for finding other social media info. I did all those things, so little worry of continuing craziness.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PauFord;3821332]Chatted with her 6 months ago. She's since changed to a new profile on SA. I got a weird vibe from her, she was super pushy to get together. And wanted $5/ meet so I passed. But she kept texting me periodically for months after looking for a quick hookup.
Glad I passed on this one![/QUOTE]I can confirm all you said, but for me the experience was less crazy. Prior to meeting, I had told her via text I've 'never paid more than 1. 5 for a first time meet'. She told me via text that the number was very low, but she was willing to see me anyway. On the way there, she texted me and basically said 'if I blow your mind, give me a bigger gift. If I don't, that's fine'.
I can tell you while I did get a bit of a crazy vibe from her, she IS hot, and she did give me perhaps the best BJ I've ever experienced. It was just incredible. Upon leaving, I gave here another 1. 5 for a total of 3 and told her that was all I had. She was very appreciative.
[QUOTE=Bryzzo;3821348]I can confirm all you said, but for me the experience was less crazy. Prior to meeting, I had told her via text I've 'never paid more than 1. 5 for a first time meet'. She told me via text that the number was very low, but she was willing to see me anyway. On the way there, she texted me and basically said 'if I blow your mind, give me a bigger gift. If I don't, that's fine'.
I can tell you while I did get a bit of a crazy vibe from her, she IS hot, and she did give me perhaps the best BJ I've ever experienced. It was just incredible. Upon leaving, I gave here another 1. 5 for a total of 3 and told her that was all I had. She was very appreciative.[/QUOTE]Hearing these stories makes me think she really isn't just accepting donations for a first time meet and then becoming FWB from then on out as she told me, rather she's in a tough spot financially and this is her supplemental job. Fine. But be up front that it's pay per meet and leave it at that. She's hitting up guys who's number she has from chatting weeks and months prior. She's in need of cash. Also think she has her standard high rates she charges and forgot that her and I never ever discussed those rates. She's hot, but not that hot. I'd give her a 6. 5 on the civilian scale, no more. Can confirm the BBBJ was amazing though.
[QUOTE=PauFord;3821332]Chatted with her 6 months ago. She's since changed to a new profile on SA. I got a weird vibe from her, she was super pushy to get together. And wanted $5/ meet so I passed. But she kept texting me periodically for months after looking for a quick hookup.
Glad I passed on this one![/QUOTE]Something similar that I just went through. We agreed on 300 and decided this Thu to meet. I suddenly get a message if I can up the first time allowance to 700 as she has some blah blah. To take care. I said now and if this was a deal breaker. He response was blunt 700 first time and 300 weekly after. Looks professional although she claims student in a university in Champaign (seriously? Moving on.
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