"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=VaSD1;2285496]I like the way you think Jeez. LOL.[/QUOTE]I don't get a chance to exercise the darker nooks and crannies of my neocortex often enough. It can backfire sometimes though.

Once in my late teens, there was a young lady I wanted out of my life for various reasons. Once, she was nagging me to be a part of my weekend plans, so I thought of a way to send the message. I said she could meet me at a party I was going to that Friday night. But, (here's the message). I intentionally gave her FAKE directions to the residence of the party host (this was of course pre-GPS technology). That Friday, while the party was in progress, the owner of the residence and I left the home to drive to a local convenience store to stock up on beer. When we got back to his place and walked in, the girl I gave fake directions to was sitting there in the living room smiling hoping I would give her a hug. I thought he had pranked me! Turns out she had found my directions confusing, and called the girlfriend of another one of the guys to get written directions to the residence of the party (accurate ones, unfortunately for me). Awkward! She ended up storming out in a huff. It took me a while to completely figure out what happened.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2285290]A laugh indeed!

A fun way to introduce her to realistic expectations in the sugar world would be to set up the meeting and agree to give her a lift to the airport. Try to schedule the meeting as close to the plane departure as she will allow. Confirm multiple times via text as if you're worried she will be a no-show. Then go dark. LOL.

Wait about a day to respond, then reply with an apology for being a no-show or causing her to scramble for a ride to the airport or whatever she complains about, but after her fantastic tale of an SD flying to S Korea to meet her, you thought she wanted to play a game of who can BS the other better.[/QUOTE]Lizard,

I'm afraid we did not part on the best of terms, so it's too late for me to offer her my chauffeur. However, I'd like to call upon any and all Chicago-area brothers reading this to show themselves and allow me to share her SA profile name in case they might:

A. Be willing to fly to India several times over the next 6 months to service this not-really-all-that-hot insane little fish, or,

B. Be willing to have some fun yanking her chain a bit, and then report on it.

I know you're out there, so step forward into the light and let's have a bit of fun. Maybe YOU could offer to send your corporate limo to pick her up tomorrow.

Waiting to hear from you, I remain, as always,

Scott

How you do handle the ones that can't drive or don't have transportation? I've had three pots in the last couple of weeks that had that issue. I wound up passing on all of them because when they gave me the addy it was either in a sketchy area or too far (profile said one city, they lived in another).

I have noticed a number of SB's with a different city in their profile vs their real location. It has all been legitimate, but it is too common to be random.

There must be some guidance they are all getting from the same source. I. e. Different city, disclaimer not allowing use of profile, clarification of arrangement up front, etc.

We need Intel on the guidance they are getting and the source.

[QUOTE=VaSD1;2287411]How you do handle the ones that can't drive or don't have transportation? I've had three pots in the last couple of weeks that had that issue. I wound up passing on all of them because when they gave me the addy it was either in a sketchy area or too far (profile said one city, they lived in another).[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=VaSD1;2287411]How you do handle the ones that can't drive or don't have transportation? I've had three pots in the last couple of weeks that had that issue. I wound up passing on all of them because when they gave me the addy it was either in a sketchy area or too far (profile said one city, they lived in another).[/QUOTE]At least half the girls I see have no car. But they are young. If they live in a sketchy area try to have them meet you at a public place. Starbucks, etc. In my case I sometimes don't always know if the area is sketchy or not because this city is big and I haven't even begun to explore all of it. But dating has definitely gotten me out of my comfort zone.

Tonite I met a 19 year old that does live in a sketchy part of town but her part of it was just fine (met her in a drive thru parking lot). No car, no nothing really, but that's normal for a lot of really young girls. Anyway this was just a M&G so I am not sure if I will see her again or not. She was either really shy (don't be fooled by her pic) or really not into me.

I guess I'll find out soon enough. But I couldn't pass up the opportunity to meet her. She was so pretty in person. Awesome spinner body. For me she was a 9/9. Tiny face and hands. Super soft voice. She talked for an hour. I just listened. Couldn't even get a real kiss out of her. She said a lot of stuff I hear related in this thread. The kind of stuff NP girls say. But her looks and neighborhood say otherwise. Who knows, who cares. lol.

Unfortunately she reminded me of my x. Another amazing looking girl that wasn't all that where it counted most. And I will never put myself in that position again. This was my first M&G in 3 weeks. The last one was with my "tomboy princess" that I am still banging the hell out of. I hope she didnt get too upset when I txted her by accident after my M&G saying how happy I was to meet her tonite. Note to self. Always wear glasses when txting. Gonna try and meet another one tomorrow. An x child star you have all seen at least once .

[QUOTE=VaSD1;2287411]How you do handle the ones that can't drive or don't have transportation? I've had three pots in the last couple of weeks that had that issue. I wound up passing on all of them because when they gave me the addy it was either in a sketchy area or too far (profile said one city, they lived in another).[/QUOTE]I have observed a huge increase in teenies in college on SA who do not have a car. It is bad for me because I have to expose myself in public twice / meet, going to pick up and return them after the FC. It just doesn't work for my risk profile. And they all have multiple roommates so can not play at their place. I do not mind a sketchy part of town if they have their own pad. I can't believe the awful places I went to meet hookers.

BIll Cosby: apparently is / was a monger like us. Since he is rich and famous former escorts are coming out of the woodwork to get their 15 minutes. He had a driver / bag man who is telling all it seems. Perhaps it is good to be neither rich nor famous when playing the Sugar game.

Since my return to the bowl a few months ago, I have been exclusively choosing babies who live alone or have roommates who can evacuate when the need arises. I don't know why I didn't do this long ago!

It has significantly upped my weekly Baby Bang Count (BBC?) both by reducing the required outlay of funds (no hotel), and by reducing the amount of time needed to get the panties on the floor on any given day.

I recognize that it works for me because I am in a major city, and the pickin's are plentiful, but it has made my life so much easier and more pleasant, I just thought I'd share the (obvious) insight. Plus it really enhances the whole GFE that playing in the Bowl is all about for me.

Keep up the good work, my friends, and do no harm!

Cheers,

Scott

PS - I got a cryptic text from my former ATF a week or so ago. "Where are you now?" This is the baby, some of you might recall, who left me for her lesbian gf, reunited to ride me bareback, disappeared again, only to be spotted by me with afore-mentioned GF and a visible baby bump. I have not heard from her again, and got no answers to my text reply. Time to fake my own death?

[QUOTE=FScott;2287999]Since my return to the bowl a few months ago, I have been exclusively choosing babies who live alone or have roommates who can evacuate when the need arises. I don't know why I didn't do this long ago!

It has significantly upped my weekly Baby Bang Count (BBC?) both by reducing the required outlay of funds (no hotel), and by reducing the amount of time needed to get the panties on the floor on any given day.

I recognize that it works for me because I am in a major city, and the pickin's are plentiful, but it has made my life so much easier and more pleasant, I just thought I'd share the (obvious) insight. Plus it really enhances the whole GFE that playing in the Bowl is all about for me.

Keep up the good work, my friends, and do no harm!

Cheers,

Scott

PS - I got a cryptic text from my former ATF a week or so ago. "Where are you now?" This is the baby, some of you might recall, who left me for her lesbian gf, reunited to ride me bareback, disappeared again, only to be spotted by me with afore-mentioned GF and a visible baby bump. I have not heard from her again, and got no answers to my text reply. Time to fake my own death?[/QUOTE]I think BBC is mostly used to describe something else. LOL.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2288016]I think BBC is mostly used to describe something else. LOL.[/QUOTE]I couldn't find it in the list. What does it mean? Is it something bad?

[QUOTE=FScott;2288045]I couldn't find it in the list. What does it mean? Is it something bad?[/QUOTE]Big Black Cock. Very common parlance in these parts.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2288083]Big Black Cock. Very common parlance in these parts.[/QUOTE]Not what I had in mind at all haha! Not that there's anything wrong with that (Seinfeld fans will remember this).

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;2287706]I have noticed a number of SB's with a different city in their profile vs their real location. It has all been legitimate, but it is too common to be random.

There must be some guidance they are all getting from the same source. I. e. Different city, disclaimer not allowing use of profile, clarification of arrangement up front, etc.

We need Intel on the guidance they are getting and the source.[/QUOTE]The city-switching is very common, not only with SD websites but online dating in general. It's just a common tactic when you don't want someone who is looking for you directly to be able to zero in you as quickly, and anyone doing anything remotely sketchy (cheating, or just dating but wants to hide their profile from coworkers etc.) has run into this on social media before and thought about how to best address it. One thing I see a lot is selection of a city that's maybe 30 minutes to an hour away from where they actually live. That way at least if they post a body-only shot, if one of their friends or family sees them and thinks it looks familiar, they look down at the city and think it could be someone else. Just placement of reasonable doubt.

Despite all of the incredibly illogical and downright moronic things females seem to do, never underestimate their innate ability to manage their vagina as a commodity. It comes so natural to many of them that they have all sorts of tactics figured out before they ever leave the puberty years. They learn very quickly and on their own when it comes to using sex to get what they want.

[QUOTE=FScott;2287999]
PS - I got a cryptic text from my former ATF a week or so ago. "Where are you now?" This is the baby, some of you might recall, who left me for her lesbian gf, reunited to ride me bareback, disappeared again, only to be spotted by me with afore-mentioned GF and a visible baby bump. I have not heard from her again, and got no answers to my text reply. Time to fake my own death?[/QUOTE]I remember that story, and yes, in this situation the Lizard would disappear, never to be found. Unless that is you want to get to know your kid, hang out with him, and maybe put him through college.

[QUOTE=VaSD1;2287411]How you do handle the ones that can't drive or don't have transportation? I've had three pots in the last couple of weeks that had that issue. I wound up passing on all of them because when they gave me the addy it was either in a sketchy area or too far (profile said one city, they lived in another).[/QUOTE]The vast majority of girls I've seen do not have their own transportation.

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2287986]I have observed a huge increase in teenies in college on SA who do not have a car. It is bad for me because I have to expose myself in public twice / meet, going to pick up and return them after the FC. It just doesn't work for my risk profile. And they all have multiple roommates so can not play at their place. I do not mind a sketchy part of town if they have their own pad. I can't believe the awful places I went to meet hookers.

BIll Cosby: apparently is / was a monger like us. Since he is rich and famous former escorts are coming out of the woodwork to get their 15 minutes. He had a driver / bag man who is telling all it seems. Perhaps it is good to be neither rich nor famous when playing the Sugar game.[/QUOTE]" Perhaps it is good to be neither rich nor famous when playing the Sugar game. ".

Concur.