"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=JimmyConyers;5130767]She sent me an unsolicited message, wants $3500/ mo. LMAO!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/daab9241-e383-4738-9bd9-728d370522a8[/URL][/QUOTE]She is too fat and ugly for me for even $100.

[QUOTE=JimmyConyers;5130767]She sent me an unsolicited message, wants $3500/ mo. LMAO!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/daab9241-e383-4738-9bd9-728d370522a8[/URL][/QUOTE]$2000 of that is for maintaining those eyelashes. Sheesh!

[QUOTE=LuapW;5131278]She is too fat and ugly for me for even $100.[/QUOTE]Which is why I made sure to say her message was unsolicited! Didn't want anyone to think I was chasing that! Of course I've seen some of the clowns on this site chase even worse looking tail than her, so to each his own!

[QUOTE=TwoInchesHard;5120028][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/97d30a51-48f1-4714-991a-13b553837827[/URL]

Saw Sarbearxxx via outcall recently. Her schedule is crazy, so finding a date was challenging but well worth it. She's a tall redhead with soft skin. Everything was bare with a CIP finish. Highly recommended.[/QUOTE]I met with her recently, and she is a decent time, and, just as you stated, CIP with BBBJ on the menu. A slight stench below, I guess from the jiz being deposited inside. Gift was two bills.

[QUOTE=Jrody1;5131028]I just want to post this as this is a learning experience for me. Learn from my mistakes gents.

I've been talking to a woman of whom we all know was a provider in the Smyrna / marietta area but doesn't post ads anymore on LC, Skipthegames etc. I contacted her seeking an fwb and she agreed. We texted for a good few weeks but never met up. When I could meet she'd push it off and essentially in other words say no. That's a red flag. Happened many times. My mistake is that I started buying her gifts as I'm a man of my word and always uphold my word. Long story short I bought her in excess of about $400+ worth of gifts and never met up. Today I officially ended my contact with her because it is almost two months since I initiated contact and no bam bam or hanging out LOL. Anyone doing a fwb with any woman. Be sure to meet before you further your investment of dinero. Not a big hit for me. It's chump change but it could've been better served to someone else or elsewhere where I would of had some sort of reciprocation on my investment.

Kind of new on trying to initiate a fwb so I was going for a previous provider of whom I used to visit her regularly but she stopped posting ads.

I've joined seeking a while back but just lurking now. Some have already contacted me but they're not my cup of tea LOL.[/QUOTE]Why would you buy any of these ladies gifts? If you want to buy something for a regular, go for it. But spending money on the front end is just a waste. They're going to play you for a sucker every time.

[QUOTE=Harley32;5132216]Why would you buy any of these ladies gifts? If you want to buy something for a regular, go for it. But spending money on the front end is just a waste. They're going to play you for a sucker every time.[/QUOTE]There's actually a thing called "findom", a portmanteau of "financial domination". It's basically a kink thing where a guy gets off on having a woman take his money or gifts without giving anything in return.

I mean, you can't even make this stuff up. Subservient guys *pay* girls specifically to rip them off.

Not saying every monger who buys shit for hoes is a "financial sub", but I do think there's an element of that there. For some, it just feels good to have the "privilege" to buy a gift for a pretty or hot or whatever young woman.

Life is a rich tapestry, my friends!

O.

I hear a good bit about Secret Arrangements, but has anyone had any experience or success with Secret Benefits: [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/[/URL] ?

[QUOTE=Ozymandias;5133120]There's actually a thing called "findom", a portmanteau of "financial domination". It's basically a kink thing where a guy gets off on having a woman take his money or gifts without giving anything in return.

I mean, you can't even make this stuff up. Subservient guys *pay* girls specifically to rip them off.

Not saying every monger who buys shit for hoes is a "financial sub", but I do think there's an element of that there. For some, it just feels good to have the "privilege" to buy a gift for a pretty or hot or whatever young woman.

Life is a rich tapestry, my friends!

O.[/QUOTE]Had a Latina college student state she was into "findom". Got her down to 1. 5 unlimited shots whenever I wanted and told her she gets nothing else (except my semen in her pussy and mouth). She settled of course, that is how a 22 year old is. They cave fast or I say no thanks and then they cave. She had a BF that didn't DIY that was MY hook hahahaha. Now, findom has turned into DATYdom.

Findom. Totally stupid concept.

GG.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f6fc693d-86b0-4a64-801c-a76e8c844506[/URL]

[QUOTE=Harley32;5132216]Why would you buy any of these ladies gifts? If you want to buy something for a regular, go for it. But spending money on the front end is just a waste. They're going to play you for a sucker every time.[/QUOTE]Majority of guys that hobby do it out of necessity due to the lack of success they have with women. If they struggle with how to deal with women in their personal lives then it's not surprising they make those same mistakes when dealing with prostitutes. Don't spend unnecessary money on any woman that isn't family. If you choose to fuck with a working girl then treat this like what it is. A business transaction. Go on reddit and look up sex workers. They have a subreddit where they talk amongst themselves. Reading some of that content will tell you how the majority feel about you simping on them or being infatuated etc. The lack of respect these broads have for men who pay for pussy is enlightening. So stop treating these girls as anything more than a hole or 3 to stick your dick in. They aren't your girlfriends and they don't want to be. You want that then do what's necessary to get that from a normal girl. And miss me with that I pay them to leave bs. That's only something that is said to make you feel better about y'all lack of success with women.

[QUOTE=StayActive;5133321][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f6fc693d-86b0-4a64-801c-a76e8c844506[/URL][/QUOTE]I spoke with her a while back. She said she wasn't in Georgia at that time blah blah blah. I immediately lost interest. Seemed sketchy.

J.

Been talking to a few different ones. Any intel before I pull the trigger.

Babygirlleelee.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c05277ab-cf1c-4bea-8cad-1722be14fdc3[/URL]

MonroeSky.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/107f6754-b410-468c-99f3-72f0d7733447[/URL]

Kate.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3a16eafe-8249-ab7d-dff0-68ffdeb3fc6d[/URL]

Chlo164.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8d9f6e3c-f715-4f0e-be66-069502c997be[/URL]

BellaE5.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ffa8ff2c-17c0-4ad5-ac13-11919379f57c[/URL]

Kate has been referenced a number of times. I did my own review, here:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=3963162#post3963162[/URL]

MonroeSky is ... interesting. She used to weigh alot and lost a ton of weight. Her skin is taut, but you can tell her body went through a large change. She's into kissing, but you'll want to take a close look at her mouth and teeth, before you go there. And mentally, there are some issues, to the point where there may be a scene if you take her out. No funny business when it came to boom-boom time, though; she knew what was up. Standard BBBJ and covered mish. I left the experience satisfied, but I like 'them a little rough around the edges.

PM for FB. I used to have her pornhub profile link, but I can't find her page, anymore.

[QUOTE=Duluthbc;5134244]Been talking to a few different ones. Any intel before I pull the trigger.

MonroeSky.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/107f6754-b410-468c-99f3-72f0d7733447[/URL]

Kate.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3a16eafe-8249-ab7d-dff0-68ffdeb3fc6d[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PunkedLife;5133472]Majority of guys that hobby do it out of necessity due to the lack of success they have with women. If they struggle with how to deal with women in their personal lives then it's not surprising they make those same mistakes when dealing with prostitutes. Don't spend unnecessary money on any woman that isn't family. If you choose to fuck with a working girl then treat this like what it is. A business transaction. Go on reddit and look up sex workers. They have a subreddit where they talk amongst themselves. Reading some of that content will tell you how the majority feel about you simping on them or being infatuated etc. The lack of respect these broads have for men who pay for pussy is enlightening. So stop treating these girls as anything more than a hole or 3 to stick your dick in. They aren't your girlfriends and they don't want to be. You want that then do what's necessary to get that from a normal girl. And miss me with that I pay them to leave bs. That's only something that is said to make you feel better about y'all lack of success with women.[/QUOTE]Do you happen to have a link to the Reddit page? I did a search but only get a bunch of unrelated sex worker posts. Not a subreddit. I'd be interested to see what they have to say.

[QUOTE=StayActive;5133321][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f6fc693d-86b0-4a64-801c-a76e8c844506[/URL][/QUOTE]I have seen her more than a year ago and was going by Sara then. She lives in GA but closer to AL border. Agreed to come to Douglasville area. She didn't host at the time. I had to get a room and gave her 250. She looks rough and was a little fidgety. Was not my cup of tea and moved on. Hope this helps.