Very good points all around
[QUOTE=TheGoodSh;1951035]Personal preference. Variety. An accepted amount of unpredictability. Finding the hidden gem, or the little known treasure. The excitement of new things. Even having a great time with a girl with a mediocre rep because you click, and are thus getting something specific to you in a business where "good" reps are built out of canned, "good" times. You read mongers going on about the girl "convincing them" that they are having a good time. That never works for me. It's not what I am looking for.
And, for me, the "sure things" have rarely worked out for me. I respect them and that they are good providers. I even suggest them to others, when it makes sense to do so. I know that what I am interested in, is a rare thing. I'm not married, and I'm not 19, I'm not just grateful to be there. It takes a very special girl to really make me happy. I've tried some of the stellar talent here, and it just didn't work for me. Most of the providers I've been with couldn't get the nut, and some couldn't even arouse, or maintain my interest. If I based my reviews on ME getting off, most of the girls I've seen would get 0's. So instead I base my analysis on time spent, and on how things went aside from that ultimate goal.
So, for me at least... That is why.
Why go after another "sure thing", when I know that most guys have different requirements than I do, and when it is far from certain that I will ultimately enjoy it. Even if she brings her professional best?
It is not that I don't value customer service, respect, or performance. I do. But I am not satisfied with an "act", and as soon as she starts trying too hard to figure me out, or starts "acting" I lose interest.[/QUOTE]I've seen Candice and it was a great time. Zero defects in the customer experience, as Kenwood Jack mentioned in a spot-on review. Yet I've also had zero desire to go back, and I've often asked myself why. Somehow it just didn't feel real, and I didn't get into it. I mean, she was great. And it certainly wasn't that I had trouble with the nut (that's a problem I only ever run into with the SO, as in same-old). But on all the technical aspects, she is perfect and I have no complaints. It's very similar to what I experience with Petra -- excellent in every regard when I think with the big head, yet for some reason it just doesn't fully click for me and I don't want to go back as often as I should rationally.
I really don't want handlers around under any circumstances. I don't want to be asked for a loan. But I really don't mind hearing her complain about life or anything else that's normal and real. I have very little tolerance for my time being wasted and won't put up with it much, or even at all with a new provider. But I don't even mind the occasional follow up text since I have a monger phone, assuming it stops if I ask her to stop. I guess I don't mind the "real" aspects, as long as it doesn't get too "real."
It's not unlike the old question about why women hang around with men who don't treat them well, or vice versa. There's an attraction there, healthy or not, that keeps them coming back, even when there are so many others who would treat them better but bore them.