Sometimes, you don't even have to do anything wrong.
[QUOTE=FigLeaf;5462407]True but, I am not going to take the chance that the warden starts casting an eye of doubt my way.[/QUOTE]Once the seed of suspicion is planted, it is nearly impossible to uproot and kill.
Got busted a few years back, but upped my OPSEC game and have had smooth sailing until Saturday night.
A few weeks ago, I was at my wife's office, took some measurements for something she needed installed, and went to Lowe's to buy it. I innocently put the pen in my pocket and it floated around in life unnoticed until Saturday night when it fell out of my gym back when I was cleaning it out. It was a branded pen from a hotel and she went white as a ghost. It took hours for her to calm down and I reminded her it wasn't a hotel brand that exists within 100 miles of here and 2 years ago her team went to a conference at one of their hotels and my wife and I had gone to that same conference 3 years ago and I'm sure someone brought back pens they used taking notes etc.
But what a scare!
Same way everyone gets caught
[QUOTE=RogerOver;5464815]How'd you get busted the first time? I tend to agree regarding the seed. While I have no SO, I think if I did and got busted, I'd just call it a day and either break it off or get divorced. It just doesn't seem like something that can be overcome.[/QUOTE]I was careless / stupid.
Hotel key was found.
Russians, Columbians, & More!
[QUOTE=BobbyRichmond;5465225]I sure wish there was a way to eliminate all the out of towners from messaging and favoring me. It is very annoying. LOL.[/QUOTE]Same here. It is annoying as hell to have to delete 20+ foreign favorites a day. That haven't even viewed your profile.
There is a way to filter the messages from hitting your main inbox. That cuts down on some of the noise. But you still have to delete them.
Denial only works so long
[QUOTE=Jcn1965;5465747]Deny deny deny. It's always gonna be in their head but as long as you never admitted it they really not sure.[/QUOTE]And no explaining a key for a hotel that is unique to our town.
And every book / counselor / etc about overcoming infidelity says you have to admit it to move forward.
Messaging someone in the wild
I have a potential good situation and just wonder if anyone has attempted this. A very cute girl on a local Facebook group posted that she was looking for a job. Has anyone ever approached a girl out of the blue about being a potential SB in this type of scenario? If so what was your opening lines? Also I have an alternate FB profile that doesn't have any pics or real info about me. Thanks.