BackPage Advertiser Reviews

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;3251058]So as a newbie, have the following questions and was looking at the various posts but did not seem to get the information on the pages I looked at:

Ad has no rate or services etc. So when does one.

- Ask for rate. I was told to ask when I call the girl.

- When do I find out what services are included etc?

- When do I hand the donation over? Beginning? End?

Thanks again for your help.[/QUOTE]It's important to remember that every ad you see is nothing more than marketing with the sole purpose of getting you to schedule an appt and show up at the provider's door. That means fake pics are very common and even real pics may be old or taken from the most flattering angles. In other words, don't assume anything and be ready to walk away if the girl who opens the door is not what you expected. The best thing about this forum and the various review sites is that you can do some homework in advance to find out which women are worth seeing, which ones aren't worth the trouble and which ones are outright scammers.

About price, research the going rates ahead of time, know what you're willing to spend and don't let your little head do the thinking. There are providers out there with "Golden Pussy" syndrome who think you should pay big bucks just to be in the same room with them. Also remember that price doesn't necessarily correlate with service. If you RTFF you'll find plenty of reports of great service at lower price-points and crappy service from higher-priced girls.

Always protect yourself, your personal information (assume that anything you write in an email or text message will be out there forever) and trust your gut instincts. If something doesn't feel right, don't go through with it as there will always be another opportunity just down the road. And always have a Plan B (and maybe even a Plan C) because providers are not, as a general rule, the most reliable people on the planet (of course, that's true of many hobbyists as well). And one thing that really sucks is traveling some distance to see a provider only to have her flake out on you. Having a backup plan has saved the day for many a monger.

And, of course, stay safe and happy hunting!

Thank you everyone for your comments so far. Too many things to consider.

First off. Thank you for pointing that ads are most likely with false pics, I think now that assuming this is a safe bet. One could be wrong but that would be a pleasant surprise.

Now, after a girl is selected, there are 2 things to do. Phone Number search and picture search. Google Image or Tineye.

If Tineye comes up with different images then we know girl's image is false and need latest pics from her or one take's a chance and visits.

Google search. Now this is where I'm having the biggest issue.

For example the following girl - [URL]http://www.bitchesofbackpage.com/804-295-3487/[/URL] - appears to have multiple names with same phone number. So stay away.

Which are the review sites? TER is one but one needs to be a member and not all BP providers are on TER (as per some PMs that I received)?

Erotic Monkey has some but not that many.

So, assuming a girl's number comes up on many sites, and I do not see a review, what should I do?

Does this website have a list of reviewed providers or should I keep reading pages and check. One issue that I faced is that many older posts have links to BP pages that are now censored. So cannot check the girl the post refers to. I guess just a timing issue.

Thank you for your patience and hope for your understanding.

[URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/upscale-playmate-waiting-for-you-your-best-fantasy/26671273[/URL]

Contacted this one thru text to schedule time to meet up. Regular conversation ensued, seemed familiar in a way though, set up a time to meet. Got to her spot told her I'm here and she / he / it went silent. After awhile said fuck this and left.

Remembered I had a similar experience before (girl went silent after I got there and told her multiple times I've arrived) with a different number and ad a couple of weeks ago, and remembered the text conversation from before was eerily similar; lots of "babe" "can you do that for me" etc.

Did research and found the same pics from old ad now on new number I contacted today and latest ad was in VA Beach.

TLDR, lost time but saved my money. If anyone else has had a different experience with this one, feel free to chime in.

[QUOTE=Kinderfeld;3260089][URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/upscale-playmate-waiting-for-you-your-best-fantasy/26671273[/URL]

Contacted this one thru text to schedule time to meet up. Regular conversation ensued, seemed familiar in a way though, set up a time to meet. Got to her spot told her I'm here and she / he / it went silent. After awhile said fuck this and left.

Remembered I had a similar experience before (girl went silent after I got there and told her multiple times I've arrived) with a different number and ad a couple of weeks ago, and remembered the text conversation from before was eerily similar; lots of "babe" "can you do that for me" etc.

Did research and found the same pics from old ad now on new number I contacted today and latest ad was in VA Beach.

TLDR, lost time but saved my money. If anyone else has had a different experience with this one, feel free to chime in.[/QUOTE]Springfield is a target-rich environment with an abundance of Plan B choices. If you show up and are asked to wait more than about 10 minutes, it probably means she's double-booked and taken the guy who arrived just before you. Thanks for the heads up about this time-wasting provider.

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;3257762]Thank you everyone for your comments so far. Too many things to consider.

First off. Thank you for pointing that ads are most likely with false pics, I think now that assuming this is a safe bet. One could be wrong but that would be a pleasant surprise.

Now, after a girl is selected, there are 2 things to do. Phone Number search and picture search. Google Image or Tineye.

If Tineye comes up with different images then we know girl's image is false and need latest pics from her or one take's a chance and visits.

Google search. Now this is where I'm having the biggest issue.

For example the following girl - [URL]http://www.bitchesofbackpage.com/804-295-3487/[/URL] - appears to have multiple names with same phone number. So stay away.

Which are the review sites? TER is one but one needs to be a member and not all BP providers are on TER (as per some PMs that I received)?

Erotic Monkey has some but not that many.

So, assuming a girl's number comes up on many sites, and I do not see a review, what should I do?

Does this website have a list of reviewed providers or should I keep reading pages and check. One issue that I faced is that many older posts have links to BP pages that are now censored. So cannot check the girl the post refers to. I guess just a timing issue.

Thank you for your patience and hope for your understanding.[/QUOTE]Saying that fake or misleading pics are common is not the same thing as saying most ads are likely to have fake pics. My point was simply to emphasize the need for a "buyer beware" attitude because even real pics can be old, or taken from a flattering angle or otherwise designed to get you to respond to the ad. From the provider's point of view, once you show up at her door it's very likely that you'll go through with the session.

For the oThER site you mentioned, do some research and you'll find there are ways to gain access that you may not be aware of.

About changing names and numbers, many providers do that for different reasons so it's not an automatic red flag (although it's not a good thing, IMHO). It's one factor to consider but there's more homework to be done.

[QUOTE=JmSuttr;3263871]Springfield is a target-rich environment with an abundance of Plan B choices. If you show up and are asked to wait more than about 10 minutes, it probably means she's double-booked and taken the guy who arrived just before you. Thanks for the heads up about this time-wasting provider.[/QUOTE]Yeah I normally would agree with you but in this case, the "person" I was texting just flat out went cold silent. Twice. No answering of my civil inquiries as to what's going on, No "where you at babe" 1 hour later, no "sorry babe, did you want to see me again" 1 day later, nothing. Smells fishy to me.

Long time lurker / mongerer. Been a while since I last posted. Just got out of a nasty divorce. BTW, Lawyers are the cruelest beings in the world. Trust me, I hired one of the nastier ones. Anyways, hit up a Herndon CC spot and was treated to Cici. Youthful and really pretty. Standard mission and chasing the dog affair. BTW Mimi is the Mamasan there. LOL. Hope all you guys are handling it good. Buck gone in 60 seconds if you know what I mean. Take care.

[QUOTE=LowJack;3264939]Long time lurker / mongerer. Been a while since I last posted. Just got out of a nasty divorce. BTW, Lawyers are the cruelest beings in the world. Trust me, I hired one of the nastier ones. Anyways, hit up a Herndon CC spot and was treated to Cici. Youthful and really pretty. Standard mission and chasing the dog affair. BTW Mimi is the Mamasan there. LOL. Hope all you guys are handling it good. Buck gone in 60 seconds if you know what I mean. Take care.[/QUOTE]Otherwise, how will members be able to find Cici and take advantage of your positive review? Also, your "buck gone in 60 seconds" is a bit cryptic for me. Did you mean to say your session was 160 for the hour or did you score a major bargain at 100 for the hour?

P.S. Sorry for the divorce, or congratulations, whichever is most appropriate. Enjoy your new freedom!

[QUOTE=Kinderfeld;3264225]Yeah I normally would agree with you but in this case, the "person" I was texting just flat out went cold silent. Twice. No answering of my civil inquiries as to what's going on, No "where you at babe" 1 hour later, no "sorry babe, did you want to see me again" 1 day later, nothing. Smells fishy to me.[/QUOTE]Yes, the first issue is that this time-wasting provider should be avoided. Whatever her reason, the fact that she pulled the radio silence stunt on multiple occasions is an absolute deal-breaker.

But the second issue, the one that I raised, is that it's a good practice for every monger to have a Plan B (and even Plan C) ready to go for just such a situation. With so many providers working in the Springfield area, there were probably several within a few minutes of your location. So, after waiting a reasonable amount of time, moving to your Plan B provider will at least keep your trip from being a complete waste of time.

FWIW, I recently had a normally reliable provider flake out on me in Springfield and when I called my Plan B I found out she was staying in the same hotel. I had already parked and didn't need to move an inch. Life is crazy that way sometimes!

Not to be a dick. Back page forum, Herndon cici.

[QUOTE=JmSuttr;3265248]Otherwise, how will members be able to find Cici and take advantage of your positive review? Also, your "buck gone in 60 seconds" is a bit cryptic for me. Did you mean to say your session was 160 for the hour or did you score a major bargain at 100 for the hour?

P.S. Sorry for the divorce, or congratulations, whichever is most appropriate. Enjoy your new freedom![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LowJack;3265319]Not to be a dick. Back page forum, Herndon cici.[/QUOTE]But, IMHO, it's better form to give the contact information when providing a review rather than making others have to dig for it.

If that's not your take, so be it. I'll let the other members judge for themselves which method they prefer.

To my reading, "a buck gone in 60 seconds" means spending $100 and blowing one's load in less than a minute. Hey, I can definitely relate! That has always been my problem. Which is usually followed by 10-15 minutes of begging for a 2nd shot.

And who is the aforementioned Mimi? And why is that funny? As a newbie here, would someone please PM me so I can understand the humor too?

Thanks.

[QUOTE=JmSuttr;3265248]Otherwise, how will members be able to find Cici and take advantage of your positive review? Also, your "buck gone in 60 seconds" is a bit cryptic for me. Did you mean to say your session was 160 for the hour or did you score a major bargain at 100 for the hour?

P.S. Sorry for the divorce, or congratulations, whichever is most appropriate. Enjoy your new freedom![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LowJack;3264939]Long time lurker / mongerer. Been a while since I last posted. Just got out of a nasty divorce. BTW, Lawyers are the cruelest beings in the world. Trust me, I hired one of the nastier ones. Anyways, hit up a Herndon CC spot and was treated to Cici. Youthful and really pretty. Standard mission and chasing the dog affair. BTW Mimi is the Mamasan there. LOL. Hope all you guys are handling it good. Buck gone in 60 seconds if you know what I mean. Take care.[/QUOTE]

Was looking at the ads and found this provider: [URL]http://liveescortreviews.com/large/nova/540-632-4775/1/1001835[/URL].

Pretty sure it's fake since I also found her instagram account and there are photos of her mom, friends: [URL]www.pictastar.com/i/savpence28[/URL].

I could be wrong but seems fake to me. Would be great if she was real. Love those photos. Reminds me of someone I know.

[QUOTE=JmSuttr;3263887]Saying that fake or misleading pics are common is not the same thing as saying most ads are likely to have fake pics. My point was simply to emphasize the need for a "buyer beware" attitude because even real pics can be old, or taken from a flattering angle or otherwise designed to get you to respond to the ad. From the provider's point of view, once you show up at her door it's very likely that you'll go through with the session.

For the oThER site you mentioned, do some research and you'll find there are ways to gain access that you may not be aware of.

About changing names and numbers, many providers do that for different reasons so it's not an automatic red flag (although it's not a good thing, IMHO). It's one factor to consider but there's more homework to be done.[/QUOTE]Well, an old pic is not an accurate pic, So perhaps I should state that getting an accurate / current pics seems to be a challenge. .

Hello everyone,

With the guidance that I've received on this forum, following is an ad on which I did some research on:

[URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/attractive-hot-blonde-gorgeous-curvy-figure-real-no-game/26791307[/URL]

Phone number does not appear on ThEotheR site.

Google phone number does not provide much information. Red Flag?

Tineye has no hits on images on the above site.

Google images did get some hits as follows:

Carissa / NJ /646-806-2848;.

Stacey / Wichita /316-835-0273;.

April / SanDiego /619-754-9981.

So, does she appear to be a legit provider? What else should I have done more with this ad and phone number.

Thank you for your continued assistance and guidance.