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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6449245]Can you be 420 friendly and not a smoker?
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Too many on there mix and match about this. I don't want to be around any of it, just because, and also, for the same reason a girl should not wear perfume when seeing a SD. The warden.[/QUOTE]I think a lot of people equate the smoker question with cigarettes rather than weed. At least that's been the answer I've gotten.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6449245]Can you be 420 friendly and not a smoker?
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Too many on there mix and match about this. I don't want to be around any of it, just because, and also, for the same reason a girl should not wear perfume when seeing a SD. The warden.[/QUOTE]Maybe they are just into edibles, tinctures or vaping (which is a lot less annoying).
I think the "smells" you can potentially bring home is often overlooked. I saw a SB the other day who wanted to smoke and I had to politely tell her not to. Smoke permeates the clothing, and as you say FFA, the warden would definitely notice.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6449829]Maybe they are just into edibles, tinctures or vaping (which is a lot less annoying).[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ChefSolo;6449480]I think a lot of people equate the smoker question with cigarettes rather than weed. At least that's been the answer I've gotten.[/QUOTE]The SB's almost 100% do. And if you date the younger ones you can be sure over 50% are 420 friendly and maybe over 80%. Personally I don't give a shit. Usually the higher they are the better the sex. I have dated ones that are always high and ones that never partake. It's never been an issue (as long as it's cannabis only). As a tea totaling old fogey (and x hippy) I am much more critical of drinking than smoking.
There were several recent posts here pointing to both the dangers and possibilities associated with new online facial recognition technologies. Last night I decided to give it a try, and looked up some of my previous SBs. Got two surprises! Here is the first case.
Part I. Background.
Some years back I dated 30 yo Latina (real age). She caught my eye, as she was not only attractive with a curvy figure (big tits and ass, without being fat), but also claimed to have a good job as a business consultant. Her profile also stated that she was kinky, and wanted someone into that.
She was very discreet, and it took over a month of back and forth discussions and a nice lunch together before we finally closed the deal. She was well spoken, well dressed, clearly well educated, and drove a good car. After the meet and greet it still took another two weeks before we finally hooked up at a hotel. She did not seem driven by money, but we did agree a per meet figure.
Unlike her reserve over the previous month, and her very proper behavior at lunch, she was all over me the second she got in the hotel room door. Instant tight embrace and deep kisses, and straight on to the bed! One of the most sexually forward and aggressive women I have ever met. She insisted I simply worship her magnificent set of breasts. I had to lie in her lap and continuously suckle and fondle them. She was enormously aroused by this – I think she had multiple orgasms just from this. Apart from her other responses, the evidence for her arousal was that she became sloppy, dripping wet. Clearly one of her kinks.
After playing with her tits for ages, it was time to move on. I like giving and receiving oral, and she started to devour me with gusto – she must have been hungry! However, it was at this point that I noticed the problem. Her pussy stank. Not a fishy smell, but a very strong, objectionable smell. Yuk. I had to avoid her getting near or on my face, without obviously seeming to, by sort of jerking upright due to her doing such a great job on me. This discovery really put me off, but I somehow managed to continue on to do a good job of f*cking her in cowgirl and doggy (with condom! She seemed really happy, and we said our goodbyes.
Afterwards, she wanted to get together again for more fun – she asked several times over the following six months. I was very tempted, but I didn't date her again, as I was worried that the odor might have been due to a hygiene / health issue. I didn't think I could mention the issue to her directly, as doing so is, in my limited experience, a relationship killer. What would you pros have done in this situation? (I wish I had discovered this site at the time, and not just last year). I could think of three possibilities for why there was such an odor:
1. There was a hygiene issue.
2. Being dirty / smelly might have been one of her kinks? Or,
3. Just a result of being so very wet, combined with her diet? Everyone has a different intrinsic odor, which can be strongly affected by diet.
Part II – The results of a facial recognition search.
Fast forward to last night. As she was such an interesting person in multiple ways, I kept some of her photos. So I put one into a facial recognition search engine and immediately got several hits, which were indeed she. She was everything she said she was, and more! She is now a head of function at a leading niche US industrial company, was previously head of function at a local specialist consultancy company, and is also the owner of her own consultancy firm. Winner of a national leadership award and other distinctions, nominated (before I met her) for a woman of the year award, has media exposure, and so on and on. I was blown away by the results. She is a very high-profile professional, and does not lack for money. You can see why she wanted discretion. Proof, if any more was needed, that not all the women on SA are "sex workers" or semi-pro at best.
So, why was she on SA? Maybe she told me the truth when she said she was just too busy for conventional dating at the time. Maybe a way to find someone to satisfy her kinks – she seemed quite pleased by my efforts. No longer living locally, and no longer on SA, so far as I can tell.
Again, what would you pros have done in my situation?
This is a second example of the crucial information that can be revealed by investigating your SB. Information I really wished I had known before I agreed to an arrangement with this SB!
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I previously posted about Vanessa. About how she ghosted me after one meet, when I had (foolishly) given her an allowance. But in reality maybe I was lucky that she did so, and that we did not continue.
Looking her up reveals a long rap sheet, including.
- Manslaughter.
- Child endangerment,
- Firearms offenses, and.
- Drugs.
I guess I should count myself lucky to have escaped in one piece!
[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;6451387]There were several recent posts here pointing to both the dangers and possibilities associated with new online facial recognition technologies. Last night I decided to give it a try, and looked up some of my previous SBs. Got two surprises! Here is the first case.
Part I. Background.
Some years back I dated 30 yo Latina (real age). She caught my eye, as she was not only attractive with a curvy figure (big tits and ass, without being fat), but also claimed to have a good job as a business consultant. Her profile also stated that she was kinky, and wanted someone into that.
She was very discreet, and it took over a month of back and forth discussions and a nice lunch together before we finally closed the deal. She was well spoken, well dressed, clearly well educated, and drove a good car. After the meet and greet it still took another two weeks before we finally hooked up at a hotel. She did not seem driven by money, but we did agree a per meet figure.
Unlike her reserve over the previous month, and her very proper behavior at lunch, she was all over me the second she got in the hotel room door. Instant tight embrace and deep kisses, and straight on to the bed! One of the most sexually forward and aggressive women I have ever met. She insisted I simply worship her magnificent set of breasts. I had to lie in her lap and continuously suckle and fondle them. She was enormously aroused by this I think she had multiple orgasms just from this. Apart from her other responses, the evidence for her arousal was that she became sloppy, dripping wet. Clearly one of her kinks.
After playing with her tits for ages, it was time to move on. I like giving and receiving oral, and she started to devour me with gusto she must have been hungry! However, it was at this point that I noticed the problem. Her pussy stank. Not a fishy smell, but a very strong, objectionable smell. Yuk. I had to avoid her getting near or on my face, without obviously seeming to, by sort of jerking upright due to her doing such a great job on me. This discovery really put me off, but I somehow managed to continue on to do a good job of f*cking her in cowgirl and doggy (with condom! She seemed really happy, and we said our goodbyes.
Afterwards, she wanted to get together again for more fun she asked several times over the following six months. I was very tempted, but I didn't date her again, as I was worried that the odor might have been due to a hygiene / health issue. I didn't think I could mention the issue to her directly, as doing so is, in my limited experience, a relationship killer. What would you pros have done in this situation? (I wish I had discovered this site at the time, and not just last year). I could think of three possibilities for why there was such an odor:
1. There was a hygiene issue.
2. Being dirty / smelly might have been one of her kinks? Or,
3. Just a result of being so very wet, combined with her diet? Everyone has a different intrinsic odor, which can be strongly affected by diet.
Part II The results of a facial recognition search.
Fast forward to last night. As she was such an interesting person in multiple ways, I kept some of her photos. So I put one into a facial recognition search engine and immediately got several hits, which were indeed she. She was everything she said she was, and more! She is now a head of function at a leading niche US industrial company, was previously head of function at a local specialist consultancy company, and is also the owner of her own consultancy firm. Winner of a national leadership award and other distinctions, nominated (before I met her) for a woman of the year award, has media exposure, and so on and on. I was blown away by the results. She is a very high-profile professional, and does not lack for money. You can see why she wanted discretion. Proof, if any more was needed, that not all the women on SA are "sex workers" or semi-pro at best.
So, why was she on SA? Maybe she told me the truth when she said she was just too busy for conventional dating at the time. Maybe a way to find someone to satisfy her kinks she seemed quite pleased by my efforts. No longer living locally, and no longer on SA, so far as I can tell.
Again, what would you pros have done in my situation?[/QUOTE]Smelly pussy? Shoot, I don't care if she is VP of marketing for Google. That's a dealbreaker. That stank could be a number of things, none of which is ever good.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6450431]The SB's almost 100% do. And if you date the younger ones you can be sure over 50% are 420 friendly and maybe over 80%. Personally I don't give a shit. Usually the higher they are the better the sex. I have dated ones that are always high and ones that never partake. It's never been an issue (as long as it's cannabis only). As a tea totaling old fogey (and x hippy) I am much more critical of drinking than smoking.[/QUOTE]Mm, HG, can I just suggest, your preferred demographic is likely not representative of the SB population as a whole. I have only banged about 40 in the few years I have been on the site, and I can't think of more than a couple who even brought it up. No one demanded to do so in the FC. One wanted to do shrooms w / me at some future time, but I was so flipped out by that I never saw her again, despite an incredibly good deal.
[QUOTE=JackMiles;6451473]Smelly pussy? Shoot, I don't care if she is VP of marketing for Google. That's a dealbreaker. That stank could be a number of things, none of which is ever good.[/QUOTE]I was chasing road babies in Chicago last year. I laid a lot of ground work beforehand w / a 30's MILF. Met me at the bar of my hotel, we drank and ate apps, then up to the room. She went to stare out the window at the view, I came up from behind, hand under the skirt and panties, and started to finger her. I got her off, but both of us noticed the 'fragrance'. She apologized and said it was b / c she had just finished her monthly. I really could offer no rejoinder so I didn't. During foreplay, obviously DATY was off the table, she did blow me. We did get into bed and I banged her covered, and after that we both got in the shower and cleaned up. She ended up staying the night, and I sort of got interested in a BJ in the morning, but I had work and sent her on her way. A couple of days later she texts asking if I wanted to see her. The answer was obvious, silence. After she noted that, she got into a snit and sent a kiss-off text.
Seriously, I have had SBs coming off their period in the FC, and maybe you get a hint of blood, but this was like 100 x worse. If even she knew how much she hated the post-period smell, what the hell was she doing in my room? A responsible SB would tell it like it is and say she was hopeful we could meet on a different night of the trip. I presume she doesn't have smelly fish all the time.
Most important: what facial recognition search engine??
I have used pimeyes but the free version doesn't tell you much.
[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;6451387]There were several recent posts here pointing to both the dangers and possibilities associated with new online facial recognition technologies. Last night I decided to give it a try, and looked up some of my previous SBs. Got two surprises! Here is the first case.
Part I. Background.
Some years back I dated 30 yo Latina (real age). She caught my eye, as she was not only attractive with a curvy figure (big tits and ass, without being fat), but also claimed to have a good job as a business consultant. Her profile also stated that she was kinky, and wanted someone into that.
She was very discreet, and it took over a month of back and forth discussions and a nice lunch together before we finally closed the deal. She was well spoken, well dressed, clearly well educated, and drove a good car. After the meet and greet it still took another two weeks before we finally hooked up at a hotel. She did not seem driven by money, but we did agree a per meet figure.
Unlike her reserve over the previous month, and her very proper behavior at lunch, she was all over me the second she got in the hotel room door. Instant tight embrace and deep kisses, and straight on to the bed! One of the most sexually forward and aggressive women I have ever met. She insisted I simply worship her magnificent set of breasts. I had to lie in her lap and continuously suckle and fondle them. She was enormously aroused by this I think she had multiple orgasms just from this. Apart from her other responses, the evidence for her arousal was that she became sloppy, dripping wet. Clearly one of her kinks.
After playing with her tits for ages, it was time to move on. I like giving and receiving oral, and she started to devour me with gusto she must have been hungry! However, it was at this point that I noticed the problem. Her pussy stank. Not a fishy smell, but a very strong, objectionable smell. Yuk. I had to avoid her getting near or on my face, without obviously seeming to, by sort of jerking upright due to her doing such a great job on me. This discovery really put me off, but I somehow managed to continue on to do a good job of f*cking her in cowgirl and doggy (with condom! She seemed really happy, and we said our goodbyes.
Afterwards, she wanted to get together again for more fun she asked several times over the following six months. I was very tempted, but I didn't date her again, as I was worried that the odor might have been due to a hygiene / health issue. I didn't think I could mention the issue to her directly, as doing so is, in my limited experience, a relationship killer. What would you pros have done in this situation? (I wish I had discovered this site at the time, and not just last year). I could think of three possibilities for why there was such an odor:
1. There was a hygiene issue.
2. Being dirty / smelly might have been one of her kinks? Or,
3. Just a result of being so very wet, combined with her diet? Everyone has a different intrinsic odor, which can be strongly affected by diet.
Part II The results of a facial recognition search.
Fast forward to last night. As she was such an interesting person in multiple ways, I kept some of her photos. So I put one into a facial recognition search engine and immediately got several hits, which were indeed she. She was everything she said she was, and more! She is now a head of function at a leading niche US industrial company, was previously head of function at a local specialist consultancy company, and is also the owner of her own consultancy firm. Winner of a national leadership award and other distinctions, nominated (before I met her) for a woman of the year award, has media exposure, and so on and on. I was blown away by the results. She is a very high-profile professional, and does not lack for money. You can see why she wanted discretion. Proof, if any more was needed, that not all the women on SA are "sex workers" or semi-pro at best.
So, why was she on SA? Maybe she told me the truth when she said she was just too busy for conventional dating at the time. Maybe a way to find someone to satisfy her kinks she seemed quite pleased by my efforts. No longer living locally, and no longer on SA, so far as I can tell.
Again, what would you pros have done in my situation?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Murrican;6451874]Most important: what facial recognition search engine??
I have used pimeyes but the free version doesn't tell you much.[/QUOTE]Heads up (pun intended). Do not use your own pictures for ai picture software (faceapp) or ai searches. You are training them with your pictures and giving valuable information of you in various disguises. Of course, you may not care.
[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;6451387]TI could think of three possibilities for why there was such an odor:
1. There was a hygiene issue.
2. Being dirty / smelly might have been one of her kinks? Or,
3. Just a result of being so very wet, combined with her diet? Everyone has a different intrinsic odor, which can be strongly affected by diet.
[/QUOTE]99% of the time, foul odor is the result of simple bacterial vaginosis caused by lack of acidity. It's not a hygine issue, though I do think it's made worse by multiple guys cuming in them.
In any case, tell them to insert this nightly before bed until the bottle is gone. A few nights will clear it up, all 12 capsules will fix for many months.
[URL]https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08ZXNRG19[/URL] (buy a handful for yourself, worth the few pennies).
Also have a handful of these Plan B's, $8. 49 is less than so many other problems: [URL]https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RZMG6ZM[/URL].
[QUOTE=Murrican;6451874]Most important: what facial recognition search engine??
I have used pimeyes but the free version doesn't tell you much.[/QUOTE]Facecheck.
What do you guys think?
I M&G w/ a POT today. 30's, classy, career woman, gorgeous, big tits (likely fake, like her lips), jewelry, nails. Divorcee, but had an arrangement long ago, before marriage, and wants to get back to it. Had zero idea what was appropriate allowance, allowed me to suggest, and readily agreed to 1200/mo. Will even host if I want. Mentioned she had a hysterectomy (not common in someone so young). Good: no preggo, no monthly. What about the banging, though? Anyone have real knowledge?
[QUOTE=Christophe1;6451901]Heads up (pun intended). Do not use your own pictures for ai picture software (faceapp) or ai searches. You are training them with your pictures and giving valuable information of you in various disguises. Of course, you may not care.[/QUOTE]I am not sure this is correct. There is a way to cloak your picture (against the formation of a facial rec model), if you used that as the search probe, I don't think you would do them any good and you may hurt them. Read up about the cloaking software available from the University of Chicago.