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[QUOTE=Benz1;3403685]GPS.
We the client with the cash can change that.
Be prepared to do it yourself or walk out if you don't get what you want.[/QUOTE]Check the liver temp. Put a chalk line around it. Cover it with a tarp! A full on Boycott is the only thing that might get a pulse. Find 1 go to girl or rely on the kindness of a Fellow Monger for an UTR girl. That's what it's come down to around here. The Glory Days are gone!
Chokes me up just thinkin' about it. Sniff Sniff!
NJ.
On here as matter of fact. Some folks were clowning me for staying at Blessings but they give a damm good massage and they give off a positive atmosphere. I'll take that over a busted massage just to get a weak HJ or BJ. That's basically a $120 HJ / BJ. You coulda got that for 70 from some working girl or for less from a SW.
I decided to step out of my range a little bit with Healing Hands and Relax Massage. I'm not venturing out no more. And who knows, maybe the more I come in Blessings they'll slip a HE in there. I only tip them 10 or $20. But I get out of there feeling right.
Think about it. If a girl is terrible at a massage, all you did was pay $80 for a HJ. You coulda got a SW to do that for $20.
[QUOTE=NoseJelly;3403744]Check the liver temp. Put a chalk line around it. Cover it with a tarp! A full on Boycott is the only thing that might get a pulse. Find 1 go to girl or rely on the kindness of a Fellow Monger for an UTR girl. That's what it's come down to around here. The Glory Days are gone!
Chokes me up just thinkin' about it. Sniff Sniff!
NJ.[/QUOTE]I totally agree with NJ and Jayce Dragon.
That's why I got out.
But if there is a parade reporting back on this form to eliminate GPS, I will join the March and report back too.
Remember you have to be willing to DIY or walk away. (You might have to Jerk off before you go).
Its been awhile since I've jerked off in front a MP girl, this could be fun. Especially the reports about their reactions to us taking matters into our own hands. LOL
Without full unity all efforts are useless.
NJ is right, right now.
When you finish yourself off. Its like a slap in the face to some. Some don't give a fuck but once they hear about another girl getting more $$ for balls she drained maybe she'll change her mind. Nobody is not saying this has to be cheap but it doesn't mean be expensive either. I mean who the fuck are these girls, really? Go to any porn database and not one of their names pop up.
I had a run in with GPS a while ago on the NW side. A girl I used to see for footjobs was cool I was going to make her a reg. But her friend got a guy cashing HER out more. So guess what? My reg upped her damage. I'm like, WTF is going on why the change in price. She goes on about the cost of living and whatnot. That's BS in my eyes. You're a woman. You can easily toss 25 guys off for $50 in a day and that's $1300. Hell, even 25 for $100 that's over 2 grand in a day, 5 days a week that's over 12 grand. Problems with chicks these days is they expect guys to give them shit just because they are women.
I haven't been to many MPs because as I see on here there are so many mixed reviews and not many are consistent. And I'm not trying to lay down $100 just for a bad rub and a decent HJ. The only other place I been to was MBD. That was because I didn't know Emily worked there but that's where she led me. Things were rushed but her vibe was good. She also met me outside the office because I complemented her feet and she understood. She even put her prices down from the house prices. If she had better techniques and ease up on the grip she'd make more.
Post number 13518 in backpage reviews by DjBiker is an example of how everyone should respond to GPS. Hopefully he only scheduled hhr because the last reviews on Healthy Habits were Lame Massage.
By the way Jayce, it's ok if they get offended and take it personal.
We are offended by GPS.
All this being said is proof that NJ is probably right.
IMO seekingarrangements and other similar sites are an awesome alternative to BP and massage parlors. It takes more time on the front end but the reward can be amazing. I have had several long term arrangements from that site with women aged anywhere from 19-25. My current one is a 90 lb knockout who is in her early 20's. I asked if there is anything she doesn't like sexually and her response was "I don't like if you are disappointed. Otherwise, I like everything. " she's into anal and gets turned on by giving head. We haven't yet, but she said she has never had a threesome but would like to try it at least once. We see each other at least every week or 2. Now it's more expensive than BP or massage parlor but our time together usually lasts anywhere from 2-4 hours. So per hour it's much cheaper.
This avenue isn't for everyone. The women on that site don't think of themselves as escorts or prostitutes, so your approach towards them must be different. Many, not all, are looking for some chemistry. If you dress ok, can carry a conversation, have a good personality you can do well on that site. I don't really have any leads to share as I no longer have an active profile and the girl I'm seeing said she's only looking for one person to see regularly (me). If you look in the Richmond Virginia section of this site there is a sugar baby thread with tons of good information if you haven't tried this avenue before. I suggest reading it for tips and pointers.
BP and massage parlors are good for spur of the moment encounters but the quality of women on the sugar baby websites can't be beat.
[QUOTE=Benz1;3384149]Innocence6969 started young at 18 and joined all the boards that a provider could be on and made a very good reputation for herself. I've never seen a bad review about her.
Innocence disappeared for a while and now has a SO that doesn't have a clue about who she is. She has tried to live the good life. A2 has mentioned in the past that a provider can and has been converted to house a wife but he also mentioned that it doesn't last forever, these women need excitement and change, seldom offered for most house wives.
A2 was right on this one, She has become a bored house wife and needs some excitement but not too much or she will get caught. That is why she doesn't want her digits passed around or her phone blowing up, contact her here on usasexguide at Innocence6969. There will also be possible cancellations due to her new life.
She also mentioned that she still has friends in the hobby that prefer to be UTR also. You could set up a duo or even 3 girls at her incall in Cedar.
Scheduling will be more difficult when school gets out in June. Don't be offended if you don't get a response right away, scheduling with her will be slow.
She will be happy to provide pics of those big tits if she could only figure out how to get from her phone to Private Messaging on this forum, if you can help her, I'm sure you will be rewarded with great pics of some really large tits.[/QUOTE]Innocence6969 update.
She has not been feeling well and is taking a break.
[QUOTE=MikeYepthatsm;3404785]IMO seekingarrangements and other similar sites are an awesome alternative to BP and massage parlors. It takes more time on the front end but the reward can be amazing. I have had several long term arrangements from that site with women aged anywhere from 19-25. My current one is a 90 lb knockout who is in her early 20's. I asked if there is anything she doesn't like sexually and her response was "I don't like if you are disappointed. Otherwise, I like everything. " she's into anal and gets turned on by giving head. We haven't yet, but she said she has never had a threesome but would like to try it at least once. We see each other at least every week or 2. Now it's more expensive than BP or massage parlor but our time together usually lasts anywhere from 2-4 hours. So per hour it's much cheaper.
This avenue isn't for everyone. The women on that site don't think of themselves as escorts or prostitutes, so your approach towards them must be different. Many, not all, are looking for some chemistry. If you dress ok, can carry a conversation, have a good personality you can do well on that site. I don't really have any leads to share as I no longer have an active profile and the girl I'm seeing said she's only looking for one person to see regularly (me). If you look in the Richmond Virginia section of this site there is a sugar baby thread with tons of good information if you haven't tried this avenue before. I suggest reading it for tips and pointers.
BP and massage parlors are good for spur of the moment encounters but the quality of women on the sugar baby websites can't be beat.[/QUOTE]I had to keep checking to make sure I didn't write this post. I only difference is I see three women whom I met off SA (one quite regularly, the other two less so). Like Mike said, you have to approach it differently but at the end of the day you end up at the same place. Pay to play. Chemistry is important and they usually seek some sort "connection" and perhaps as a result I have found the sex to usually be off the chart. Occasionally you will see one of our "working girls" on the site but for the most part a great alternative.
Answering Girls1 question from the Reviews Thread.
The owner of BP was busted with some under age girls. LE set up stings around the country to prove that BP escort page was being used for human trafficking of under age girls. They found enough evidence to shut it down.
Eventually they might shut down the rest of BP too.
We should be encouraging all our ladies to use the Usa AdultClassified site
[QUOTE=Benz1;3431544]Answering Girls1 question from the Reviews Thread.
The owner of BP was busted with some under age girls. LE set up stings around the country to prove that BP escort page was being used for human trafficking of under age girls. They found enough evidence to shut it down.
Eventually they might shut down the rest of BP too.
We should be encouraging all our ladies to use the Usa AdultClassified site[/QUOTE]I agree that eventually BP will be shut down, especially with the scrutiny that is being applied.
The alternative site (USA adult classifieds) works a little strange. I'm not sure what time zone it is based out of but ads are posted at strange hours and not consistent with when a provider is available. After BP took the initial hit I contacted some provided on adult classifieds only to find out they weren't offer that day and didn't know why it was being posted.
It could all be user error but I've used BP flawlessly without any issues and will continue to do so until it closes with hopes that Adult Classifieds will correct some of the strange behaviors I have seen. If both fail that is when the hobby phone and contact list truly become valuable.
Does anyone use this site and do they have any luck?
Guys,
Has anybody else noticed a rash of recent (over the last 12 days or so, almost coincidental to the seasonal influx of transient "visitors") no call no shows from established, reasonably well reviewed providers on booked, confirmed appointments from SPs that you've seen multiple times?
This goes with the territory, and one takes it in stride to stay level headed. Just curious is all.
[QUOTE=Amaregraeco;3444699]Guys,
Has anybody else noticed a rash of recent (over the last 12 days or so, almost coincidental to the seasonal influx of transient "visitors") no call no shows from established, reasonably well reviewed providers on booked, confirmed appointments from SPs that you've seen multiple times?
This goes with the territory, and one takes it in stride to stay level headed. Just curious is all.[/QUOTE]My last two out of three fall in these categories. Deadre about 45 minutes late (in hindsight, should have bailed. Not an enjoyable experience); Jessica, said running late (again), wanted to reschedule the next day, haven't recontacted her. Now I have a Plan B, even Plan C, in mind as backups. I'm not sure if there has been an increase lately, or if this has been common all along.
[QUOTE=xboch01;3438441]Does anyone use this site and do they have any luck?[/QUOTE]Yes.
This answer is Three Nutz approved.
[QUOTE=Amaregraeco;3444699]Guys,
Has anybody else noticed a rash of recent (over the last 12 days or so, almost coincidental to the seasonal influx of transient "visitors") no call no shows from established, reasonably well reviewed providers on booked, confirmed appointments from SPs that you've seen multiple times?
This goes with the territory, and one takes it in stride to stay level headed. Just curious is all.[/QUOTE]If you schedule time with an "established, reasonably well reviewed provider" and she no shows, my advice is to drop her and find someone else. Maybe you give her one chance to reschedule and explain what happened (because shit does happen) but if it happens more than once, drop her, block the number and go find someone who can actually keep an appointment. Too many guys give too many of these providers multiple passes and they just continue to abuse your good will because you're thinking with the little head.
[QUOTE=Amaregraeco;3444699]Guys,
Has anybody else noticed a rash of recent (over the last 12 days or so, almost coincidental to the seasonal influx of transient "visitors") no call no shows from established, reasonably well reviewed providers on booked, confirmed appointments from SPs that you've seen multiple times?
This goes with the territory, and one takes it in stride to stay level headed. Just curious is all.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sparty0320;3447312]If you schedule time with an "established, reasonably well reviewed provider" and she no shows, my advice is to drop her and find someone else. Maybe you give her one chance to reschedule and explain what happened (because shit does happen) but if it happens more than once, drop her, block the number and go find someone who can actually keep an appointment. Too many guys give too many of these providers multiple passes and they just continue to abuse your good will because you're thinking with the little head.[/QUOTE]While I can't argue with the logic of any of this, and I won't dispute the importance of playing it safe, I will say that I've hung out with a girl for an entire day while she was working (2 actually), and there is sometimes so much more going on behind the scenes than you would imagine. If you live out of town or are on a very specific schedule then I suppose you have to make appointments in advance, otherwise I would recommend just calling a girl when you're ready to see her.
As flaky as you think the one woman you want to see on a particular day is being, imagine the constant bombardment of calls and texts this girl is receiving from guys asking the same questions, trying to talk her down in price, requesting more pictures, and then saying they're on their way and not showing up or deciding to show up later when another guy has just said he's on his way. It's really incredible to watch and impressive that, in the middle of it all, they can even occasionally remember that one call or text from a regular who said he was going to show up at a specific time several hours later. And they do really remember you; you're just not quite as important to them as you'd like to think. They ultimately want to get as much money as quickly as they can right now and then get the next guy in the door or, if they have enough cash already, buy drugs.
Sometimes the drug deal itself is a big hassle that takes up a larger than expected chunk of the day. They have to wait for the guy to drop the stuff off. He might not be on time, but that's an appointment she really can't miss, so she'll have to reschedule with a client to accommodate that. Once she gets high, it gets even more chaotic. She'll start nodding off in the middle of text conversations, and then the whole day kind of slows down because that money is suddenly not nearly as important because she's not thinking about her next high yet.
I also saw this girl's parents unexpectedly drop off her kids for several hours in the middle of the day. Any appointment she had was put on hold because she (thankfully) refused to have the kids step out while she was seeing a client, even though they knew their mom gave massages for a living and worked out of the hotel.
The rest of the world runs on a schedule, but these girls are basically on call 24 hours a day, so making appointments isn't always the best fit for them. I've had much better luck calling a girl when I'm ready to see her. If she's not free, call the next one on your list. If she doesn't answer when you call and you have the time, maybe wait a half hour to see if she calls back before moving onto the next girl. She's probably dealing with some shit.
[QUOTE=ChadAdler;3447407]While I can't argue with the logic of any of this, and I won't dispute the importance of playing it safe, I will say that I've hung out with a girl for an entire day while she was working (2 actually), and there is sometimes so much more going on behind the scenes than you would imagine. If you live out of town or are on a very specific schedule then I suppose you have to make appointments in advance, otherwise I would recommend just calling a girl when you're ready to see her.
As flaky as you think the one woman you want to see on a particular day is being, imagine the constant bombardment of calls and texts this girl is receiving from guys asking the same questions, trying to talk her down in price, requesting more pictures, and then saying they're on their way and not showing up or deciding to show up later when another guy has just said he's on his way. It's really incredible to watch and impressive that, in the middle of it all, they can even occasionally remember that one call or text from a regular who said he was going to show up at a specific time several hours later. And they do really remember you; you're just not quite as important to them as you'd like to think. They ultimately want to get as much money as quickly as they can right now and then get the next guy in the door or, if they have enough cash already, buy drugs.
Sometimes the drug deal itself is a big hassle that takes up a larger than expected chunk of the day. They have to wait for the guy to drop the stuff off. He might not be on time, but that's an appointment she really can't miss, so she'll have to reschedule with a client to accommodate that. Once she gets high, it gets even more chaotic. She'll start nodding off in the middle of text conversations, and then the whole day kind of slows down because that money is suddenly not nearly as important because she's not thinking about her next high yet.
I also saw this girl's parents unexpectedly drop off her kids for several hours in the middle of the day. Any appointment she had was put on hold because she (thankfully) refused to have the kids step out while she was seeing a client, even though they knew their mom gave massages for a living and worked out of the hotel.
The rest of the world runs on a schedule, but these girls are basically on call 24 hours a day, so making appointments isn't always the best fit for them. I've had much better luck calling a girl when I'm ready to see her. If she's not free, call the next one on your list. If she doesn't answer when you call and you have the time, maybe wait a half hour to see if she calls back before moving onto the next girl. She's probably dealing with some shit.[/QUOTE]Fantastic post. Thank you.
[QUOTE=ChadAdler;3447407]While I can't argue with the logic of any of this, and I won't dispute the importance of playing it safe, I will say that I've hung out with a girl for an entire day while she was working (2 actually), and there is sometimes so much more going on behind the scenes than you would imagine. If you live out of town or are on a very specific schedule then I suppose you have to make appointments in advance, otherwise I would recommend just calling a girl when you're ready to see her.
As flaky as you think the one woman you want to see on a particular day is being, imagine the constant bombardment of calls and texts this girl is receiving from guys asking the same questions, trying to talk her down in price, requesting more pictures, and then saying they're on their way and not showing up or deciding to show up later when another guy has just said he's on his way. It's really incredible to watch and impressive that, in the middle of it all, they can even occasionally remember that one call or text from a regular who said he was going to show up at a specific time several hours later. And they do really remember you; you're just not quite as important to them as you'd like to think. They ultimately want to get as much money as quickly as they can right now and then get the next guy in the door or, if they have enough cash already, buy drugs.
Sometimes the drug deal itself is a big hassle that takes up a larger than expected chunk of the day. They have to wait for the guy to drop the stuff off. He might not be on time, but that's an appointment she really can't miss, so she'll have to reschedule with a client to accommodate that. Once she gets high, it gets even more chaotic. She'll start nodding off in the middle of text conversations, and then the whole day kind of slows down because that money is suddenly not nearly as important because she's not thinking about her next high yet.
I also saw this girl's parents unexpectedly drop off her kids for several hours in the middle of the day. Any appointment she had was put on hold because she (thankfully) refused to have the kids step out while she was seeing a client, even though they knew their mom gave massages for a living and worked out of the hotel.
The rest of the world runs on a schedule, but these girls are basically on call 24 hours a day, so making appointments isn't always the best fit for them. I've had much better luck calling a girl when I'm ready to see her. If she's not free, call the next one on your list. If she doesn't answer when you call and you have the time, maybe wait a half hour to see if she calls back before moving onto the next girl. She's probably dealing with some shit.[/QUOTE]If I schedule a time and she cancels last minute or is a no show, etc, then my time has been wasted. My time is also valuable. I understand shit happens but if you're life is that chaotic, then don't make appointments. Like I said, I give one pass the first time it happens but when it happens again, I just move on.
Recon from Chad Adler
Sometimes the drug deal itself is a big hassle that takes up a larger than expected chunk of the day. They have to wait for the guy to drop the stuff off. He might not be on time, but that's an appointment she really can't miss, so she'll have to reschedule with a client to accommodate that. Once she gets high, it gets even more chaotic. She'll start nodding off in the middle of text conversations, and then the whole day kind of slows down because that money is suddenly not nearly as important because she's not thinking about her next high yet.
Avoid all this shit and find a girl that doesn't use drugs and become a regular client.
Kandiland1 will be here on July 2nd.
Just trying to help.
When contacting a provider I have never seen before I usually ask then for a confirmation selfie, like "hold a spoon up to your ear" or something offbeat that would confirm that is the person I am communicating with. This morning a provider tried to tell me that my burner phone number has been reviewed as a "pic collector". Has anyone ever heard of anything like that or know of any secrete data base that providers use for such purposes?
I'm highly doubting it.
[QUOTE=CruiserinGR;3463448]When contacting a provider I have never seen before I usually ask then for a confirmation selfie, like "hold a spoon up to your ear" or something offbeat that would confirm that is the person I am communicating with. This morning a provider tried to tell me that my burner phone number has been reviewed as a "pic collector". Has anyone ever heard of anything like that or know of any secrete data base that providers use for such purposes?
I'm highly doubting it.[/QUOTE]My caller I'd app has a very similar feature so it's possible.
I used to hang with one of these girls and yes you would not believe how hounded she was for pics. She would send and then silence. This girl was hot she is in prison now but they didn't go quiet cause she was ugly. So she would save the number as pic collector. She wasted a lot of time till she got wise to that shit. A confirmation pic is one thing with all the fake pics but anything else and she would move on. I also if she looks TGTBT will ask for a pic. Make a peace sign shit like that.
Another hobby danger to look out for. Monger books date with SP. It turns out that he booked his own wife. LOL Maybe they are compatible after all.
[URL]http://www.unitednews.org/lexington-sc-man-horrified-booking-prostitute-wife-arrived/[/URL]
Hello everybody I was wondering if anyone had any info on Bambi. She's a busty Puerto Rican who gets around the Grand Rapids area. She's typically hustling dates out of local bars. Private message me if you have any information thank you.
[QUOTE=EdMonger;3473403]Another hobby danger to look out for. Monger books date with SP. It turns out that he booked his own wife. LOL Maybe they are compatible after all.
[URL]http://www.unitednews.org/lexington-sc-man-horrified-booking-prostitute-wife-arrived/[/URL][/QUOTE]Sounds like a Rupert Holmes song gone bad.
This guy makes 5 million a year and not only doesn't use a burner phone but he used a state (university) owned phone to call a provider.
A Detroit number no less.
[URL]http://www.espn.com/college-football/story/_/id/20117453/hugh-freeze-ole-miss-rebels-resigns-escort-service-calls-cited[/URL]
There is a popular Grand Rapids / Muskegon provider currently extorting one of our senior members. She's having his baby, of all things. She says yes we used a condum but it didn't work and you are the daddy.
Our solidarity has been an awesome tool in shutting down bad providers. Latest example is Amber Rose driven to the streets and failing fast with an abusive pimp.
I believe we should all unify to eliminate this behavior from our providers in Michigan.
Make sure they never work here again and drive them to the streets like Amber Rose.
We need to expose them and post about their extortion where where ever they post their ads.
[QUOTE=Benz1;3497400]There is a popular Grand Rapids / Muskegon provider currently extorting one of our senior members. She's having his baby, of all things. She says yes we used a condum but it didn't work and you are the daddy.
Our solidarity has been an awesome tool in shutting down bad providers. Latest example is Amber Rose driven to the streets and failing fast with an abusive pimp.
I believe we should all unify to eliminate this behavior from our providers in Michigan.
Make sure they never work here again and drive them to the streets like Amber Rose.
We need to expose them and post about their extortion where where ever they post their ads.[/QUOTE]Well said.
[QUOTE=Benz1;3497400]There is a popular Grand Rapids / Muskegon provider currently extorting one of our senior members. She's having his baby, of all things. She says yes we used a condum but it didn't work and you are the daddy.
Our solidarity has been an awesome tool in shutting down bad providers. Latest example is Amber Rose driven to the streets and failing fast with an abusive pimp.
I believe we should all unify to eliminate this behavior from our providers in Michigan.
Make sure they never work here again and drive them to the streets like Amber Rose.
We need to expose them and post about their extortion where where ever they post their ads.[/QUOTE]You don't give us much information here Benz, in order to be helpful. Enlighten us a bit more if you can.
[QUOTE=ChipCharger;3497599]You don't give us much information here Benz, in order to be helpful. Enlighten us a bit more if you can.[/QUOTE] Sorry for being vague, I'm currently trying to get him to post the info. It didn't happen to me but it could happen to anyone of us at anytime. I think he's hoping she sees this post and does the right thing by backing off.
It could get interesting because I believe that Miss M. 25 is a member too. After he sees you're interested in knowing more he will probably contact you.
[QUOTE=Benz1;3497666]Sorry for being vague, I'm currently trying to get him to post the info. It didn't happen to me but it could happen to anyone of us at anytime. I think he's hoping she sees this post and does the right thing by backing off.
It could get interesting because I believe that Miss M. 25 is a member too. After he sees you're interested in knowing more he will probably contact you.[/QUOTE]I would think there are several of us interested in more information. If for no other reason than knowing who to stay away from.
[QUOTE=DeafMute;3498040]I would think there are several of us interested in more information. If for no other reason than knowing who to stay away from.[/QUOTE]Getting feedback from others, this B itch should be exposed but its not my story to tell.
This is sensitive because the extortion is ongoing. At this point it's up to our members that have been extorted to expose her.
She will screen shot your text, research your number and show them to your Significant Other or pay the fee.
I will give her name through private message.
Extortion can be avoided with a hobby phone.
USA members get a hobby phone now.
[QUOTE=Benz1;3497400]There is a popular Grand Rapids / Muskegon provider currently extorting one of our senior members. She's having his baby, of all things. She says yes we used a condum but it didn't work and you are the daddy.
Our solidarity has been an awesome tool in shutting down bad providers. Latest example is Amber Rose driven to the streets and failing fast with an abusive pimp.
I believe we should all unify to eliminate this behavior from our providers in Michigan.
Make sure they never work here again and drive them to the streets like Amber Rose.
We need to expose them and post about their extortion where where ever they post their ads.[/QUOTE]Thanks, Benz. I appreciate our solidarity.
She SAYS she's pregnant (she may be) and also says she knows the Exact date of conception and therefore it must be me or one other guy (who has had a vasectomy), but this is clearly untrue:
QUOTE:
"The short answer to the question, "Can I find out the exact day I got pregnant?" is, probably not. Determining the exact date of conception is difficult for several reasons.
First of all, you need to know that pregnancy occurs when an ovulated female egg and and male sperm meet and fertilization occurs. This usually takes place in a fallopian tube.
The time of ovulation, when an egg is released from the ovaries and into the fallopian tube, determines a woman's fertility window and varies from woman to woman. Most women ovulate 14 days after the first day of their last menstrual cycle but some women release an egg anywhere from 11 to 21 days after the first day of their last period. An egg is viable, able to be fertilized, up to 24 hours after it has been released from the ovary. Also, sperm can live in a woman's body and fertilize an egg for up to seven days. This means there is a window of a week or so in which a woman can conceive after a sexual encounter".
UNQUOTE.
I have no idea how many men she saw in the SEVENTEEN day window (ten day ovulation window plus seven day sperm longevity) that could possibly fertilize her. But based on all her postings (including yesterday) I'm thinking she's seen more than two men in seventeen days. Also, condoms have an almost 100% single use effectiveness rate When Used Properly, which I did. And vasectomies also are known to fail.
To be sure I'm a nice guy, and perhaps that makes me a mark? But I'm not stupid, and I won't be bullied or extorted. This woman's attitude is threatening, very uncooperative, and maybe not all-together stable. She said she "needs a few hundred dollars for a morning-after-pill" but I know that they are about $100 at a PP clinic and she can make that in a single appointment. She ignores this, and simply threatens to "send someone to my front door (publicly subpoena me)" or "have the kid and you will have to support it. " Like she would carry a pregnancy out of spite?! Really?! For a few hundred dollars?! Absolutely not believable. Even if she's crazy.
This has all been very surprising to me, because I thought our single "date" went very well, and had hoped to see her regularly. And reviews of her on USA are almost all very positive. I learned recently however, that she threatened to "out" one other of our senior members to his wife. He says he paid her the $150 money / ransom she claimed he owed her.
I have no problem whatsoever in a paternity test, because I think the chance that I am a new father is zero, and that this is purely a scam. I promised her that if she does interfere with my private life that I would take every legal means available to make her life miserable. And I have the means to do that. I hope it doesn't come to that.
[QUOTE=DeafMute;3498040]I would think there are several of us interested in more information. If for no other reason than knowing who to stay away from.[/QUOTE]Very good point if she's still doing this.
[QUOTE=SpongeBob66;3498400]Thanks, Benz. I appreciate our solidarity.
She SAYS she's pregnant (she may be) and also says she knows the Exact date of conception and therefore it must be me or one other guy (who has had a vasectomy), but this is clearly untrue:
QUOTE:
"The short answer to the question, "Can I find out the exact day I got pregnant?" is, probably not. Determining the exact date of conception is difficult for several reasons.
First of all, you need to know that pregnancy occurs when an ovulated female egg and and male sperm meet and fertilization occurs. This usually takes place in a fallopian tube.
The time of ovulation, when an egg is released from the ovaries and into the fallopian tube, determines a woman's fertility window and varies from woman to woman. Most women ovulate 14 days after the first day of their last menstrual cycle but some women release an egg anywhere from 11 to 21 days after the first day of their last period. An egg is viable, able to be fertilized, up to 24 hours after it has been released from the ovary. Also, sperm can live in a woman's body and fertilize an egg for up to seven days. This means there is a window of a week or so in which a woman can conceive after a sexual encounter".
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I have no idea how many men she saw in the SEVENTEEN day window (ten day ovulation window plus seven day sperm longevity) that could possibly fertilize her. But based on all her postings (including yesterday) I'm thinking she's seen more than two men in seventeen days. Also, condoms have an almost 100% single use effectiveness rate When Used Properly, which I did. And vasectomies also are known to fail.
To be sure I'm a nice guy, and perhaps that makes me a mark? But I'm not stupid, and I won't be bullied or extorted. This woman's attitude is threatening, very uncooperative, and maybe not all-together stable. She said she "needs a few hundred dollars for a morning-after-pill" but I know that they are about $100 at a PP clinic and she can make that in a single appointment. She ignores this, and simply threatens to "send someone to my front door (publicly subpoena me)" or "have the kid and you will have to support it. " Like she would carry a pregnancy out of spite?! Really?! For a few hundred dollars?! Absolutely not believable. Even if she's crazy.
This has all been very surprising to me, because I thought our single "date" went very well, and had hoped to see her regularly. And reviews of her on USA are almost all very positive. I learned recently however, that she threatened to "out" one other of our senior members to his wife. He says he paid her the $150 money / ransom she claimed he owed her.
I have no problem whatsoever in a paternity test, because I think the chance that I am a new father is zero, and that this is purely a scam. I promised her that if she does interfere with my private life that I would take every legal means available to make her life miserable. And I have the means to do that. I hope it doesn't come to that.[/QUOTE]Sounds like you are doing the best you can with this extortion attempt, right approach to take. Hard to call in LE on something like this, ***** can ruin your life if you are married. Thanks for the reminder of the dangers of hobbying, this is just one of many pitfalls that await the unwary. Not sure what your reasoning for not naming the lady running this scam, seems like it would make the report more useful than that of just a general warning, might even save some guy from getting caught in the same scam from this unnamed woman.
[QUOTE=Blackfire;3499379]Sounds like you are doing the best you can with this extortion attempt, right approach to take. Hard to call in LE on something like this, ***** can ruin your life if you are married. Thanks for the reminder of the dangers of hobbying, this is just one of many pitfalls that await the unwary. Not sure what your reasoning for not naming the lady running this scam, seems like it would make the report more useful than that of just a general warning, might even save some guy from getting caught in the same scam from this unnamed woman.[/QUOTE]No, being exposed wouldn't ruin my life. I'm married, but my wife has no libido and sex is physically painful for her. I contemplated talking to my wife about doing the BP / escort thing (getting her permission, essentially) before I started, but decided it was kinder to just do it and leave her in the dark. But being exposed would not be the end of my marriage. Frankly, I see this as a way to preserve our marriage, not damage it. We love each other, but we have this physical intimacy issue that I'm doing my best to take care of after years of frustration (and gynocologist visits).
I have not named this woman because it isn't clear yet if she will continue to threaten me.
If she does cross that line and interfere with my private life, I will come down on her hard and you will all be spectators. At that point I will name her to everyone, she will be ruined on BP forever, will lose her "regular" job if she has one, and CPS will take her child away.
Pussy, Info and Safety is why this Board exists! Even the slightest whiff of a threat, of any kind, from a MP or SP and I'll blast her name all over the forum. Why protect a Provider that pulls shit like that?
[QUOTE=NoseJelly;3499493]Pussy, Info and Safety is why this Board exists! Even the slightest whiff of a threat, of any kind, from a MP or SP and I'll blast her name all over the forum. Why protect a Provider that pulls shit like that?[/QUOTE]Amen.
Amen and Halleluja.
[QUOTE=NoseJelly;3499493]Pussy, Info and Safety is why this Board exists! Even the slightest whiff of a threat, of any kind, from a MP or SP and I'll blast her name all over the forum. Why protect a Provider that pulls shit like that?[/QUOTE]I agree 100%.
This SP / Chic needs to chill out! There is NO good outcome for her in a situation like this. Unless she wises up quick. It's her against dozens of Savvy and Pissed off Mongers who have been around the block so many times they are dizzy from experience! When her business dries up, she'll be stuck walking the "D" or the "L" or the "G" just to scrape together enough for a McPick2!