Advice, deleted / suspended account
Just reaching out for some advice if there is anywhere for me to go. I just set a SA account and started some engagements. Slow but some traction, and it was all positive. One gal was very interested in talking more, we exchanged more images and initially she was 50 miles away and a student and could not travel, but when I suggested I was in her area and could come to her, and perhaps drinks and dinner for a initial meet, she seemed excited. I feel I made a big mistake as I offered her an invitation to meet for drinks and dinner or whatever she felt would be good, and $100 for her time, and it was clear, just to meet for an introduction. It was positive and she said she was interested.
Today, I logged in and the site said I was banned for Soliciting Sex. There was another woman that emailed me, and offered a massage, I asked a few questions but never really engaged other than asking her what city she was in and she left her number on the first PM. No talk of money or even close to any confirmation that I wanted to meet.
Thoughts.
Thanks. This site is great.
Seeking Arrangements and similar other sites
[QUOTE=HiRub;5366105]You should be able to reply, saying that you do not believe you violated the rules and they might have you review them again and send an email attesting that you will behave. Once, they told me that they would still ban me and I mentioned that I only had a few chats and never mentioned anything illegal and they then issued me a partial pro-rated refund. You could try saying something like: a reasonable person would not infer anything illicit or untoward regarding my conversation history, I believe the person who reported me acted in bad faith because I did not agree to their proposition. Or end it saying that you accused someone of being a fake member and that you think they reported you before you could report them for being a SPAM account. They will only give you 1 second chance if any.
They will not hint why you were banned so you can't guess who did it. Also, they sometimes have the complainant send them screenshots of SMS chats or other evidence. So, moving the discussion to another place does not always work, you could try voice chatting to talk specifics.
Worse case scenario is you can ask your credit card company to reverse the charge claiming that you never signed up. It seems like Seeking does not bother to fight reversals, so bank will reverse and never even ask for your side of story.
Once banned on seeking you will not be able to register again with same email or credit card number, maybe even IP address. I take screenshots of my favorite profiles and messages in case I get banned. With the screenshot I then search for a word that is in their intro and her age and always manage to find them again. If they restore your account I would use it till subscription ends then delete profile and put in a CCPA privacy request for them to delete all your info. Use another email to sign up so that you still have possibility of getting a ban reversed if reported again. Also, they might temporarily ban your account if you send a massive amount of messages in a short time, they will restore once they check a few of your sent messages.
The ladies you send messages to can still see your message after you're banned, so if you have your phone number there sometimes they will still reach out.[/QUOTE]WTF, All these sites are about sex, and now it's illegal?
Geez.
Moustache (Irma La Douce):
"Shows you the kind of world we live in. Love is illegal. But not hate. That you can do anywhere, anytime, to anybody. But if you want a little warmth, a little tenderness, a shoulder to cry on, a smile to cuddle up with, you have to hide in dark corners, like a criminal. Pfui. ".
Some Humor. Are you Older?
From a profile I noticed today:
"If you are older (15+) . That's a plus.
My SA account is suspended
Hiroka.
Cute, super short, tatted with a booty late 20's Japanese girl. She talks ALOT. She was not looking for younger dudes and was totally fine with black guys. BBFS, BBBJ, and really good massage. Here are her pics. She wanted 3 for 90 min, but had to provide transportation to and from my incall. Total time spent in room was about 2 hrs. Tipped 2. 5. Her limits: no young guys, Cash only, good hygiene, no cip, no swallow, no anal, and she cannot host. She's super new and recommend because she's "trying to get back home" so when she gets that amount she's going to leave.
Christy (yes the AV actress).
PSE, she's super nice and comfortable with a lot as long as you are comfortable communicating it. Damage was 1 k for 90 min. But she's good with anal, sloppy / messy BBBJ with gagging / dt, bbfscip, multi-pops, and other fetishes. Saw twice, she's not a clock watcher and took an uber / lyft to / from my location when I was in downtown SD. I recommend to anyone who wants to enjoy themselves with someone who can handle it.
Sam.
Black short, nice swollen boobs, fat ass, 5/6 month preggers. Damage was 3 an hr. She can only do weekday evenings. BBBJ, CFS, she's cool with covered anal. Only real downsides were she had a hemorrhoid so she couldn't handle anal and her peach smelled bad so I just focused on BBBJ. She does like you to take control but you can't be all crazy or something.
From seekin, didn't meet yet.
Melessa. Takes cash / zelle or cash app. Agreed on 3. 5 for 1 hr, 6 for 2 hr for BBBJ, cfs, possible covered anal. She played around too much though and couldn't fit her into my schedule when I had the room downtown. Looks, she's tall for a girl 6 ft, big tits, crew cut haircut. She was down to fuck, so I was down to invest time. If you look for her on SA she's above 5'11" and her profile picture had her standing with a red shirt.
Dulce. Okay with ppm for 3. 5, was open to everything except anal (depends on size). Did get number and don't remember what her profile looked like but she was in 20's I think.
Kayla. 2. 5 for ppm. Was going to meet but I spent my time unwisely else where can't remember what her profile looked like.