Safe Sex Information and Advice

[QUOTE=Pison00;3331243]What's a good brand for latex Condoms? I usually get them from my doctor and not familiar with the brands.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Durex is always my go-to brand.

I have a regular sugar baby I've been seeing a couple of months. IDK that we are exclusive, she still has a profile up on SA, and earlier on some bowl brothers suggested it portrayed her as an UTR escort, on the other hand our interactions (not just her words) suggest we have more than a physical relationship. She has told me that she gets tested every 3 months (also something that, unfortunately, suggests she's UTR). She's Russian, 30, and absolutely smoking hot, 10's across the board. Has a regular job, apartment (I did some sleuthing and tracked her down. PM me if you want details).

We were supposed to meet and she tells me at the last minute she awoke w / a cold sore in the middle of her lip. She offered to meet w / nothing oral, I said better safe than sorry, we can reschedule.

My main question at this point is just a reminder of something that may have been beaten to death on this board in the past, but I can't easily find it. Cold sores are HSV of a certain type, yes? Just like genital herpes is HSV of a certain type? I seem to recall that either can be either place. What is the best advice to a sugar daddy on a SB in this condition? Is there transmission risk only while the cold sore is present? Of course it's a virus, its there all the time. Does this mean I should bag this girl all together? I don't want to have a cold sore, and I damn sure don't want genital HSV.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3421911]I have a regular sugar baby I've been seeing a couple of months. IDK that we are exclusive, she still has a profile up on SA, and earlier on some bowl brothers suggested it portrayed her as an UTR escort, on the other hand our interactions (not just her words) suggest we have more than a physical relationship. She has told me that she gets tested every 3 months (also something that, unfortunately, suggests she's UTR). She's Russian, 30, and absolutely smoking hot, 10's across the board. Has a regular job, apartment (I did some sleuthing and tracked her down. PM me if you want details).

We were supposed to meet and she tells me at the last minute she awoke w / a cold sore in the middle of her lip. She offered to meet w / nothing oral, I said better safe than sorry, we can reschedule.

My main question at this point is just a reminder of something that may have been beaten to death on this board in the past, but I can't easily find it. Cold sores are HSV of a certain type, yes? Just like genital herpes is HSV of a certain type? I seem to recall that either can be either place. What is the best advice to a sugar daddy on a SB in this condition? Is there transmission risk only while the cold sore is present? Of course it's a virus, its there all the time. Does this mean I should bag this girl all together? I don't want to have a cold sore, and I damn sure don't want genital HSV.[/QUOTE]Genital herpes are caused by HSV 2 cld sore are caused by HSV 1. Unfortunately genital herpes can also be caused by HSV 1 and she can give it to you through oral even if she isn't having an outbreak the best prevention would be avoid oral during an out real and have her take an antibiotic viral such as valtrax but it's still not a guarantee.

Hopefully this is the right place for this.

Just wondering how you mongers with an SO manage STD risk. I am familiar with the basic statistics regarding STD transmission rates. I realize the risk, especially with use of condoms, is very low. Unfortunately it is not zero which really fucking sucks.

I have availed myself mainly of FBSM independents and AMP HEs. I am very tempted to expand my menu of options, but the thought of being caught cheating (by way of giving the Mrs. An STD) really gives me pause. In short, I wish I had the balls you guys seem to have.

I read all these forums about married mongers banging hot escorts and SBs and I'm green with envy. How do you pull it off? My (possibly limiting) belief is that given non-zero risk, it's more a matter of when not if I would be outed.

Is there some other way you come at this? What is your frame? What is your protocol to minimize risk?

There is now a condom available that has a "skirt" at the base to provide extra protection against skin to skin transmitted diseases like herpes and warts. It is non-latex, so it can be used with any type of lube. It is called the Unique Plus. I couldn't find it on the web site of the Colombian manufacturer, but I think it is the same as the Unique Free, under a different name.

You can buy it here: [URL]https://luckybloke.com/products/buy-unique-plus-brand-new-condoms-best-reviews[/URL] .

The Colombian manufacturer's website is: [URL]http://uniquecondoms.co/[/URL] .

Here is a youtube video: [URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hm8WFz-b8nM[/URL] .

It might only fit well on guys with a thicker penis. The material is not stretchy. If it fits loosely, it might make crinkling sounds or slip off. You will have to try it to find out if it works for you. Maybe the guys who aren't thick enough could use a cock ring to hold it on.

[QUOTE=NilbogTwo;3499166]Hold up. You want let them suck your dick because their mouths are dirty but you will kiss them? Seems backwards.[/QUOTE]Allow me to explain since there's confusion.

When I kiss a chick on the lips, it's usually pecks. No tonguing involved. I kiss on the face and neck at times. Thats how my kissing goes. When they give me head, I prefer a condom. I would much rather love it to be bare, but I do have a significant other I am with, so I don't want to infect her with something. Which I'm aware BBBJ might not do that but I just can't chance it man. Getting a bare BJ, and pecks on dry lips are certainly different. Nothing backwards about that. Sorry if you misunderstood that.

[QUOTE=MnLookIn;3499313]My thoughts exactly! She's not a GFE provider if she doesn't offer DFK and BBBJ. There's a difference between DFK and her kissing you on the cheek. What good is a CBJ? Not worth my hard earned pay. I want her to suck my dick, without a layer of latex between her wet lips and my dick.

Mnlookin.[/QUOTE]I see your point man.

Here's mine though.

If you have a wife, or girlfriend, fiance or whatever, you got to be careful who you do anything bare with. If you were to get something from bare oral, you got some explaining to do to your ole lady. LOL.

Now if you had a few reliable people that you knew was clean then OMG yes, have it down their throats all the way dude. LOL.

But this is backpage and the risk of stds is more common, so I would love to get bare BJ, but unless I know her and know she's not swallowing everyone else cum, I got to put protection on this bad boy. LOL.

I'm curious, do you guys know if SW (or BP, or any other adult sites providers) play safe or bb, "not who" , just if you think any do? IF so, do you think you would post about it, or if someone did partake do you think they would say it was bb play?

From what I have noticed for the most part (there are always exceptions) when BB is offered most guys mention it. Not sure on those who actually partake though. I have only seen it listed as if it were offered.

[QUOTE=KiraXXX;3499523]I'm curious, do you guys know if SW (or BP, or any other adult sites providers) play safe or bb, "not who" , just if you think any do? IF so, do you think you would post about it, or if someone did partake do you think they would say it was bb play?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=KiraXXX;3499523]I'm curious, do you guys know if SW (or BP, or any other adult sites providers) play safe or bb, "not who" , just if you think any do? IF so, do you think you would post about it, or if someone did partake do you think they would say it was bb play?[/QUOTE]I think a majority of them will BB and have offered BBFS. Absolutely. I also think if offered, a lot of men will partake be it the small population on these sites or the larger iceberg population not on these sites. I do not believe it gets reported as often as it happens and instead is reported as covered.

[QUOTE=KiraXXX;3499523]I'm curious, do you guys know if SW (or BP, or any other adult sites providers) play safe or bb, "not who" , just if you think any do? IF so, do you think you would post about it, or if someone did partake do you think they would say it was bb play?[/QUOTE]Hey Kira, many BP play bb. I always bring my own protection because some don't have any or care if you use it. You don't see it talked about much hear but when I travel for work I read reviews in other areas and you would be surprised how many guys talk about BBFS and CIP. A lot of these girls do have substance problems so it is a similar risk to sharing needle's for them.

[QUOTE=EGrayUpState;3499916]I think a majority of them will BB and have offered BBFS. Absolutely. I also think if offered, a lot of men will partake be it the small population on these sites or the larger iceberg population not on these sites. I do not believe it gets reported as often as it happens and instead is reported as covered.[/QUOTE]Agreed 100%.

[QUOTE=KiraXXX;3499523]I'm curious, do you guys know if SW (or BP, or any other adult sites providers) play safe or bb, "not who" , just if you think any do? IF so, do you think you would post about it, or if someone did partake do you think they would say it was bb play?[/QUOTE]Yes I have been offered BBFS as an up-sale by a small percentage of BP girls. But I consider it just like drinking and driving. - You may get away with it a few times, but sooner or later you are going to get caught! - But I do love BBBJ. I know it makes no sense, but that is just being honest. - Dave.

[QUOTE=EGrayUpState;3499916]I think a majority of them will BB and have offered BBFS. Absolutely. I also think if offered, a lot of men will partake be it the small population on these sites or the larger iceberg population not on these sites. I do not believe it gets reported as often as it happens and instead is reported as covered.[/QUOTE]Many providers, not only those who advertise on backpage but are on these sites, WILL offer BBFS. Don't kid yourself that it's ONLY backpage advertisers. Some providers may offer it to long time regular clients for a variety of reasons; some providers may offer it as an upcharge, as they may do with Greek; and some may do it regularly. Now as for men actually writing that they DID bareback in a review, that a different story. Providers usually DON'T want that fact put in a review for everyone to read. Some men will see that fact that the provider does bare back and stay away for that very reason. But on the other hand, some men will see that provider expecting that same service. And the reason men DON'T report the bare back in reviews may be that some other providers WON'T see men who have had bare back with other providers.

I've had three or four offer BBFS and partook on three of them. Luckily no itchy scratchy issues. I will name two of them if anyone has been around long enough to recognize them they can feedback as well. One was Jamie, the super sexy redhead we all loved for a while. The other way the girl who went by Ryan over in Troy. She used to just jump on with mention of a cover. After two times I stopped going because I knew it was a gamble. The third girl I never got her name, but she offered so I took it. Just my input. Be safe fellas.