HAPPY NEW YEAR! And may all your mongering be sensational!
Hey--the days are getting longer, and in (only?) 3 months, the streets will be warm enough to bring out our Spring flowers.
But if you keep your eyes peeled, the snow bunnies ARE out there, and can warm your cockles......
Best of Seasons Greetings to all my friends on the board.
Giani
Anyone Tried Backpage Instead of CL?
Seems like they have less ads and a lot less spam but more legit ads. Some look like real ASP's. Wondering if anyone has checked it out. This one in particularly looks interesting except it's hard for me to shell out 1.50 for a 44 year old woman for a 1/2 hr. She's not exactly drop dead gorgeous. Has anyone seen her?
[url]http://cincinnati.backpage.com/adult/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=oid%3A533720&name=body%20rubs[/url]
Never ever, ever goes this far for nothing!
Fella's
Read what happened and learn that you should NEVER go to these length for any piece of pu--y, for any reason, at anytime, anywhere. NEVER!
It seems that we use better judgement in spending our money picking a TV, than choosing a SW service provider.
You would NOT buy a Product from a Salesperson that was rude to you, and acted like they were doing you a favor selling you a TV, or anything else, so why would you spend "YOUR MONEY" with someone rude to you.
If it don't come easy, and without strings, then "Pass It By. "
When you go through these lengths, you gave the Women the Power over your time, money, and desires. You cannot be that bad off, that you would need to let her put you through this.
What you should do with her, is to make certain the Police get a heads up on her, and she can spend extra money, she may not have trying to get away from them. PUT THEIR aZzes Out-of-Business, or make it very hard and difficult for them to do business. There are good Providers out there, who use the CL/CB/BKS/ and other publications, but if they learn they can make easy money by ripping you off, or wasting your time, and being rude to you. Why wouldn't they. They will seek the easiest method, and practice possible to get to "YOUR" money. Add Greed, and you get a whole host of other problems.
People it really ain't worth it, and when you use these Rip-Off, Rude, SW providers you In-Bold en them to do it more. If Money were easy for them to get, they'd be doing something else other than taking should a risk. And believe me, if they are taking any risk, with risky behavior, they are working with someone who will cover them, and help in the Rip-Off. You may not see them, but they are somewhere around. Be it Male or Female. Even Decent Good Providers have some means of protection. That is why you have to pay the extra for service. THEY HAVE TO PAY SOMEONE TO LOOK OUT FOR THEM.
Fella's it just ain't that hard, really. Giani is right, it will be warm soon. Rather than get ripped-off, wait. If you can't learn to keep a decent conversation and go to the area hotel bars. You can find a lot of "FREEBIES" there, and some Pro's working the Bar area. It is very low key, and off the record type of thing. Look for older men, and young to middle aged women together. You will have to do a lot of footwork, and do the research on your own.
I will agree, why are you paying 100-200 for a middle aged woman, be it for 30 or 60 minutes. Please, you can do better spending that money at a bar over drinks and food. If it works out you will have her longer that 30-60 minutes. And learn to lower your SEXUAL LOOKS standards. A lot of not so attractive women are at these bars, and are looking for just decent or nice, friendly guys to spend a night with. Bring you OWN CONDOMS. They are not easy, but they are not hard either. They may also be a little/alot over weight, or may have a few kids around the middle. They can be freaky. Don't look for Playboy Bunny Types there, because they hung at the Private Clubs. The Police can't touch them there. I went to two Parties at the beginning of December 07, and these girls were straight out of a magazine. Without an invitation, I could NEVER afford to be there, and the women were for the taking. These were Big Ballers and Shot Callers, and they Party Big Time. Check into a decent Hotel/Motel and pay the Desk Clerk/BellHop an extra 25-50 accordingly to refer you to a good provider or have her brought up to your room. Go out of town, if you are worried about your area, and people knowing you. Go to Yahoo Groups and join a few. There are some REAL DEAL SEX CLUBS, in the Yahoo Groups. I have been there and continue to do that.
HONESTLY FELLA's, it just ain't that hard. Never take shyt from any SW, at anytime, in anyway, anywhere. They know weakness when they see it, and will exploit it immediately. Learn to trust you instincts, if it stinks now it will rarely smell better later. If she is using several cell phone and numbers, she is a scammer. If she isn't then assume she is as a precautious.
Learn to do a Boombastic suggested, "Turn Their Azzes In. "
Vice really does not care who they arrest and an easy arrest is just as good as a hard arrest. They really do like easy arrest. They are looking to get the one off they streets that create the most problems, and complaints.
Lastly, learn to pay less, and get more. Learn to play the game as a pair. Two of you hunting in better than one, and you will have a person to bounce ideas and problems off of. Talk as a Pair, not ride as a pair!
Read the board but take the info with a grain of salt, because it is often incomplete, on purpose. I can fill in the blanks on my own, and figure things out. It takes time, but you can easily do it too.
You have the Money, they want, thus you have the Power over them, because without your money, they can't make any. And if they are using this as their primary source of income you really have the money, the power.
In the end Pu--y is still just that Pu--y. And no Di-k excites these women, unless it is from a guy they have feeling for, and that ain't you.
So it is ALWAYS, about Business. Always about BUSINESS! Spend Your Money Wisely!
[QUOTE=Fanofyours7]I saw an ad at [url]http: //citybeat.com/current/adult.shtml[/url]. The ad headline was BUSINESSMEN Private body rubs. I called the number and a very rude woman answered. That should have been my first hint. She was put off because I called her when she was at the bar. Another hint this wasn't a good thing. I asked for the rate of a massage for a Sunday and she told me she didn't know since she didn't know which ad I was looking at. I asked for directions and told her that it would take me roughly 30 mins to get there. She was horrible with directions. She wanted me to call her when I was on her street. She told me she was in a condo. Fifteen minutes into the drive and she calls me using a different number and asks where I am. I told her the drive takes 30 mins and I couldn't go any faster. Ten minutes later I get called again and this time she was using a restricted number. How many phones does she have! She told me that she didn't think I was going to show (25 minutes after the first inititial setup call) and she went back to the bar. She told me to get to her street and wait for her and that she should arrive in 10 minutes. Well I go to the street and while I was driving on it I called her and asked for directions. She asked me which street I was on and I told her. She told me it was the xx number driveway. She wouldn't tell me the condo/house number. Just wanted me to count the driveways to her place. Wait. These are all houses. What happened to the condo? I told her I had to turn around (which took about 60 seconds). She told me I was wasting her time and she was calling it off. This all occurred within 40 minutes of the setup call. She kept telling me I was wasting her time and she was very orderly and wanted everything to go smoothly. Anyway, I did a search on the other phone number she called me at and I found another ad. Here is the URL:
[url]http://www.classifiedads.com/services-ad601926. Htm[/url][/QUOTE]Wordup
Now that I have your attention :)
Thanks for everyone's advice. Sometimes I don't think of it in terms that all of you do. But I probably should.
I know I'm new here but I wanted to see if anyone can tell me about someone that does massage. Here name is Teresa and her email is jeepgirlsmiles02. Please bc me if needed. I want to see her but she is about 45 mins aways from me. Heck of a distance to travel so I wanted to ask all of you if you knew anything about here. I read a one sentence review somewhere else on this site but I'm not very good reading between the lines. If there were lines.
Thanks
This Is Not Meant Only 4 U !!!!
I am always getting PMs about how can I find them, how can I get this, can you tell me this?
I just tell them to read the board and read the board of other Cities. Those Forums are often loaded with good information, good style, good warnings, and new skillz.
In a most cases "Go with your Gut Feelings". But don't be long in thinking about it. You got to be quick and if you lose her, then next time you will know better. If you learn from your past.
There are a lot of mongers out there who just don't know any better and they refuse to read around the board for info. Some people you just can't help, now. Once they have learned. THEY HAVE LEARNED. Now they will listen!
Many of they SW's out there have told me stories about the easy marks they get money off of, and ain't nothing they can do. Even the decent SW's have a story or two. Most SW's know a Soft/Timid mark when they see one, and add Money and Drugs to the mix and they can't help themselves. Don't ENABLE THEM, learn to spot the crap, and cut it loose quickly.
Alot of people won't say this, be your have to learn it for your own "Safety". Like Giani, I have my own list of Do's and Don'ts, but they are geared towards me, and someone else, may take it the wrong way, and get themselves in trouble. I have been doing this before Jackson took over the site, and before the internet even started.
I an not an old crow, but I did realize at a very Young Age, that paying a girl 10 bucks for FS, was better than Wrackin off. So I got hard earned dollars together, until I got better at getting it for free. Even with a FREEBIE, it ain't free.
REMEMBER. Everything said to you is everything I have to remember too, along with everyone else reading the Forums. So don't take it "PERSONALLY". In time you may be Schooling Us!
BE SAFE!
Hey, can we still edit our post? What is the time limit now to edit?
[QUOTE=Fanofyours7]Thanks for everyone's advice. Sometimes I don't think of it in terms that all of you do. But I probably should.
I know I'm new here but I wanted to see if anyone can tell me about someone that does massage. Here name is Teresa and her email is jeepgirlsmiles02. Please bc me if needed. I want to see her but she is about 45 mins aways from me. Heck of a distance to travel so I wanted to ask all of you if you knew anything about here. I read a one sentence review somewhere else on this site but I'm not very good reading between the lines. If there were lines.
Thanks[/QUOTE]