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[QUOTE=GetLost;2269529]No one cares. Enough already with the soap opera. And she's playing you like a fiddle.[/QUOTE]Sex three days in a row and three times in one day all for $.6 total. She can play that tune forever. I guess your profile name says it all. LOL
What the hell going on SA? Since I renewed my account yesterday, got 20+ messages from girls from all over the country. Even few of them from fareast. Does any one has this problem.
I am in middle of country, Oklahoma City, no where near Cali or NY.
The same thing just happened to me lately and in the past when my subscription ran out. I think that as your subscription nears its end SA makes your profile appear higher or more featured in searches. This is to generate more messages to you to entice you to renew. Just my theory. They at least seem real for the most part. When I was an SD4 M member I constantly received obvious spam messages. The give away was well written profiles with messages in terrible, awkward english.
Good hunting,
Travelin.
[QUOTE=IndianChief;2269828]What the hell going on SA? Since I renewed my account yesterday, got 20+ messages from girls from all over the country. Even few of them from fareast. Does any one has this problem.
I am in middle of country, Oklahoma City, no where near Cali or NY.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2269822]Sex three days in a row and three times in one day all for $.6 total. She can play that tune forever. I guess your profile name says it all. LOL[/QUOTE]For now it sounds good. But she will start asking for more and more. I guess some have to learn the hard way.
I travel a fair amount for business, so if my schedule allows I usually try and find an SB companion for at least 1 night on my trips. I've had pretty good luck at this, with only 1 experience I would consider a dud if we made it to the FC. Last week I sent out requests to a bunch of potentials in the city I was traveling to. One of the profiles mentioned that they were a pair and would only see someone as a pair. I sent a message to her and she responded. During our texting she said that her and her friend were an actual couple in a long-term relationship. I have had escort 3-somes in the past, but I always found them lacking in passion and real sexuality. There's nothing that turns me on more than seeing two women making out with each other and I just never sensed real passion my past experiences. The requested compensation was way beyond what I was comfy with for an SB type thing so I declined. She was really sweet and nice in our text exchanges and assured me a great time (who hasn't heard THAT before? I got to thinking that by escort standards it was really kind of a deal. I texted her back with a few conditions, min 2 hours, they are totally interactive, pics, etc. She agreed to the conditions and we were on. I have to admit I was preparing for a set-up. I've been around the block a few times and this just seemed TGTBT. On the day of I almost canceled a few times, but we got into a text conversation where she was asking a lot about me and I just got the sense they were on the up and up.
Finally the hour arrived and they showed up at my door. The one I had been communicating with was a very attractive slim blonde, her friend was a little on the thicker side, but not fat by any standards. We sat down, had a glass of wine and they related their story. They had both only been with men until they met each other. They worked in the same place, became friends, and then lovers. They said they sometimes missed having a man and decided together was the way to do it while making some $$$ at the same time. Eventually we just kind of looked at each other and it was on! In 10 seconds I could see they weren't lying. I've never seen two women in all the porn I've watched as hungry for each other as these two were. And the best thing hungry for me too! The next 2+ hours were a flurry of kissing, licking, sucking and f*ing. The thicker one was particularly sexual and just couldn't get enough dick. They both were incredible kissers. It was a totally amazing experience! Well into my top 5 experiences and possibly 1 or 2. They claim to be very picky about who they see, only having one other regular, but who knows if that's true. Although everything else she told be certainly turned out to be true, LOL I'm back down in that area in January and can not wait to see them again.
Now, the bad part. By this board's standards I know you're going to think I was nuts, but I agreed to $750 for my time with them. That's waaaay above what I normally give SBs for my out of town dates. The way I looked at it though, top level escort doubles get minimum $600 per hour and I've never seen under $1000 for two hours. These girls were way beyond any escort doubles I've been with and were there for way over 2 hours. Where would we be without a good rationalization every day? Haha Anyway, in mind mind well worth the cash.
Good hunting,
Travelin.
[QUOTE=GetLost;2269529]No one cares. Enough already with the soap opera. And she's playing you like a fiddle.[/QUOTE]There is no soap in Hollywood's opera. I sure as hell do care and if Hollywood's new SB thinks she is playing him, she better find another instrument. I don't get your negative attitude at all. This particular branch of the USAsexguide tree is filled with Men all supporting each other with both information and entertainment. Hollywood has been there done that so many times that if there was a phd in SugarDaddying he would have a Ph-Double Dee! The best part of all? He shares his wisdom with no condescending attitude. So you are welcome to use the "ignore" feature that the Admins have so generously provided each one of us non paying members of this site. In the meantime, you don't speak for me, and I'll keep on looking for any post Hollywood writes as I know I'm in for some entertainment and wisdom when found.
[QUOTE=TravelinSD;2269890]
Now, the bad part. By this board's standards I know you're going to think I was nuts, but I agreed to $750 for my time with them. That's waaaay above what I normally give SBs for my out of town dates. The way I looked at it though, top level escort doubles get minimum $600 per hour and I've never seen under $1000 for two hours. These girls were way beyond any escort doubles I've been with and were there for way over 2 hours. Where would we be without a good rationalization every day? Haha Anyway, in mind mind well worth the cash.
Good hunting,
Travelin.[/QUOTE]If it was worth it to you, that's all that matters.
I travel a fair amount for business, so if my schedule allows I usually try and find an SB companion for at least 1 night on my trips. I've had pretty good luck at this, with only 1 experience I would consider a dud if we made it to the FC. Last week I sent out requests to a bunch of potentials in the city I was traveling to. One of the profiles mentioned that they were a pair and would only see someone as a pair. I sent a message to her and she responded. During our texting she said that her and her friend were an actual couple in a long-term relationship. I have had escort 3-somes in the past, but I always found them lacking in passion and real sexuality. There's nothing that turns me on more than seeing two women making out with each other and I just never sensed real passion my past experiences. The requested compensation was way beyond what I was comfy with for an SB type thing so I declined. She was really sweet and nice in our text exchanges and assured me a great time (who hasn't heard THAT before? I got to thinking that by escort standards it was really kind of a deal. I texted her back with a few conditions, min 2 hours, they are totally interactive, pics, etc. She agreed to the conditions and we were on. I have to admit I was preparing for a set-up. I've been around the block a few times and this just seemed TGTBT. On the day of I almost canceled a few times, but we got into a text conversation where she was asking a lot about me and I just got the sense they were on the up and up.
Finally the hour arrived and they showed up at my door. The one I had been communicating with was a very attractive slim blonde, her friend was a little on the thicker side, but not fat by any standards. We sat down, had a glass of wine and they related their story. They had both only been with men until they met each other. They worked in the same place, became friends, and then lovers. They said they sometimes missed having a man and decided together was the way to do it while making some $$$ at the same time. Eventually we just kind of looked at each other and it was on! In 10 seconds I could see they weren't lying. I've never seen two women in all the porn I've watched as hungry for each other as these two were. And the best thing hungry for me too! The next 2+ hours were a flurry of kissing, licking, sucking and f*ing. The thicker one was particularly sexual and just couldn't get enough dick. They both were incredible kissers. It was a totally amazing experience! Well into my top 5 experiences and possibly 1 or 2. They claim to be very picky about who they see, only having one other regular, but who knows if that's true. Although everything else she told be certainly turned out to be true, LOL I'm back down in that area in January and can not wait to see them again.
Now, the bad part. By this board's standards I know you're going to think I was nuts, but I agreed to $750 for my time with them. That's waaaay above what I normally give SBs for my out of town dates. The way I looked at it though, top level escort doubles get minimum $600 per hour and I've never seen under $1000 for two hours. These girls were way beyond any escort doubles I've been with and were there for way over 2 hours. Where would we be without a good rationalization every day? Haha Anyway, in mind mind well worth the cash.
Good hunting,
Travelin.
So I decided awhile back I was done with sb sites. Way too much time and energy trying to catch sbs. I let sa and my hushed number expire. I made it a couple weeks before I had to login to sa and see the new tail available.
So for two weeks I've been grinding it out. Several are wanting to meet but none are really hot. Then a hot coed agrees to drive 1 1/2 hours to see me. No discussion of sugar. She texts me around the time she should be leaving school. But then radio silence. Same day a local hot coed signs up, I immediately message her, she agrees to meet near college after class but never shows. The next day, today, she apologizes that she picked up a friend from the er. So now I'm getting really disgruntled again.
I am traveling today. I stop by to see one of the eager girls. I've been stalking her fb and she is cuter on fb than sa. I arrive and she's not what I want but doable. We hang out for an hour but I leave with nothing she has to get ready for work. I text her that she stop by my place after work and she agrees.
Then as I'm leaving a girl I've been messaging briefly for five days says she's available for dinner. I agree to a restaurant and then she tells me her address so I can pick her up. Interesting.
She is very demure acting and nervous. But smoking hot. Black with long straight hair and full lips 5'7" 125 lbs tiny but large breasts. We go to restaurant and everything is ok. We swing by some of my rental properties and in the driveway I ask for a kiss. We kiss some more. We sit there some and she goes "I will go in with you this time and check it out". Inside the house we start kissing. She leads me to couch and tells me to undo pants. And she's working BBBJ like crazy. 1 1/2 hours of crazy anything goes with her screaming "daddy" then CIM.
I read HGs post down below and I thought we had the same girl but I'm in sc.
She never asked for sugar. She actually got out of truck without any but I called her back. We talked about me picking her up again later.
She was prefect. She would do anything and never complained. At the end she worked it for 15 minutes straight and never slowed down. I had to pull it out of her mouth.
She could be ATF if I knew she wasn't utr or working. She stays at home so I don't think so and she's only been on sa for 2 months.
[QUOTE=GetLost;2269884]For now it sounds good. But she will start asking for more and more. I guess some have to learn the hard way.[/QUOTE]I always stay on budget. Which has been 3 k a month for the last 2 years (including bonuses, hotel rooms and food)(only gas is excluded). Even with the bonuses I still get 20 to 25 dates a month for my money. Some are one and two hour, some are 24 hour. And is she one of the smart ones? Maybe. But I see she has most of her bills covered. Also I don't bonus any girl unless it goes 6 months or more. I also make sure a large percentage of all donations go to beauty treatments, clothes etc. Which are only purchased with my approval. As I have a very specific way I like my girls to look and dress. This is why I go the NP route. I can exert a far greater degree of control over the relationship, the sex, and the frequency and all with the little barbie types I seem to prefer. With an escort, AMP or UTR you are going to have a cut and dried, fixed amount business transaction. With NP's you have to be flexible. I really don't care if I over pay one as long as there is another one being under paid to offset the balance (I have one I pay zero). It's only my total monthly budget I care about. And that never changes. At the moment that girl is prorated out to only .5 a date. It will definitely go up, but not over $ a date for the first 6 months, if it even goes that far.
[QUOTE=IndianChief;2269828]What the hell going on SA? Since I renewed my account yesterday, got 20+ messages from girls from all over the country. Even few of them from fareast. Does any one has this problem. I am in middle of country, Oklahoma City, no where near Cali or NY.[/QUOTE]I suspect it's a growing industry. The other day I saw my gf watching the Dr Phil show, there was this blonde bimbo on their talking about sugar babying, claiming she would get something like ten grand per date, no sex companionship only, with old guys (sometimes 90 she said), and she got her mom into it. Dr. Phil wasn't buying the no sex BS.
Later in the show the founder of SA appeared (and here's the reason I'm replying), he said that membership had grown 500%+ since the scandal involving the Google exec's heroin overdose with that nasty hooker posing as an SB and using SA to snag men. He did not comment on whether the male to female ratio stayed constant throughout that 500% growth cycle, which was the statistic I was most interested in. Maybe it worked in our favor and there are more females joining? I'm not sure if that's good or not, because it may mean that killing executives with drug needles appealed to them. LOL.
I have to admit, I worry about the SB / SD industry getting too high on the radar such that it becomes the territory for federal law crackdowns. I personally never do anything illegal in the SD world, but it's very clear that a lot of folks do not properly distinguish sugar babys from pros, especially the pros themselves who would like to use it as an alternative (and as they perceive, safer for now) mechanism for landing johns.
This is one reason that I sometimes seem like I'm on a crusade to educate the public about the differences between true SBs and pros. Because if it becomes cloudy in the eyes of lawmakers, they will just start sending out the hounds to shut it all down, hook line and sinker. And that's not good for anyone.
[QUOTE=TravelinSD;2270108]I travel a fair amount for business, so if my schedule allows I usually try and find an SB companion for at least 1 night on my trips. I've had pretty good luck at this, with only 1 experience I would consider a dud if we made it to the FC. Last week I sent out requests to a bunch of potentials in the city I was traveling to. One of the profiles mentioned that they were a pair and would only see someone as a pair. I sent a message to her and she responded. During our texting she said that her and her friend were an actual couple in a long-term relationship. I have had escort 3-somes in the past, but I always found them lacking in passion and real sexuality. There's nothing that turns me on more than seeing two women making out with each other and I just never sensed real passion my past experiences. The requested compensation was way beyond what I was comfy with for an SB type thing so I declined. She was really sweet and nice in our text exchanges and assured me a great time (who hasn't heard THAT before? I got to thinking that by escort standards it was really kind of a deal. I texted her back with a few conditions, min 2 hours, they are totally interactive, pics, etc. She agreed to the conditions and we were on. I have to admit I was preparing for a set-up. I've been around the block a few times and this just seemed TGTBT. On the day of I almost canceled a few times, but we got into a text conversation where she was asking a lot about me and I just got the sense they were on the up and up.
Finally the hour arrived and they showed up at my door. The one I had been communicating with was a very attractive slim blonde, her friend was a little on the thicker side, but not fat by any standards. We sat down, had a glass of wine and they related their story. They had both only been with men until they met each other. They worked in the same place, became friends, and then lovers. They said they sometimes missed having a man and decided together was the way to do it while making some $$$ at the same time. Eventually we just kind of looked at each other and it was on! In 10 seconds I could see they weren't lying. I've never seen two women in all the porn I've watched as hungry for each other as these two were. And the best thing hungry for me too! The next 2+ hours were a flurry of kissing, licking, sucking and f*ing. The thicker one was particularly sexual and just couldn't get enough dick. They both were incredible kissers. It was a totally amazing experience! Well into my top 5 experiences and possibly 1 or 2. They claim to be very picky about who they see, only having one other regular, but who knows if that's true. Although everything else she told be certainly turned out to be true, LOL I'm back down in that area in January and can not wait to see them again.
Now, the bad part. By this board's standards I know you're going to think I was nuts, but I agreed to $750 for my time with them. That's waaaay above what I normally give SBs for my out of town dates. The way I looked at it though, top level escort doubles get minimum $600 per hour and I've never seen under $1000 for two hours. These girls were way beyond any escort doubles I've been with and were there for way over 2 hours. Where would we be without a good rationalization every day? Haha Anyway, in mind mind well worth the cash.
Good hunting,
Travelin.[/QUOTE]While I'm certain the members of this board have saved me from over paying (thank you all) and led me to explore new SB experiences I would have never done on my own (thank you all again) I wouldn't for a moment think you were nuts for indulging in your amazing night. If you can afford it (or even if it hurt) you will go to the grave with the fantastic memories of that night and will have had a richer life for it. Good for you. Bravo!
[QUOTE=SkinJr;2270165]So I decided awhile back I was done with sb sites. Way too much time and energy trying to catch sbs. I let sa and my hushed number expire. I made it a couple weeks before I had to login to sa and see the new tail available.
So for two weeks I've been grinding it out. Several are wanting to meet but none are really hot. Then a hot coed agrees to drive 1 1/2 hours to see me. No discussion of sugar. She texts me around the time she should be leaving school. But then radio silence. Same day a local hot coed signs up, I immediately message her, she agrees to meet near college after class but never shows. The next day, today, she apologizes that she picked up a friend from the er. So now I'm getting really disgruntled again.
I am traveling today. I stop by to see one of the eager girls. I've been stalking her fb and she is cuter on fb than sa. I arrive and she's not what I want but doable. We hang out for an hour but I leave with nothing she has to get ready for work. I text her that she stop by my place after work and she agrees.
Then as I'm leaving a girl I've been messaging briefly for five days says she's available for dinner. I agree to a restaurant and then she tells me her address so I can pick her up. Interesting.
She is very demure acting and nervous. But smoking hot. Black with long straight hair and full lips 5'7" 125 lbs tiny but large breasts. We go to restaurant and everything is ok. We swing by some of my rental properties and in the driveway I ask for a kiss. We kiss some more. We sit there some and she goes "I will go in with you this time and check it out". Inside the house we start kissing. She leads me to couch and tells me to undo pants. And she's working BBBJ like crazy. 1 1/2 hours of crazy anything goes with her screaming "daddy" then CIM.
I read HGs post down below and I thought we had the same girl but I'm in sc.
She never asked for sugar. She actually got out of truck without any but I called her back. We talked about me picking her up again later.
She was prefect. She would do anything and never complained. At the end she worked it for 15 minutes straight and never slowed down. I had to pull it out of her mouth.
She could be ATF if I knew she wasn't utr or working. She stays at home so I don't think so and she's only been on sa for 2 months.[/QUOTE]Welcome back. You can check in but you can never check out LOL.
I'm just now starting to use SA regularly. I was wondering if you guys are typically explicit about cash for sex in your messages on there? I've always used regular dating sites in the past to find sb's and was never really concerned about LEO. With SA being pretty obvious as to it's purpose, I'm a little worried about getting caught up in some kind of sting. I'm sure I'm being paranoid, and I've never heard of LEO targeting sugar daddy sites, but figured I would ask your guy's opinion.
[QUOTE=GetLost;2269529]No one cares. Enough already with the soap opera. And she's playing you like a fiddle.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=GetLost;2269884]For now it sounds good. But she will start asking for more and more. I guess some have to learn the hard way.[/QUOTE]You don't spit in the wind.
You don't pull the mask of that old Lone Ranger.
And you don't mess around with HG.
What you SHOULD do is read his posts without acting like a know-it-all; you might learn a little bit about how to make it in the Sugar Bowl.