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I had a really tough week so I decided to seek out some stress relief. Not surprisingly, most of my calls went unanswered. (Why do providers post ads and then refuse to take phone calls from those who wish to do business with them? But I digress.) One provider texted back an hour after I called and her rates were reasonable, but she had no history and her photos looked TGTBT so I passed. Once again I turned to one of the Asian crapshoot ads, again for someone who advertised to be in her 30's. It was a different ad than the one which led to last week's disaster.

The provider, or her handler, texted the same extended-stay hotel as last week's visit. It's a fairly large place so I didn't think anything of it. I got there and she texted the room number. It looked familiar, but I've visited other providers, including non-Asian ones, at this same place. I got to the room and the provider opened the door. Lo and behold, it was the exact same provider I saw last week! She seemed happy that I returned, but I doubt she was happy when I bolted.

To summarize, the provider associated with this ad:

[URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/beauty-sexy-asian-757-648-9240-special-b2b-nuru-massage/26453433[/URL]

Is the same provider as the one associated with the ad I answered last week. That ad, by the way, is still running:

[URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/frist-day-fair-oaks-mall-are-asian-nuru/26459905[/URL]

In both cases the pics are fake, even more so with the "Judy" ad than the "Suri" ad.

I'm out some time, some gas, and a blue pill, but at least I saved my money.

[QUOTE=BaconBread;3250275]Had a good time with her about a year ago. She's the girl in the pics, very nice looking. No complaints, but is non-GFE and fully priced for the level of performance. Probably won't repeat.[/QUOTE]Which girl were did you visit?

[QUOTE=TomMcAn;3250346]I had a really tough week so I decided to seek out some stress relief. Not surprisingly, most of my calls went unanswered. (Why do providers post ads and then refuse to take phone calls from those who wish to do business with them? But I digress.) One provider texted back an hour after I called and her rates were reasonable, but she had no history and her photos looked TGTBT so I passed. Once again I turned to one of the Asian crapshoot ads, again for someone who advertised to be in her 30's. It was a different ad than the one which led to last week's disaster.

The provider, or her handler, texted the same extended-stay hotel as last week's visit. It's a fairly large place so I didn't think anything of it. I got there and she texted the room number. It looked familiar, but I've visited other providers, including non-Asian ones, at this same place. I got to the room and the provider opened the door. Lo and behold, it was the exact same provider I saw last week! She seemed happy that I returned, but I doubt she was happy when I bolted.

To summarize, the provider associated with this ad:

[URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/beauty-sexy-asian-757-648-9240-special-b2b-nuru-massage/26453433[/URL]

Is the same provider as the one associated with the ad I answered last week. That ad, by the way, is still running:

[URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/frist-day-fair-oaks-mall-are-asian-nuru/26459905[/URL]

In both cases the pics are fake, even more so with the "Judy" ad than the "Suri" ad.

I'm out some time, some gas, and a blue pill, but at least I saved my money.[/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing the reality. Great ads! . just not the goods promised I guess. Handler is creative marketier I guess.

Good move turning and leaving. The fakers have to learn somehow. We need more posts that tell the good, the bad and the ugly.

Beware,

HG2.

[QUOTE=HappyGuy2;3250566]Thanks for sharing the reality. Great ads! . just not the goods promised I guess. Handler is creative marketier I guess.

Good move turning and leaving. The fakers have to learn somehow. We need more posts that tell the good, the bad and the ugly.

Beware,

HG2.[/QUOTE]Except for a handful of the Chinese MILF ads, I've yet to come across a single ad in the Asian crapshoot which carried actual photos of the providers. Then again, the same can be said for plenty of non-Asian ads as well. I also don't know why they promise a massage, especially a body-to-body massage, when the provider in question doesn't even provide the most basic of body rubs. At least she didn't when I saw her the week before.

There was plenty of bad and ugly in this instance, but the only good is that I had the presence of mind to leave. One has to wonder how many more walkouts advertisers must endure before they finally practice truth in advertising. Or is that asking too much from providers of such services?

[QUOTE=OldBoomer;3250533]Which girl were did you visit?[/QUOTE]Hazel Stone.

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;3247926]Another thing that I noticed on her ad is no RATE information. How would I get that information? I mean how do I approach to get that information?

Thanks again for your assistance.[/QUOTE]So as a newbie, have the following questions and was looking at the various posts but did not seem to get the information on the pages I looked at:

Ad has no rate or services etc. So when does one.

- Ask for rate. I was told to ask when I call the girl.

- When do I find out what services are included etc?

- When do I hand the donation over? Beginning? End?

Thanks again for your help.

Rule #1 for newbies. Stick with seeing a girl who has reviews. (And I mean more than just one or two reviews.) That way you know she is legit. So do some research first, then make the call.

Now, here's my take on your questions.

- Ask for rate? I was told to ask when I call the girl?

Ask if she has a website. If she does the rates are usually advertised there. If she does not have one, ask about her rate when you call her. But be very careful here. You do not know who you are really speaking to. Do not ask how much it cost for any specific services. I would stick with: "How much does it cost for an hour of your time?" Or "How much does it cost to spend a half hour with you?" That way she will know that you know the deal.

- When do I find out what services are included etc?

This is what doing research on here is all about. After reading USASG, then Google her phone number and click on the links that come up. Unless she is new or UTR, there will usually be a couple of links to review sites. Read the reviews and see what other guys say they got. Not fool proof, but a pretty good guide.

Also, once you get there and both of you get comfortable, ask what her rules are. I have found that some girls are strict with their rules and others are lenient if they end up liking you. If you get her all hot and bothered, just go with the flow and see where it leads to. But be a gentleman and if she says "no" or "stop" then that's it. Do not push her boundaries too much. And this is probably not popular to say around here, but I would wrap up that rascal for everything.

- When do I hand the donation over? Beginning? End?

Many girls spell out how they want you to give them the donation on their personal website. Most girls want the money up front, before you start. If you do your homework you should know that she is not a "cash and dash" ripoff. So it is usually okay to pay first. And if she offers various levels of service she can tell what you want by how much you lay down at the beginning.

When I see someone new, I usually lay it down discretely in plain view and ask to use the bathroom to wash my hands. Two good things happen by doing that: 1. She gets her money, so she can relax a little knowing you are not going to stiff her. (Well, you probably are going to "stiff" her, but you get the idea.) 2. She knows your hands are freshly clean so she might be more receptive to you touching her all over -- inside and out.

I'm sure you will get other advice. But I hope that helps.

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;3251058]So as a newbie, have the following questions and was looking at the various posts but did not seem to get the information on the pages I looked at:

Ad has no rate or services etc. So when does one.

- Ask for rate. I was told to ask when I call the girl.

- When do I find out what services are included etc?

- When do I hand the donation over? Beginning? End?

Thanks again for your help.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;3251058]So as a newbie, have the following questions and was looking at the various posts but did not seem to get the information on the pages I looked at:

Ad has no rate or services etc. So when does one.

- Ask for rate. I was told to ask when I call the girl.

- When do I find out what services are included etc?

- When do I hand the donation over? Beginning? End?

Thanks again for your help.[/QUOTE]Most girls put ridiculous rates on their websites. I've seen dozens or hundreds who say $300 per hour on their websites, but advertise $200 or less on Backpage. If the rate isn't in the ad, just ask on the phone.

If you want to find out what's included, ask, but don't be too blatant. Don't ask "will you suck me off without a condom and let me blast in your mouth?" LOL. Instead ask if you can get an idea of what's included, if it's a full or partial session, and if they have any rules or limits you should know about.

Play each conversation by ear, paying attention to whether she seems friendly, cautious, or hostile, and don't just read off a script. Some girls will answer your questions, others will deflect them, and some will just hang up. It's like cold-calling to sell junk bonds; not every call will get one on the hook, but you'll eventually get some good ones.

Until you really know what you're doing, stick to girls with a history of ads and some reviews saying they're legit and not a ripoff, so you can learn by meeting and talking to them.

TER is down for some reason. Any advice before I go for my dream with Meagan? She looks legit to me.

[URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/im-back-upsc%CE%B1l%CE%B5-j%CE%B1w-dropping-s%CE%B5xy-and-sweet-notch-bbw-juicy-ty/26487151[/URL]

TER seems to be working again. Although I have not met her, Meagan Bentley has six TER reviews and she appears to be legit. And I also found a few other glowing reviews from December 2016 on another review website. Those seem kind of sketchy, though. They might be self reviews. But based on the TER info she appears to be okay to try out. Just don't expect a GFE encounter with her.

Man, those pictures of her thick, dimpled hips make me feel nostalgic for a gal I had a long term relationship with decades ago. When I first met her, she was just a filly. Real shapely. Attractive. Then over time she morphed into a mare, with legs, hips and an ass just exactly like that. Not very attractive, but nice cushion for the pushin'. Makes me want to look her up.

But my hat is off to Meagan. She is putting her real, unvarnished image out there, really owning it. Cellulite and all. She does have a very pretty face, with beautiful eyes and cute, chubby cheeks. And her ample busom is a major plus.

Good luck. And let us know how it went.

[QUOTE=DarkSideMoon;3252767]TER is down for some reason. Any advice before I go for my dream with Meagan? She looks legit to me.

[URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/im-back-upsc%CE%B1l%CE%B5-j%CE%B1w-dropping-s%CE%B5xy-and-sweet-notch-bbw-juicy-ty/26487151[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkSideMoon;3252767]TER is down for some reason. Any advice before I go for my dream with Meagan? She looks legit to me.

[URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/im-back-upsc%CE%B1l%CE%B5-j%CE%B1w-dropping-s%CE%B5xy-and-sweet-notch-bbw-juicy-ty/26487151[/URL][/QUOTE]TER was down going through major updates.

[QUOTE=HiNMitey;3247386]How about ones who want to be Facebook of LinkedIn friends?[/QUOTE]That is the most ridiculous thing I ever heard of. I don't have either FB or LI. If I did, I would probably never have anyone from the hobbying world as a friend or link. I have looked up companies on linkedin and in my search I have seen massage providers show up. I did not see any escorts.

[QUOTE=RustyMuffler;3253429]TER seems to be working again. Although I have not met her, Meagan Bentley has six TER reviews and she appears to be legit. And I also found a few other glowing reviews from December 2016 on another review website. Those seem kind of sketchy, though. They might be self reviews. But based on the TER info she appears to be okay to try out. Just don't expect a GFE encounter with her.

Man, those pictures of her thick, dimpled hips make me feel nostalgic for a gal I had a long term relationship with decades ago. When I first met her, she was just a filly. Real shapely. Attractive. Then over time she morphed into a mare, with legs, hips and an ass just exactly like that. Not very attractive, but nice cushion for the pushin'. Makes me want to look her up.

But my hat is off to Meagan. She is putting her real, unvarnished image out there, really owning it. Cellulite and all. She does have a very pretty face, with beautiful eyes and cute, chubby cheeks. And her ample busom is a major plus.

Good luck. And let us know how it went.[/QUOTE]It did not work out. She went MIA once I reached the parking lot. No reply to text/call. Waste of time!!

[QUOTE=HiNMitey;3247386]How about ones who want to be Facebook of LinkedIn friends?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Miketastic69;3253961]That is the most ridiculous thing I ever heard of. I don't have either FB or LI. If I did, I would probably never have anyone from the hobbying world as a friend or link. I have looked up companies on linkedin and in my search I have seen massage providers show up. I did not see any escorts.[/QUOTE]I must've missed this one.

Let's see now: A provider who requires screening wants to be a Facebook or LinkedIn friend, and someone thinks [U]that[/U] is a good idea? Or even a halfway decent idea? Geez, why not just post on one's Facebook page that one is a monger?

Miketastic has the absolutely correct sentiment: "FN crazy". [B]Any[/B]thing that would connect your mongering activities to your true identity is just asking for trouble on [B]SO[/B] many levels. If one is willing to use one's Facebook or LinkedIn account for verification, then that partly defeats the notion of using "burner" phones for mongering purposes. I understand that providers want to lower their exposure to unnecessary risks, but that shouldn't come at the expense of the customer. Just as a monger doesn't get into this hobby without a foreknowledge of the situation, so too a provider should not.

This notion of references works both ways. Would a provider feel comfortable providing references, including personal info, to mongers? I can sympathize with a provider not wanting to be stuck out on a limb but, if they feel the business is too risky without requiring references and verification of the sort that entail personal information from the customer, they are probably in the wrong business or the wrong environment. I refuse to play that game. Period.