Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=3-MinutePassion;3050745]That hits it on the head. Anytime there is confusion in this regard, sober up quickly. Men want sex, (these) women want money. Since sex, for most of us, is associated with passion, emotions, caring, etc. confusion can arise, for some. The impulse is to feel a connection with someone who has ABSOLUTELY no desire to reciprocate except to extract more money. Never forget this. Never be confused over this. NEVER.[/QUOTE]This is all true, but I've noticed that often, unless a provider is a really good actress, I can't suspend my disbelief in the role she's playing, and that prevents me from enjoying my time with her. When I begin to think about how she's only doing it for money, doesn't like me, isn't turned on by me, etc. , it keeps me from getting turned on by her, too. A2's advice about taking a break has been useful to me in the past because, if nothing else, when I go without long enough, I'll wind up being too horny for my mind to wander off and start thing about all of that when I go and see a provider. At least an appointment or two will go OK before I'm back to being dissatisfied again.

Good Evening Are there ant adventurous AMP's in NkY still open. ?

Or Anywhere close Thanks Anyone have any information on GG /.

The Gianna posts started in the Bakpage Reviews section of the forum. Since this isn't a review, I moved it here. I attended the Exxotica Expo at the Columbus Convention Center Saturday night. I too contacted Gianna's "assistant" via email. After the first return email confirming pricing, I replied I couldn't make it to Columbus. Her response was that Gianna was staying in Dayton. Uh, yeah. After the Ron Jeremy seminar about some of his experiences in the business, I started to mingle with the stars at the show. It was like any other trade show, only better. Way better. I had my picture taken with Gianna and mentioned that I saw her ad. She told me that I was the sixth person to tell her that. Guess what? She doesn't offer that kind of service. It really was a scam. The show was great with a whole slew of adult film performers. Chaturbate and My Free Cams were doing live web cams, you could buy every kind of sex toy imaginable and they even had a bar in the VIP area. Woke up Sunday wanting a massage. Contacted Britt for a Nuru. Review is in the Columbus forum. I'll be going next year.

SP.

[QUOTE=Admin2;3050727]Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal I got to say that a couple times a year I just get tired of pussy. I'm also getting older and while I like sex it's not the drive it once was. You said something in your post that would be worth contemplating. "I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there" when I go see one of my regulars there is a feeling of friendship, some of them are really nice chicks, but the feeling I'm mostly chasing is a superior blowjob. I know what you're talking about because I've been there in the past. I went through a difficult time years ago and I was fucking 3-4 chicks a day, it wasn't about sex, it was about something that was missing from my life and I was using sex to fill a different need. Addiction is never about the what, it's always about the why. If you're chasing something more than casual, available, sex then brother your idea about taking a pause and assessing is not the worst idea you have ever had.

I miss the intimacy of more traditional relationships at times but the truth is 3-6 months into every relationship I ever had the only thing I wanted was out so for me, until I find a woman that's looking for the same liberty in a committed relationship that I am overall I'm better (happier) doing what I'm doing. Nobody else can answer this for you, this is a road you need to walk alone and find out what's on it for you.

A2.[/QUOTE]I want to publicly and humbly thank the seniors who PM'd and those of you who shared your perspectives and helpful input. I am at least taking a break, and walking away if I can. I don't know if I should be here reading or just stay away, but I will probably pop off from time to time despite my best intentions, but for now pay for play is out. Thanks to A2 and everyone who have been doing this and know better than me. In my 4th decade, I would at least like to say that I have learned to recognize good advice, and heed it. Thank you all again.

[QUOTE=Simonpieman;3052325] After the Ron Jeremy seminar about some of his experiences in the business, I started to mingle with the stars at the show.
SP.[/QUOTE]Sorry to say this but Ron Jeremy looks old & past his prime. Do you think he has an illness?

[QUOTE=CravenMorehead;3052585]Sorry to say this but Ron Jeremy looks old & past his prime. Do you think he has an illness?[/QUOTE]He almost died from heart problems three years ago.

Happy Birthday Babe. I hope your day went well. Sorry about the cake, maybe next year. LOL.

[QUOTE=Wielic;3052327]I want to publicly and humbly thank the seniors who PM'd and those of you who shared your perspectives and helpful input. I am at least taking a break, and walking away if I can. I don't know if I should be here reading or just stay away, but I will probably pop off from time to time despite my best intentions, but for now pay for play is out. Thanks to A2 and everyone who have been doing this and know better than me. In my 4th decade, I would at least like to say that I have learned to recognize good advice, and heed it. Thank you all again.[/QUOTE]Whatever your decision, it's the right one.

Happy Birthday baby! See you soon!!

"Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal "- This is what Admin quoted. Is this Thailand or some other place?

It's known fact about A2 . This should be a qualifier question in the rules of the forum. I've had the pleasure of staying at Porto madero and visit a lot of these houses that has the best selection at very affordable prices. I was there for a month and felt physically weak on my flight back home. I don't know how A2 lives there. LOL.

[QUOTE=LuckyLuke;3054144]"Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal "- This is what Admin quoted. Is this Thailand or some other place?[/QUOTE]

"I wonder if I am just really looking for company, or companionship more than trying to fulfill an urge. When the hour is up, its time to go back home, feeling empty. ".

About trying to find emotional connection from a provider. A good SP will be seeking a connection with you too, otherwise escorting will just be a miserable job. She will feel empty and it's ust a day to day means to an end. Besides being a good lover, a major component is compassion, empathy, kindness and love (not romantic love, but a love for other human beings). Some of the guys are only looking for a physical release, or don't feel comfortable letting their guards down.

My favorite part of providing is connecting with the guys I meet. That's what makes me happy, being kind, compassionate and empathetic. There's a real joy for me in serving people. I like it better than my job as a social worker, because I feel like I'm making more of a difference with escorting. The money is great! I'm doing well and I'm good at saving for retirement, but if I was self centered and selfish I'd dread escorting. Actually I was in Plymouth Mass heading to the Plymouth Plantation and I really hate doing this sort of stuff alone, so I called a few of my regulars to join me or to be my dinner companion. I wasn't looking for money, I was planning on paying for my own meal. Unfortunately the guy who wanted to go with me wasn't available for a few hours so I went alone. I am hanging out at the beach with Friday with a client of mine. I'm really looking forward to it! It's an escorting / vacation trip to the Cape.

Money isn't everything and it doesn't buy happiness. Either does consumerism.

Xoxo Debbie.

I'm new to USA but been around about a year. I've only seen a couple posts on me. I'm going threw a rough time and really need to get out there. First off if you have seen me please write a review if you haven't please consider it me and my family could use extra help and the way I see it little to no reviews is way better than bad ones so at least in a year I have 0 bad reviews lmao please guys write a few!

I want to thank everyone for their birthday wishes! Also the gifts I received thank you everyone so very much.

All most 2 weeks ago I lost about 85 percent of my clothing in a small fire at my house. I want to thank everyone for their caring, understanding, and kindness at that time. Thank you so much it reminds me why I really do enjoy what I do.

Hope to see you soon and PLEASE stay safe.

VR.

[QUOTE=Deb4512;3056947]"I wonder if I am just really looking for company, or companionship more than trying to fulfill an urge. When the hour is up, its time to go back home, feeling empty. ".

About trying to find emotional connection from a provider. A good SP will be seeking a connection with you too, otherwise escorting will just be a miserable job. She will feel empty and it's ust a day to day means to an end. Besides being a good lover, a major component is compassion, empathy, kindness and love (not romantic love, but a love for other human beings). Some of the guys are only looking for a physical release, or don't feel comfortable letting their guards down.

My favorite part of providing is connecting with the guys I meet. That's what makes me happy, being kind, compassionate and empathetic. There's a real joy for me in serving people. I like it better than my job as a social worker, because I feel like I'm making more of a difference with escorting. The money is great! I'm doing well and I'm good at saving for retirement, but if I was self centered and selfish I'd dread escorting. Actually I was in Plymouth Mass heading to the Plymouth Plantation and I really hate doing this sort of stuff alone, so I called a few of my regulars to join me or to be my dinner companion. I wasn't looking for money, I was planning on paying for my own meal. Unfortunately the guy who wanted to go with me wasn't available for a few hours so I went alone. I am hanging out at the beach with Friday with a client of mine. I'm really looking forward to it! It's an escorting / vacation trip to the Cape.

Money isn't everything and it doesn't buy happiness. Either does consumerism.

Xoxo Debbie.[/QUOTE]I appreciated your perspective as well as what others have shared on this topic. I have found myself asking the same questions and what started out as a quest to fulfill a lifetime of desired experiences it turns out that I have done all that I set out to do yet I keep looking for something more. It turns out just sharing of myself, being kind, compassionate and empathetic and getting to know others that are of the same emotional maturity level can be as rewarding and fulfilling as the other aspects. For me, I need more than a 'session'. I need to share myself in many ways and I enjoy when a SP does the same. Thanks to you and to all who chimed in on the matter.