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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6381672]This girl and I have been messaging. She sent me this photo as well as a whole slew of others. Smoking. I have reverse image searched all of them, no hits. However, she asked me to send $, which is a red flag. I did phone her, the connection was bad, but did briefly hear her voice. It did sound foreign (but she says she is from a state other than California).
What do you think?[/QUOTE]Sounds sketch. Ask to meet for coffee.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6381672]This girl and I have been messaging. She sent me this photo as well as a whole slew of others. Smoking. I have reverse image searched all of them, no hits. However, she asked me to send $, which is a red flag. I did phone her, the connection was bad, but did briefly hear her voice. It did sound foreign (but she says she is from a state other than California).
What do you think?[/QUOTE]What would ever be a reason to send a girl cash in advance? I can't think of one.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6382001]What would ever be a reason to send a girl cash in advance? I can't think of one.[/QUOTE]What that dude says . I asked a version of this a few weeks ago. Same situation. Was thinking with my ween. Got smacked down here. And they were right. There is literally no reason to send money in advance of an in person date. Girl was like "I got burned before. It's to make sure you're serious. " I almost fell for that. Don't.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6382205]What that dude says . I asked a version of this a few weeks ago. Same situation. Was thinking with my ween. Got smacked down here. And they were right. There is literally no reason to send money in advance of an in person date. Girl was like "I got burned before. It's to make sure you're serious. " I almost fell for that. Don't.[/QUOTE]I am not asking anyone's advice about giving this girl $ online. Of course I am not going to do that. I was hoping someone could search that photo and tell me it was some well known IG model, or at least find it in some way or another. So I could call 'her' on her bullshit. My memory is that this profile has been on the site for some time, which of course is not necessarily an indication that it is NOT a fake.
I have, on some occasions, given a girl I was just messaging w / a small gift, like a 10 or 20 Starbucks card, with the aim of influencing her. This is obviously for young ones who could be swayed by gestures like that.
When I hear these words or see them texted on my phone, my brain shuts off and I terminate the convo without saying anything else.
Cashapp, deposit, Zelle, Chime, etc. Experienced mongers feel free to add other red flags designed by scammers for scamming simps and suckers.
Cold hard cash is exchanged in person, inside the safety and privacy of the FC, shortly before or soon after the panties hit the floor, the skinny legs are spread wide open, and my mouth or dick is inches away from pussy.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6382205]What that dude says . I asked a version of this a few weeks ago. Same situation. Was thinking with my ween. Got smacked down here. And they were right. There is literally no reason to send money in advance of an in person date. Girl was like "I got burned before. It's to make sure you're serious. " I almost fell for that. Don't.[/QUOTE]Just got a crying plea for cash in advance.
Honey kindly help me get few groceries when you're done with the meeting! I've not had breakfast yet because I'm out of groceries. I just hope this request Comes to you positively, you're the only one I'm sharing about myself with. 🥰129392;129392;.
This was my response:
Sorry. I understand. But I don't help out financially have had an intimate in person date. I get requests frequently for help so this is my process. I hope you understand.
[QUOTE=AceMcNasty;6382536]When I hear these words or see them texted on my phone, my brain shuts off and I terminate the convo without saying anything else.
Cashapp, deposit, Zelle, Chime, etc. Experienced mongers feel free to add other red flags designed by scammers for scamming simps and suckers.
Cold hard cash is exchanged in person, inside the safety and privacy of the FC, shortly before or soon after the panties hit the floor, the skinny legs are spread wide open, and my mouth or dick is inches away from pussy.[/QUOTE]Sounds like a dime store novel. Like I said before I give some lucky girl a few dollars usually once a year just to remind myself not to. I think the last time was about 16 months ago. Of course we never met.
[QUOTE=SteveTandberg;6382908]Just got a crying plea for cash in advance.
Honey kindly help me get few groceries when you're done with the meeting! I've not had breakfast yet because I'm out of groceries. I just hope this request Comes to you positively, you're the only one I'm sharing about myself with. 🥰129392;129392;.
This was my response:
Sorry. I understand. But I don't help out financially have had an intimate in person date. I get requests frequently for help so this is my process. I hope you understand.[/QUOTE]Holy crap she asked for groceries? That's some bottom feeding sugar right there!
I created an account on Reddit to view the sugar baby forum which you need to be admitted to.
It's pretty annoying. I recommend it for about a day. I've been reading for like 3 weeks and I'm over it.
It's literally an endless litany of girls asking for advice on some guy, and then every girl responding the same things over and over: drop him immediately. Every single one. There is no reason to not "know your worth" and "ghost him now girl. ".
I have been silent on it for obvious reasons but so many times I want to jump in and say actually that's a pretty reasonable request. Actually 500 per meet is not cheap. Actually wanting intimacy on the first date is not a bad idea because that's what this is about. Actually, I think you need to understand how replaceable you are.
My favorites are the girls who actually legit expect that a sugar daddy will give them a lifestyle where they no longer need to work or contribute to society. Like I imagine there probably guys out there who can do that, and will, I've got to imagine they are incredibly rare. You'd be shocked at how many girls are positively shocked that guys on the site are there to sleep with girls for money and are not there to make their lives better. You'd be surprised at how self aware they are that what they bring to the table is between their legs, but how much they talk about how much it's worth despite the constant barrage of evidence to the contrary. Like every guy who offers 300-500 ppm is a cheap broke ass and every twat is a ticket to financial freedom.
Just incredible.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6383753]I created an account on Reddit to view the sugar baby forum which you need to be admitted to.
It's pretty annoying. I recommend it for about a day. I've been reading for like 3 weeks and I'm over it.
It's literally an endless litany of girls asking for advice on some guy, and then every girl responding the same things over and over: drop him immediately. Every single one. There is no reason to not "know your worth" and "ghost him now girl. ".
I have been silent on it for obvious reasons but so many times I want to jump in and say actually that's a pretty reasonable request. Actually 500 per meet is not cheap. Actually wanting intimacy on the first date is not a bad idea because that's what this is about. Actually, I think you need to understand how replaceable you are.
My favorites are the girls who actually legit expect that a sugar daddy will give them a lifestyle where they no longer need to work or contribute to society. Like I imagine there probably guys out there who can do that, and will, I've got to imagine they are incredibly rare. You'd be shocked at how many girls are positively shocked that guys on the site are there to sleep with girls for money and are not there to make their lives better. You'd be surprised at how self aware they are that what they bring to the table is between their legs, but how much they talk about how much it's worth despite the constant barrage of evidence to the contrary. Like every guy who offers 300-500 ppm is a cheap broke ass and every twat is a ticket to financial freedom.
Just incredible.[/QUOTE]The women on there, and I use the term loosely, are usually unattractive and hate men. They espouse unrealistic expectations to one another and then get angrier and angrier at men because they are not living "their best life. " The attractive SBs are definitely not on Reddit complaining about how men are cheap, and the genuine women who benefit from an SD / SB relationship are also not on there. The bitches on reddit are there because no one wants them and they can't deal with that, so they complain to one another and encourage hating men more.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6383753]I created an account on Reddit to view the sugar baby forum which you need to be admitted to.
It's pretty annoying. I recommend it for about a day. I've been reading for like 3 weeks and I'm over it.
It's literally an endless litany of girls asking for advice on some guy, and then every girl responding the same things over and over: drop him immediately. Every single one. There is no reason to not "know your worth" and "ghost him now girl. ".
I have been silent on it for obvious reasons but so many times I want to jump in and say actually that's a pretty reasonable request. Actually 500 per meet is not cheap. Actually wanting intimacy on the first date is not a bad idea because that's what this is about. Actually, I think you need to understand how replaceable you are.
My favorites are the girls who actually legit expect that a sugar daddy will give them a lifestyle where they no longer need to work or contribute to society. Like I imagine there probably guys out there who can do that, and will, I've got to imagine they are incredibly rare. You'd be shocked at how many girls are positively shocked that guys on the site are there to sleep with girls for money and are not there to make their lives better. You'd be surprised at how self aware they are that what they bring to the table is between their legs, but how much they talk about how much it's worth despite the constant barrage of evidence to the contrary. Like every guy who offers 300-500 ppm is a cheap broke ass and every twat is a ticket to financial freedom.
Just incredible.[/QUOTE]Any sugar baby thread or site you find always gives the same advice. It's like SB advice for Karens.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6384056]Any sugar baby thread or site you find always gives the same advice. It's like SB advice for Karens.[/QUOTE]Totally.
But thing is, it's not even advice. When the answer is always the same, no matter the question, it's more just a self help affirmation group.
The forum is probably just a few bots repeating the same platitudes to every question:
Oh no he didn't.
Know your worth gurl.
Ditch that zero.
Ghost him.
Huge red flag.
Rinse and repeat.
I got my tiktok GF coming in this week for a 4 day and 3 night adventure. Including airfare, hair and nails, a few gourmet home cooked dinners, and some sexy outfits it will run me at most about 6 bills. So worth it. On my scale of 1-10 she is about a 7.5 but has a 10+ personality.
Total sub that only wants to do whatever Daddy says. I choose the clothes she wears, her hair style, makeup, and nail color. So she looks like my version of a perfect little doll. And I am in total control in the FC. My last two regulars in L.A. are/were both very bratty and I am not much of a brat tamer. Because truthfully the best I can do is to try and manage them and that's a full time job I am tired of.
I only mention it in this thread because it was all the years of sugaring, that got my game up to be able to snag some wifey quality 21 year old. (4.0 student and a home owner with a real job). And that does what she's told when she is told to do it (because that's what makes her happy).
After 20 years of marriage and then 10 years of age appropriate LTR's, in no way was I prepared to just go out and date young girls civi style. So I went straight from that to sugaring. I have actually not had a true from the get go civi relationship in the last 20 years. Except one girl I met on seeking that refused payment that I saw maybe 10 times and one civi fling with a MILF that lasted just 3 weeks (my Chinese language professor).
Between personal experience and some good advice from this website (that I wish I had gotten sooner), I feel confident that I can continue to meet hotties on social media if I am willing to put in the effort. I only do tiktok but have turned down many girls at this point. Mostly all SB's I imagine. I just don't have the time or money to worry about it right now. And many of them are smoking hot in my demographic.
I have also recently re-connected from a pause with my one vegas local SB. Her body is a 10 and she is also very accommodating in the FC. But she does have some limits I am not happy with. But for the price I am paying I can't really complain.
A comment made in another sugar thread concerned me so I personally investigated. If you have a SO, you really really need to be careful about this.
The website that you need to worry about is [URL]pimeyes.com[/URL]. It is a free facial recognition site. I have been very circumspect about putting my real photos on the seeking site, the only ones I provide are actually of someone not me (but similar to me) and have half the face cut off. However, in private texting, after I have spoken w / someone and am pretty sure I want to meet them, I saw no recourse but to provide a real pic. This is one that has all metadata stripped and has never appeared anywhere on the internet, on social media or anywhere else.
I just ran pimeyes on my one real photo I use for sugari. I have a relatively prominent internet presence because of my profession. That website found 7 instances of my real photos online. One of the finds was of someone else. However, if a girl wanted to search my one provided pic, she would get my *real* name and lots more information about me. This would make me extremely vulnerable to extortion, as I clearly mark on my seeking profile that I am married.
The only mitigating feature of pimeyes is that we can use it against girls.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6382302]I am not asking anyone's advice about giving this girl $ online. Of course I am not going to do that. I was hoping someone could search that photo and tell me it was some well known IG model, or at least find it in some way or another. So I could call 'her' on her bullshit. My memory is that this profile has been on the site for some time, which of course is not necessarily an indication that it is NOT a fake.
I have, on some occasions, given a girl I was just messaging w / a small gift, like a 10 or 20 Starbucks card, with the aim of influencing her. This is obviously for young ones who could be swayed by gestures like that.[/QUOTE]I think I have gotten pretty good at searching out profiles but you have to give us more than one picture with the face hidden. Is the girl Asian? Is her age late 20's to early 30's? Is she searching for 'True Love?' Is her area code appropriate for her location? Is it searchable or voip? Does she have an unusual first name? All these are the tells of a scammer (aside from asking money in advance.).
If you want to catch "her" out, keep pestering for more photos. Two things can happen: she will eventually send one that is searchable or she will insist that you have to pay her first. (I always ask for a few free samples to make sure what she is offering is worth the money.) If we get to the popit she is asking for the transfer, say you can only do Paypal and ask for "her" paypal account. It will almost always come back in some guys name because paypal only deals in verifiable accounts linked to banks and or SSN's. The Asian time-wasters won't go that far but the Lagos and Nairobi guys will always share a paypal. Then you can call her out on that. The final catchall is to insist on a video chat. There is no practicable reason to refuse. Any gmail account can video chat these days.
BAM.