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I am wondering about SD's experience with Jewish babies. I have been messaging with one POT who says her grandmother is Jewish but doesn't really cop to it herself. There isn't really a way to search for that specifically on SA, but are there other tells? If you've had a Jewish baby, was there anything special compared to other girls?
[QUOTE=JohnnyTheWad;3042070]HG,
I continue to be amazed at your exploits. I got to quit procrastinating and get on the SA site LOL.[/QUOTE]When you do. Just take it slow. There is a lot of BS on that site. But if you take your time, you will meet real girls, with realistic expectations and that have minimal drama. Stay away from neighborhoods you are not comfortable in, the teens (unless you can't help yourself), GPS girls, girls that want advances, girls that don't have regular and easy to see pics, girls that send you their phone # before you even ask, obvious UTR's, girls that are not really your type but just seem easy, etc. , etc. , etc.
Pre-screen and pre-qualify them on the site until you feel comfortable enough to move to email, and eventually txting. It might only take a day or two from start to finish. Or it could take weeks. Most will flake online, most will walk away from their profiles. Stick with the new girls to begin with (like maybe a month old at most). There is a learning curve. But over time the girls you date will get better looking and for less money. Unless you just like to trophy fuck, in which case just spend away and get hotties on day one.
Sorry to post this but I'm new to the game. I went and read some FAQs from the Richmond board. Highly informative. I joined SA the other day. I didn't upload a picture and haven't paid for the premium. I'm single but concerned about posting a picture and how it may affect my future SO and also giving any personal info such as credit cards and real name. Is there anyway around these things or should I not bother if I'm concerned about it. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.
[QUOTE=Kyloren33;3042881]Sorry to post this but I'm new to the game. I went and read some FAQs from the Richmond board. Highly informative. I joined SA the other day. I didn't upload a picture and haven't paid for the premium. I'm single but concerned about posting a picture and how it may affect my future SO and also giving any personal info such as credit cards and real name. Is there anyway around these things or should I not bother if I'm concerned about it. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Over paranoia can lead to conspiracy theories which can lead to lost sleep which can totally affect your health and well being. Sounds like maybe you need to take a deep breath or two, do a lot more reading on the richmond thread (like from start to finish). Then maybe PM a couple of the senior members on that board. Especially the one that likes to give the most advice. And then decide if getting a full blown SA membership is right for you. I am only half kidding. But no rush, there are dozens of smoking hot, horny girls in your area signing up daily that can't wait to meet you.
When I was banging the hell out of that latina yesterday, I said to her in a rough voice while I was choking the crap out of her from behind, with her ass up and her head pinned to the pillow, and slightly turned to the side, "you like fucking old guys and taking their money, don't you"? She was smiling from ear to ear.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3042622]When you do. Just take it slow. There is a lot of BS on that site. But if you take your time, you will meet real girls, with realistic expectations and that have minimal drama. Stay away from neighborhoods you are not comfortable in, the teens (unless you can't help yourself), GPS girls, girls that want advances, girls that don't have regular and easy to see pics, girls that send you their phone # before you even ask, obvious UTR's, girls that are not really your type but just seem easy, etc. , etc. , etc.
Pre-screen and pre-qualify them on the site until you feel comfortable enough to move to email, and eventually txting. It might only take a day or two from start to finish. Or it could take weeks. Most will flake online, most will walk away from their profiles. Stick with the new girls to begin with (like maybe a month old at most). There is a learning curve. But over time the girls you date will get better looking and for less money. Unless you just like to trophy fuck, in which case just spend away and get hotties on day one.[/QUOTE]Awesome, thanks for the info HG. I appreciate the tips. JTW.
[QUOTE=Kyloren33;3042881]Sorry to post this but I'm new to the game. I went and read some FAQs from the Richmond board. Highly informative. I joined SA the other day. I didn't upload a picture and haven't paid for the premium. I'm single but concerned about posting a picture and how it may affect my future SO and also giving any personal info such as credit cards and real name. Is there anyway around these things or should I not bother if I'm concerned about it. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Find a picture that is very very similar to how you look, then blur it out. Once the young lady texts you a few pics, then send her some real ones. I'd say use a Visa giftcard but I hear SA is having problems with that. I have a pretty full stable at the moment so I'll not be on SA for a while to verify. I hope they get that fixed soon.
BigTigg.
[QUOTE=BigTigger;3043395]Find a picture that is very very similar to how you look, then blur it out. Once the young lady texts you a few pics, then send her some real ones. I'd say use a Visa giftcard but I hear SA is having problems with that. I have a pretty full stable at the moment so I'll not be on SA for a while to verify. I hope they get that fixed soon.
BigTigg.[/QUOTE]Thanks for all the help and advice.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3042622]
Pre-screen and pre-qualify them on the site until you feel comfortable enough to move to email, and eventually txting. It might only take a day or two from start to finish. Or it could take weeks. Most will flake online, most will walk away from their profiles. Stick with the new girls to begin with (like maybe a month old at most). There is a learning curve. But over time the girls you date will get better looking and for less money. Unless you just like to trophy fuck, in which case just spend away and get hotties on day one.[/QUOTE]As always excellent advice. I follow this and have been very successful. I do have a question, how do you sort out the ones that are new to the site?
Large.
[QUOTE=LargeEss;3043581]As always excellent advice. I follow this and have been very successful. I do have a question, how do you sort out the ones that are new to the site?
Large.[/QUOTE]You can sort a search based on newest, and then you can also look at each profile and see when exactly they signed up (provided they haven't gone for the premium membership themselves and elected to hide that info).
Here is a good example of the pendulum swinging both ways.
23 - Boriquamammi.
I sent her my intro message and all she did was reply with her phone #. I googled it and got a couple of escort ads.
http://backpage.com.losangeles.hoxnif.com/post/17481094/
27 - Slim_gem.
I sent her my intro message and she said her GF found the perfect SD, and that's what she wants too (meaning maybe 3 k a month). And more of a BF type relationship.
Both are attractive girls no one would kick out of the FC. You have to find your own sweet spot. At least they were both quick to let me know what they were about and no time wasted. I politely responded to the NP that I wasn't what she was looking for and the other I just deleted. She is probably sending her # to 50 guys a day. But depending on my mood I could reply with my $ offer. A sexy UTR/pro is well worth a $ a visit.
[QUOTE=LargeEss;3043581]As always excellent advice. I follow this and have been very successful. I do have a question, how do you sort out the ones that are new to the site?
Large.[/QUOTE]Large volumes of messaging will do the trick. Eventually it will become clear to you who will make it on to your radar and who won't.
[QUOTE=Kyloren33;3042881]Sorry to post this but I'm new to the game. I went and read some FAQs from the Richmond board. Highly informative. I joined SA the other day. I didn't upload a picture and haven't paid for the premium. I'm single but concerned about posting a picture and how it may affect my future SO and also giving any personal info such as credit cards and real name. Is there anyway around these things or should I not bother if I'm concerned about it. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I used a photo of mine where I was nicely dressed, but my face was obscured. It showed that I wasn't a slob and wasn't morbidly obese. I also hadn't posted that picture anywhere, so it couldn't be reverse image searched via google or tineye.
I had a collection of clearer photos ready to share with prospective babies, also never posted anywhere online. If you're paranoid about them somehow being traced, a simple horizontal flip of the photo should eliminate any possibility of reverse image searching. It's amazing to me how many girls don't protect themselves with simple measures like that.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3043145]
When I was banging the hell out of that latina yesterday, I said to her in a rough voice while I was choking the crap out of her from behind, with her ass up and her head pinned to the pillow, and slightly turned to the side, "you like fucking old guys and taking their money, don't you"? She was smiling from ear to ear.[/QUOTE]Post of the month, and worthy of a second look!
Cheers HG,
I used a photo of someone that looks somewhat like me. They had sun glasses on in the picture, so not much of the face shows anyways. I would follow up with a real photo of me once communication was established.
Noone ever said anything.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3043868]I hope the 20 year old from Friday gets back to me. I haven't heard a word from her since. This girl has some of the best legs and prettiest feet (hidden by shoes, but really nice), that I have seen in a while. And she was so tight I could barely get it in (and that was lubed and bare). Maybe in a more natural setting she will loosen up a bit.[/QUOTE]Incredible!
Madisonbabyx. Awesome profile if its real and you can afford it.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3045872]Madisonbabyx. Awesome profile if its real and you can afford it.[/QUOTE]She on SA?
[QUOTE=SeaTownGuy;3045969]She on SA?[/QUOTE]Yes. All girls I meet are on SA.
M&G with a local college senior this morning. Tiny, tiny. Like under 5 feet, maybe 80# dripping wet. Pretty, smart, pleasant, but in private I suggested I might break her in half. She claims she has had a good-sized BF, though he did need to 'go slow'. Next.
As some others have suggested, I decided to set up a SD FB page. I used the same photo I have on SA, and used my burner # to set up the account. I was *really* surprised upon starting up the page to have a friend suggested. It was a girl I recognized from SA, I had messaged with her and given her both my phone and email. We never set up the M&G, though. I didn't friend her but looked at what I could see on her page, which said she had a BF for several years (harlot! LOL), and undoubtedly it was the girl I recalled from SA. How in the world FB connected us is a real shocker. I presume it was through her end, b / c I am super, super careful about this stuff. However, there is a lesson here. These social media sites (FB, IG, LI) seem to do slimy things. Look into your email to get contacts, etc. LinkedIn specifically was doing this to me in civi life, and as a result I quit it.
As a precaution against unintended poaching of this type, which could reveal your identity to SBs or your activities to a SO, I recommend the following.
1. Quit all of your conventional civi communicating apps before commencing sugar activities online.
2. Use safer encrypted / onioned browsers like Tor for logging into sugar sites, posting on *this* site, and emailing from a secure, encrypted email service.
3. Use VPNs or proxy servers if you are really paranoid.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3046679]M&G with a local college senior this morning. Tiny, tiny. Like under 5 feet, maybe 80# dripping wet. Pretty, smart, pleasant, but in private I suggested I might break her in half. She claims she has had a good-sized BF, though he did need to 'go slow'. Next.[/QUOTE]Is this the girl from Long Beach who says she likes hockey and guitar in her profile?
[QUOTE=Boobman76;3047463]Is this the girl from Long Beach who says she likes hockey and guitar in her profile?[/QUOTE]Nope, a v-girl, not a very enticing profile, but cuter in person.
Well the 20 year old finally txted me back. She said she has just been busy. I definitely need another date with her under better circumstances. Seems my roommate is finally going to buy a bed, so I won't have to kick my dates out by 9 pm anymore. And I have a M&G coming up with this college cutie I been emailing. Pictured (19).
Started emailing on SA. One of my first replies was "I'm not a hooker!" from my "Hello, how is your day going?" and she disappeared. It got better after that. Lots of very friendly ladies.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3048926]Well the 20 year old finally txted me back. She said she has just been busy. I definitely need another date with her under better circumstances. Seems my roommate is finally going to buy a bed, so I won't have to kick my dates out by 9 pm anymore. And I have a M&G coming up with this college cutie I been emailing. Pictured (19).[/QUOTE]HG, you probably have no idea how jealous you make me LOL. That is one fine looking ass. Hhhmmm.
[QUOTE=JohnnyTheWad;3049053]HG, you probably have no idea how jealous you make me LOL. That is one fine looking ass. Hhhmmm.[/QUOTE]Something I never am. Just remember there really is more than enough to go around. It's just putting in the work. And outside of my job I have no life, so its the reason I have the time. My only other hobby is working on my house. So even if I do work 60 hours a week, I have the time to chat with girls online without it interfering with anything else. Being single helps. And strangely being on a budget helps too. It forces me to seek out affordable solutions. If I was just spending big money there would be no work involved (as everyone has their price). And as far as the quality of the girls, I am pretty hyper focused on my demographic. So at this point I can say I am in their head. Similar to maybe christophe1 and his asians.
Another beautiful day in LA. And aren't most of them? I mean that's why we live here. Right? So for all of you out of towners, I hope the sun is shining and the sugar is pouring. This morning I had 3 POTS txt me plus the 20 year old from last Friday. The 20 year old, I told her tomorrow. Today I wanted to meet a POT. My roommate had her day off today and I usually spend it with her. But we had a turning point in our relationship last night. She came home unexpectedly when I was fucking my ATF. My good fortune we were in between rounds and so it was not that big a deal. She just came home unannounced, took a quick shower and went out. But when she came home later she went to bed in her own room for the first time ever.
But back to today. Three POTS txted this morning, (all young & all spinners), one went MIA, one agreed to come over about 4 pm, and the third one didn't txt me back till 7 pm. Too bad for her, as the 4 pm girl was already here. But since we hadn't even discussed the sugar prior to meeting (a must with me). And since she was in transit anyway, I figured I would just see her for an hour and then schedule the real date for later. But when she came over, we were in each others arms within minutes. She ended up staying for 8 hours (5 of it in the FC). We actually did things I had never done before, bucket list moves I would never have expected from an 18 year old.
And this girl was awesome if you like runway model types. She was 6 foot and 125 and perfectly proportioned. I haven't done 5 hours with anyone in a very long time. And I told her not to expect it going forward. There is such a thing as overdoing it. One of the downsides to this hobby. You can easily get too much of a good thing. Whether its from one very athletic girl or three in one day. We always have that option. At this moment idk how I am even going to see the 20 year old tomorrow.
My roommate just shut herself in her room and sulked (I imagine). But too bad, I was so tired of dating around her schedule. And thanks to uber giving me 10 dollars off per ride for a few days, the total damage today was $.4 including dinner. And she said she was cool with the $ going forward. This is a zero drama, 4 point GPA, student athlete. Some days you just get lucky.
I canceled (flaked?) on my 20 year old today. The old me would have never done that. Sometimes you just have to know when to say no.
Chrissygorgeous ... she is down to meet ... I have no other info, I see her on the site daily. Never met her, not going to. Messaged briefly.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3050967]Something I never am. Just remember there really is more than enough to go around. It's just putting in the work. And outside of my job I have no life, so its the reason I have the time. My only other hobby is working on my house. So even if I do work 60 hours a week, I have the time to chat with girls online without it interfering with anything else. Being single helps. And strangely being on a budget helps too. It forces me to seek out affordable solutions. If I was just spending big money there would be no work involved (as everyone has their price). And as far as the quality of the girls, I am pretty hyper focused on my demographic. So at this point I can say I am in their head. Similar to maybe christophe1 and his asians.[/QUOTE]Sounds like a good deal to me, all but the budget anyway. I work a part time job just to have monger money LOL. Thanks for the input and be safe. JTW.
I used to use the onevanilla debit cards to sign up for SA but lately they seem to get rejected. It doesn't even work if I use them in conjunction with PP (you can sign up with PP without being a member and just use a debit card). But that no longer works now either. I don't want to sign up if I have to use my actual credit card. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to pay for SA without providing any personal info? Thanks.
[QUOTE=EnjoyYourself;3059039]I used to use the onevanilla debit cards to sign up for SA but lately they seem to get rejected. It doesn't even work if I use them in conjunction with PP (you can sign up with PP without being a member and just use a debit card). But that no longer works now either. I don't want to sign up if I have to use my actual credit card. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to pay for SA without providing any personal info? Thanks.[/QUOTE]This has been an ongoing issue. One guy has said that he just calls customer service and gives them the card # and it goes through. I asked him. Where did you get that #? I can't find anything on the site- his reply was that at the time the charge is declined, a phone # comes up that says if you have problems call this #, and he called. I wondered if it was international and if that created problem with a burner, but never got a reply.
[QUOTE=EnjoyYourself;3059039]I used to use the onevanilla debit cards to sign up for SA but lately they seem to get rejected. It doesn't even work if I use them in conjunction with PP (you can sign up with PP without being a member and just use a debit card). But that no longer works now either. I don't want to sign up if I have to use my actual credit card. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to pay for SA without providing any personal info? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Mail them a money order if you don't want to use s card.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3060899]Mail them a money order if you don't want to use s card.[/QUOTE]I have done this myself just to avoid a possible unauthorized auto-renew. As it was an issue at SD4M in the past. SA does not seem to have that issue though.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3060899]Mail them a money order if you don't want to use s card.[/QUOTE]I thought about that, but apparently they no longer accept payments by mail. Here is the answer from their faq in regards to that issue:
"Can I send a payment by mail?
Notice: Payments by mail will no longer be accepted after February 28,2016. Any form of payment that is sent via mail will be sent back to the return address without an upgrade to the user's account.
We understand that some of our customers prefer payments by mail either because they desire discretion or aren't comfortable using a personal credit card online. We apologize that we had to make this change, however, there are still other options available:
Prepaid Visa or Mastercard: These function like gift cards and can be purchased at most major retailers with cash or credit cards.
Paypal: Paypal allows its users to load accounts from certain participating retailers with cash or credit cards. Simply click "Add Money" on your Paypal dashboard, then "Add Money at a Store" near the bottom and follow the instructions. ".
I guess I'll just wait for them to figure out how people can pay for memberships anonymously again. What's funny is that my prepaid vanilla cards seem to work online with every other place, EXCEPT SA.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3061143]I have done this myself just to avoid a possible unauthorized auto-renew. As it was an issue at SD4M in the past. SA does not seem to have that issue though.[/QUOTE]Sd4 me is automatic renew. Takes an act of god to get released from them if you use a regular cc. SA has never auto renewed mine.
A number of profiles of young ones say they are into this, which I find means electronic dance music. This is another term for rave, and given the bad publicity these have for overdoses, is a SB saying she is into EDM code for recreational drug use? If so, I am staying away.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3063760]A number of profiles of young ones say they are into this, which I find means electronic dance music. This is another term for rave, and given the bad publicity these have for overdoses, is a SB saying she is into EDM code for recreational drug use? If so, I am staying away.[/QUOTE]Ten years ago, EDM might have meant rave and therefore MDMA / molly / ecstasy. These days it really just means electronic dance music and doesn't necessarily have drug implications. Plenty of people just get drunk the old fashioned way and dance the night away to EDM (any club you go to these days is going to play EDM or hip hop). I know tons of people who love EDM and don't do any drugs, besides pot and booze.
That being said, if you're interested in a girl and she lists EDM as a musical favorite, I don't think it hurts to ask if they've done molly at some point in the conversation.
So I got thrown for a loop when talking with a friend of mine said that he would check IDs of 18/19 years olds because of the "strict liability"even if they were on a site that was designed for 18+, if they're not you're still liable. [URL]http://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2007/08/but-her-profile-said-she-was-18-jail-cell-judge-rules/[/URL].
So I found a great 19 year old, she's always claimed she's 19. My understanding in like the Chris Hansen videos, the girls definitely say they're underage. Again after reading other law blogs, the question comes down to "any reasonable person would have known she was a minor".
Plus I live on the border and I always wonder how the Mann act goes into effect for simply crossing a river.
How have you guys gotten around this issue?
Please feel to PM me for more details and thoughts.
J.
I'd judge it girl by girl. I can't tell the girl's ages within 10 years, and thankfully they can't either, so I can claim to be 56 ('oh, I've always looked young') when I am bald and 61 (a number that scares even me). I was negotiating by text with a POT and she was such a flake I suddenly had a moment of fear she might be underage. I asked her about it and she assured me she was 20, but I asked her if she would show me the birthdate (nothing else required) on her drivers license. She said she would be happy to do that once the sugar was in her hand. LOL.
[QUOTE=Jayb20;3065641]So I got thrown for a loop when talking with a friend of mine said that he would check IDs of 18/19 years olds because of the "strict liability"even if they were on a site that was designed for 18+, if they're not you're still liable. [URL]http://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2007/08/but-her-profile-said-she-was-18-jail-cell-judge-rules/[/URL].
So I found a great 19 year old, she's always claimed she's 19. My understanding in like the Chris Hansen videos, the girls definitely say they're underage. Again after reading other law blogs, the question comes down to "any reasonable person would have known she was a minor".
Plus I live on the border and I always wonder how the Mann act goes into effect for simply crossing a river.
How have you guys gotten around this issue?
Please feel to PM me for more details and thoughts.
J.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Jayb20;3065641]So I got thrown for a loop when talking with a friend of mine said that he would check IDs of 18/19 years olds because of the "strict liability"even if they were on a site that was designed for 18+, if they're not you're still liable. [URL]http://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2007/08/but-her-profile-said-she-was-18-jail-cell-judge-rules/[/URL].
So I found a great 19 year old, she's always claimed she's 19. My understanding in like the Chris Hansen videos, the girls definitely say they're underage. Again after reading other law blogs, the question comes down to "any reasonable person would have known she was a minor".
Plus I live on the border and I always wonder how the Mann act goes into effect for simply crossing a river.
How have you guys gotten around this issue?
Please feel to PM me for more details and thoughts.
J.[/QUOTE]I am not deleting anyones post, BUT. Admin has requested that these types of issues not be discussed here. While this is sort of borderline (and maybe not even crossing the line), it's best that we just stay away from it completely. And like I said, this is coming from the site admin. So lets move on. Thanks.