"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Scott,

I think that is just SA's way of getting you to pony back up for the monthly fee. When I cancelled my profile, I too got tons of messages from SB's for awhile. It could be legit, but it sounds like coincidence to me.

[QUOTE=Magic Rat; 1319583]Scott,

I think that is just SA's way of getting you to pony back up for the monthly fee. When I cancelled my profile, I too got tons of messages from SB's for awhile. It could be legit, but it sounds like coincidence to me.[/QUOTE]What happens is this. When you cancel your membership you get top posted as if you were brand new. That tends to generate a lot more hits. Much like the babies, new guys get the most hits. I also think they have scam profiles on their as well to induce you back but that's just a theory.

SA is not a bad fishing ground but I have found the women on it, particularly in Philly / NYC (I live in Philly) tend to have huge expectations of allowances and are not as willing with time. My best success has ironically been waitresses at diners and lower end chains. They usually really need money and if you take time to build a bond and then broach the topic, they are much more willing and it is much more fun.

Magic and Jersey,

I know what you are referring to in terms of the shill profiles on the site, but that is not the case in this instance. These are babies who have corresponded with me through my hobby email address, contacting me again there, not via the SA message center.

It is ironic, as I said, since I had really slacked off on my fishing as I got more and more involved with my ATF. I think the advice that nothing lasts forever is sound, and I may just keep a ball or two in the air just in case. It kind of feels like cheating though.

Keep up the good work. Jersey, I think we all might be interested to hear more about your diner waitress approach. That has to be as close to GFE as it gets.

Scott.

[QUOTE=Magic Rat; 1319583]Scott,

I think that is just SA's way of getting you to pony back up for the monthly fee. When I cancelled my profile, I too got tons of messages from SB's for awhile. It could be legit, but it sounds like coincidence to me.[/QUOTE]

How do you hide your SA profile? I want to see if that generate any more hits for me.

I stumbled across this thread and it is good to hear others people experiences.

I am not sure if I would call my current situation a SB situation but I am enjoying it. I posted an ad on CL in the adult gigs section years ago and met her, she was 20 at the time. I would get a hotel and would see here every few months or so. She was a bit flaky but I enjoyed the time together and she was hot as hell. The first six or seven meetings were not full service just HE meetings which was fine with me. About six months ago she offered FS for more $ and I jumped at it. She is now 22 and attending school.

Now we get the occasional hotel, meet at my office and have met at my house a few times. We spend anywhere from one hour to two hours together or longer in the hotel. Our original deal was $1. 2 for once a week and. 8 for a second visit which was good when I saw her a few times a month. Now I have developed feelings for her (Not sure if she knows or even cares) and see her three to four times a week. I give her. 6 each visit and if she needs anything else I help her out. I have a significant other which makes this even more interesting. This weekend we are spending the first overnight meeting which will be fun.

I am not sure where this will end up but I am trying to enjoy it for what it is. She is young and has her life to enjoy, I am just 20 years her elder trying to enjoy what we have with each other.

Fix

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO;1319638]How do you hide your SA profile? I want to see if that generate any more hits for me.[/QUOTE]You click in "my profile" and on the next screen you will see an option to hide it. Select that, and you're done. I think that when you unhide it, you show up as a new member again.

Fix, I'the say you have a first class SB on your hands.

Expect to be two-timed (just like she is being) , expect it to be happening right now, it goes with the territory, so take what you get for what it is, making it easier to keep your emotions in check, and don't sweat anything.

Have a good time for as long as it lasts, expecting that it will not, because it won't.

Being a bachelor I am able to keep a diary of events with no difficulty. I find it alerts me to a trend taking shape before I would otherwise notice.

Read all 50 pages of this board. You will see yourself in many of the situations. It will help you see around the corners.

Welcome to the Sugar Board Fix. We look forward to your contributions.

Sounds like you stumbled into a Sugar Daddy situation without knowing it years ago. It sounds great for you and hopefully you can keep it going. She is dirt cheap in the sugar world so enjoy that. One word of advice, don't pay her more for longer sessions, like overnight. You don't want her to value herself by the hour. Although, it has been going on for two years so you must have honed this relationship pretty well.

[QUOTE=Fixinit; 1319650]I am not sure where this will end up but I am trying to enjoy it for what it is. She is young and has her life to enjoy, I am just 20 years her elder trying to enjoy what we have with each other.

Fix[/QUOTE]Fix,

Both are legendary and mythical and I believe you have stumbled on both. Enjoy it and live for the moment. Much of what Golf Cart says is probably true but we all create our own realities to a certain degree so I prefer to take a more Zen view and accept whatever comes my way. Send a note every once and a while from the promised land to keep all of us other grunts on the front lines motivated and inspired.

LL

[QUOTE=Golfcart;1319701]Being a bachelor I am able to keep a diary of events with no difficulty. I find it alerts me to a trend taking shape before I would otherwise notice.[/QUOTE]Golf,

This is a provocative and intriguing statement. Please expand. What trends do you notice, and then how do you respond?

Scott

[QUOTE=Fun Jersey; 1319601]What happens is this. When you cancel your membership you get top posted as if you were brand new. That tends to generate a lot more hits. Much like the babies, new guys get the most hits. I also think they have scam profiles on their as well to induce you back but that's just a theory.

SA is not a bad fishing ground but I have found the women on it, particularly in Philly / NYC (I live in Philly) tend to have huge expectations of allowances and are not as willing with time. My best success has ironically been waitresses at diners and lower end chains. They usually really need money and if you take time to build a bond and then broach the topic, they are much more willing and it is much more fun.[/QUOTE]This is not exclusive to SA, or the SB sites. *ALL* of the dating, friend-finder and similar sites do it too; it's the attempt to lure you back to paying status. Example: I was a paying member of Match dot com for a couple of years. Sent a lot of emails, but only got new-contact emails from women about once every 6 months or so. HUGE waste of money. So I canceled. Within a week, I got a notice that I had received an email on the site, which of course I had to pay another month's worth to even see who sent it. And of course it was from some lady out of state, with a very generic "liked your profile" line. What a scam. So I updated my profile to clearly indicate that I was dropping my paying membership because it was a ripoff and would not be able to read any emails sent to me, and again canceled. Within a week I got another email, which I ignored. That was well over a year ago. And about every other month, just like clockwork, I get notified of another new email on that site, which I also ignore. I've read articles where the guy who started Match admitted to several of this sort of schemes, and he acknowledged that it's SOP for all the pay sites. It's after all a for-profit business.

I just want to thank this board for putting the spark back into my sex life. I am from the Hampton Roads area and the escort scene down here is as slim to nil. Most are 30-something, dried-up old bar flies. Recently, I just got bored with the escort scene. The waiting in the hotel parking lots, the obvious treat of LE always looming, the blah blah blah just got too fucking tedious. Even got to the point where even while I was banging some escort, I was trying my damnest just to cum and get out of there.

This board inspired me to try out the SA site. Been on there almost one month and have already had a fuck session with a 23 year old college student. The experience was sooooo much better than the supposed "GFE" those high volumn escorts provide.

And the funny thing is I enjoy the "chase" almost as much as the actual sex. Each girl is different, and you have to be crafty to read them, talk them up the right way to get the panties off. Reminds me of my college frat party days.

You guys rock! Thanks a ton for the board which allowed me to hit the SA site not totally blind and green. I have used some of the techniques that are scattered throughout the posts. I have a couple of good prospects on the line as we speak. Good possibility that I will get "willy" wet again this weekend!

This thread amazes me. As an attached man in Charlottesville, I've been trying to find the.

Elusive baby in town. I figure there has to be a couple in a college town right?

I will keep reading and researching and at least living vicariously thru you fellas.

For now. Wish me luck in my hunting.

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Hey Nine and Buck,

Welcome to the wonderful world of Sugar Babies! It is, as you say, so far superior to the escort / MP scene, that I predict once you are a true convert, you will never even think of them again. Take the time to read the entire thread, if you have not already. There is a wealth of invaluable information here to help you in your pursuit of these elusive creatures.

Also, unlike many threads on the forum, you will find that everyone here is more than willing to share intel, techniques, approaches etc. The only request is that you reciprocate when you have valuable information of your own.

Good luck to you both. It takes time, patience and thought to be successful, but the payoff is well worth it.

All the best,

Scott

So Scott, what did you decide to do about the vixen threatening the sanctity of your ATF? Ironically we are true to our lovers but not to our wives. It is a very Latin thing. I felt so guilty stepping out on my ATF that I closed down the shop and am true to just her.

SA seems to have a higher quality girl than SD4me.at least as far as education and absence of drama. I like their Blog that someone directed me to. Thanks. When I see the Drama queens on the SD site it sends chills down my spine. I can't ever imagine going back to the Skanky Hos I used to see. But I guess I should never say never.