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[QUOTE=SwimSays;3292975]Tried to connect with her the other day. Quoted $. 4 for FS which was high and I let her know that. She kept trying to set something up but wouldn't send over a pic. Anyone able to post the pics she sent?[/QUOTE]Requested a pic, she came back with 1 for a quick, 1.4 for half and 2 for FS.
Told her too rich for me and she never responded back.
Fall River most I pay is 2.5 for an hour.
[URL]http://southcoast.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/looking-for-someone-to-have-some-fun-with/38541436[/URL]
Finally took the plunge with this one. Very nice girl and had an ok time. She is the girl in the pictures, although the pictures are better. She can suck a cock though and take a good pounding. Doesn't mind a little rough stuff and the holding of the head while blowing you. When it was time she took the full load in her mouth. She says that she has other girls that work with her and she could set something up if needed, so text for more info. The incall was safe, local hotel in New Bedford. No one lurking about as I could see. Stay safe, C. J.
Fall River most I pay is 2. 5 for an hour.
Should have been 1. 5 for an hour.
[QUOTE=AcconRed;3292455]Set up a meeting with her for 7 am, made it at 6, an hour before. I called twice to confirm first time at 620, she didn't pick up second time at 640 she did and confirmed. Was about 10 minutes to the hour and she texts me "I'm changing it to 7:15 so I can shower and eat" I said well I'm on the highway. She said "well just pull up at wait it's only 15 min" then "pick me up some Marlboro 100's if you don't want to wait around" I told her forget it. She calls me up yelling (typical fall river girl style) and says " if I can't wait 15 min then I have issues and to stay out of her inbox, my loss. " I say ""ok see ya. " She then starts texting me how " I'm missing out and she's doing me a favor seeing me the least I could is get her cigarettes. " Keeps telling me last chance of I want to come. ".
Idk about you guys but I don't like paying a chick to give me errands and wait on her. I got a girlfriend for that.
Stay safe bruhs.[/QUOTE]Well I don't know how long you've been mongering, and far be it from me to tell another monger what sort of policies he should abide by, but you honestly come off kind of unreasonable here. It's not uncommon for a provider to ask for a small favor like picking her up a pack of cigs or an iced coffee or whatever on your way over. And a 15 minute delay really shouldn't be that big a deal. Especially given how early in the morning you were trying to meet. This may surprise you, but being a little bit flexible and courteous with providers can definitely result in a better experience for you, and a greater willingness on her part to accommodate you and maybe even give you priority in scheduling repeat visits. It's not always just about money.
[QUOTE=Prometheus77;3304219]Well I don't know how long you've been mongering, and far be it from me to tell another monger what sort of policies he should abide by, but you honestly come off kind of unreasonable here. It's not uncommon for a provider to ask for a small favor like picking her up a pack of cigs or an iced coffee or whatever on your way over. And a 15 minute delay really shouldn't be that big a deal. Especially given how early in the morning you were trying to meet. This may surprise you, but being a little bit flexible and courteous with providers can definitely result in a better experience for you, and a greater willingness on her part to accommodate you and maybe even give you priority in scheduling repeat visits. It's not always just about money.[/QUOTE]I totally agree here. One girl in Providence that I frequented lover her wine and I would pick her up a nice bottle (her request) on the way over. Next time it was wine and cigs. Once I took her grocery shopping since she did not drive. What did I get in return? 3 hour visits for the cost of half hour, I stuck one of those wine bottle up her ass and pussy, crazy fetish stuff. Turned into more of a friends with benefits that I paid a little for. Too bad she met some rich dude who claimed he was going to take care of her.
[QUOTE=MustRelax;3305120]I totally agree here. One girl in Providence that I frequented lover her wine and I would pick her up a nice bottle (her request) on the way over. Next time it was wine and cigs. Once I took her grocery shopping since she did not drive. What did I get in return? 3 hour visits for the cost of half hour, I stuck one of those wine bottle up her ass and pussy, crazy fetish stuff. Turned into more of a friends with benefits that I paid a little for. Too bad she met some rich dude who claimed he was going to take care of her.[/QUOTE]Once this girl asked me to bring her a 2 liter bottle of coke. I brought her two. She said I only asked for one, and I said oh well, two is better than one. She said that is very kind of you and proceeded to give me an hour of ultra GFE for 100. I will bring thanksgiving dinner if they ask me too. It's a win for everyone. Remember, its a hobby, don't take it to seriously.
I am sure the two stories of ladies rewarding you for your kindness are true posted below, but there are 6 stories of kindness I can give you personally, where the result was nothing positive gained. Sure I have done the same with ladies, usually not until they have gone above and beyond in terms of satisfaction for me. Many of these ladies will manipulate to their advantage, I don't blame them since I do the same. This is real life for them, not a movie, and unlike the movies, heroes don't always win. My opinion if your picking up cigs or a bottle of wine on the first date, your in for a shellacking when it's all said and done. Remember your already paying for the goods, if you want to overpay, go for it. If a backpage girl, which I rarely use, on the first date is asking for extra goodies first time around, there probably won't be a second rodeo, unless she awards me for my bravery. I am with the first guy that posted, I got a gf already with a wish list on a daily basis I have to cater to. Two of them is one too many.
[QUOTE=CanJockey;3305454]Once this girl asked me to bring her a 2 liter bottle of coke. I brought her two. She said I only asked for one, and I said oh well, two is better than one. She said that is very kind of you and proceeded to give me an hour of ultra GFE for 100. I will bring thanksgiving dinner if they ask me too. It's a win for everyone. Remember, its a hobby, don't take it to seriously.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Fun0410;3305474]I am sure the two stories of ladies rewarding you for your kindness are true posted below, but there are 6 stories of kindness I can give you personally, where the result was nothing positive gained. Sure I have done the same with ladies, usually not until they have gone above and beyond in terms of satisfaction for me. Many of these ladies will manipulate to their advantage, I don't blame them since I do the same. This is real life for them, not a movie, and unlike the movies, heroes don't always win. My opinion if your picking up cigs or a bottle of wine on the first date, your in for a shellacking when it's all said and done. Remember your already paying for the goods, if you want to overpay, go for it. If a backpage girl, which I rarely use, on the first date is asking for extra goodies first time around, there probably won't be a second rodeo, unless she awards me for my bravery. I am with the first guy that posted, I got a gf already with a wish list on a daily basis I have to cater to. Two of them is one too many.[/QUOTE]Of course you always have to be smart about things in this hobby, but I've never found that fulfilling some small request has ever led to anything negative. We're talking about minor things here. Picking up some small item that costs a few dollars. Obviously doing larger favors wouldn't be recommended unless you've already established a good relationship and a certain level of trust with a provider. But my experience has generally been that you get what you put in. I think some mongers are so locked into the idea that the session should be exclusively about THEIR enjoyment, to the extent of completely disregarding the provider's feelings, that they forget some basic simple rules of human interaction. Yes, you're paying for a service. But providers are still human beings, and their mood is going to have an effect on the experience you have. Put them in a better mood, you'll have a better overall experience. And if you consistently try to make sure that the session is as comfortable as possible for her, you'll become one of her favorite clients.
Now, as I said you have to use your head and realize the difference between being an accommodating and courteous client, and allowing yourself to be taken advantage of. But I've never found any downside to accommodating any [I]reasonable[/I] additional request that a provider might ask of me.
[QUOTE=CanJockey;3305454]Once this girl asked me to bring her a 2 liter bottle of coke. I brought her two. She said I only asked for one, and I said oh well, two is better than one. She said that is very kind of you and proceeded to give me an hour of ultra GFE for 100. I will bring thanksgiving dinner if they ask me too. It's a win for everyone. Remember, its a hobby, don't take it to seriously.[/QUOTE]Ultra-GFE? For 100 plus 4 liters of coca-cola?! ? I would VERY much like to know who! (You ARE aware of the meaning of that particular term, right?) [URL]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Ultra%20GFE[/URL].
Is the original post on this matter started with a guy who is going to see a BP girl for the FIRST time and she is asking already to go above and beyond. Not happening with me at least. To each their own I guess. Thats all I have to say on this matter. Best of luck to all.
[QUOTE=Prometheus77;3305662]Of course you always have to be smart about things in this hobby, but I've never found that fulfilling some small request has ever led to anything negative. We're talking about minor things here. Picking up some small item that costs a few dollars. Obviously doing larger favors wouldn't be recommended unless you've already established a good relationship and a certain level of trust with a provider. But my experience has generally been that you get what you put in. I think some mongers are so locked into the idea that the session should be exclusively about THEIR enjoyment, to the extent of completely disregarding the provider's feelings, that they forget some basic simple rules of human interaction. Yes, you're paying for a service. But providers are still human beings, and their mood is going to have an effect on the experience you have. Put them in a better mood, you'll have a better overall experience. And if you consistently try to make sure that the session is as comfortable as possible for her, you'll become one of her favorite clients.
Now, as I said you have to use your head and realize the difference between being an accommodating and courteous client, and allowing yourself to be taken advantage of. But I've never found any downside to accommodating any [I]reasonable[/I] additional request that a provider might ask of me.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=KingOfFours;3305871]Ultra-GFE? For 100 plus 4 liters of coca-cola?! ? I would VERY much like to know who! (You ARE aware of the meaning of that particular term, right?) [URL]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Ultra%20GFE[/URL].[/QUOTE]I am fully aware. It was over two years ago and she does not do dates anymore. She has a child now and has gotten her life together. She was an ATF of mine.
[QUOTE=Prometheus77;3304219]Well I don't know how long you've been mongering, and far be it from me to tell another monger what sort of policies he should abide by, but you honestly come off kind of unreasonable here. It's not uncommon for a provider to ask for a small favor like picking her up a pack of cigs or an iced coffee or whatever on your way over. And a 15 minute delay really shouldn't be that big a deal. Especially given how early in the morning you were trying to meet. This may surprise you, but being a little bit flexible and courteous with providers can definitely result in a better experience for you, and a greater willingness on her part to accommodate you and maybe even give you priority in scheduling repeat visits. It's not always just about money.[/QUOTE]Well let me start off by saying she texted me in the morning and she came up with meeting at 7 am. I had to call her twice to confirm and not only was she not ready, the wording here was key, "I'm moving the time to 7:15" not "hey could you give me 15? Sorry I'm running late" and then it turns into "well pick me up some cigs if you don't want to wait" the tone here is saying a lot.
I've been doing this for awhile and I've been burned in enough various ways to see red flags. I've bought girls cigs to have them run off in there room and have their lesbian lover tell me they'll meet me around back. I've had out calls come to me and then WE have to leave to get condoms, which then lead to a shit show a session. I've showed up on time to girls houses with their door open door and watched them rush their kids out the back as she saw me come up the stairs. I've had girls I've seen regularly hit me up for money at random times in the night.
So yeah far as I'm concerned this girl wouldn't of been a good time even if I bought her cigs and waited on her. Looks like she isn't too liberal with her pics but while she had a nice body she's definitely a lesbian living with her gf (I could hear talking to her when she called me up to ghetto talk me). She was also very specific on time which means not only am I going to wait on her but she'll be counting the minutes as her GF going to be around the corner waiting to get back inside and use that money for god knows what. It was suppose to be a qv. I'm going to drive 20 min, wait 15 min to get 15 min and go on with my day? I don't know how much you have to piss away but I'm always on the go which is another factor that makes the timing important.
All that being said there are some genuinely nice girls out there and they get my repeat service, but this girl ain't one of them. And isn't that what were here for? To give our views on girls give each other a heads up? Go set up a time with her and report back if you think she'll give you a good experience. But if you think you need do the beck and call of these girls like what you're doing with -them is anything more than an exchange of services than I don't know why you're bothering being on BP. Lots of decent girls out there that need a guy to take them grocery shopping. Really hope you guys don't think these girls think of you as anything more than money and a meal ticket.
[QUOTE=AcconRed;3307482]Well let me start off by saying she texted me in the morning and she came up with meeting at 7 am. I had to call her twice to confirm and not only was she not ready, the wording here was key, "I'm moving the time to 7:15" not "hey could you give me 15? Sorry I'm running late" and then it turns into "well pick me up some cigs if you don't want to wait" the tone here is saying a lot.
I've been doing this for awhile and I've been burned in enough various ways to see red flags. I've bought girls cigs to have them run off in there room and have their lesbian lover tell me they'll meet me around back. I've had out calls come to me and then WE have to leave to get condoms, which then lead to a shit show a session. I've showed up on time to girls houses with their door open door and watched them rush their kids out the back as she saw me come up the stairs. I've had girls I've seen regularly hit me up for money at random times in the night.
So yeah far as I'm concerned this girl wouldn't of been a good time even if I bought her cigs and waited on her. Looks like she isn't too liberal with her pics but while she had a nice body she's definitely a lesbian living with her gf (I could hear talking to her when she called me up to ghetto talk me). She was also very specific on time which means not only am I going to wait on her but she'll be counting the minutes as her GF going to be around the corner waiting to get back inside and use that money for god knows what. It was suppose to be a qv. I'm going to drive 20 min, wait 15 min to get 15 min and go on with my day? I don't know how much you have to piss away but I'm always on the go which is another factor that makes the timing important.
All that being said there are some genuinely nice girls out there and they get my repeat service, but this girl ain't one of them. And isn't that what were here for? To give our views on girls give each other a heads up? Go set up a time with her and report back if you think she'll give you a good experience. But if you think you need do the beck and call of these girls like what you're doing with -them is anything more than an exchange of services than I don't know why you're bothering being on BP. Lots of decent girls out there that need a guy to take them grocery shopping. Really hope you guys don't think these girls think of you as anything more than money and a meal ticket.[/QUOTE]Fair enough, you made it sound like requests for small favors like picking up a pack of smokes were an automatic deal breaker for you. Obviously if she seemed to have an attitude right off the bat or there were other red flags, that's probably a good indication that you should bail.
As to the rest, like I said, you have be smart about who you do favors for and to what extent. You're right, the attitude is a big part of it. If I ever was in a situation where I felt I was about to be taken advantage of, I've always pulled back pretty quickly (not that this has happened often, somehow I seem to have managed to avoid most of the landmines that mongers often run into). And I'm not unrealistic about how providers view their clients. There is exactly one provider that I've met out of the many who I've seen over the years who I now consider a friend, outside of our client / provider relationship. I consider that a highly unusual situation, and it took some time to get to that point. I'd definitely never suggest that the expectations when dealing with a provider should ever be more than a good business relationship.
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Hit this one up on my way home via text. Ask for a picture and she sends a face pic. Follows up with a bit about chipping a tooth. I try to set up a visit and she only does appts. Fair.
Then follows up with "actually I could see you know if you don't mind the tooth" I follow up with asking if it's chipped or missing and then she blows up with the name calling and bitchy attitude. A few minutes later I get follow up text with the same kind of "you'll be sorry when it's fixed" blah blah blah.
Maybe I caught her on a bad day but if anyone has had any experience with her I'd love to hear your story.
She's a good time. She used to live in New Bedford but moved. She's pretty buisness focused and can be crass over the phone but she's always been attentive and affectionate when you get down to business. She use to post more pics and from the looks of it she's lost a considerable amount of weight. My hunch is drug addiction but she's always been very clean and it could just be the pic. I'd see her again if she posted when I was looking. I'd give her a go if your curious.
[QUOTE=ConGorilla;3316390][URL]http://southcoast.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/sweet-beautiful-girl-sensual-body-rub/38608043[/URL]
Hit this one up on my way home via text. Ask for a picture and she sends a face pic. Follows up with a bit about chipping a tooth. I try to set up a visit and she only does appts. Fair.
Then follows up with "actually I could see you know if you don't mind the tooth" I follow up with asking if it's chipped or missing and then she blows up with the name calling and bitchy attitude. A few minutes later I get follow up text with the same kind of "you'll be sorry when it's fixed" blah blah blah.
Maybe I caught her on a bad day but if anyone has had any experience with her I'd love to hear your story.[/QUOTE]